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Cheryl wrote:

I have started telling Bonnie she is a "good boy" because that is what I
tell Shadow and Shamrock. She doesn't know she is good girl and not good
boy. lol She responds to it.

I have special "good" phrases, one for each cat. That way they know
it's "their" special sound. Benjie is a "good boy." Sebbie is a "nice
little guy." Caley is a "sweet girlie."

Priscilla