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Nocturnal howler.
I've been lurking here for several months. I'm hoping you have some
suggestions for my nocturnal howler. He's a great animal. He's a neutered male about 2 years old (neutered at an early age) loving, playful, affectionate etc. no litter box issues either. He is an indoor only cat. But he yells all night long and I am at the end of my rope. I adopted him as a stray cat in February. Since he was microchipped, I found his owner after he showed up at my door, and I know a little bit about his story. Poor Spike (I wanted a tough dog name for such a loving cat). He has had a tough life. He was adopted out of our local shelter at about 4 months of age, by a woman who had 4 kids and 3 other cats. I don't know if any of the other cats were litter mates or not. She had to move from her apartment and gave him away to a neighbor. He got lost from the neighbors house and returned to the original owner, because of his microchip.The priganl owner didn't have the contact info for the new owner so she kept him. She was living with her sister, about 2 blocks from my house. The sister also had a number of animals, and Spike was just put outside with the rest of the cats. He was previously an indoor only cat so he wandered off to my house, wormed his way in and now is a part of the family. He's been in our house for 8 months now. At first he was an utter angel. slept on the foot of the bed all night through. But about 2 months after we got him, he started chirping at 5 am. sometimes he wailed a bit. Thinking he was stressed (he's an anxious little cat) I bought feliway plug in and feliway spray. We also started ignoring him completely when he yelled and the behaviour improved after about 6 days. Unfortunately we had a 3 week vacation scheduled around that time that had been planned since before we had the cat. We had 2 friends come a live at our place to look after him, but he kept them awake all night. Now that we are back he's still at it. it has been a couple of months. Typically he vocalizes quite a bit during the day, but it is the night time that is problematic. He is up in the windowns "on patrol" most of the day and night. He will start chirping which escalates to full on howling 3 -4 times a night. We we have tried isolating him in another room (yells constantly instead of just intermittently, ad is really upset at being kept from the people), keeping him awake all day, (didn't work and no longer practical since we are both back at work now), yelling no! when he vocalizes, squirting him with water when he vocalizes etc and ignoring him. no sucess. He's been to the vet, was checked for urinary problems, and he doesn't have any, she doesn't think he could be hyperthyroid since he's less than 2 years of age. She suggested a short course of Paxil just to break the behaviour, so we tried 2.5 mg, which sedated him for 24 hours and greatly depressed his appetite. (I know you guys don't like drugs, but I haven't slept in a month and I'm going out of my mind). We have gone to 1.25 mg of Paxil on alternate days, which has not yet worked but it is too early to tell and we may need to increase the dose. So what to do? Any of you have any addition suggestions? I'm a lifetime cat owner, but I'm running out of thoughts. I could get him a friend, I think he misses the other cats from his old house, since when ever he sees the neigbour cat he gets very excited. I could let him out during the day, but I really don't want to do that. So? any ideas? Sorry this is so long and thanks so much in advance Sue |
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Sue wrote:
I could get him a friend, I think he misses the other cats from his old house, since when ever he sees the neigbour cat he gets very excited. Yes! This is the best solution. Since he is a young active male your best bet is to get another male about the same age or younger with a similar temperament. All my boy cats have buddied up with other boys and while some of my females and males are sweet together, the girls generally don't like the roughhousing that the boys do. If you choose a buddy for him carefully with these things in mind, you and your cat will be happier for it! :-) Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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Sue wrote:
I could get him a friend, I think he misses the other cats from his old house, since when ever he sees the neigbour cat he gets very excited. Yes! This is the best solution. Since he is a young active male your best bet is to get another male about the same age or younger with a similar temperament. All my boy cats have buddied up with other boys and while some of my females and males are sweet together, the girls generally don't like the roughhousing that the boys do. If you choose a buddy for him carefully with these things in mind, you and your cat will be happier for it! :-) Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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"Sue" a écrit dans le message de news: ... I've been lurking here for several months. I'm hoping you have some suggestions for my nocturnal howler. He's a great animal. He's a neutered male about 2 years old (neutered at an early age) loving, playful, affectionate etc. no litter box issues either. He is an indoor only cat. But he yells all night long and I am at the end of my rope. I adopted him as a stray cat in February. Since he was microchipped, I found his owner after he showed up at my door, and I know a little bit about his story. Poor Spike (I wanted a tough dog name for such a loving cat). He has had a tough life. He was adopted out of our local shelter at about 4 months of age, by a woman who had 4 kids and 3 other cats. I don't know if any of the other cats were litter mates or not. She had to move from her apartment and gave him away to a neighbor. He got lost from the neighbors house and returned to the original owner, because of his microchip.The priganl