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Advice, please!! - (long)
I know you're using ear plugs but have you tried the industrial use ones...
made for use when operating machinery..They block all noise (I use those... as all others just muffle sound.) :-) Liz "Pat" wrote in message et... "Sherry" wrote | Call the cops *when* the dogs are barking. Call them *when* the dogs | are running loose. Every time. I've done that countless times. The police in this town do not care. They might show up hours later, if at all. | Go to the courthouse and find out who owns the house. Call the | landlord and tell him about the dogs. He'll | be very interested to know his tenants are keeping viscious dogs -- | that is a liability issue for *him*. I know who owns the house. They same people that I bought this one from. They hate me, because I tried to get them to keep their promise to pay half the cost of the title work, which is customary for sellers to do in this town, and to give me the tenants' rent and security deposit, which they refused to do and almost kept me from buying the house because of it. They would simply laugh at me if I called them. | In the meantime, buy some earplugs. They're pretty effective. DH used | to wear them when we had loud | teenagers in the house. He's always worked night shift. I have been using earplugs. When did you last listen to the high-pitched and very penetrating YIP of TWO Bichon Frises? I've got the best earplugs money can buy, and they block about half of the sound of those animals. |
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Advice, please!! - (long)
":-\)Liz" wrote:
I know you're using ear plugs but have you tried the industrial use ones... made for use when operating machinery..They block all noise (I use those... as all others just muffle sound.) :-) Liz Where do you get them, Liz? Do they go into the ear in the same way as the foam ones, or are these the external ones, that look like large headphones? I wouldn't be able to sleep with big headphones on. Joyce |
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Advice, please!! - (long)
They can be bought at tool sales stores and a few Home Improvement
store..They come in three varieties, insert ear buds with connecting cord (I use these), small headphone type and large over ear type..Look for the highest decibel rating variety. :-) Liz wrote in message ... ":-\)Liz" wrote: I know you're using ear plugs but have you tried the industrial use ones... made for use when operating machinery..They block all noise (I use those... as all others just muffle sound.) :-) Liz Where do you get them, Liz? Do they go into the ear in the same way as the foam ones, or are these the external ones, that look like large headphones? I wouldn't be able to sleep with big headphones on. Joyce |
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Advice, please!! - (long)
":-\)Liz" wrote:
They can be bought at tool sales stores and a few Home Improvement store.. Thanks! By "tool sales stores", do you mean hardware stores? I'm not sure where you're posting from, but in the US, the place where one buys common household tools such as hammers and nails, etc, is always called the hardware store. Maybe it's called something else in other places? They come in three varieties, insert ear buds with connecting cord (I use these), What's the connecting cord for? I assume the cord connects the ear plugs to each other, and not to something else. Look for the highest decibel rating variety. :-) Liz Absolutely! Joyce |
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Are there any local organizations you can get envolved in so you can
be seen as being part of the community? Small towns can be pretty cliquish. Church, grade school, garden club...it just seems like you're all alone and you need a friend, and you need to build connections. But this is long term. Is there a young person nearby who would work cheap to help you with the fence? Could you barter with someone...offer to clean their house or watch their pets when they're away? Put up an ad at the post office? I think the more people you talk to the better. Ex... make a habit of having coffee (ice tea) 2 or 3 times a week at the local diner. What Noon Cat Nick said was good. I'll add DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! Keep a log...times, dates, what is said by whom. Especially important should this turn legal somewhere down the line, or in a "he said", "she said" situation. You can't buy the house, but maybe you could do a little "real estating" on your own and try to find someone to buy it. Show the listing around. Talk it up. Someone might overhear you and go check it out. You said it was a good deal. Or, maybe I watch too much tv.LOL Do you have some of that pepper spray? Might be worthwhile to invest in some for protection from 4-legged or 2-legged bullies. PatM |
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"Shawn Martin" wrote in message
... "jmcquown" wrote in message ... Pat wrote: "Sherry" wrote Call the cops *when* the dogs are barking. Call them *when* the dogs are running loose. Every time. I've done that countless times. The police in this town do not care. They might show up hours later, if at all. snip... OK: I really wanted to avoid this. It sounds so medieval. I have been through this before at least 10 times. The first couple of times I did like you; I tried to have a civil conversation with the owners. I was young, and didn't understand that the behavior of pets often imitates their owners. The only thing this accomplished was that they knew who finally disappeared their dogs. You are stuck now, because you opened your mouth. Next time... be quiet. Get some mole bait (Containing strychnine.) Put several pellets into a golf ball sized piece of ground beef. Place these in YOUR yard in a container, when your pets are corralled elsewhere. (Remember? the dogs NEVER go into YOUR yard.) Pick up and refrigerate when you pets go out. Repeat as necessary. Act innocent. When they retaliate, have them arrested for THAT Shawn's got the right concept, but the wrong attitude toward animals. Once the dog gets onto your property, catch it and take it down to the pound as a lost dog. If the owners bother to retrieve the dog, they are admitting to breaking both leash laws and allowing the dogs to trespass and will have to pay