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Moosh:]
July 28th 03, 10:06 AM
I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
food, raw beaten egg.
She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Bill
July 28th 03, 10:18 AM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
problem.

BillD

Bill
July 28th 03, 10:18 AM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
problem.

BillD

Gail
July 28th 03, 01:02 PM
Take her to the vet. She needs help ASAP.
Gail
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Gail
July 28th 03, 01:02 PM
Take her to the vet. She needs help ASAP.
Gail
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Moosh:]
July 28th 03, 01:21 PM
On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:

>
>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
>> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> food, raw beaten egg.
>> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
>
>I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
>problem.

No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

Moosh:]
July 28th 03, 01:21 PM
On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:

>
>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
>> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> food, raw beaten egg.
>> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
>
>I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
>problem.

No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

*~*SooZy*~*
July 28th 03, 01:41 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:
>
> >
> >"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
> ...
> >> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> >> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> >> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> >> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> >> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> >> food, raw beaten egg.
> >> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> >> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> >> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> >> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
> >
> >I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
> >problem.
>
> No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
> quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
> Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
> good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

maybe her time has come, but at least PLEASE give her a chance

you should of always made sure money put aside for vet bills, home visits or
cabs fare!

can't you sell your computer to raise the cash?????
--
Luv'n'Stuff
*~*SooZy*~*
http://community.webshots.com/user/ragdollcatsuk

*~*SooZy*~*
July 28th 03, 01:41 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
> On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:
>
> >
> >"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
> ...
> >> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> >> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> >> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> >> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> >> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> >> food, raw beaten egg.
> >> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> >> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> >> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> >> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
> >
> >I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
> >problem.
>
> No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
> quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
> Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
> good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

maybe her time has come, but at least PLEASE give her a chance

you should of always made sure money put aside for vet bills, home visits or
cabs fare!

can't you sell your computer to raise the cash?????
--
Luv'n'Stuff
*~*SooZy*~*
http://community.webshots.com/user/ragdollcatsuk

Moosh:]
July 29th 03, 10:12 AM
On 28 Jul 2003 21:52:04 -0700, (k) posted:

>So the cat can give to you for 17 years,

Well not as far as she has noticed. We rescued her as a stray kitten
with a very short prognosis, saved her life when she was young and
bitten by a snake, fed and cared for her for 17 years. What is a vet
likely to do after a very traumatic trip to the surgery? Suggest
euthanasia and send me the bill?

>and you can't be bothered to do a thing
>for it.

Umm, I've done plenty for her.
She's comfortably sleeping in a warm room, and has just had a few laps
of cream.

>The cat belonged at the vet when you first
>noticed a weight loss.

The weight loss has been extremely gradual over the last few years.
She has always been pretty scrawny. She has sarcopenia like all old
animals.

>It *might* have been
>something that could be fixed.

Like what?

>17 years of owning a cat and you haven't
>bothered to learn the basics of caring for them.

Umm, what else would you suggest?

>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
>> On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:
>>
>> >
>> >"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
>> ...
>> >> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> >> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> >> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> >> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> >> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> >> food, raw beaten egg.
>> >> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> >> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> >> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> >> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
>> >
>> >I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
>> >problem.
>>
>> No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
>> quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
>> Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
>> good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

Moosh:]
July 29th 03, 10:12 AM
On 28 Jul 2003 21:52:04 -0700, (k) posted:

>So the cat can give to you for 17 years,

Well not as far as she has noticed. We rescued her as a stray kitten
with a very short prognosis, saved her life when she was young and
bitten by a snake, fed and cared for her for 17 years. What is a vet
likely to do after a very traumatic trip to the surgery? Suggest
euthanasia and send me the bill?

>and you can't be bothered to do a thing
>for it.

Umm, I've done plenty for her.
She's comfortably sleeping in a warm room, and has just had a few laps
of cream.

>The cat belonged at the vet when you first
>noticed a weight loss.

The weight loss has been extremely gradual over the last few years.
She has always been pretty scrawny. She has sarcopenia like all old
animals.

