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On Wed, 11 Jul 2007 17:00:03 -0700, Jeremy Bentham wrote:

On Jul 11, 7:44 pm, "cybercat" wrote:

I mean, what is it to you if he is a phony manipulative using abusive
liar?

Really, I want to know.

Because he bashes around all over Usenet thinking he can **** with
whoever he feels like, and he royally ****ed me off in the process. He
was asked nicely and repeatedly to stop, but as you well know, this is
HIS world and we all just live in it.

Bah. I have looked at your M.O. Show me a post where you asked anyone
nicely to do anything. You are reveling in this because you like to kick
people when they are already down.

Charlie

Jeremy Bentham wrote:

This sounds exactly like your defense of your actions in this
newsgroup -- the same manipulation of the truth that you're using to
try to weasel out of your actions here.

Truly delusional. A professional victim, you are. I'll bet you
intentionally slip in the grocery store every month or so.

for starters... this was most recent abandoned
email

looks like you direct re to me at least 700

thats just one email...

all I can say is, YOU GOT ONE HELLUVA PASSWORD MANAGER

the rest of your posts if they weren't to me, they were you treating
newbies really bad.

"Charlie Wilkes" wrote

Bah. I have looked at your M.O. Show me a post where you asked anyone
nicely to do anything. You are reveling in this because you like to kick
people when they are already down.


I think this is true.

Charlie, I hope you don't post those emails.

God knows he deserves it, but you don't really want to do that, do you?



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Jeremy Bentham wrote:

This sounds exactly like your defense of your actions in this
newsgroup -- the same manipulation of the truth that you're using to
try to weasel out of your actions here.

Truly delusional. A professional victim, you are. I'll bet you
intentionally slip in the grocery store every month or so.

for starters... this was most recent abandoned
email

looks like you direct re to me at least 700

thats just one email...

all I can say is, YOU GOT ONE HELLUVA PASSWORD MANAGER

the rest of your posts if they weren't to me, they were you treating
newbies really bad.


Well, I can see why you were scared to death.

What we have here is a realllly reallllly baaaaaaad judgment call, Barry.

lol



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"cybercat" wrote in message
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"Charlie Wilkes" wrote

Bah. I have looked at your M.O. Show me a post where you asked anyone
nicely to do anything. You are reveling in this because you like to kick
people when they are already down.


I think this is true.

Charlie, I hope you don't post those emails.

God knows he deserves it, but you don't really want to do that, do you?

No please don't
it is Sheelaghs call. I think Charles are smart enough man not to

On Jul 11, 5:22 am, finally comes clean:

...and NOW, finally, you see why 'Nick' "got down to that level".
Ultimately, he's a manipulative, lying piece of white trash garbage
who thinks he's the reincarnation of Oscar Wilde.

you couldn't have said it better yourself, you got down to the level
you are by being and I quote, "lying, manipulative, lying piece - o -
white trash garbage. who THINKS HE'S THE REINCARNATION OF OSCAR WILDE
WHOEVER THE HECK THAT IS!"

nice Nick. just blurt it all out at one time. what a loser.

On Jul 12, 3:25 pm, Barry wrote:
On Jul 11, 5:22 am, finally comes clean:

...and NOW, finally, you see why 'Nick' "got down to that level".
Ultimately, he's a manipulative, lying piece of white trash garbage
who thinks he's the reincarnation of Oscar Wilde.

you couldn't have said it better yourself, you got down to the level
you are by being and I quote, "lying, manipulative, lying piece - o -
white trash garbage. who THINKS HE'S THE REINCARNATION OF OSCAR WILDE
WHOEVER THE HECK THAT IS!"

nice Nick. just blurt it all out at one time. what a loser.

That line was in reference to YOU, numbnuts.
Your reading comprehension will improve if you get the THC out of your
brain for a while.

Oscar Wilde:
http://www.google.com/

On 11 Jul, 22:23, "cybercat" wrote:
"Matthew" wrote



"Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never
boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take
offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's
sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to
hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end."

It's really true. Anything else is not love at all.

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Barry, for several days I have followed this thread in the few
moments that I had to spare. I looked & I wondered where my friend
went?

I quoted a few words that you once said to me, because it was
appropriate @ the time. I have apologised for that. I was wrong to do
that, & I told you that then.
I guess I will never know why, but, you choose to post 4 separate
threads about me. you made songs & you danced to them. Sorry was not
enough for you?

Think about this...How many times have you said sorry to me?
I can tell you if you don't know or, you need to know?

Every single time I have accepted it for the reasons quoted. Love, is
unconditional. You were my friend, & I seem to remember making time
for you too when you needed a friend as well. Correct me if I am
wrong....?

What you wrote to me was not what one would expect from a friend.
In fact these words would be in your email box had you not told me to
stay well away from it.

You say I asked for it.. & you justified it by telling everyone who
would listen to you, that I was wrong in the first place.
*I am aware of that, which is why I apologised to you*.
I don't understand what is so hard about saying those 3 simple words?

Yes, I was terribly angry & disappointed in you.
Yes, I was so angry that I wanted you to feel the pain that I felt, &,
Yes, I did share your words with 3 close friends that I knew that I
could rely on, not to repeat them ever, If I asked them not to. I was
*shocked*!

I am also a human. I make mistakes, & If I'm wrong, then I say,"yes, I
did say that, & I am sorry / or not sorry" as the case may be.

You want answers. No, I didn't know that Charlie was going to ask you,
but in a way I am glad that the truth came to light. I accept I am as
much to blame for this, the same as you are.....

Maybe the difference between us is that I cared about how you felt, &
I took the time to sit down & cool down. When it first happened, I was
outraged with you. I had to make the time to sit down & think through
the consequences through of what would happen if your words to me were
posted on here. I also asked myself..."How would I feel if this
happened to me"?
To put my petty feeling first, would have been wicked of me, for a
simple cheap revenge.

I felt for you, because I knew that you were between the ocean & the
deep blue sea. I spoke to one of your closest friends & I took their
advice, which was to show mercy to my friend, & put our friendship
before our petty stupid words.

"Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never
boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take
offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's
sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to
hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end."

I am no longer angry, the pain has gone, & I am not resentful, & I
took no pleasure in seeing your pain. I do seek to excuse, but & to
trust that in time, friendship might endure. I am not too proud to say
I was wrong & I am not conceited @ all. If I have been rude, then I am
wrong, & if I have been selfish, I hope that I am no longer so, & I
have already forgiven you too

I am not naive enough to presume that this will just go away, & I am
truthful enough to say that I am wary. The humiliation cost me dearly,
& trust comes at a price. Are you willing to admit the same?

Apologise to all of your friends, & forgiveness will surely follow.
All any of us ever wanted was to ask you to admit that you played a
part in this too, & that you made a mistake, all be it a very public
one. Had you said sorry like I did in the first place, none of this
would ever have happened. It takes a man to admit he is wrong.
If my apology is still not enough, then I can't change that.. &
wouldn't want to.
I wish you well.

Sheelagh