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I don't know about you, but...
I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping
commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill |
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I don't know about you, but...
"jmcquown" wrote in message ... I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill Agreed walked in Wally world and they had it looks at lot like Christmas playing. I started to LOL not here in Florida ;-) |
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I don't know about you, but...
"jmcquown" wrote in message
... I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill I love Christmas, but I don't want to start thinking about it until after Thanksgiving. It seems the promotions get earlier every year. I saw many Christmas items in the stores a week before Halloween! Our local outdoor mall had its Christmas tree lighting ceremony last week, for pete's sake! Joy |
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I don't know about you, but...
On 11/16/2011 1:34 PM, hopitus wrote:
Growing up in south FL the only inkling we had of where live holiday trees came down to us from was the huge semi trailers arriving to the "stands" and retailers who sold them; we used to sneak into the trailers and grab snow off the floors and trees, make snowballs out of it (of course we had no idea what we were doing with that) and throw them at each other before the driver or store employees chased us out. FL has no concept of "choose and cut down your own" like more northern states; those trees don't thrive in the FL heat. I do remember that when it neared the holiday, kind tree-stand sellers would gruffly tell people looking but not able to buy their wares, "pick one out, no charge" or actually beckon parents to take a tree (all trees were beginning to lose their needles from standing in, yeah, the FL warmth, and were beyond much further appealing appearance for decorating) to great delight of kids. For no reason I am aware of, most of the semis had MI and PA plates. Tree farms. Yeah, growing up in the south at Christmas time really sucked as a child. Sorry, I enjoy both the displays and the familiar tunes of the season and don't resent the "buy, buy, buy" retail message; this is - in continuing rotten economy - main and only opportunity for profit-making from an event-based time frame. It's why the day after Thanksgiving is called "Black Friday" - it's usually the first time in the year that manufacturing companies actually start to turn a profit and aren't "in the red" any more. Every bad "Black Friday" drags the economy down more and more so I, for one, am glad that there are people still willing and able to "throw away" money for all the silliness. On a less financial outlook, when I was working over the years, a strange phenomenen occurred over and over with patients I would be working on who had potentially lethal diseases; during holiday season they would suddenly inform me (a uniformed medical employee they had never set eyes on before) "I just want to last till (either of the two biggie holidays) and enjoy it one more time". People get sentimental over it all and since I moved to this frozen cultural wasteland to be with my remaining relatives I'm gonna live it up with them all, eating unwisely, and my single Drambouie shot at both get-togethers. All annoyed to any extent, for any reasons, by the sights and sounds lately, "Que lastima, probecito/a!" "Feliz Navidad!" So sue me; my biggest asset is gray, weighs 28#, and bites when the mood strikes him. And contrary to popular beliefs, the suicide rate does not rise during the holidays. Christmas always made me sad because of all the stuff I didn't have - not really material things (though honesty must admit that I was and am a bit envious of all those who had every latest toy and gadget and seemed so blase about it all). It was what I lacked in love and family. My dad died when I was four and my mother was SO dysfunctional I was actually the parent in the relationship. My brothers were WAY older than me and we never visited aunts or uncles so I didn't know them, and I had not a single friend, literally, in the world except my little black cat (that my mother wouldn't let in the house so had to be sneaked in). I often woke up all alone in the house to open my one present (one was a little box record player (I fleetingly wished for a "HiFi")) which was sitting all alone under the gawds-awful silver, made-of-tinsel "Christmas tree" (with a limited number of branches you stuck into holes cut into the middle stick) that had a revolving colored tinted light shining on it from the side and only red and blue plain glass balls - GAGGGG!). My mom was at my neighbors who had two parents and four kids and lots of excitement and presents, so she found some comfort there. I really kind of understood though... it's what she needed to cope and coping to us meant her being able to function at work when she was all alone in the world with two teen-aged boys and a too-smart-for-her-britches little brat. It's why my first