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Cat Pregnancy Questions?
Hi,
I'm hoping someone can answer these questions! These are two different cats: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? I'd so appreciate some answers! Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message ps.com... Hi, I'm hoping someone can answer these questions! These are two different cats: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ Yes. It's called a "spay." 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? You should be contacting the vet about having her spayed. Why are you allowing your cats to breed? Best regards, ---Cindy S. I'd so appreciate some answers! Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
On 14 Aug, 15:32, Skye wrote:
Hi, I'm hoping someone can answer these questions! These are two different cats: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? I'd so appreciate some answers! Skye These are two different cats: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ I used to breed, & the eldest queen that I knew about was 8 years old. Generally a breeder would be wise enough to retire their Queen by 5 years old though. To ask a Queen to breed beyond that age, would be to entertain trouble & strife, & unfair on the cat. If you can see that her teats are enlarged & pink, then I suggest that you get yourself & your cat to the vet asap. Unlike USA, over in the UK (where I am posting from), We have to find a vet who would ethically be willing to spay the Queen & abort her kittens. Nonetheless, find a vet to fit her into their surgery ASAP & have her spayed to ensure that this never happens again.... I am sorry, but I can't answer your question regarding feline menopause, because I always spayed my Queens before 5 years of age. However, It's Possible that another person here might be able to answer that for you. 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? YES!! Ring your vet right now & ask if they can squeeze her into their schedule, PLEASE? No, it is not normal at all! I know that you really aren't going to want to hear this, but it needs to be said. If she is a first time queen, & she is spotting, it doesn't bode well for future pregnancies. If you are a breeder, I realise that you are going to continue to try mating her @ least once more time, to see if you can recoup your money for your Queen. If this is the case, & this happens again, I really would recommend that you spay her ASAP, & either keep her as a pet, or sell her. PLEASE, ensure that you spay her if she is a registered Queen, & do not sell her as a registered Queen. I say this because there are unscrupulous breeders that would do this, if only to get their money back, but it would be quite possibly at the expense of her life. Please, do think carefully about this one. My advice is to spay both her & your older Queen. If you feel that you can't do both, then have your elder Queen first, & fast too?! Sheelagh "o" |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
On Aug 14, 9:43 am, "cindys" wrote: "Skye" wrote: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ Yes. It's called a "spay." I'm glad your life is so well-ordered and nothing ever gets out of your control once in a while. However, please realize that's not the case with everyone in the world, mkay? The older cat is a feral cat who I've been feeding for the last two years, but has hung around this neighborhood for at least 10. I've somehow grown attached, even though she is wild. She will not come to me nor allow me to so much as touch her. You tell me how to get her to the vet, Cindy S., ok? Last summer, some of the neighbors tried to get rid of her. They did manage to catch her kittens and most of them were put to sleep. This summer, we've managed to get the kittens before they were found, but we had to pull off commando-type raids under cat-hating neighbors porches to do it. She seems to be safe and stays under the radar all the rest of the year. I simply wondered how many more summers I could look forward to worrying about this. Or do you just think I should stop feeding her? I mean, what gives with your attitude??? 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? You should be contacting the vet about having her spayed. Why are you allowing your cats to breed? This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message s.com... On Aug 14, 9:43 am, "cindys" wrote: "Skye" wrote: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ Yes. It's called a "spay." I'm glad your life is so well-ordered and nothing ever gets out of your control once in a while. However, please realize that's not the case with everyone in the world, mkay? The older cat is a feral cat who I've been feeding for the last two years, but has hung around this neighborhood for at least 10. I've somehow grown attached, even though she is wild. She will not come to me nor allow me to so much as touch her. You tell me how to get her to the vet, Cindy S., ok? Last summer, some of the neighbors tried to get rid of her. They did manage to catch her kittens and most of them were put to sleep. This summer, we've managed to get the kittens before they were found, but we had to pull off commando-type raids under cat-hating neighbors porches to do it. She seems to be safe and stays under the radar all the rest of the year. I simply wondered how many more summers I could look forward to worrying about this. Or do you just think I should stop feeding her? I mean, what gives with your attitude??? 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? You should be contacting the vet about having her spayed. Why are you allowing your cats to breed? This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye You can set humane traps that will trap the feral cat when she comes to eat. Then you can bring her to the vet where they will tranquilizer her and spay her. Then you can bring her back and let her go, and she won't have any more kittens....Also, she is likely to stick around your place (or wherever the food is best) and become domesticated....... Contact your local cat coalition or the vet to find out about this....... |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
On Aug 14, 11:26 am, "Sheelagh o"
wrote: On 14 Aug, 15:32, Skye wrote: I used to breed, & the eldest queen that I knew about was 8 years old. Generally a breeder would be wise enough to retire their Queen by 5 years old though. To ask a Queen to breed beyond that age, would be to entertain trouble & strife, & unfair on the cat. If you can see that her teats are enlarged & pink, then I suggest that you get yourself & your cat to the vet asap. Unlike USA, over in the UK (where I am posting from), We have to find a vet who would ethically be willing to spay the Queen & abort her kittens. Nonetheless, find a vet to fit her into their surgery ASAP & have her spayed to ensure that this never happens again.... Thanks for your kind response. Please see my reply to Cindy S. about the older cat .. 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? YES!! Ring your vet right now & ask if they can squeeze her into their schedule, PLEASE? No, it is not normal at all! I know that you really aren't going to want to hear this, but it needs to be said. If she is a first time queen, & she is spotting, it doesn't bode well for future pregnancies. If you are a breeder, I realise that you are going to continue to try mating her @ least once more time, to see if you can recoup your money for your Queen. Thank you, Sheelagh, that's the main thing I wanted to know. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message s.com... This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. -------- Yes, you're allowed. And please sleep well tonight with the knowledge that thousands of cats are being euthanized in shelters every year for lack of homes and every one of your kittens that you place in a home represents a shelter cat who will not have a home and will be euthanized. But please don't let that minor inconvenience stand in the way of your fulfilling your selfish desire to let your cat breed. And rest assured, that you will find very little support for your position on the rec.pets.cats.health+behavior newsgroup. But you are correct that in America, the "me, me, me" approach to life is alive and well. Selfishness and self-centeredness are certainly not against the law. Best regards, ---Cindy S. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"cindys" wrote in message ... "Skye" wrote in message s.com... This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. -------- Yes, you're allowed. And please sleep well tonight with the knowledge that thousands of cats are being euthanized in shelters every year for lack of homes and every one of your kittens that you place in a home represents a shelter cat who will not have a home and will be euthanized. But please don't let that minor inconvenience stand in the way of your fulfilling your selfish desire to let your cat breed. And rest assured, that you will find very little support for your position on the rec.pets.cats.health+behavior newsgroup. But you are correct that in America, the "me, me, me" approach to life is alive and well. Selfishness and self-centeredness are certainly not against the law. Best regards, ---Cindy S. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye Errrrrr......I don't want to start a flame war here, but you might just put a teensy weensy bit of the blame on God, don't you think? - After all, literally millions of cute furry little animals die of starvation, thirst and the cold every year, and there isn't a damn thing any of us can do about it........I often wonder how well He sleeps at night...... |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
You can set humane traps that will trap the feral cat when she comes to eat. Then you can bring her to the vet where they will tranquilizer her and spay her. Then you can bring her back and let her go, and she won't have any more kittens....Also, she is likely to stick around your place (or wherever the food is best) and become domesticated....... Contact your local cat coalition or the vet to find out about this....... Since she is a feral, you could also call your local animal shelter to see if they will offer assistance. Some have TNR (trap, neuter, release) programs or offer low-cost spays. Many will also loan you a humane trap. Unfortunately, by asking these questions you have stumbled onto one of the hot topics on this forum. Almost all of us regulars here _strongly_ believe in spaying and neutering, both for the prevention of unwanted/unneeded litters but also for the overall health and well being of the animal. Spaying will prevent certain types of cancers and eliminate many unwanted behaviors (coming into heat, caterwauling, spraying). With the millions of animals that are euthanized each year, it's hard *not* to be an advocate of spaying. |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"William Graham" wrote in message ... snip Errrrrr......I don't want to start a flame war here, but you might just put a teensy weensy bit of the blame on God, don't you think? - After all, literally millions of cute furry little animals die of starvation, thirst and the cold every year, and there isn't a damn thing any of us can do about it........I often wonder how well He sleeps at night...... -------- No one can fix the world, but we can do our best to not make things worse. Best regards, ---Cindy S. |
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On Aug 14, 1:59 pm, "William Graham" wrote:
You can set humane traps that will trap the feral cat when she comes to eat. Then you can bring her to the vet where they will tranquilizer her and spay her. Then you can bring her back and let her go, and she won't have any more kittens....Also, she is likely to stick around your place (or wherever the food is best) and become domesticated....... I've thought about doing that, but I'd be afraid she'd never show at my door again. In fact, I'm not even sure it would work - she's been incredibly canny (or incredibly lucky) when it comes to the animal control cages around the neighborhood at various times. It's certainly something to think about though - thanks! Actually, if I do anything, it'll be that, if I can find a sympathetic vet. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
On Aug 14, 3:13 pm, "William Graham" wrote:
Errrrrr......I don't want to start a flame war here, but you might just put a teensy weensy bit of the blame on God, don't you think? - After all, literally millions of cute furry little animals die of starvation, thirst and the cold every year, and there isn't a damn thing any of us can do about it........I often wonder how well He sleeps at night...... Sometimes I feel the same way, these are bad endings for innocent creatures, but here's a thought, William . . . Would you *really* want to be vying for elbow room with dogs, bears, rabbits, etc, etc.? Sharing diseases? Can you imagine the humongous abuse rate, the hunting and killing for sport? I think nature knows what it's doing. We may not like some aspects of it (for example, I don't especially care about the fact that everything dies at all, including us), but it IS beautiful in it's own way. And as far as God is concerned, She set all this in motion and probably sleeps just fine. :-) Skye |
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On Aug 14, 3:38 pm, "Rene S." wrote:
Since she is a feral, you could also call your local animal shelter to see if they will offer assistance. Some have TNR (trap, neuter, release) programs or offer low-cost spays. Many will also loan you a humane trap. Our animal shelter does not offer a TNR program or any low cost spays. They might offer a trap, though. Unfortunately, by asking these questions you have stumbled onto one of the hot topics on this forum. Almost all of us regulars here _strongly_ believe in spaying and neutering, both for the prevention of unwanted/unneeded litters but also for the overall health and well being of the animal. Spaying will prevent certain types of cancers and eliminate many unwanted behaviors (coming into heat, caterwauling, spraying). With the millions of animals that are euthanized each year, it's hard *not* to be an advocate of spaying. I asked my questions with the only objective of getting information. With no disrespect intended, I for some reason just don't care about posters' opinions, approval, or disapproval. They don't know me or my situations. I *tried* to care about an hour ago, but I just can't. I mean, no offense, but you all are faceless, anonymous Usenet users - I don't understand how to care about that. And I can't believe anyone cares that much about what I do. They have to jump on and lecture every time someone posts anything with the words "pregnant" and "cat" in it, so that it makes THEM feel like they have some purpose in life. It's ridiculous. I do care that some of the posters took the time and trouble to respond with some constructive information. THOSE are the ones I hear. