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Work is driving my out of my mind.
I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo |
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Jofirey wrote:
I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. I'm sorry the past has come back to haunt you like this. Many calming purrs on the way. -- Marina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki. |
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Is there a group in your area that volunteers to help seniors with tax
stuff? This sounds more complicated but maybe one of them could help. "Jofirey" wrote in message ... Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo |
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It involves a corporate return that wasn't prepared or filed a couple
of years ago. At least as far as I can tell. Unfortunately they wouldn't touch it. Jo "Granby" wrote in message ... Is there a group in your area that volunteers to help seniors with tax stuff? This sounds more complicated but maybe one of them could help. "Jofirey" wrote in message ... Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo |
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Jofirey wrote:
Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo Purrs on the way. I certainly don't envy your position, you're just too nice to say no. -- Adrian (Owned by Snoopy, Bagheera & Shadow) Cats leave pawprints on your heart http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk |
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Jo, you are so sweet to help. I hope the folks can get the help they need
elsewhere and you will all be relieved! Purrs of comfort. Charleen "Jofirey" wrote in message ... Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo |
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Jofirey wrote:
Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo A little late but I hope you got some rest! I know you wanted to help but sometimes you just can't. What a mess. Those poor people! Could someone from the IRS be assigned to work with them? That was suggested to me after the highly questionable "tax person" my parents had used finally gave me all of the 2007 paperwork back. The woman I spoke with was extremely helpful when I had questions about one of the forms. Jill |
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Jofirey wrote:
I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Lots and lots of purrs. Remember that your first priority ought to be your wellbeing. -- Victor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM) Send your spam he Email me he |
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Jofirey wrote:
Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Purrs for it to get sorted- are there any people you know from your working days who might be able to help? Lesley Slave of the Fabulous Furballs -- Message posted via http://www.catkb.com |
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"Jofirey" wrote in message
... Work is driving my out of my mind. I know. I'm retired, on disability since 2003. Work is supposed to be a distant memory. But I'm anxious and upset and can't seem to shake it, so I could really use some calming purrs. A former accounting and tax client came to see me about a problem that developed after I quit doing their work. It seems they neglected to replace me due to various and sundry problems of their own. Now these are really sweet people that I did work for many years. They are also now retired and he has Alzheimer's. I would really like to be able to help them. I spent all afternoon trying to dig what records I did have for them out of my computer. I'm exhausted and my nerves are shot. I simply can't handle this sort of work anymore. Even trying to figure it out has me sick to my stomach. Tomorrow I have to explain that to them the best way I know how. I can't even make a few phone calls on their behalf since I can't hear to use the phone. And besides they have no money any more to pay someone else. I know I won't sleep tonight. I hope I can sleep tomorrow night. Jo Soothing purrs on the way. I know you know this already, but... it's not your responsibility to pull them out of the hole that they dug for themselves. I know you like them and feel sorry for them, but it was their failure to hire someone after you retired that got them into this mess - not you. Just explain to them that you no longer have the resources to help them, that you are not a working accountant any more and they should see about getting another accountant or going to legal aid if they can't afford one. Nose Kisses, CatNipped |
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