Christmas tree on my own (and ever since until putting up a tree became too expensive and too hard physically for me to do, and nobody but Ben and I saw it after the kids stopped taking the trip here from New Orleans... gawds, I miss it though) was a real, thick, tall spruce, which we garnished with strings of one day old popped corn (fresh always falls apart too easily) and strings of cranberries (what a mess), peppermint candy canes, THICK strands of garland (no tinsel because there were always cats and yes there was always a cat-made disaster every year, but that was part of the tradition too), home-made ornaments, special antique ornament's I'd buy, one per year, in the French Market in N'Awlins, child-made strings of looped construction paper, red velvet bows, a special ornament for each child, engraved every year, ALWAYS a tiny pair of painted Dutch wooden shoes strung together that my dad had brought home from WWII (the best gift my mother ever, EVER gave me besides life), a beautiful angel in a star on top, TONS of colored strings of lights (a new string or two was added every year and carefully put back light by light on its cardboard carrier), and on and on. Here's a picture of one when Sammy(RB) was still "little" (snork) - viewing this page made me cry again, but the tears are becoming more and more healing (or so I tell myself). http://www.possibleplaces.com/Christmas/ And for those who haven't read it, here's one of my "With Mommy" stories about putting up the Christmas tree (the only exaggeration is that I don't (can't, have never) drink. It's one of my favorite "With Mommy" stories. http://www.possibleplaces.com/CatNip...Mommy.asp#Nine Gawds, that was long and a bit cathartic, sorry and thank you for those who bore with me (or were bored by me) to this point. Anyway, now-a-days we convert to Judaism every December and revert to heathens every New Year's Eve. [Sorry, no intent to offend any with religious beliefs, it was a poor joke only.] -- Hugs, CatNipped See all our masters at: http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped See the RPCA FAQ site, created by "Yowie", maintained by Mark Edwards, at: http://www.professional-geek.net/rpcablog/ Email: L(dot)T(dot)Crews(at)comcast(dot)net |
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I don't know about you, but...
On Nov 16, 8:45*am, "jmcquown" wrote:
I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. *We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. *I promised him we could have a tree. *(I wonder what Persia will think of that?) *I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. *I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). *But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. *It's so commercial. *Buy, buy, buy! *Layaway! *No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. *The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door.. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. *Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. *And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. *I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. *Sorry Mom, Dad. *I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill It's okay with me if the retailers start early. I don't get caught up in all of it anyway. I like all the Christmas trappings except for....crowds and the scarcity of good parking places. I love Christmas music. Time to get out everything from Johnny Mathis to TSO. I don't put the tree up this early. Good grief. I'd be sick of it by Dec. 1. Sherry Sherry |
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I don't know about you, but...
On Nov 16, 9:45*am, "jmcquown" wrote:
I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. *We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. *I promised him we could have a tree. *(I wonder what Persia will think of that?) *I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. *I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). *But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. *It's so commercial. *Buy, buy, buy! *Layaway! *No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. *The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door.. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. *Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. *And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. *I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. *Sorry Mom, Dad. *I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill Before I adopted Rusty (RB), I got a tree for Christmas. But I did not get a tree after I had Rusty. Nor did I get any poinsettia. The only decoration was a wreath on my door. Now that Rusty is gone, I do not feel like getting a tree again. I did get a pot of poinsettia last year. The first one in 15 years. We Canadians already have our Thanksgiving in October, so the stores now are really into Christmas. The only problem is since there is no snow yet, many people do not feel like shopping for Christmas Winnie |
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I don't know about you, but...
