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Yet Another cat?
I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away.
They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? |
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dgk wrote:
Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? The short answer: No. The longer answer: It depends on how you view your house in relation to your pets. We currently have six cats and two dogs. We have half a dozen litterboxes around the house as well as several feeding stations wit dry food and water. That said, cat hair in everything is a way of life. We buy ratty old furniture (rental returns) and when the chairs have been shredded buy new ones. Most of the moldings have been reduced to splinters as high as the tallest cat can reach. Doesn't bother us. We have no family to visit, very few friends. I'll probably die in this house then the repairs will be someone else's problem. We used to do rescue work and have had as many as a dozen adults in a 2000 square foot house at one time. They all got along, though we did have to start closing the door to the bedroom else we would 've been pushed off the bed. Then there's the matter of vet bills and the cost of food and litter. Truth be told, I'm looking forward to attrition thinning the herd a bit, especially or old diabetic, but they haven't been any real trouble. Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Probably. Don't care. |
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On Wed, 26 Dec 2007 11:30:01 -0500, Richard Evans
wrote: dgk wrote: Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? The short answer: No. The longer answer: It depends on how you view your house in relation to your pets. We currently have six cats and two dogs. We have half a dozen litterboxes around the house as well as several feeding stations wit dry food and water. That said, cat hair in everything is a way of life. We buy ratty old furniture (rental returns) and when the chairs have been shredded buy new ones. Most of the moldings have been reduced to splinters as high as the tallest cat can reach. Doesn't bother us. We have no family to visit, very few friends. I'll probably die in this house then the repairs will be someone else's problem. We used to do rescue work and have had as many as a dozen adults in a 2000 square foot house at one time. They all got along, though we did have to start closing the door to the bedroom else we would 've been pushed off the bed. Then there's the matter of vet bills and the cost of food and litter. Truth be told, I'm looking forward to attrition thinning the herd a bit, especially or old diabetic, but they haven't been any real trouble. Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Probably. Don't care. I've only had minor scratching problems thus far. I do supply plenty of scratching posts, and those get beat up, but not the furniture. The main cat tree seems to have developed what might be a mold problem and at the very least is going to need new carpeting, but I'm building a new cat tree that is really big enough for many cats. Still, I'm not totally antisocial and do get some visitors, plus the Significant Other's main entertainment appears to be watching the Home and Garden channel and demonstrates a bit more concern that I do about the habitat. I'd also rather not shut them out of the bedroom. But I find that each cat needs a certain amount of attention. One needs to be brushed occassionally, and Francis certainly needs to be brushed. Plus they each need some petting and stroking and play time. I really don't know if I can provide that for four cats. I only have one lap. The SO has a lap also but it's bonier and the cats seem to prefer my padding. |
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"cindys" wrote:
-------- OMG. Are you sure you don't live in my house? (although I've never had a dozen - five has been my maximum). Once, when we were doing rescue work, we had a dozen adults and *thirteen* kittens from three different litters. That was a hoot. My wife, who never wears slacks, has the scars to remind her. |
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On Dec 26, 2:59*pm, dgk wrote:
I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? You have obviously put a great deal of thought into this, which shows me that you are considering taking her. It's clear that you have considered her age, her circumstances, whether or not you can afford to take the responsibility that comes with being owned by a cat. You have thought about the expense, the impact it might have on your own feline-family, & you are wondering whether or not you have the time to devote to her. This is someone who really has considered the issue, & for that alone, I commend you wholeheartedly for all of these considerations. I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). This could be due to her new surroundings. If you are considering having her, it doesn't necessarily mean that she will have the same problems with you. If you have done a bit of rescue work, you will already know that she is probably protesting about not being allowed outside. If she is used to being allowed outside, this must be a real culture shock?! You have only to tread a mile in her paws to know how she feels...... I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. She sounds such a pretty cat. If she has a sweet personality, it is a massive bonus. A cat only shows a sweet side to someone they trust & care about. Being 9 years old shouldn't put you off, but I do understand that it is a major consideration when deciding whether you can take her or, not as the case might be. The only reason her age might be a concern, is when they actually already come with a medical condition associated with age. Other than that, you already know that she gets along with your cats, & that is probably your main concern here. Yes, of course a cat's care becomes harder as they get older, but don't let that put you