"cybercat" wrote in message
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"MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote

Bringing the conversation back down to earth...A suggestion to seek a
second opinion is actually wise advice. We are not suggesting that you
go "vet searching" and seek opinion after opinion. But, just like with
humans, it is good practice to get a second opinion when the first vet
seems to be having difficulty. It is possible that the second vet will
also diagnose inner ear infection, but it is *also* possible that the
second vet will find something that was originally overlooked. This does
not necessarily mean that your current vet did not do a good job. None
of us are perfect, and there are numerous instances when even a small
change in protocol can locate new information. And you are thinking
about the ultimate, final decision--killing your cat. I really cannot
understand doing that without at least seeking a second opinion, and
especially for something that is usually as treatable as inner ear
infection.

I know I react emotionally and in ways some people find, err, offensive,
but there it is. I find it offensive that anyone would consider
euthanizing when there are still paths to pursue and they are not even
that expensive. To me it is common sense and a normal heart to do so.
Anything else ****es me off. Thanks for being a calm voice, MaryL. I am
sure I will not change, so I kill file to try to keep the flames to a
minimum. I actually don't enjoy getting upset at this kind of thing, or
anything, in fact. I have a feeling this cat is a goner, for the very
reason that it has suffered for this long without Kelly taking it to
another vet. That she could just sit there. FFS. Okay, time to wrap it up.


Yes, I guess it's time to wrap it up simply because I fear that you are
correct. I can't imagine digging my heels in an absolutely refusing to seek
a second opinion simply based on the determination that "it's easy to
diagnose" inner ear infection and therefore supposedly could not be
mistaken. Ironically, it would not cost any more for a second opinion that
it costs to continually go back to the original vet (assuming that the OP
picks up a copy of the cat's records to take to a second vet).

MaryL