On 17/11/2011 6:34 AM, hopitus wrote:
On Nov 16, 8:38 am, "Matthew" wrote: "jmcquown wrote I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill Agreed walked in Wally world and they had it looks at lot like Christmas playing. I started to LOL not here in Florida ;-) Growing up in south FL the only inkling we had of where live holiday trees came down to us from was the huge semi trailers arriving to the "stands" and retailers who sold them; we used to sneak into the trailers and grab snow off the floors and trees, make snowballs out of it (of course we had no idea what we were doing with that) and throw them at each other before the driver or store employees chased us out. FL has no concept of "choose and cut down your own" like more northern states; those trees don't thrive in the FL heat. I do remember that when it neared the holiday, kind tree-stand sellers would gruffly tell people looking but not able to buy their wares, "pick one out, no charge" or actually beckon parents to take a tree (all trees were beginning to lose their needles from standing in, yeah, the FL warmth, and were beyond much further appealing appearance for decorating) to great delight of kids. For no reason I am aware of, most of the semis had MI and PA plates. Tree farms. Sorry, I enjoy both the displays and the familiar tunes of the season and don't resent the "buy, buy, buy" retail message; this is - in continuing rotten economy - main and only opportunity for profit-making from an event-based time frame. On a less financial outlook, when I was working over the years, a strange phenomenen occurred over and over with patients I would be working on who had potentially lethal diseases; during holiday season they would suddenly inform me (a uniformed medical employee they had never set eyes on before) "I just want to last till (either of the two biggie holidays) and enjoy it one more time". People get sentimental over it all and since I moved to this frozen cultural wasteland to be with my remaining relatives I'm gonna live it up with them all, eating unwisely, and my single Drambouie shot at both get-togethers. All annoyed to any extent, for any reasons, by the sights and sounds lately, "Que lastima, probecito/a!" "Feliz Navidad!" So sue me; my biggest asset is gray, weighs 28#, and bites when the mood strikes him. At least its still technically winter in Florida. Think of us poor saps in the southern hemisphere! I've had many a Christmas day at over 40C (100F). Not coincidentally, plastic trees are the way to go here. The imagery of Christmas just doesn't work here. Snow, long nights, people wrapped up, roasts withall the trappings, hotpuddings etc etc. Perhaps if I was truly a native here I wouldn't notice. But even though I can't remember a Christmas in England (came to Australia when I was 4.5), I was raised by people who mourned the lack of wintery things. Ive always promised myself I'd spend at least one Christmas in the northern hemisphere at high enough latitudes there's be snow on the ground. With global warming, I'd better hurry up! Yowie |
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Winnie wrote:
On Nov 16, 9:45*am, "jmcquown" wrote: I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. *We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. *I promised him we could have a tree. *(I wonder what Persia will think of that?) *I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. *I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). *But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. *It's so commercial. *Buy, buy, buy! *Layaway! *No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. *The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. *Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. *And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. *I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. *Sorry Mom, Dad. *I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill Before I adopted Rusty (RB), I got a tree for Christmas. But I did not get a tree after I had Rusty. Nor did I get any poinsettia. The only decoration was a wreath on my door. Now that Rusty is gone, I do not feel like getting a tree again. I did get a pot of poinsettia last year. The first one in 15 years. We Canadians already have our Thanksgiving in October, so the stores now are really into Christmas. The only problem is since there is no snow yet, many people do not feel like shopping for Christmas We never have snow! (I'm sure you remember that.) After 19 years, I still feel like a green Christmas is just *wrong*. But I guess Yowie and Tish and others have a bigger complaint. It may not snow here, but at least it's not swimming weather! -- Joyce Fluffy Mackerel Pudding - "Once upon a time, the world was young and the words 'mackerel' and 'pudding' existed far, far away from one another. One day, that all changed. And then, whoever was responsible somehow thought the word 'fluffy' would help." -- Hilarious recipes at: www.candyboots.com |