off. 99% of our pensioner's, all managed to get to a grand old age, before things got a little harder. It's the same with humans too. What a wonderful opportunity for both Francis & you. She was obviously much happier with you. That is certainly clear in her behaviour. It is the only way that she can protest I guess?! This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. How Lucky you are. I would consider that as Bliss, LOL ) And I will bet that there is a protocol too? In my case, it is Lilly who wakes me up with a sandpaper lick for her breakfast, then Taz gives me leg rubs, as does Blue- Belle with lots of chatting between them. Whilst the others are eating, the rest of the gang follow me to their food stations, & we chat as we go. During the day they all come to me at different intervals for a bit of singular one on one time. Again, I'm sure that you could find that time if you had to. Cats are like that. They live for you to adore them. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Who knows until you try? As long as you have lots of food stations, & litter tray choices, then she should use them as she did before you returned her to her rightful slaves. It certainly appears that she was happier with you, in a neighborhood she trusted & felt safe in. I must stress that I am not telling you that she should be an outdoor cat- more a house cat with access to back garden accompanied by you. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? Only 4... That's not so bad you know) We have 8 full timers here presently. I'm known as the cat-Lady in the village, but I can't say that it bothers me all that much. I get all sorts of people @ my door, asking advice, or asking about rescue services, feeding plans, cat housing, & even people who want their pets cared for whilst they are on holiday; there is nothing wrong with that, it is called being part of the community. Bottom Line? Yes, I do think she would be happier with you. Why don't you talk to the rest of our family to see what they think, & if you can come to some agreement, I think you will find that the rest of the problems will iron themselves out. As with most problems in life, you find that you "Can" cope, because it is your responsibility to do so. You find a way....... Good Luck with this one, & I hope that you do get the chance to slave for her once more. I think Francis wants to come home;o) Sheelagh"o" |
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On Dec 26, 9:59�am, dgk wrote:
I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? You talk WAAAAAY to much, lady... |
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On Sun, 30 Dec 2007 01:19:09 -0800 (PST), IBen Getiner
wrote: On Dec 26, 9:59?am, dgk wrote: I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? You talk WAAAAAY to much, lady... Lady? Even if I were female I doubt very much that I would be a lady. |
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On Dec 31, 8:55�am, dgk wrote:
On Sun, 30 Dec 2007 01:19:09 -0800 (PST), IBen Getiner wrote: On Dec 26, 9:59?am, dgk wrote: I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? You talk WAAAAAY to much, lady... Lady? Even if I were female I doubt very much that I would be a lady.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Sorry.. You just act a little feminine. That's all... I know it's not your fault. The blame probably rests with your Mom for really wanting a girl, and on your Dad for not standing up to your Mom... Either way, something's amiss... IBen Getiner |
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On Mon, 31 Dec 2007 11:38:05 -0800 (PST), IBen Getiner
wrote: On Dec 31, 8:55?am, dgk wrote: On Sun, 30 Dec 2007 01:19:09 -0800 (PST), IBen Getiner wrote: On Dec 26, 9:59?am, dgk wrote: I visited some friends over the holidays; they're about 2 hours away. They recently moved from West Virginia to Philadelphia, and brought their cat Francis. In WV she had the run of the neighborhood, which was mostly open fields. In PA, she's in a fairly large apartment but apparently misses being outside and has not adjusted too well as she is not always peeing in the litterbox (vet checked). I've been asked whether I'd be able to take her. She is beautiful; black and orange long hair, fairly sweet personality. But she is clearly at least 9 years old and feels fairly brittle. My three cats are all at most 4 years old. They can only go out in the fenced in backyard, and only when I'm around to keep an eye (or at least webcam) on them. This morning I had three cats surrounding me in bed and can barely move as it is without moving one aside. Each cat takes a certain amount of attention, and I wasn't too thrilled with the idea of pulling in the third one although that has worked out well. I really concerned that a fairly old girl is going to be run ragged by the youngins. On the other hand, I adopted an elderly female cat a few years back who terrorized the young boys, but Francis doesn't seem that type. Plus, we seem to have some litterbox issues; that I really don't need. Any advice? Is four that much more trouble than three? Don't people start looking at you funny when you have four or more cats? Do you think that having some company would maybe make Francis happier? You talk WAAAAAY to much, lady... Lady? Even if I were female I doubt very much that I would be a lady.- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - Sorry.. You just act a little feminine. That's all... I know it's not your fault. The blame probably rests with your Mom for really wanting a girl, and on your Dad for not standing up to your Mom... Either way, something's amiss... IBen Getiner Ah, that would probably be showing concern for other living things. I remember some of your writings. As I recall, you care only about your family and everyone else can suffer and die. I think that you are a sociopath and I seriously doubt you even care about your family, if you even have one. |
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