>It *might* have been
>something that could be fixed.

Like what?

>17 years of owning a cat and you haven't
>bothered to learn the basics of caring for them.

Umm, what else would you suggest?

>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
>> On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:18:24 GMT, "Bill" > wrote:
>>
>> >
>> >"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
>> ...
>> >> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> >> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> >> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> >> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> >> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> >> food, raw beaten egg.
>> >> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> >> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> >> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> >> Does this ring any bells for anyone?
>> >
>> >I think you should bring her to a vet ASAP. It could be a kidney or other
>> >problem.
>>
>> No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
>> quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
>> Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
>> good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it?

Moosh:]
July 29th 03, 10:14 AM
On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 15:20:29 GMT, Yvonne > posted:

>My vet offers help even if you don't have any money. A good vet should
>let you pay in instalments. Please take her to the vet, it may be her
>time, but that doesn't mean she should suffer needlessly.

Thanks, but she' not apparently suffering.
I'll look for a vet that will look at her but the trip to the office
will be very traumatic for her as she has always been a poor
traveller.

>On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:06:04 GMT, "Moosh:]" >
>wrote:
>
>>I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>>days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>>emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>>we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>>the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>>food, raw beaten egg.
>>She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>>pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>>outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>>Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Moosh:]
July 29th 03, 10:14 AM
On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 15:20:29 GMT, Yvonne > posted:

>My vet offers help even if you don't have any money. A good vet should
>let you pay in instalments. Please take her to the vet, it may be her
>time, but that doesn't mean she should suffer needlessly.

Thanks, but she' not apparently suffering.
I'll look for a vet that will look at her but the trip to the office
will be very traumatic for her as she has always been a poor
traveller.

>On Mon, 28 Jul 2003 09:06:04 GMT, "Moosh:]" >
>wrote:
>
>>I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>>days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>>emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>>we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>>the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>>food, raw beaten egg.
>>She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>>pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>>outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>>Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Roadside Artist
July 29th 03, 06:13 PM
You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
hostile responses.

But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.

Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change is
good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?

Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a lot
of pain.

If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a home
visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a shame
to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in the
hands of a stranger.

But that's just my two cents worth.












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www.roadsideartist.com

Roadside Artist
July 29th 03, 06:13 PM
You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
hostile responses.

But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.

Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change is
good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?

Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a lot
of pain.

If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a home
visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a shame
to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in the
hands of a stranger.

But that's just my two cents worth.












-------

www.roadsideartist.com

MacCandace
July 30th 03, 03:31 AM
<< No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it? >>

It's a good age but your poor cat might have something very treatable. I have
a 17 yr. old cat with mild chronic renal failure and hyperthyroidism and he is
usually fine. Lately, he is periodically getting urinary tract infections so
he is on antibiotics but he is acting and looking the same way he did when he
was 5. It may not be your cat's time to go but if she doesn't eat, she will go
anyway.


Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

MacCandace
July 30th 03, 03:31 AM
<< No vets nearby, no transport, and no money, I'm afraid. She seems
quite comfortable just sleeping. Maybe her time has come.
Taking her to the vet would panic her considerably, as she never was a
good traveller. Nearly 18 is a reasonable innings for a cat isn't it? >>

It's a good age but your poor cat might have something very treatable. I have
a 17 yr. old cat with mild chronic renal failure and hyperthyroidism and he is
usually fine. Lately, he is periodically getting urinary tract infections so
he is on antibiotics but he is acting and looking the same way he did when he
was 5. It may not be your cat's time to go but if she doesn't eat, she will go
anyway.


Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

MacCandace
July 30th 03, 03:35 AM
<< >It *might* have been
>something that could be fixed.

Like what? >>

Well, like hyperthyroidism, very easily and cheaply treated. Chronic renal
failure, treatable altho not curable if it hasn't gone too far. A very minor
infection treated and cured by an inexpensive dose of antibiotics. All of
these things my 17 year old cat has and he hasn't lost weight, eats like a
horse, and feels fine.

Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

MacCandace
July 30th 03, 03:35 AM
<< >It *might* have been
>something that could be fixed.

Like what? >>

Well, like hyperthyroidism, very easily and cheaply treated. Chronic renal
failure, treatable altho not curable if it hasn't gone too far. A very minor
infection treated and cured by an inexpensive dose of antibiotics. All of
these things my 17 year old cat has and he hasn't lost weight, eats like a
horse, and feels fine.

Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 01:18 AM
"Roadside Artist" > a écrit dans le
message de news: ...
> You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
> everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
> hostile responses.
>
> But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
> and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
> such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.
>
> Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change
is
> good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
> heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
> by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
> indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?
>
> Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
> one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a
lot
> of pain.
>
> If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a
home
> visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
> could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a
shame
> to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in
the
> hands of a stranger.
>
> But that's just my two cents worth.
>

I find your 2 cents are very worthy.
I have on my conscience an unexpected death of a cat at the vet (many years
back). Never again. From a human point of view, we did all the "right"
things for her with the medical attention, the hospitalization, the high
bills and all, yet all I have out of this is a profound feeling of guilt and
the knowledge I did the wrong moves. She must have felt terribly abandonned
and afraid. You can't communicate to them that its "good for you".. they are
animals.
I take them in for care, but always warn the vets that I'm walking back out
with my pet. If I felt they couldnt handle the trip or the treatments, I
wouldn't gamble it. As much as possible, my pets will end their beautiful
lives in the security of their home or where they chose.

Elaine

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 01:18 AM
"Roadside Artist" > a écrit dans le
message de news: ...
> You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
> everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
> hostile responses.
>
> But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
> and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
> such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.
>
> Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change
is
> good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
> heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
> by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
> indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?
>
> Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
> one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a
lot
> of pain.
>
> If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a
home
> visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
> could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a
shame
> to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in
the
> hands of a stranger.
>
> But that's just my two cents worth.
>

I find your 2 cents are very worthy.
I have on my conscience an unexpected death of a cat at the vet (many years
back). Never again. From a human point of view, we did all the "right"
things for her with the medical attention, the hospitalization, the high
bills and all, yet all I have out of this is a profound feeling of guilt and
the knowledge I did the wrong moves. She must have felt terribly abandonned
and afraid. You can't communicate to them that its "good for you".. they are
animals.
I take them in for care, but always warn the vets that I'm walking back out
with my pet. If I felt they couldnt handle the trip or the treatments, I
wouldn't gamble it. As much as possible, my pets will end their beautiful
lives in the security of their home or where they chose.

Elaine

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 01:26 AM
Don't let all the flaming attain you. Its never for a good cause, always
for the ego (my guy the psy says).
You are the only one in your shoes and you are the one who knows your cat
best, you follow what your heart tells you.
If the trip really scares you, give the vet a call and talk over the
symptoms, it might help you decide, maybe?
I know I'm late on this, sorry.

Elaine


"Moosh:]" > a écrit dans le message de news:
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 01:26 AM
Don't let all the flaming attain you. Its never for a good cause, always
for the ego (my guy the psy says).
You are the only one in your shoes and you are the one who knows your cat
best, you follow what your heart tells you.
If the trip really scares you, give the vet a call and talk over the
symptoms, it might help you decide, maybe?
I know I'm late on this, sorry.

Elaine


"Moosh:]" > a écrit dans le message de news:
...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Joan
July 31st 03, 06:21 AM
Dear Moosh,

Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
save"? etc.

I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).

Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
owner.

I wish you well.

Fla Joan

"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Joan
July 31st 03, 06:21 AM
Dear Moosh,

Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
save"? etc.

I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).

Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
owner.

I wish you well.

Fla Joan

"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
> food, raw beaten egg.
> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Joan
July 31st 03, 06:26 AM
Your mssg was very real & kind. It's worth a whole lot more that 2 cents!