a fine. You, however, are well within your legal rights to remove an animal on your property. As to the barking, your first mistake was saying nothing for 16 months. That implies you were happy with the situation for 16 months. This may well ruin any case you want to bring against them. Also, since dogs are *supposed* to bark, to make a case against your westerly neighbours, you'll need to establish that the barking is *excessive*. That means keeping a diary (and possibly tape recording) of the time the dogs bark and how long they bark, and establishing that their barking is excessive rather than 'reasonable'. It would help your case if the other neighbours did the same. You may also wish to note down the dates and times the dogs were in your yard if you don't manage to catch them. Also write in your diary *now* your best recollection of the conversation you had with the dog owners, the exact words you said, the exact words they said, at what time, and what date, and the fact you fear retribution, as this establishes the first time at which the neighbours knew of your objection to their dogs. Once you have an established case of excessive barking, consistant breach of leash laws, and a repeated trespassing, write a formal letter of complaint (preferrably from all the neighbours and not just you) to the landlord stating the relevant laws and his liability. If nothing happens, sue. IANAL Shelle |
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Specialty stores...those dealing in just the sale of tools... like the
Makita Store..Yep cord is to keep from losing them.... :-) Liz wrote in message ... ":-\)Liz" wrote: They can be bought at tool sales stores and a few Home Improvement store.. Thanks! By "tool sales stores", do you mean hardware stores? I'm not sure where you're posting from, but in the US, the place where one buys common household tools such as hammers and nails, etc, is always called the hardware store. Maybe it's called something else in other places? They come in three varieties, insert ear buds with connecting cord (I use these), What's the connecting cord for? I assume the cord connects the ear plugs to each other, and not to something else. Look for the highest decibel rating variety. :-) Liz Absolutely! Joyce |
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I'm sure you'll get a bunch of advice. Mine will be a bit off the
wall, I'm sure. First, aparently you need an attorney to help go after these folks. The local SPCA may have some advice. Probaly including photographs and recordings. My thought is to tape record the dog barking, and then at random times during the night put on your ear plugs, ear muffs. And then play the recording through a PA speaker right next to their house. If they complain, after all you could not have a recording of the dogs because they don't bark. So, you can't be playing back barking that isn't happening. -- Christopher A. Young You can't shout down a troll. You have to starve them. .. "Pat" wrote in message ... : I'm stuck between all sorts of rocks and hard places here and am about to : lose my mind. I have to do something about it, and would like some input. : : First, the background: : : I am surrounded by neighbors with dogs that bark all night long. If one's : quiet, others aren't. Most nights they keep me from getting a good rest. : It's only a little bit easier in winter because I can keep the windows : closed, but I can't do that all year without air conditioning. : : The neighbor on the west has three dogs that they lock in the utility room, : spitting distance from my bedroom window, every night. They leave an outside : door wide open with a gate across the bottom half so the dogs can't get out, : and the inner door is closed to the rest of their house, and they sleep on : the opposite side of the house with their bedroom door shut so they don't : hear their own dogs barking all night. : : The dogs run loose all the time, which is against a city leash law, and they : poop in my yard daily as well as tear into trash cans and leave trash of all : kinds scattered all over my yard. : : One of these dogs has attacked children riding bicycles along the street and : has attacked me twice and has attacked the man across the street also. : : This evening I caught the woman letting the dogs run through my yard and : asked her politely to please keep them in her own yard. She started bitching : at me, and I told her those dogs keep me awake all the time, and that : there's not only a leash law but also a barking law, and that I've put up : with a lot from their dogs and never complained to the police about them : because I wanted to be neighborly, but by God do I not also deserve a bit of : consideration? : : Then her husband starting yelling at me to get off of their property (I was : standing between the two houses talking to the woman and not really paying : attention to which side of the property line I was on) or he was going to : have me arrested for trespassing. : : He also said not to complain to him about the dogs, that they NEVER bark at : night and NEVER leave his yard, and it must be other dogs that I hear and : whose poop I walk through, etc. and that I had better call the police about : it, and if I want solitude I should move out to the country. : : Well because of this attitude I am thinking it's time to make a formal : complaint. The lady who used to live across the street says she will testify : to seeing them let those dogs run into my yard all the time and she also saw : the attack on the child on the bicycle. I'm going to try and find the child, : and speak with the man across the street who got attacked also. : : It's pure luck that no one has been hurt so far. That dog came after me : growling and snarling on two different occasions and scared the life out of : me. I can only imagine how scared the boy must have been. The owners of the : dogs know about the attacks. Every time one happens, they will keep that dog : tied up for a few weeks, but then they go back to letting it run free. : : What has stopped me so far from making a formal complaint is (a) my word : against theirs (which has now been solved), (b) not wanting to make an enemy : (I no longer have a choice on that part), and (c) fear of retaliation - : e.g., they set fire to my house, or poison the cats once I can let them out : into the yard. : : Ideally, this whole group purrs up a reason for these folks to just MOVE : OUT. Or I find a way to buy that house (it's for sale) and rent it to : tenants of my own choosing. : : Failing that, what do you think I ought to do? I haven't had a decent : night's sleep in 16 months, and it is literally killing me, and no way on : earth will I risk the safety of the cats, but they deserve to be able to go : outside. : : : : : : : |
