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"Candace" wrote : I don't know what his involvement with Monica was Conan and I admit it's odd that he didn't initially respond to Mary's emails after the rescue but, if I were him, I don't think I would respond now. It's too lame to try to defend yourself, especially if you think you were right, and it just sounds like weak, BS excuses, so it's best to take the "high ground" and let people deduce what they may. One last thing, my friend: if Dan is taking the "high ground" I really never want to see what the low ground is like. |
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whitershadeofpale wrote:
Charlie Wilkes wrote: I am very careful about who I accept money from, Philip. How about you? My experience has been that people who are careless about accepting money from strangers are careless about personal responsibility in general. Charlie You still goin round and round with Philip. I figured him out. He'll agree with you one something, and then raise a "New Objection", there's got to be a word for this. It gives one the impression they have changed his mind, so now, onto the "New" objection.. I give you one clue. It's a yiddish word. |
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Mary wrote:
"Candace" wrote in message ps.com... Charlie Wilkes wrote: I am very careful about who I accept money from, Philip. How about you? My experience has been that people who are careless about accepting money from strangers are careless about personal responsibility in general. For the record, as I was following the Harri thread because it initially sounded like she had what one of my cats has, Dan never asked people for money. It's just a thing they do on rpca, *a lot*, I've noticed. They even have a standing PayPal account set up to donate money to any of the regulars on the group who need help, and not just veterinary help but any sort of help...plane tickets to visit family, etc. I assume Dan has probably donated to other people in the past. But, actually, in his case with his sick cat recently, no one kept a list of who donated specifically. From what I read, when people called the vet's office to donate, they weren't even asked their names, just their credit card number so he doesn't even know who donated and they all know he doesn't know. At least that prevents the "being beholden" thing. He does have a job and all, he just had some bad luck lately work and personal problems. People *wanted* to donate. I don't know what his involvement with Monica was Conan and I admit it's odd that he didn't initially respond to Mary's emails after the rescue but, if I were him, I don't think I would respond now. It's too lame to try to defend yourself, especially if you think you were right, and it just sounds like weak, BS excuses, so it's best to take the "high ground" and let people deduce what they may. Some will always think he was involved; others will never think he was involved. I doubt we will ever know what really happened that day no matter how long we talk about it and try to figure it out. It's an entertaining little mystery and I do feel bad that Conan is not yet placed but as for Dan's "double agent" duty, we will probably never know what occurred. Candace I know that Dan was involved, Candace. I cannot imagine anyone having any doubt. You have wild imaginings about EVERYTHING else ... why not here? But you are entitled to your opinion, too. Still, you know that the response of an innocent person would have been an instant reply to the effect of "No, no, no! This is what happened." That is what common sense dictates. A *smart* person who is innocent and knowing the audience would not offer any rebuttals in circumstances like these. Didn't Bill Clinton teach you anything? Hahhahhaa He is guilty. He is a liar, and he is responsible for that cat still being in a cage. All assumptions. You have no knowledge. Once one knows that someone is capable of this kind of deceit it changes everything. (He is the man reflected in Conan's left eye--his build and the shape of his big Irish head are unmistakeable.) You cannot see squat in the reflection in Conan's eyes. |
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Mary wrote: I know that Dan was involved, Candace. I cannot imagine anyone having any doubt. But you are entitled to your opinion, too. Still, you know that the response of an innocent person would have been an instant reply to the effect of "No, no, no! This is what happened." That is what common sense dictates. He is guilty. He is a liar, and he is responsible for that cat still being in a cage. Once one knows that someone is capable of this kind of deceit it changes everything. (He is the man reflected in Conan's left eye--his build and the shape of his big Irish head are unmistakeable.) I admitted it's odd he didn't respond to your emails. That alone would make me think he did do the rescue. And Monica didn't deny Dan's involvement in her post yesterday; she didn't really mention him at all. I would think if she had no clue who he is she would have said that. I'm just saying there are people who will never be convinced...either way. I really don't think he "double-agented" to be malicious. He just got convinced, somehow, that it was preferable to give Conan to Monica's team rather than your team. I suppose