From: "Cathy Friedmann"

People w/o children usually respond to other people in the manner in which
you
did. Why are you so bitter and angry?

Could it have to do w/ the fact that some people who have kids through
choice, assume that all females *must* desire them, & that to live a life
sans kids must fruitless, in more ways than one?? That the woman is not
fulfilling her obligation here on earth? Arghhhhh.


I don't suppose that. (but that's just me) If you're happy doing what you're
doing and happy w/ the choices you've made...more power to you! I just get the
feeling from reading some of your posts that you are extra sensitive about this
particular issue. That's all.

As for "fortunate", it doesn't just
"happen" to you, you have to make a decision to "have" them.

Unfortunately, it does sometimes just "happen". Ever hear of BC that
failed? Or the lack of using BC, for whatever reason (not the subconscious
wish to get pregnant, either)?

....there's still a choice there. No one spontaneously becomes pregnant. You
still have to "try" or engage in the behavior. I see your point, though!