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message ps.com... On Aug 14, 3:38 pm, "Rene S." wrote: Since she is a feral, you could also call your local animal shelter to see if they will offer assistance. Some have TNR (trap, neuter, release) programs or offer low-cost spays. Many will also loan you a humane trap. Our animal shelter does not offer a TNR program or any low cost spays. They might offer a trap, though. Unfortunately, by asking these questions you have stumbled onto one of the hot topics on this forum. Almost all of us regulars here _strongly_ believe in spaying and neutering, both for the prevention of unwanted/unneeded litters but also for the overall health and well being of the animal. Spaying will prevent certain types of cancers and eliminate many unwanted behaviors (coming into heat, caterwauling, spraying). With the millions of animals that are euthanized each year, it's hard *not* to be an advocate of spaying. I asked my questions with the only objective of getting information. With no disrespect intended, I for some reason just don't care about posters' opinions, approval, or disapproval. They don't know me or my situations. I *tried* to care about an hour ago, but I just can't. I mean, no offense, but you all are faceless, anonymous Usenet users - I don't understand how to care about that. And I can't believe anyone cares that much about what I do. They have to jump on and lecture every time someone posts anything with the words "pregnant" and "cat" in it, so that it makes THEM feel like they have some purpose in life. It's ridiculous. I do care that some of the posters took the time and trouble to respond with some constructive information. THOSE are the ones I hear. Skye With the exception of a few trolls, everyone here has one thing in common....We all love cats and hate to see anything bad happen to them. Anytime you ask strangers for an opinion, you are risking getting bad advice.....the question I have is: Why did you post here in the first place? |
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"Skye" wrote in message ups.com... On Aug 14, 1:59 pm, "William Graham" wrote: You can set humane traps that will trap the feral cat when she comes to eat. Then you can bring her to the vet where they will tranquilizer her and spay her. Then you can bring her back and let her go, and she won't have any more kittens....Also, she is likely to stick around your place (or wherever the food is best) and become domesticated....... I've thought about doing that, but I'd be afraid she'd never show at my door again. In fact, I'm not even sure it would work - she's been incredibly canny (or incredibly lucky) when it comes to the animal control cages around the neighborhood at various times. It's certainly something to think about though - thanks! Actually, if I do anything, it'll be that, if I can find a sympathetic vet. Skye I have had this problem in the past, and what I did was trap the cat, and then call a friend of mine to pick it up (in the trap) and bring it to the vet. Then, I picked it up at the vet the next day, and brought it home and let it go.....The cat didn't connect me with its experience.....Probably thought of me as the one who rescued it from that terrible place. (The vet:^) |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message ps.com... I *tried* to care about an hour ago, but I just can't. I mean, no offense, but you all are faceless, anonymous Usenet users As are you. - I don't understand how to care about that. And I can't believe anyone cares that much about what I do. They have to jump on and lecture every time someone posts anything with the words "pregnant" and "cat" in it, so that it makes THEM feel like they have some purpose in life. It's ridiculous. Is that so? Well, looks like you have us all figured out. Do you have a purpose in life other than breeding cats and posting questions to strangers on Usenet? Best regards, ---Cindy S. I do care that some of the posters took the time and trouble to respond with some constructive information. THOSE are the ones I hear. Skye |
Cat Pregnancy Questions?
"Skye" wrote in message s.com... On Aug 14, 9:43 am, "cindys" wrote: "Skye" wrote: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ Yes. It's called a "spay." I'm glad your life is so well-ordered and nothing ever gets out of your control once in a while. However, please realize that's not the case with everyone in the world, mkay? The older cat is a feral cat who I've been feeding for the last two years, but has hung around this neighborhood for at least 10. I've somehow grown attached, even though she is wild. She will not come to me nor allow me to so much as touch her. You tell me how to get her to the vet, Cindy S., ok? You buy or borrow (rescue groups and shelters sometimes lend traps - ask them) a humane trap. If you've been feeding this cat anyway it should be quite easy to trap her. Check with the rescue groups for recommendations for low-cost spay neuter locations where they will do feral cats. Make an appointment. The day of or the night before the appointment, put some good smelly wet food in the back of the trap and set it shortly before the time that the cat usually shows up to eat. Then wait in an out of sight but not out of hearing place for the unique sound of a trap tripping. Cover trap with a large towel and take the cat in the trap to the vet for her spay. If it's the night before, place a large plastic bag on the floor of a garage or similar place. Put a thick layer of newspaper on the plastic bag and then set the trap on them. The cat will be fine in a covered trap overnight. Last summer, some of the neighbors tried to get rid of her. They did manage to catch her kittens and most of them were put to sleep. This summer, we've managed to get the kittens before they were found, but we had to pull off commando-type raids under cat-hating neighbors porches to do it. She seems to be safe and stays under the radar all the rest of the year. I simply wondered how many more summers I could look forward to worrying about this. Or do you just think I should stop feeding her? I mean, what gives with your attitude??? If you aren't willing to get her spayed, you are doing more harm than good by feeding her. You are keeping her healthy enough to continue reproducing kittens when there are already too many kittens to ever possibly home. You basically are facilitating the birth of kittens so that they or others like them will have to be put to death. I know people mean well when they start feeding strays but the truth is that it's better not to and just let nature take it's course unless you're willing to commit to doing it right and spay/neuter the cat. 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? You should be contacting the vet about having her spayed. Why are you allowing your cats to breed? This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye People tend to get a little bent out of shape with people who are willfully adding to the cat over-population problem. I volunteer for a cat rescue group. We do adoptions from a Pet Smart store on Saturdays. Last weekend we had a man bring us a kitten who was obviously on death's door. It appeared to have injested some type of poison and was having convultions. It was beyond helping so one of our volunteers took the kitten to the local SPCA to get it euthanized. When she arrived there the person at the shelter told her they couldn't help us because they didn't have room. Our volunteer told them that we weren't asking them to take the cat and house it but to put it out of it's misery. The shelter person again said they didn't have room. When it became obvious that they were miscommunicating the shelter person clarified that they didn't have any room in their FREEZER where they keep the euthanized animals until they can be cremated. She said that they couldn't fit a hampster in the freezer if they had to. THAT'S how many unwanted animals there are out there. And THAT'S why people tend to get a little short with someone who is exacerbating the problem. W |
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On Aug 14, 7:57 pm, "William Graham" wrote:
