How long ago was she spayed? If it is recent, she may smell "different" and
have the smells of the vet's office on her.
GAil
"Susanne" wrote in message
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I have two cats, one male and one female. They had one litter
together, and then I had the female spayed. After that the male
avoided her, and then seemed to turn feral, only showing up now and
then to eat and then go away again. Now he's gone altogether. Was this
behavior caused by the spaying of the female?