Fla Joan

"Roadside Artist" > wrote in message >...
> You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
> everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
> hostile responses.
>
> But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
> and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
> such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.
>
> Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change is
> good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
> heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
> by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
> indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?
>
> Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
> one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a lot
> of pain.
>
> If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a home
> visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
> could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a shame
> to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in the
> hands of a stranger.
>
> But that's just my two cents worth.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> -------
>
> www.roadsideartist.com

Joan
July 31st 03, 06:26 AM
Your mssg was very real & kind. It's worth a whole lot more that 2 cents!

Fla Joan

"Roadside Artist" > wrote in message >...
> You know, none of us want to face the inevitable outcome of life, and
> everyone on here (presumably) is a cat lover. So I guess I understand the
> hostile responses.
>
> But when it all comes down to the "bottom line", having had a good, happy
> and contented life is *all* you can ask for, you know? A cat who has had
> such a life already has had the best thing people can give her.
>
> Things have changed for people and their pets, I know. But not all change is
> good change. People used to die at home surrounded by family, now we do
> heroic things to save them and they die frightened and alone or surrounded
> by strangers who, while doing their professional duty, are personally
> indifferent to their existence. Is this *really* an improvement?
>
> Trips to the vet are frightening and very upsetting for many cats and for
> one who is 17 it seems an unnecessary cruelty if the animal is not in a lot
> of pain.
>
> If it were me, I might see if I could get a paraprofessional to make a home
> visit and/or look up stuff on the web to see if there would be something I
> could do to make her more comfortable, but at that age it would seem a shame
> to spend the last moments of a full life, frightened and traumatized in the
> hands of a stranger.
>
> But that's just my two cents worth.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> -------
>
> www.roadsideartist.com

Moosh:]
July 31st 03, 07:12 AM
On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:

>Dear Moosh,
>
>Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
>someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
>save"? etc.
>
>I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
>cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
>no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
>let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
>
>Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
>cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
>anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
>owner.
>
>I wish you well.

Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
missed.
Regards to all and thanks for your comments.


>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
>> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> food, raw beaten egg.
>> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Moosh:]
July 31st 03, 07:12 AM
On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:

>Dear Moosh,
>
>Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
>someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
>save"? etc.
>
>I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
>cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
>no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
>let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
>
>Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
>cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
>anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
>owner.
>
>I wish you well.

Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
missed.
Regards to all and thanks for your comments.


>"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
>> I have a seventeen year old cat who has been fine until the last few
>> days. She has gone off her food, seems weak and feeble, and rather
>> emaciated (although she has been getting scrawnier for a while now --
>> we just put it down to old age). She just likes to sleep in the Sun in
>> the day, and on the lounge at night. She even refuses her favourite
>> food, raw beaten egg.
>> She has a black discharge in the corners of her eyes, and when you
>> pick her up, you can feel the bottom of her rib cage seeming to curl
>> outwards, so you feel a protruding ridge.
>> Does this ring any bells for anyone?

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 11:41 AM
"Moosh:]" > a écrit dans le message de news:
...
> On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:
>
> >Dear Moosh,
> >
> >Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
> >someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
> >save"? etc.
> >
> >I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
> >cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
> >no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
> >let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
> >
> >Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
> >cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
> >anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
> >owner.
> >
> >I wish you well.
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>

They must be rejoined up there. All my sympathies, and its such a good
thing that she went peacefully in the warmth of her home.

Elaine

Elaine Rene
July 31st 03, 11:41 AM
"Moosh:]" > a écrit dans le message de news:
...
> On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:
>
> >Dear Moosh,
> >
> >Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
> >someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
> >save"? etc.
> >
> >I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
> >cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
> >no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
> >let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
> >
> >Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
> >cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
> >anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
> >owner.
> >
> >I wish you well.
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>

They must be rejoined up there. All my sympathies, and its such a good
thing that she went peacefully in the warmth of her home.

Elaine

*~*SooZy*~*
July 31st 03, 12:57 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.

I am sorry your cat passed away :-( so sad when we loose our dear friends

*~*SooZy*~*
July 31st 03, 12:57 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message
...
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.

