"BLOGGZPOT" wrote

I have an issue with this vet -i really think he's out of
his depth and probably more used to dealing with cows and horses than
cats

Sounds like your assessment is accurate, to me.

but he's the only one for miles.
So, she's back home, face still swollen and i'm trying to get her to
drink or eat but she'll only 'drink' mushed up tuna mixed with water.
It looks like she may be incontinent as she peed in the car on the way
home which is not like her and she looks totally depressed.

How were her vitals at the vet, did he say?