"Yoj" wrote:

Unfortunately, BB has already checked out all resources in Alabama,
where she lives, and has run into dead ends everywhere, other than the
help she is already getting. She is all alone there, and while she has
concerned friends, they have their own lives and are not able to do much
more than shop for her and take her to the doctor. Because of her
Alzheimer's, she doesn't feel able to carry on the long, complicated
phone conversations that would be involved in trying to get more help.

You're so nice to check up on her! It sounds like she has a lot of
things to deal with, with medical and financial stuff, family,
kitties, and Alzheimer's must make it even harder.