owner didn't have the contact info for the new owner so she kept him. She was living with her sister, about 2 blocks from my house. The sister also had a number of animals, and Spike was just put outside with the rest of the cats. He was previously an indoor only cat so he wandered off to my house, wormed his way in and now is a part of the family. He's been in our house for 8 months now. At first he was an utter angel. slept on the foot of the bed all night through. But about 2 months after we got him, he started chirping at 5 am. sometimes he wailed a bit. Thinking he was stressed (he's an anxious little cat) I bought feliway plug in and feliway spray. We also started ignoring him completely when he yelled and the behaviour improved after about 6 days. Unfortunately we had a 3 week vacation scheduled around that time that had been planned since before we had the cat. We had 2 friends come a live at our place to look after him, but he kept them awake all night. Now that we are back he's still at it. it has been a couple of months. Typically he vocalizes quite a bit during the day, but it is the night time that is problematic. He is up in the windowns "on patrol" most of the day and night. He will start chirping which escalates to full on howling 3 -4 times a night. We we have tried isolating him in another room (yells constantly instead of just intermittently, ad is really upset at being kept from the people), keeping him awake all day, (didn't work and no longer practical since we are both back at work now), yelling no! when he vocalizes, squirting him with water when he vocalizes etc and ignoring him. no sucess. He's been to the vet, was checked for urinary problems, and he doesn't have any, she doesn't think he could be hyperthyroid since he's less than 2 years of age. She suggested a short course of Paxil just to break the behaviour, so we tried 2.5 mg, which sedated him for 24 hours and greatly depressed his appetite. (I know you guys don't like drugs, but I haven't slept in a month and I'm going out of my mind). We have gone to 1.25 mg of Paxil on alternate days, which has not yet worked but it is too early to tell and we may need to increase the dose. In humans, Paxil only show effect after several weeks of consuming, wich make me wonder about that "short course" you said. I don't understand this jumping one dose to another before even seeing the effects (other than the side effects, wich are also *effects* of the drug, lets not forget) Doctors say its soft and not too toxic, but take it yourself for 6 months and then try to go off it (even slowly) and you will see just how much it perturbated your system!! I wouldn't give a pet this junk. Do you entertain your cat alot in the daytime having a cat tree and playstuff and do you have an outdoor enclosure? I can tell you that cats can be awake and active for a good 6 hours a day. Another cat may be great but you'd want to ask the previous owner (the sister) just how social he was with the other cats to help you get an idea first. Cats like to hunt in the early hours, and yours probably suffers from boredom. That comes with the "indoor" territory and you obviously have to find methods of adjustment. Giving paxil is saying "shut up and let me sleep", wich might solve your problem, but not his. Elaine. -- My cats: http://www.PictureTrail.com/gid906206 Article français sur le dégriffage http://chakashiva.tripod.com/degriffage.index.htm |
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"Sue" a écrit dans le message de news: ... I've been lurking here for several months. I'm hoping you have some suggestions for my nocturnal howler. He's a great animal. He's a neutered male about 2 years old (neutered at an early age) loving, playful, affectionate etc. no litter box issues either. He is an indoor only cat. But he yells all night long and I am at the end of my rope. I adopted him as a stray cat in February. Since he was microchipped, I found his owner after he showed up at my door, and I know a little bit about his story. Poor Spike (I wanted a tough dog name for such a loving cat). He has had a tough life. He was adopted out of our local shelter at about 4 months of age, by a woman who had 4 kids and 3 other cats. I don't know if any of the other cats were litter mates or not. She had to move from her apartment and gave him away to a neighbor. He got lost from the neighbors house and returned to the original owner, because of his microchip.The priganl owner didn't have the contact info for the new owner so she kept him. She was living with her sister, about 2 blocks from my house. The sister also had a number of animals, and Spike was just put outside with the rest of the cats. He was previously an indoor only cat so he wandered off to my house, wormed his way in and now is a part of the family. He's been in our house for 8 months now. At first he was an utter angel. slept on the foot of the bed all night through. But about 2 months after we got him, he started chirping at 5 am. sometimes he wailed a bit. Thinking he was stressed (he's an anxious little cat) I bought feliway plug in and feliway spray. We also started ignoring him completely when he yelled and the behaviour improved after about 6 days. Unfortunately we had a 3 week vacation scheduled around that time that had been planned since before we had the cat. We had 2 friends come a live at our place to look after him, but he kept them awake all night. Now that we are back he's still at it. it has been a couple of months. Typically he vocalizes quite a bit during the day, but it is the night time that is problematic. He is up in the windowns "on patrol" most of the day and night. He will start chirping which escalates to full on howling 3 -4 times a night. We we have tried isolating him in another room (yells constantly instead of just intermittently, ad is really upset at being kept from the people), keeping him awake all day, (didn't work and no longer practical since we are both back at work now), yelling no! when he