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my cat suddenly became paraplegic. he's very old and i have little
hope of recovery. i have to manually express his bladder - he's a big
guy and i have a hard time telling what's what in his belly. i'm
afraid of hurting him or doing it too much and causing him worse
distress. does anyone have any tips or has anyone hurt their cat doing
this?


What does your vet say?