With the exception of a few trolls, everyone here has one thing in common....We all love cats and hate to see anything bad happen to them. Apparently, that's not entirely true. There are evidently some in here who think it's best to just let stray cats and dogs starve. THAT can't be good. Anytime you ask strangers for an opinion, which I *didn't* you are risking getting bad advice.....the question I have is: Why did you post here in the first place? For information: 1. To find out if there is an age at which a female cat might stop breeding naturally. 2. To find out if my pregnant cat was medically in danger. To my knowledge, only 1 person attempted to specifically answered both questions. The rest is just rabid, nutty farting in the wind to me - with the exception of your advice of trapping the older cat. When I was having trouble with my car, I posted my problem to some car newsgroups asking for information. I received 12 responses packed full of info so that I was able to get my car fixed quickly. There were no opinions - no one accused me of letting my car get in disrepair or putting pollution into the air by driving a car, no judgmental attitudes at all. I simply received information that I needed. However, to be honest, I haven't posted on Usenet for a long time and I've forgotten how vicious and pompously superior people can act here when they know they're anonymous. All you can do is killfile some, ignore others, and pick the most constructive ones out of the mess. Skye |
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On Aug 15, 7:52 am, "Wendy" wrote:
If you aren't willing to get her spayed, Which I never said I wasn't willing, but ya'll assumed... you are doing more harm than good by feeding her. You are keeping her healthy enough to continue reproducing kittens when there are already too many kittens to ever possibly home. You basically are facilitating the birth of kittens so that they or others like them will have to be put to death. I know people mean well when they start feeding strays but the truth is that it's better not to and just let nature take it's course unless you're willing to commit to doing it right and spay/neuter the cat. Oh for God's sakes, I would NEVER start feeding a cat or dog just to quit when it becomes inconvenient for me. THAT's one of MY pet peeves - people who do that or take on pets just to dump them when they get tired of them or they don't like them. And I know it happens a lot. So forget it - not even up for discussion. But thanks for reminding me there's people like you who do that and/or advocate it. It's sick. :-/ Or that I should have ignored her 2 years ago when she was stumbling around broken, starving, and skeletal. I DID try for about 8 years, but come on now. Every animal lover has their limit, and actually, I don't regret starting it one bit. Truth is, this is the first cat I've ever "had" that I couldn't win over, and I'm not comfortable with that fact. I didn't know at the beginning she wouldn't warm up to me, now did I? But just because she's like that, doesn't mean I'm gonna discard her like a soiled tissue now. For anyone else who's reading this: don't take on a dog, cat, rabbit, gerbil, ferret, etc., unless you know beyond a shadow of a doubt you're willing to stand by and take care of it for the rest of it's life. If you don't think you're up to it or mature enough or are too fickle in your relationships, simply DON'T DO IT to begin with. End of story. And that goes for feeding strays too. Even if there's a risk you might not be able to spay it or make a true "pet" out of it. Once you start, it's yours. Jeesh. THAT'S why people tend to get a little short with someone who is exacerbating the problem. Oh, go pick on someone who deserves it. Surely, you can find someone out of all the pet-dumpers, animal abusers, people who REGULARLY don't get their pets spayed or neutered, people who don't CARE about euthanized animals, etc., etc. Hey, I'll even join you for that. Skye |
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"Skye" wrote in message ps.com... However, to be honest, I haven't posted on Usenet for a long time and I've forgotten how vicious and pompously superior people can act here when they know they're anonymous. ----- With all due respect, you could easily be describing your own behavior on this newsgroup. Best regards, ---Cindy S. |
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"Skye" wrote in message ps.com : : On Aug 14, 7:57 pm, "William Graham" : : wrote: : : : : : With the exception of a few trolls, everyone here has : : : one thing in common....We all love cats and hate to : : : see anything bad happen to them. : : : : Apparently, that's not entirely true. There are : : evidently some in here who think : : it's best to just let stray cats and dogs starve. THAT : : can't be good. : : : : : Anytime you ask strangers for an opinion, : : : : which I *didn't* Actually you did, by posting here. I'm not saying I agree or disagree with what's been posted, but the simple act of posting a message on a newsgroup implies that you want replies. These replies will invariably be people's opinions. Whether or not they are facts is a different matter entirely. Ivor |
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On 15 Aug, 13:52, "Wendy" wrote:
"Skye" wrote in message s.com... On Aug 14, 9:43 am, "cindys" wrote: "Skye" wrote: 1. Generally speaking, how old can a queen be and still be going into heat and producing offspring? In other words, please God, is there such a thing as feline menopause??? :-/ Yes. It's called a "spay." I'm glad your life is so well-ordered and nothing ever gets out of your control once in a while. However, please realize that's not the case with everyone in the world, mkay? The older cat is a feral cat who I've been feeding for the last two years, but has hung around this neighborhood for at least 10. I've somehow grown attached, even though she is wild. She will not come to me nor allow me to so much as touch her. You tell me how to get her to the vet, Cindy S., ok? You buy or borrow (rescue groups and shelters sometimes lend traps - ask them) a humane trap. If you've been feeding this cat anyway it should be quite easy to trap her. Check with the rescue groups for recommendations for low-cost spay neuter locations where they will do feral cats. Make an appointment. The day of or the night before the appointment, put some good smelly wet food in the back of the trap and set it shortly before the time that the cat usually shows up to eat. Then wait in an out of sight but not out of hearing place for the unique sound of a trap tripping. Cover trap with a large towel and take the cat in the trap to the vet for her spay. If it's the night before, place a large plastic bag on the floor of a garage or similar place. Put a thick layer of newspaper on the plastic bag and then set the trap on them. The cat will be fine in a covered trap overnight. Last summer, some of the neighbors tried to get rid of her. They did manage to catch her kittens and most of them were put to sleep. This summer, we've managed to get the kittens before they were found, but we had to pull off commando-type raids under cat-hating neighbors porches to do it. She seems to be safe and stays under the radar all the rest of the year. I simply wondered how many more summers I could look forward to worrying about this. Or do you just think I should stop feeding her? I mean, what gives with your attitude??? If you aren't willing to get her spayed, you are doing more harm than good by feeding her. You are keeping her healthy enough to continue reproducing kittens when there are already too many kittens to ever possibly home. You basically are facilitating the birth of kittens so that they or others like them will have to be put to death. I know people mean well when they start feeding strays but the truth is