it was because he didn't want Charlie to get him and/or he and Monica really fell for your smokescreen that Monday night when you said you were withdrawing the $$ and couldn't save Conan (although I'm sure you told him it was a smokescreen but Monica would not have known and must have convinced him otherwise). I don't know. I can't think he's a creepy person. You've read his posts for awhile, too, I know. He sounded like a great guy. I know you thought that, too. I think he just switched his loyalties and I have all along felt that it was "wrong" of him to not respond to your emails and tell you that he changed his mind (or tell you he didn't know what you meant, that Conan really was gone when he got there). But I also think that sometimes people just don't know how to respond so they put it off and then it becomes too late. I don't think he's necessarily evil; I think things just got out of hand. I'm sure he never thought he would be discovered and that it would set off all this conjecture and detective work here. I'm sure it's more than he originally bargained for. I *do* think he picked up Conan (but I am not 100% positive). I *do* think he should have told you the truth if he did. I *don't* think he's an awful person, though, I think he got in over his head and the plans backfired somewhat. And, I *do* feel bad about Conan. Both Meghan's sis and the guy in SD sounded fine to me. I do think Conan will get a home at some point (soon, I hope) and that he probably is doing alright where he is, not having the time of his life, but not miserable and I'm sure he won't die. But I'm just saying, if I were in Dan's shoes, now at this point, I wouldn't bother trying to defend myself no matter which version is the truth because it would sound disingenuous. He probably has decided to not respond and let the chips fall where they may. Candace |
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"Philip" wrote in message link.net... You cannot see squat in the reflection in Conan's eyes. Squat Lobster Corn Chowder Serves: 6 Preparation Time:20 Minutes Cooking Time:20 Minutes 30 ounces lobster stock 2 ears of corn 1 medium yucca - small dice 1 small onion - small dice 12 ounces Squat Lobster Chunks 2 ounces butter cilantro leaves salt and pepper - to taste 4 ounces heavy cream 1 can cream corn 1. Remove kernels from ear of corn. Sauté onion and kernels in butter, add ear of cleaned corn, can of cream corn, yucca and lobster stock. Simmer for 20- 30 minutes and remove ears and puree roughly 2. Add frozen Lobster Chunks. 3. When the lobster is cooked add cream and season. 4. Serve with cilantro leaves as garnish on top of soup and corn bread sticks. |
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Mary wrote: his build and the shape of his big Irish head are unmistakeable.) lol |
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"Candace" wrote in message ups.com... Mary wrote: I know that Dan was involved, Candace. I cannot imagine anyone having any doubt. But you are entitled to your opinion, too. Still, you know that the response of an innocent person would have been an instant reply to the effect of "No, no, no! This is what happened." That is what common sense dictates. He is guilty. He is a liar, and he is responsible for that cat still being in a cage. Once one knows that someone is capable of this kind of deceit it changes everything. (He is the man reflected in Conan's left eye--his build and the shape of his big Irish head are unmistakeable.) I admitted it's odd he didn't respond to your emails. That alone would make me think he did do the rescue. And Monica didn't deny Dan's involvement in her post yesterday; she didn't really mention him at all. I would think if she had no clue who he is she would have said that. I'm just saying there are people who will never be convinced...either way. I really don't think he "double-agented" to be malicious. He just got convinced, somehow, that it was preferable to give Conan to Monica's team rather than your team. I suppose it was because he didn't want Charlie to get him and/or he and Monica really fell for your smokescreen that Monday night when you said you were withdrawing the $$ and couldn't save Conan (although I'm sure you told him it was a smokescreen but Monica would not have known and must have convinced him otherwise). I don't know. I can't think he's a creepy person. You've read his posts for awhile, too, I know. He sounded like a great guy. I know you thought that, too. I think he just switched his loyalties and I have all along felt that it was "wrong" of him to not respond to your emails and tell you that he changed his mind (or tell you he didn't know what you meant, that Conan really was gone when he got there). But I also think that sometimes people just don't know how to respond so they put it off and then it becomes too late. I don't think he's necessarily evil; I think things just got out of hand. I'm sure he never thought he would be discovered and that it would set off all this conjecture and detective work here. I'm sure it's more than he originally bargained for. I *do* think he picked up Conan (but I am not 100% positive). I *do* think he should have told you the truth if he did. I *don't* think he's an awful person, though, I think he got in over his head and the plans backfired somewhat. And, I *do* feel bad about Conan. Both Meghan's sis and the guy in SD sounded fine to me. I do think Conan will get a home at some point (soon, I hope) and that he probably is doing alright where he is, not having the time of his life, but not miserable and I'm sure he won't die. But I'm just saying, if I were in Dan's shoes, now at this point, I wouldn't bother trying to defend myself no matter which version is the truth because it would sound disingenuous. He probably has decided to not respond and let the chips fall where they may. I understand you, and I agree. I don't think Dan is a bad person. I do think that he has done a bad thing. As for his response or lack of one, he has no defense, so he has no choice. As soon as I have proof that this cat is out of a cage and living in a good home I will drop the whole thing. It is all I care about and all I have ever cared about. |
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Mary wrote:
"Candace" wrote in message ups.com... Mary wrote: I know that Dan was involved, Candace. I cannot imagine anyone having any doubt. But you are entitled to your opinion, too. Still, you know that the response of an innocent person would have been an instant reply to the effect of "No, no, no! This is what happened." That is what common sense dictates. He is guilty. He is a liar, and he is responsible for that cat still being in a cage. Once one knows that someone is capable of this kind of deceit it changes everything. (He is the man reflected in Conan's left eye--his build and the shape of his big Irish head are unmistakeable.) I admitted it's odd he didn't respond to your emails. That alone would make me think he did do the rescue. And Monica didn't deny Dan's involvement in her post yesterday; she didn't really mention him at all. I would think if she had no clue who he is she would have said that. I'm just saying there are people who will never be convinced...either way. I really don't think he "double-agented" to be malicious. He just got convinced, somehow, that it was preferable to give Conan to Monica's team rather than your team. I suppose it was because he didn't want Charlie to get him and/or he and Monica really fell for your smokescreen that Monday night when you said you were withdrawing the $$ and couldn't save Conan (although I'm sure you told him it was a smokescreen but Monica would not have known and must have convinced him otherwise). I don't know. I can't think he's a creepy person. You've read his posts for awhile, too, I know. He sounded like a great guy. I know you thought that, too. I think he just switched his loyalties and I have all along felt that it was "wrong" of him to not respond to your emails and tell you that he changed his mind (or tell you he didn't know what you meant, that Conan really was gone when he got there). But I also think that sometimes people just don't know how to respond so they put it off and then it becomes too late. I don't think he's necessarily evil; I think things just got out of hand. I'm sure he never thought he would be discovered and that it would set off all this conjecture and detective work here. I'm sure it's more than he originally bargained for. I *do* think he picked up Conan (but I am not 100% positive). I *do* think he should have told you the truth if he did. I *don't* think he's an awful person, though, I think he got in over his head and the plans backfired somewhat. And, I *do* feel bad about Conan. Both Meghan's sis and the guy in SD sounded fine to me. I do think Conan will get a home at some point (soon, I hope) and that he probably is doing alright where he is, not having the time of his life, but not miserable and I'm sure he won't die. But I'm just saying, if I were in Dan's shoes, now at this point, I wouldn't bother trying to defend myself no matter which version is the truth because it would sound disingenuous. He probably has decided to not respond and let the chips fall where they may. I understand you, and I agree. I don't think Dan is a bad person. I do think that he has done a bad thing. As for his response or lack of one, he has no defense, so he has no choice. As soon as I have proof that this cat is out of a cage and living in a good home I will drop the whole thing. It is all I care about and all I have ever cared about. What a HUGE fabrication. |
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Philip wrote: What a HUGE fabrication. It's really hysterical at this point - not in a ha-ha way, though. If there ever was a case of OCD documented through Usenet, this is it. -L. |
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"-L." wrote in message oups.com... Philip wrote: What a HUGE fabrication. It's really hysterical at this point - not in a ha-ha way, though. If there ever was a case of OCD documented through Usenet, this is it. You bet. And you should know, Mama Hoss. Meanwhile, try not to hate me because: 1. My husband does not drive a pickup 2. I can see 3. I don't spend my day wiping asses and greasy little mouths, doing laundry and playing wifey to the breadwinner 4. And last but not least: whatever happens in Usenet is okay by me. All of it, any of it, I just love a free-for-all. Carry on, Lynnie. I don't generally rubberneck at accidents but you are one train wreck I am enjoying. |
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