I am sorry your cat passed away :-( so sad when we loose our dear friends

PawsForThought
July 31st 03, 01:13 PM
>From: "Moosh:]"

>As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
>peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).

I am so sorry for your loss :(

Lauren
________
See my cats: http://community.webshots.com/album/56955940rWhxAe
Raw Diet Info: http://www.holisticat.com/drjletter.html
http://www.geocities.com/rawfeeders/ForCatsOnly.html
Declawing Info: http://www.wholecat.com/articles/claws.htm

PawsForThought
July 31st 03, 01:13 PM
>From: "Moosh:]"

>As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
>peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).

I am so sorry for your loss :(

Lauren
________
See my cats: http://community.webshots.com/album/56955940rWhxAe
Raw Diet Info: http://www.holisticat.com/drjletter.html
http://www.geocities.com/rawfeeders/ForCatsOnly.html
Declawing Info: http://www.wholecat.com/articles/claws.htm

Karen Chuplis
July 31st 03, 04:56 PM
I am sorry too.

Karen

"*~*SooZy*~*" > wrote in message
...
> "Moosh:]" > wrote in message
> ...
> >
> > Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> > As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> > peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> > She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> > missed.
> > Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>
> I am sorry your cat passed away :-( so sad when we loose our dear
friends
>
>

Karen Chuplis
July 31st 03, 04:56 PM
I am sorry too.

Karen

"*~*SooZy*~*" > wrote in message
...
> "Moosh:]" > wrote in message
> ...
> >
> > Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> > As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> > peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> > She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> > missed.
> > Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>
> I am sorry your cat passed away :-( so sad when we loose our dear
friends
>
>

-L.
July 31st 03, 05:06 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
> On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:
>
> >Dear Moosh,
> >
> >Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
> >someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
> >save"? etc.
> >
> >I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
> >cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
> >no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
> >let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
> >
> >Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
> >cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
> >anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
> >owner.
> >
> >I wish you well.
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.

Sorry for your loss. Please find solace in the fact that she knows
she was well loved.

Take care,

-L.

-L.
July 31st 03, 05:06 PM
"Moosh:]" > wrote in message >...
> On 30 Jul 2003 22:21:24 -0700, (Joan) posted:
>
> >Dear Moosh,
> >
> >Please be prepared to get some very tough opinions. If you noticed,
> >someone already told you to "sell" your pc. Also, "why didn't you
> >save"? etc.
> >
> >I had posted a sick cat posting expressing my concern of my 13 yr old
> >cat + my $ situation (I'm disabled & disability is all screwed up so
> >no $'s yet). I got blasted. Thank goodness I was strong enuf to not
> >let them get the best of me. (The cat is fine).
> >
> >Do the best you can. 17 yrs is a good age. If you have to let the
> >cat go because of $'s, please be prepared to accept that there wasn't
> >anything you could do. People can be cruel & not give a damn for the
> >owner.
> >
> >I wish you well.
>
> Thanks for your kind words, Joan. And those of others on this group.
> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.

Sorry for your loss. Please find solace in the fact that she knows
she was well loved.

Take care,

-L.

Cheryl
August 1st 03, 01:08 AM
Moosh:] wrote:

> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>
>
I'm sorry for your loss. I can understand about not wanting to let go
of your son's cat; I'm not sure how I would have handled that. I
recently lost my son, too. You've had a lot of loss.

Cheryl

Cheryl
August 1st 03, 01:08 AM
Moosh:] wrote:

> As it turned out, I couldn't have done anything anyway. Puss died
> peacefully in her sleep last night (30th here).
> She was my late son's cat and was rather special and will be sorely
> missed.
> Regards to all and thanks for your comments.
>
>
I'm sorry for your loss. I can understand about not wanting to let go
of your son's cat; I'm not sure how I would have handled that. I
recently lost my son, too. You've had a lot of loss.

Cheryl

Linda E
August 2nd 03, 02:05 AM
My condolences to you and your family.....

Linda

Linda E
August 2nd 03, 02:05 AM
My condolences to you and your family.....

Linda