that it's better not to and just let nature take it's course unless you're willing to commit to doing it right and spay/neuter the cat. 2. I've got another younger cat, first time queen, shows all the symptoms of pregnancy - more than a month along. However, every few days, she's spotting blood from the vulva. Not much though, and otherwise she acts fine. Is this normal, or should I be contacting the vet? You should be contacting the vet about having her spayed. Why are you allowing your cats to breed? This cat is my indoor, well-cared-for, beautiful, loved cat. Yes, I wanted her to have kittens. OMG! I'm guilty! Shoot me, but not the cat! Seriously, I'm not sure since 9/11/2001, but I THINK America is still free enough that if you want your cat to breed, you are allowed to do so. Unless there's some law I'm not aware of (under Homeland Security, maybe?). I don't even think you have to ask permission from, well, ANYBODY. Lol. Well, thank you for your, um, help and info, Cindy S. I can assure you, the world is a much safer and better place. You can sleep well tonight. Skye People tend to get a little bent out of shape with people who are willfully adding to the cat over-population problem. I volunteer for a cat rescue group. We do adoptions from a Pet Smart store on Saturdays. Last weekend we had a man bring us a kitten who was obviously on death's door. It appeared to have injested some type of poison and was having convultions. It was beyond helping so one of our volunteers took the kitten to the local SPCA to get it euthanized. When she arrived there the person at the shelter told her they couldn't help us because they didn't have room. Our volunteer told them that we weren't asking them to take the cat and house it but to put it out of it's misery. The shelter person again said they didn't have room. When it became obvious that they were miscommunicating the shelter person clarified that they didn't have any room in their FREEZER where they keep the euthanized animals until they can be cremated. She said that they couldn't fit a hampster in the freezer if they had to. THAT'S how many unwanted animals there are out there. And THAT'S why people tend to get a little short with someone who is exacerbating the problem. W- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - You buy or borrow (rescue groups and shelters sometimes lend traps - ask them) a humane trap. If you've been feeding this cat anyway it should be quite easy to trap her. Check with the rescue groups for recommendations for low-cost spay neuter locations where they will do feral cats. Make an appointment. The day of or the night before the appointment, put some good smelly wet food in the back of the trap and set it shortly before the time that the cat usually shows up to eat. Then wait in an out of sight but not out of hearing place for the unique sound of a trap tripping. Cover trap with a large towel and take the cat in the trap to the vet for her spay. If it's the night before, place a large plastic bag on the floor of a garage or similar place. Put a thick layer of newspaper on the plastic bag and then set the trap on them. The cat will be fine in a covered trap overnight. Yes, I found that heating the food up attracted them straight to to the bowl because their sense of smell is so superior to our own. I couldn't find any society that was willing to lend me a trap, but I did find a private american citizen on a USAF base that was willing to lend me one. I was no expert on trapping cats, believe me- In fact, I had never tried trapping a cat before, but with advice from Phil, I managed to catch Lucy(fur!!) first time, so please @ least have the confidence to try it out? The vet was good enough to come out to us, & treated her immediate needs, & we took her in the following day to have her spayed. Lucy(fur!) was the only one that was so shy that we simply couldn't catch her though. The rest, we were able to entice with food alone. If you aren't willing to get her spayed, you are doing more harm than good by feeding her. You are keeping her healthy enough to continue reproducing kittens when there are already too many kittens to ever possibly home. You basically are facilitating the birth of kittens so that they or others like them will have to be put to death. I know people mean well when they start feeding strays but the truth is that it's better not to and just let nature take it's course unless you're willing to commit to doing it right and spay/neuter the cat. I wonder if you have a society in the USA that will pay towards the cost of spaying a cat? In the UK we have a society called the Cat Protection League, & their main objective, is to spay, neuter & advise on how to catch cats that need fixing. They also rescue cats too, but are totally reliant on volunteers who are willing to help for nothing. If you do, these might be the best people to contact? Over here, they are willing to pay half the cost towards spay or neuter fee's, which is very helpful if you face the charge personally for a cat that you don't own & intend to release.I was wondering if you have any similar programs in the USA that you can go to if you need help like this? People tend to get a little bent out of shape with people who are willfully adding to the cat over-population problem. I volunteer for a cat rescue group. We do adoptions from a Pet Smart store on Saturdays. Last weekend we had a man bring us a kitten who was obviously on death's door. It appeared to have injested some type of poison and was having convultions. It was beyond helping so one of our volunteers took the kitten to the local SPCA to get it euthanized. When she arrived there the person at the shelter told her they couldn't help us because they didn't have room. Our volunteer told them that we weren't asking them to take the cat and house it but to put it out of it's misery. The shelter person again said they didn't have room. When it became obvious that they were miscommunicating the shelter person clarified that they didn't have any room in their FREEZER where they keep the euthanized animals until they can be cremated. She said that they couldn't fit a hampster in the freezer if they had to. THAT'S how many unwanted animals there are out there. And THAT'S why people tend to get a little short with someone who is exacerbating the problem. OMG Wendy, I have never heard such a sad story in my entitre life. I used to wonder why people got so out of shape when they heard of our community bowl, but having heard this story, I now understand why. Our community bowl has two objectives. The first was to stop them starving, & the second was to see that they were fixed. I end up paying around $30 for a male, & $40 for a female. It's not a huge amount of money to find, & well worth the hassle of catching them. It is also worth having a word with your regular vet, to see if they are willing to do cheaper rates if you take more than say, one a month to them too. I knew that things were bad in the USA regarding feral & unwanted cats, but I had no idea exactly how bad. I hope that story serves as a reminder to others as to why it is so important to get them spayed & neutered. I have to say that I am very shocked to hear your story. That is absolutely horrific!! I can only assume that we lead very sheltered lives in the UK, or the problem is not yet quite at crisis point. Thank you for sharing this story with us. Sheelagh "o" ( Nice to see you too;o) |