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"Yowie" wrote in message ... On 17/11/2011 6:34 AM, hopitus wrote: On Nov 16, 8:38 am, "Matthew" wrote: "jmcquown wrote I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill Agreed walked in Wally world and they had it looks at lot like Christmas playing. I started to LOL not here in Florida ;-) Growing up in south FL the only inkling we had of where live holiday trees came down to us from was the huge semi trailers arriving to the "stands" and retailers who sold them; we used to sneak into the trailers and grab snow off the floors and trees, make snowballs out of it (of course we had no idea what we were doing with that) and throw them at each other before the driver or store employees chased us out. FL has no concept of "choose and cut down your own" like more northern states; those trees don't thrive in the FL heat. I do remember that when it neared the holiday, kind tree-stand sellers would gruffly tell people looking but not able to buy their wares, "pick one out, no charge" or actually beckon parents to take a tree (all trees were beginning to lose their needles from standing in, yeah, the FL warmth, and were beyond much further appealing appearance for decorating) to great delight of kids. For no reason I am aware of, most of the semis had MI and PA plates. Tree farms. Sorry, I enjoy both the displays and the familiar tunes of the season and don't resent the "buy, buy, buy" retail message; this is - in continuing rotten economy - main and only opportunity for profit-making from an event-based time frame. On a less financial outlook, when I was working over the years, a strange phenomenen occurred over and over with patients I would be working on who had potentially lethal diseases; during holiday season they would suddenly inform me (a uniformed medical employee they had never set eyes on before) "I just want to last till (either of the two biggie holidays) and enjoy it one more time". People get sentimental over it all and since I moved to this frozen cultural wasteland to be with my remaining relatives I'm gonna live it up with them all, eating unwisely, and my single Drambouie shot at both get-togethers. All annoyed to any extent, for any reasons, by the sights and sounds lately, "Que lastima, probecito/a!" "Feliz Navidad!" So sue me; my biggest asset is gray, weighs 28#, and bites when the mood strikes him. At least its still technically winter in Florida. Nope. It's not technically winter in the US (north or south) until December 22nd. I'd like to see the changing of the leaves again. Everything is perpetually green here. It's boring. Think of us poor saps in the southern hemisphere! I've had many a Christmas day at over 40C (100F). Not coincidentally, plastic trees are the way to go here. The imagery of Christmas just doesn't work here. Snow, long nights, people wrapped up, roasts withall the trappings, hotpuddings etc etc. Perhaps if I was truly a native here I wouldn't notice. But even though I can't remember a Christmas in England (came to Australia when I was 4.5), I was raised by people who mourned the lack of wintery things. I mourn the lack of wintery things. (laughing) At least in Tennessee sometimes I saw snow. Not often, but sometimes. And I have a closet full of pretty winter coats. There's no need for them here. Ive always promised myself I'd spend at least one Christmas in the northern hemisphere at high enough latitudes there's be snow on the ground. With global warming, I'd better hurry up! Go for it! Jill |
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On 11/16/2011 9:45 AM, jmcquown wrote:
I'm sick to death already of seeing Christmas movies, Christmas shopping commercials, etc. when it's not even American Thanksgiving yet. We're barely past Halloween! John will be here over Christmas. I promised him we could have a tree. (I wonder what Persia will think of that?) I haven't put up a Christmas tree in 30 years. I have antique glass ornaments my parents stored in the attic (if the heat didn't shatter them). But all this early Christmas stuff on television is making me remember why I hate the "holiday" in general. It's so commercial. Buy, buy, buy! Layaway! No, we aren't going to exchange gifts. The only reason I agreed to put up a tree is because John wants one. For many years my nod to the holiday has been to hang a wreath on my door. Now I'm going to have to move Persia's pet steps at the window in the dining room to make room for a live tree. Obviously we won't have tinsel on the tree. And the only thing in the water at the tree base will be sugar. I'll use my wooden and fabric ornaments; things she can't break if she decides to bat at them. Sorry Mom, Dad. I won't be using your glass ornaments. Christmas isn't even here and already I'm tired of it. Jill This past Thursday I went to Kohl's to buy some jeans and undies for both myself and hubby - I had headphones on listening to Pandora's comedy channel. When I went in I heard music, but I ignored it, and did my shopping in peaceful bliss laughing my @$$ off to George Carlin, Lewis Black, Daniel Tosh (he of Comedy Central's Tosh.0) to name a few. I didn't take my headphones off until I was checking out (call me rude if you want, but I was minding my own business to begin with)... the music I could barely hear and had been ignoring the whole time was CHRISTMAS MUSIC.... and it was being blasted OUTSIDE THE STORE AS WELL (our Kohl's is a stand-alone - not attached to any other buildings but near a few strip malls)... EGADS!!!! It was November 10!!!! I vowed not to go in there until next year! -- ^..^ This is Kitty. Copy and paste Kitty into your signature to help her wipe out Bunny's world domination. -- The ONE and ONLY lefthanded-pathetic-paranoid-psychotic-sarcastic-wiseass-ditzy former-blonde in Bloomington! (And proud of it, too)© email me at nalee1964 (at) comcast (dot) net http://community.webshots.com/user/mgcmdjeep |
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