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I'm so frustrated I could just cry.
I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word (
only to those who want it)
My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off
our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of the
room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is
rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and
2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call our
Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on.
They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive
attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented.
He is 66 years old.
Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe
deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and
, and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd rather
bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh.
Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door,
(I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come in,
and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still screaming in
pain.
I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in pain
so loudly.
Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he
had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky
which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too
weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again.
He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since
1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec of
2001.
My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of them
with a baseball bat.
It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because
he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him.
I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today to
try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we are
covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few things,
like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc.
I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office
chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems.
After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom.
Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to bed.
Love to all,
Kyla

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On 7/14/2015 9:00 AM, Kyla=^..^= wrote:
I'm so frustrated I could just cry.
I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word (
only to those who want it)
My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell
off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of
the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which
is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and
2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call
our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on.
They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive
attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented.
He is 66 years old.
Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe
deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts
and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd
rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh.
Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front
door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like
to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still
screaming in pain.
I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in
pain so loudly.
Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee
and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some
beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that
because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again.
He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain
since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in
Dec of 2001.
My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of
them with a baseball bat.
It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't
because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him.
I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today
to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we
are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few
things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc.
I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy
office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it
seems.
After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom.
Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to bed.
Love to all,
Kyla


Lots of purrs and prayers for you and Dutch. It does sound like you need
someone in to help you both.

Ann

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On 7/14/2015 9:00 AM, Kyla=^..^= wrote:
I'm so frustrated I could just cry.
I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily Word (
only to those who want it)
My husband is un the bedroom, crying/screaming in pain, because he fell
off our bed last night, and he blames ME because I happened to be out of
the room, but not that far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which
is rather slow because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and
2 firefighters came over and got him back into bed and told him to call
our Doctor this morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on.
They also told Dutch to try and have a different more of a positive
attitude about his pain, which he _really_ resented.
He is 66 years old.
Dutch has taught me how to deal with _my_ pain, close my eyes, breathe
deeply, imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts
and , and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd
rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh.
Also , I surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front
door, (I have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like
to come in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still
screaming in pain.
I think a concerned neighbor called them because Dutch was screaming in
pain so loudly.
Meanwhile, I have been waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee
and he had the nerve to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some
beef Jerky which is inside the car. I told him I could not do that
because I am too weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again.
He gets so mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain
since 1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in
Dec of 2001.
My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone whacked both of
them with a baseball bat.
It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel like sleeping on our couch, but I can't
because he 'needs' me in the bedroom to do this and that for him.
I am so tired and frustrated and I have to make some phone calls today
to try and get both of us some in- home care soon, which I was told we
are covered for by our medical insurance company. He also needs a few
things, like a wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc.
I hurt SO much for trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy
office chair with wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it
seems.
After all of that, he never made it into the bathroom.
Thank you for letting me vent and now I am _reluctantly_ going back to
bed.
Love to all,
Kyla


Lots of purrs and prayers for you and Dutch. It does sound like you need
someone in to help you both.

Ann

Thank you,Ann for your prayers and your cats purrs:)
We have to get our doctor's referral for home health care which I'm sure he
will:)
Ann you are so sweet to me and I will keep you in my kind thoughts and my
prayers.
Love,
Kyla

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Kyla=^..^= wrote in rec.pets.cats.community:

I'm so frustrated I could just cry.
I can't send out any e mails, Cheezburgers, LOLCATS and The Daily
Word ( only to those who want it) My husband is un the bedroom,
crying/screaming in pain, because he fell off our bed last night, and
he blames ME because I happened to be out of the room, but not that
far away.I got to him as fast as I could, which is rather slow
because I'm disabled, as is he. I called 911 and 2 firefighters came
over and got him back into bed and told him to call our Doctor this
morning, and tell The Doctor what is going on. They also told Dutch
to try and have a different more of a positive attitude about his
pain, which he really resented. He is 66 years old. Dutch has
taught me how to deal with my pain, close my eyes, breathe deeply,
imagine the shape, size, color, thing positive/ happy thoughts and ,
and I pray a lot as well. Does he do this for his pain? No! He'd
rather bitch at me and scream in pain. Long heavy sigh. Also , I
surmise it was yesterday, 2 policemen showed up at our front door, (I
have no clue who called them) I asked them if they would like to come
in, and they helped my husband back into bed, and he was still
screaming in pain. I think a concerned neighbor called them because
Dutch was screaming in pain so loudly. Meanwhile, I have been
waiting on my husband, making him food, coffee and he had the nerve
to ask me to go outside to HIS car and get him some beef Jerky which
is inside the car. I told him I could not do that because I am too
weak from taking care of him and he got mad at me again. He gets so
mean when he is in pain. I have been in osteoarthritis pain since
1998 or so, then had both of my knees replaced with metal ones in Dec
of 2001. My knees feel like they are broken, feels like someone
whacked both of them with a baseball bat. It's 6 am (PDT) and I feel
like sleeping on our couch, but I can't because he 'needs' me in the
bedroom to do this and that for him. I am so tired and frustrated
and I have to make some phone calls today to try and get both of us
some in- home care soon, which I was told we are covered for by our
medical insurance company. He also needs a few things, like a
wheelchair, a commode for the bedroom, etc. I hurt SO much for
trying to push him into his bathroom in a heavy office chair with
wheel casters, but he doesn't care about me at all, it seems. After
all of that, he never made it into the bathroom. Thank you for
letting me vent and now I am reluctantly going back to bed. Love to
all, Kyla

Hi Kyla,

I was wondering as I had not heard from you in a bit. I hope things get
better. It's a tough time you are in.

Carol

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Kyla=^..^= wrote in rec.pets.cats.community:

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Hi Kyla,
Hi Carol,

I was wondering as I had not heard from you in a bit.
Hi Carol,
Oh, but you have heard from me, but Mosey=^..^= 'usually' does the posting
he)

I hope things get better.
Thank you:)
Us as well, and as I am typing this, they are _trying_ to discharge Dutch
from the ER with a shot of Demerol, and a referral for a
rheumatologist,and our Doctor told them that he should be in the hospital
for 2 or 3 days, because Dutch, my hubby, can't move/walk and I sure can’t
take care of Dutch.
This is absurd/bordering on malpractice. We've both had a _couple_ of _bad_
issues with this particular ER before.
Dr Graves , our family Doctor is calling the hospital at 8 [m PST to_ try
_and talk them into keeping Dutch for the time he specified.
Dutch NEEDS to be in the hospital, where he can be looked after.

It's a tough time you are in.
Carol
Yes, it surely is, but I am praying a _lot_.
Thank you so much for your kindness and concern:)
Most _deeply_ appreciated.
Kyla

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