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"Skye" wrote in message ps.com... On Aug 14, 7:57 pm, "William Graham" wrote: With the exception of a few trolls, everyone here has one thing in common....We all love cats and hate to see anything bad happen to them. Apparently, that's not entirely true. There are evidently some in here who think it's best to just let stray cats and dogs starve. THAT can't be good. Anytime you ask strangers for an opinion, which I *didn't* you are risking getting bad advice.....the question I have is: Why did you post here in the first place? For information: 1. To find out if there is an age at which a female cat might stop breeding naturally. 2. To find out if my pregnant cat was medically in danger. To my knowledge, only 1 person attempted to specifically answered both questions. The rest is just rabid, nutty farting in the wind to me - with the exception of your advice of trapping the older cat. When I was having trouble with my car, I posted my problem to some car newsgroups asking for information. I received 12 responses packed full of info so that I was able to get my car fixed quickly. There were no opinions - no one accused me of letting my car get in disrepair or putting pollution into the air by driving a car, no judgmental attitudes at all. I simply received information that I needed. However, to be honest, I haven't posted on Usenet for a long time and I've forgotten how vicious and pompously superior people can act here when they know they're anonymous. All you can do is killfile some, ignore others, and pick the most constructive ones out of the mess. Skye Well, you have to understand that not all of us cat lovers agree on everything.....Exactly what is the best way to help cats is a matter of opinion, and there are things that some of us would do that others wouldn't do.....I happen (for example) to believe it is better to let a cat go, and give it a chance to fend for itself, than it is to put it to sleep.....But we have had some rousing wars and disagreements on this point. I picked up my favorite cat from a Burger King parking lot, where someone who couldn't keep him any longer just dropped him off.....When he tried to beg some hamburger from me, he got his little fanny thrown in my car, and brought home permanently. Not all cats are so lucky, so I can understand why others disagree with me..... |
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OMG Wendy, I have never heard such a sad story in my entitre life. I used to wonder why people got so out of shape when they heard of our community bowl, but having heard this story, I now understand why. Our community bowl has two objectives. The first was to stop them starving, & the second was to see that they were fixed. I end up paying around $30 for a male, & $40 for a female. It's not a huge amount of money to find, & well worth the hassle of catching them. It is also worth having a word with your regular vet, to see if they are willing to do cheaper rates if you take more than say, one a month to them too. I knew that things were bad in the USA regarding feral & unwanted cats, but I had no idea exactly how bad. I hope that story serves as a reminder to others as to why it is so important to get them spayed & neutered. I have to say that I am very shocked to hear your story. That is absolutely horrific!! I can only assume that we lead very sheltered lives in the UK, or the problem is not yet quite at crisis point. Thank you for sharing this story with us. Sheelagh "o" ( Nice to see you too;o) It's the God's honest truth. I was shocked when the volunteer came back and told us of the problem she had getting the poor thing put out of it's misery. It was bent over backwards seizing and covered it what looked like maggots and the SPCA couldn't help us. The volunteer finally took it to a private vet who was still open and they euthanized the kitten for us. We're smack dab in the middle of kitten season here and I guess everyone is filled up with cats. There is a shelter in Philadelphia that has been giving them away for a dollar just so they don't have to euthanize. The sad thing is that many of these $1 cats will be returned or dumped back on the street and have to be dealt with later. Maybe there will be more room then though - or at least one can hope. I'm back up to 17 fosters myself. Two of them are bottle feeders that were found outside with no mom. There were four kittens to start with but the one was dead when it arrived at the vets office and they euthanized the other because it was so sick. I was at the vet's picking up one of my fosters (the mother of 6 kittens born on Father's Day) and they asked if I could take the surviving two. W |
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On Wed, 15 Aug 2007 15:20:49 +0000, Skye wrote:
Oh for God's sakes, I would NEVER start feeding a cat or dog just to quit when it becomes inconvenient for me. That's commendable, but what is wrong with the idea of trapping this animal and getting her spayed? What if she comes around with a litter of kittens? Will you feed them all? Eventually you might be faced with a Malthusian problem. Charlie |
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"Wendy" wrote in message news:S9idnSXf49-
group. We do adoptions from a Pet Smart store on Saturdays. Last weekend we had a man bring us a kitten who was obviously on death's door. It appeared to have injested some type of poison and was having convultions. It was beyond helping so one of our volunteers took the kitten to the local SPCA to get it euthanized. When she arrived there the person at the shelter told her they couldn't help us because they didn't have room. I have to ask. When confronted with this problem, why did *you* not force yourself to take action? You had a kitten that was obviously in great distress, you knew it had to be put down and you couldn't immediately find a vet to do it. All the time and effort you spent trying to do the right thing and the kitten was suffering. A few seconds of submerging it in a sink and it's agony would have been over. Relatively quick and painless. That takes real guts and real love of animals, putting an animal down that you care for. I had to do that once to a dog I owned after she got run over by a car. The way her guts were splayed out on the road and she was still alive yelping in agony, all I could do was run to get a tire iron and crush her skull. Then I buried her in my backyard garden. I cried for over a week and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I still cry sometimes when I think of what I had to do, but I know that under the same circumstances, I'd do it again. Putting aside society's laws for a moment, if the situation was reversed, I'd want someone to do the same thing for me. That was the only way I could rationalize myself into doing what I knew I had to do. |
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On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:12:49 -0400, Upscale wrote:
I have to ask. When confronted with this problem, why did *you* not force yourself to take action? You had a kitten that was obviously in great distress, you knew it had to be put down and you couldn't immediately find a vet to do it. All the time and effort you spent trying to do the right thing and the kitten was suffering. A few seconds of submerging it in a sink and it's agony would have been over. Relatively quick and painless. That takes real guts and real love of animals, putting an animal down that you care for. It's also illegal in many areas: it's considered animal cruelty for an unapproved person to use an unapproved method to end the distress of a suffering animal. It *is* however allowed to *cause* suffering of certain species during hunting season, provided you have a license (you don't have to be competent to kill quickly so long as you have the license). -- T.E.D. ) |
