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Old October 22nd 07, 01:13 AM posted to rec.pets.cats.health+behav
CindyBreninger
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Default One cat is scared, the other ignores us.

On Oct 21, 4:54 pm, "Matthew" wrote:
"CindyBreninger"
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Sometimes the truth hurts deal with it. I also said if it is true and
sounds like.The Op asked if you were sure.

What you described is how I called it. If the shoes fits deal with the
problems if not than it was a possibility. IT happens when children live in
a home with animals. But Mommy and Daddy never want to believe it.
DO we live in your house?.
DO we know you personally?.
DO we have a video or seen the cat do what you described.

You posted your comments and from what I read I said what could be a
problem. OPs asked the same thing about your kids.

Lets see the second the kids come home she hides. Ok that happens with loud
kids.
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We find her she goes limp and hides her head. That means someone else is
with you more in likely the kids. Sounds like a problem to me that is not a
normal reaction for a cat .

Since their is no voice behind the words. How do you think people who have
done rescue work will take it what you wrote. Or are we supposed to be mind
readers. You ask why the behavior was happening not how to help deal with
it.

Please don't let the doorknob hit you where the god lord split ya if you
don't want opinions when you post.


I do want opinions, just not to be attacked and called an animal
abuser. If anything, I would never hurt an animal. We just got her
and I thought maybe something was wrong and I was worried about her.
You guys keep attacking me. I would never treat anyone as rudely as
you guys have treated me. She is a new cat, no one has hurt her. If
my kids did, they would get in a lot of trouble. They aren't really
loud as we live in an apartment and have neighbors so we try to be
respectful of them. They don't run or yell in the apartment, they go
outside to play. I would never be so rude to any of you if you were
asking my advice on how to help an animal. The cat was like that at
the place where we got her and I just wanted a few suggestions on how
to help her, not be attacked for asking for help. When we got her, it
was from a college dorm where there were several people and they said
she was the same way. Geeze, talk about making someone feel like crap
for asking for help. I won't make that mistake again. I am amazed.
If you own children or friends had the same question and wanted to
help their cat, would attack them the way you attacked me and call
them an animal abuser? It was unnecessary and rude. I don't know how
you feel, but that is very insulting and I would never hurt an animal.
I was just looking for a way to help a cat that I thought needed help.
I thought that was what this group was for-TO ASK CAT QUESTIONS AND
GET EDUCATED ANSWERS. I didn't know it was to be rude to those who
were seeking information. By the way, the cat is sitting on my
daughter's lap right now and is purring. Some days she does go limp,
but not all the time. She is happy and they are sitting on the couch
together. You don't know me or my kids so the truth does not hurt as
it is not the truth. Please don't reply if you are going to insult or
attack me. We are good people, we love our cats, and try to be nice to
people. I was just looking for a way to help her. Sorry I asked...