vocalizes, squirting him with water when he vocalizes etc and ignoring him. no sucess. He's been to the vet, was checked for urinary problems, and he doesn't have any, she doesn't think he could be hyperthyroid since he's less than 2 years of age. She suggested a short course of Paxil just to break the behaviour, so we tried 2.5 mg, which sedated him for 24 hours and greatly depressed his appetite. (I know you guys don't like drugs, but I haven't slept in a month and I'm going out of my mind). We have gone to 1.25 mg of Paxil on alternate days, which has not yet worked but it is too early to tell and we may need to increase the dose. In humans, Paxil only show effect after several weeks of consuming, wich make me wonder about that "short course" you said. I don't understand this jumping one dose to another before even seeing the effects (other than the side effects, wich are also *effects* of the drug, lets not forget) Doctors say its soft and not too toxic, but take it yourself for 6 months and then try to go off it (even slowly) and you will see just how much it perturbated your system!! I wouldn't give a pet this junk. Do you entertain your cat alot in the daytime having a cat tree and playstuff and do you have an outdoor enclosure? I can tell you that cats can be awake and active for a good 6 hours a day. Another cat may be great but you'd want to ask the previous owner (the sister) just how social he was with the other cats to help you get an idea first. Cats like to hunt in the early hours, and yours probably suffers from boredom. That comes with the "indoor" territory and you obviously have to find methods of adjustment. Giving paxil is saying "shut up and let me sleep", wich might solve your problem, but not his. Elaine. -- My cats: http://www.PictureTrail.com/gid906206 Article français sur le dégriffage http://chakashiva.tripod.com/degriffage.index.htm |
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dgk wrote: On Thu, 9 Oct 2003 13:54:33 -0500 (CDT), wrote: Sue wrote: I could get him a friend, I think he misses the other cats from his old house, since when ever he sees the neigbour cat he gets very excited. Yes! This is the best solution. Since he is a young active male your best bet is to get another male about the same age or younger with a similar temperament. All my boy cats have buddied up with other boys and while some of my females and males are sweet together, the girls generally don't like the roughhousing that the boys do. If you choose a buddy for him carefully with these things in mind, you and your cat will be happier for it! :-) Megan Yep, that's the answer. Get him a buddy. Lots more in the shelters. That is what I have been thinking too. Gender? Age? Megan suggested a male but I had a neutered male who was a sprayer, (this was before the days of feliway), so I'm concerned about getting a male. I haven't ruled it out though. I've always had female cats before mr. ****er (and now Spike) and no problems, (my last one was with me for 17 years), so I was thinking about getting a young palyful female maybe about a year old to keep him company. I don't have a great need to adopt a kitten, when young adult cats are so much harder to get adopted out of the shelters. But would a younger animal ie a kitten be better for integrating with him? Spike isn't a very dominant animal, so I want to make sure I don't get soemone who is going to either beat him up or ignore him. |
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dgk wrote: On Thu, 9 Oct 2003 13:54:33 -0500 (CDT), wrote: Sue wrote: I could get him a friend, I think he misses the other cats from his old house, since when ever he sees the neigbour cat he gets very excited. Yes! This is the best solution. Since he is a young active male your best bet is to get another male about the same age or younger with a similar temperament. All my boy cats have buddied up with other boys and while some of my females and males are sweet together, the girls generally don't like the roughhousing that the boys do. If you choose a buddy for him carefully with these things in mind, you and your cat will be happier for it! :-) Megan Yep, that's the answer. Get him a buddy. Lots more in the shelters. That is what I have been thinking too. Gender? Age? Megan suggested a male but I had a neutered male who was a sprayer, (this was before the days of feliway), so I'm concerned about getting a male. I haven't ruled it out though. I've always had female cats before mr. ****er (and now Spike) and no problems, (my last one was with me for 17 years), so I was thinking about getting a young palyful female maybe about a year old to keep him company. I don't have a great need to adopt a kitten, when young adult cats are so much harder to get adopted out of the shelters. But would a younger animal ie a kitten be better for integrating with him? Spike isn't a very dominant animal, so I want to make sure I don't get soemone who is going to either beat him up or ignore him. |
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"Sue" wrote in message ... Gender? Age? Megan suggested a male but I had a neutered male who was a sprayer, (this was before the days of feliway), so I'm concerned about getting a male. I haven't ruled it out though. Was he a sprayer before he was neutered? If so, that is probably the answer. It is possible for a neutered male to begin spraying afterwards, but it is much less common. I have a neutered male and spayed female right now, and they are great. However, I would bow to Megan's advice if I were setting out to deliberately select a cat as a companion for another cat -- she has years of experience with large numbers of cats. I have "picked her brain" on a number of occasions when I had questions, and her advice has always been excellent. MaryL (take out the litter to reply) Photos of Duffy and Holly: 'o' http://tinyurl.com/8y54 (Introducing Duffy to Holly) http://tinyurl.com/8y56 (Duffy and Holly "settle in") |
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