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Pat wrote:
I'm stuck between all sorts of rocks and hard places here and am about to lose my mind. I have to do something about it, and would like some input. First, the background: I am surrounded by neighbors with dogs that bark all night long. If one's quiet, others aren't. Most nights they keep me from getting a good rest. It's only a little bit easier in winter because I can keep the windows closed, but I can't do that all year without air conditioning. The neighbor on the west has three dogs that they lock in the utility room, spitting distance from my bedroom window, every night. They leave an outside door wide open with a gate across the bottom half so the dogs can't get out, and the inner door is closed to the rest of their house, and they sleep on the opposite side of the house with their bedroom door shut so they don't hear their own dogs barking all night. The dogs run loose all the time, which is against a city leash law, and they poop in my yard daily as well as tear into trash cans and leave trash of all kinds scattered all over my yard. One of these dogs has attacked children riding bicycles along the street and has attacked me twice and has attacked the man across the street also. This evening I caught the woman letting the dogs run through my yard and asked her politely to please keep them in her own yard. She started bitching at me, and I told her those dogs keep me awake all the time, and that there's not only a leash law but also a barking law, and that I've put up with a lot from their dogs and never complained to the police about them because I wanted to be neighborly, but by God do I not also deserve a bit of consideration? Then her husband starting yelling at me to get off of their property (I was standing between the two houses talking to the woman and not really paying attention to which side of the property line I was on) or he was going to have me arrested for trespassing. He also said not to complain to him about the dogs, that they NEVER bark at night and NEVER leave his yard, and it must be other dogs that I hear and whose poop I walk through, etc. and that I had better call the police about it, and if I want solitude I should move out to the country. Well because of this attitude I am thinking it's time to make a formal complaint. The lady who used to live across the street says she will testify to seeing them let those dogs run into my yard all the time and she also saw the attack on the child on the bicycle. I'm going to try and find the child, and speak with the man across the street who got attacked also. It's pure luck that no one has been hurt so far. That dog came after me growling and snarling on two different occasions and scared the life out of me. I can only imagine how scared the boy must have been. The owners of the dogs know about the attacks. Every time one happens, they will keep that dog tied up for a few weeks, but then they go back to letting it run free. What has stopped me so far from making a formal complaint is (a) my word against theirs (which has now been solved), (b) not wanting to make an enemy (I no longer have a choice on that part), and (c) fear of retaliation - e.g., they set fire to my house, or poison the cats once I can let them out into the yard. Ideally, this whole group purrs up a reason for these folks to just MOVE OUT. Or I find a way to buy that house (it's for sale) and rent it to tenants of my own choosing. Failing that, what do you think I ought to do? I haven't had a decent night's sleep in 16 months, and it is literally killing me, and no way on earth will I risk the safety of the cats, but they deserve to be able to go outside. That's a hard position to be in, and I've been in similar ones here. I know what it's like to be terrified of retaliation from the neighbors (all animal-welfare related things I did). If you could buy the house, that would great! I don't practice Voudon, but I hear there is a "make someone move" spell. Otherwise, best I can suggest is call the Humane Society if there is any animal care law they're breaking, and if that doesn't work, call the police. You shouldn't have to live like this. Ginger-lyn |
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Advice, please!! - (long)
Pat wrote:
I'm stuck between all sorts of rocks and hard places here and am about to lose my mind. I have to do something about it, and would like some input. First, the background: I am surrounded by neighbors with dogs that bark all night long. If one's quiet, others aren't. Most nights they keep me from getting a good rest. It's only a little bit easier in winter because I can keep the windows closed, but I can't do that all year without air conditioning. The neighbor on the west has three dogs that they lock in the utility room, spitting distance from my bedroom window, every night. They leave an outside door wide open with a gate across the bottom half so the dogs can't get out, and the inner door is closed to the rest of their house, and they sleep on the opposite side of the house with their bedroom door shut so they don't hear their own dogs barking all night. The dogs run loose all the time, which is against a city leash law, and they poop in my yard daily as well as tear into trash cans and leave trash of all kinds scattered all over my yard. One of these dogs has attacked children riding bicycles along the street and has attacked me twice and has attacked the man across the street also. snip Failing that, what do you think I ought to do? I haven't had a decent night's sleep in 16 months, and it is literally killing me, and no way on earth will I risk the safety of the cats, but they deserve to be able to go outside. It's really hard, but I still think you should contact the police before the dogs really hurt someone badly. Best wishes and purrs, Polonca and Soncek |
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