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"Ted Davis" wrote in message It's also illegal in many areas: it's considered animal cruelty for an unapproved person to use an unapproved method to end the distress of a suffering animal. Of course it's illegal, probably always will be in North America, but that's not the point as far as I'm concerned. When I put my dog down, it wouldn't have mattered if there were 20 people there threatening to have me charged, it was a matter of my own peace of mind. And if I'd had to pay some fine or serve some type of incarceration, that wouldn't have mattered much either. It was just a matter of my doing what I felt was needed to be done right away. |
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"Upscale" wrote in message ... "Wendy" wrote in message news:S9idnSXf49- group. We do adoptions from a Pet Smart store on Saturdays. Last weekend we had a man bring us a kitten who was obviously on death's door. It appeared to have injested some type of poison and was having convultions. It was beyond helping so one of our volunteers took the kitten to the local SPCA to get it euthanized. When she arrived there the person at the shelter told her they couldn't help us because they didn't have room. I have to ask. When confronted with this problem, why did *you* not force yourself to take action? You had a kitten that was obviously in great distress, you knew it had to be put down and you couldn't immediately find a vet to do it. All the time and effort you spent trying to do the right thing and the kitten was suffering. A few seconds of submerging it in a sink and it's agony would have been over. Relatively quick and painless. --------- I don't necessarily dispute your premise of putting an animal out of its misery yourself. My husband once had no choice but to do this for a baby bird with a broken neck who had fallen out of its nest. He chopped off its head with a hoe. Death was instant. But drowning the kitten would not be the least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Best regards, ---Cindy S. That takes real guts and real love of animals, putting an animal down that you care for. I had to do that once to a dog I owned after she got run over by a car. The way her guts were splayed out on the road and she was still alive yelping in agony, all I could do was run to get a tire iron and crush her skull. Then I buried her in my backyard garden. I cried for over a week and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I still cry sometimes when I think of what I had to do, but I know that under the same circumstances, I'd do it again. Putting aside society's laws for a moment, if the situation was reversed, I'd want someone to do the same thing for me. That was the only way I could rationalize myself into doing what I knew I had to do. |
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"cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. |
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On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 11:52:55 -0400, Upscale wrote:
"cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. Why do you think the U.S. gov't uses simulated drowning to extract information from prisoners? Answer -- because it works. And why does it work? Answer -- because it's painful and terrifying. Charlie |
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On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 11:52:55 -0400, Upscale wrote: "cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. Why do you think the U.S. gov't uses simulated drowning to extract information from prisoners? Answer -- because it works. And why does it work? Answer -- because it's painful and terrifying. Can't see how water boarding could that be painful. Prisoner holds his breath, if he inhales, they have a problem. I don't believe they want that. It's scary thats for sure and I'm not a torture advocate. I like to swim as far as I can under water, as you run out of air, panic sets in. In the cat's case, sure the cat is scared. It's going to inhale sooner or later but I don't believe the water in the lungs is all that painful. Yes, I've breathed in water, it hurts but it's not the worst pain I've ever had. It's just water. By the time it inhales it's going to be light headed anyway. Death follows soon after. No I don't want to try it. When you have a cat with it's guts hanging out, what's more painful, the trip to the vet or 5 minutes under water? I thought it was common practice to put down dogs thru suffocation? Nasty subject anyway... |
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On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:30:48 -0400, Dan Espen wrote:
When you have a cat with it's guts hanging out, what's more painful, the trip to the vet or 5 minutes under water? I don't know. If I had to euthenize a cat without drugs, my first choice would be to shoot it in the back of the head, using a rifle or handgun, and my second choice would be to strangle it with a cord. Charlie |
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"Charlie Wilkes" wrote in message
... On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 11:52:55 -0400, Upscale wrote: Why do you think the U.S. gov't uses simulated drowning to extract information from prisoners? Answer -- because it works. And why does it work? Answer -- because it's painful and terrifying. Charlie The government currently uses tactics which violate the Geneva convention because we have a despicable worm as President who has brought shame on the office and on the nation as a whole. If anyone should be tortured it is Bush, but lets not stray off the subject of cats. |
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"Upscale" wrote in message ... "cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. W |
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"Professor" wrote in message news:v32xi.7970$%t4.6778@trnddc03... "Charlie Wilkes" wrote in message ... On Thu, 16 Aug 2007 11:52:55 -0400, Upscale wrote: Why do you think the U.S. gov't uses simulated drowning to extract information from prisoners? Answer -- because it works. And why does it work? Answer -- because it's painful and terrifying. Charlie The government currently uses tactics which violate the Geneva convention because we have a despicable worm as President who has brought shame on the office and on the nation as a whole. If anyone should be tortured it is Bush, but lets not stray off the subject of cats. Errr.....The government was doing things like that long before Bush, but if you must Bush-bash, then be my guest. (It's not like you're alone....:^) |
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On 16 Aug, 21:53, "Wendy" wrote:
"Upscale" wrote in message ... "cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. W It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. I "know" that you did the right thing by that kitten Wendy, & so does every other person who knows you on here. I find it very tacky that others feel the need to pick over the fact that you did what was best @ that time for the kitten concerned. You have spent a long time helping kittens, cats & all manner of rescues for several years, & during that time, you have saved untold amount of cats, pregnant Queens & their litters, because of others thoughtless attitudes towards spaying & neutering their own cats. It's sad that someone feels that they have the right to come along & nit pick about what you did for that one kitten, without recognising the years that you have spent devoting your life towards saving cats & homing the most needy ( & yes, that includes me whilst I continued to breed cats too!!) If I can see this, then so can they too- I feel/ think this is selective & downright inventive. No hours, were mentioned @ all in your passage! Some are selectively choosing to see what they want to, rather than the facts in front of them. I say well done to you for doing what you could @ the time. It was no easy task & I'm certain that you found no happiness in what you had to do to put the poor mite out of it's misery. You should be thanked for what you had to do, not criticised. All I can see here is speculation, about what they "might/ or should" have done. I only agree with one of them, & only then if I had no other choice. Lets thank the powers that be that they were not faced with your agonising choices, & the poor mite wasn't in their care @ the time. You did what you had to in as short as time as was reasonably possible. You have my utter respect, it was no easy thing to have to handle, & I am so sorry that you were faced with that situation. It was a terrible position to find yourself in. Best Wishes, Sheelagh"o" |
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"Sheelagh o" wrote in message ups.com... On 16 Aug, 21:53, "Wendy" wrote: "Upscale" wrote in message ... "cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. W It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. I "know" that you did the right thing by that kitten Wendy, & so does every other person who knows you on here. I find it very tacky that others feel the need to pick over the fact that you did what was best @ that time for the kitten concerned. You have spent a long time helping kittens, cats & all manner of rescues for several years, & during that time, you have saved untold amount of cats, pregnant Queens & their litters, because of others thoughtless attitudes towards spaying & neutering their own cats. It's sad that someone feels that they have the right to come along & nit pick about what you did for that one kitten, without recognising the years that you have spent devoting your life towards saving cats & homing the most needy ( & yes, that includes me whilst I continued to breed cats too!!) If I can see this, then so can they too- I feel/ think this is selective & downright inventive. No hours, were mentioned @ all in your passage! Some are selectively choosing to see what they want to, rather than the facts in front of them. I say well done to you for doing what you could @ the time. It was no easy task & I'm certain that you found no happiness in what you had to do to put the poor mite out of it's misery. You should be thanked for what you had to do, not criticised. All I can see here is speculation, about what they "might/ or should" have done. I only agree with one of them, & only then if I had no other choice. Lets thank the powers that be that they were not faced with your agonising choices, & the poor mite wasn't in their care @ the time. You did what you had to in as short as time as was reasonably possible. You have my utter respect, it was no easy thing to have to handle, & I am so sorry that you were faced with that situation. It was a terrible position to find yourself in. Best Wishes, Sheelagh"o" This is always the hardest decision for someone to make....Our desire to wait and see if the cat recovers is so great, that it is very hard to, "give it up" and decide to put it down.....At such times, it is usually best to go with the veterinarians decision, because they don't have the emotional involvement that you are burdened with...... |
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"Sheelagh o" wrote in message ups.com... On 16 Aug, 21:53, "Wendy" wrote: "Upscale" wrote in message ... "cindys" wrote in message least bit quick or painless. Suffocating and having one's lungs fill up with water would IMO be the worst death imaginable. It would be a horrible way for the kitten to die. Possibly. But, balance the few seconds it would take to become unconscious against the hours the kitten was in agony while someone was looking for a vet to euthanize the kitten. Reverse the roles and I know which method I'd prefer to die. It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. W It wasn't hours. The SPCA was close by as was the vet who did euthanize. I "know" that you did the right thing by that kitten Wendy, & so does every other person who knows you on here. I find it very tacky that others feel the need to pick over the fact that you did what was best @ that time for the kitten concerned. ---------- For the record, I hope my remarks were not taken to be a criticism of Wendy. They were not intended to be, and I would have done the same thing as she did in her shoes. When my husband put the baby bird out of its misery, it was only because the vet's office was already closed, and we didn't want the bird to suffer late into the night only to have to die on its own. Even though death (using the hoe) was nearly instantaneous, my husband said it was a horrible experience, and he would never want to repeat it. Best regards, ---Cindy S. You have spent a long time helping kittens, cats & all manner of rescues for several years, & during that time, you have saved untold amount of cats, pregnant Queens & their litters, because of others thoughtless attitudes towards spaying & neutering their own cats. It's sad that someone feels that they have the right to come along & nit pick about what you did for that one kitten, without recognising the years that you have spent devoting your life towards saving cats & homing the most needy ( & yes, that includes me whilst I continued to breed cats too!!) If I can see this, then so can they too- I feel/ think this is selective & downright inventive. No hours, were mentioned @ all in your passage! Some are selectively choosing to see what they want to, rather than the facts in front of them. I say well done to you for doing what you could @ the time. It was no easy task & I'm certain that you found no happiness in what you had to do to put the poor mite out of it's misery. You should be thanked for what you had to do, not criticised. All I can see here is speculation, about what they "might/ or should" have done. I only agree with one of them, & only then if I had no other choice. Lets thank the powers that be that they were not faced with your agonising choices, & the poor mite wasn't in their care @ the time. You did what you had to in as short as time as was reasonably possible. You have my utter respect, it was no easy thing to have to handle, & I am so sorry that you were faced with that situation. It was a terrible position to find yourself in. Best Wishes, Sheelagh"o" |
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On Fri, 17 Aug 2007 01:45:11 -0400, cindys wrote:
For the record, I hope my remarks were not taken to be a criticism of Wendy. They were not intended to be, and I would have done the same thing as she did in her shoes. When my husband put the baby bird out of its misery, it was only because the vet's office was already closed, and we didn't want the bird to suffer late into the night only to have to die on its own. Even though death (using the hoe) was nearly instantaneous, my husband said it was a horrible experience, and he would never want to repeat it. Best regards, ---Cindy S. I live on an island where the vet is either a boat ride or a plane ride away, and there have been a couple of times when I have had to put animals down. Strangulation (for birds) or a bullet (for larger animals) are quick and painless for the animal. What your husband did with the hoe was also a humane technique. Drowning is a chicken**** way to get rid of cats. People do it out here. One time I was at a marina, and I saw a couple of guys walking down the dock with a cat in a carrier. It was a nice looking cat. I figured it was their pet and they were getting aboard a boat. I went into town and did my errands, and when I got back, I tossed something in the dumpster and there was the soaked body of this poor animal. If I'd known what those assholes were up to, I'd have offered to take the cat. Charlie |
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