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Increase the number of litter boxes you have - and have them in
discreet places that are easily accessed by the cat. I have two litterboxes... but I'm going to buy another at the store tomorrow. Also, you need to offer a variety of litters (clay, clumping, pine, corn)....there is one called ATTRACT LITTER that is supposed to be for cats with litter issues. I'll look for this at the store as well. You need a variety of cat litter box styles (covered, shallow, deep) and put a thinner layer of litter - Good idea. I'll make sure & try this out as well. Also, if cat insists on going in one certain spot (in a corner of bathroom for instance) put a litter box there - Genius! Why didn't I think of that??? Also, buy a plastic/water-proof matress cover to save your mattress! Again... On my list for tomorrow. .... Thanks for all of your help JEN... I really appreciate it! =) -Jenn |
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Assuming that this may be at least partly behavioral and not completely related to pain or other physical problems, I also suggest that you get some Feliway. I prefer the plug-in diffusers instead of the spray because the diffusers/dispensers release premeasured amounts at regular intervals. I looked into this... Awesome product! However, they don't sell it at my regular pet store. I ordered some online... Hope it's as great as it seems! =) Oh, yes, please search for another vet. It is *outrageous* to hear that a vet would actually "recommend" declawing for a particular "breed and personality." Yes. Another vet is definately a must. I can't believe he would recommeded this procedure... and lied to my face about the side efects. That really ticks me off...*BIG TIME*. You would think that someone who has dedicated there life to animals would be totally against such a thing. grr!!! .... Thanks for the advice Mary! =) |
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Have you tried different types of litter, different boxes, and different locations? Not yet... but I will... When Chase was young, I switched from my regular litter to another kind. He immediately started peeing on my bed. He did not like pellets, and I got the message loud and clear. I changed back to the other litter, and the problem was solved. Strange. I use the pellets in his litter. Perhaps they are a little too rough for his poor paws... =( |
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OMG!!!! Run, do not walk, away from that vet!! I can't believe it! How can a vet be so ignorant of cat behavior? Yes, Bengals are very, very active and he *needs* his claws. Taking them away just makes things worse! Yeah... That vet is a sicko... he even does it to his own cats?!?!?! He's going to be getting a very nasty letter in the mail from me soon! I made an appointment at a holistic animal clinic next week. Hopefully they can give me some *real* advice... and check his poor little paws out... For now... I'm getting a new litter box and three different types of litter and seeing which one he prefers. ... All while "cat-proofing " my home. As for the other behavior, knocking things over and stuff, make sure he has LOTS of adequate climbing area and toys. Get some huge, floor to ceiling cat towers, lots of mousies to bat around, play with him frequently with those fishing pole toys. He loves the fishing pole toys.. but destroys them in a week! He has lots of mice and balls... door hanging things... etc. I even just got him this great little toy. It stimulates his mind... which he needs. It's a box with several holes on top and on the sides... I put little toys in there and he bats at them to get him out. He completely forgot about his other toys since this one. As for the trees/towers... I was really wanting to get one last time I was at the pet store... but I decided not to. I felt like I would be rubbing it in his face that he had no claws.... Ouch. Do you think I should just go for it anyway? He probably doesn't think of it like that... right? |
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Yeah I saw that one after I had already posted. How long ago was he seen? He was seen two weeks ago... I hope your vet didn't declaw him in the back too. He did. =( Declawaed cats can have phantom pain in their paws (much like a human amputee does), and thus, when he uses the litter, he associates the pain with the litterbox. I know... I read about that side effect while researching this procedure. I really should have done my homework before the operation. You know I never even knew that humans had "phantom pais" ... Wow. Unfortunately, greedyvets will promote declawing ... You said it. I will have to work hard. Don't worry. I won't give him up. This is something that our 'family' is going to have to work through. I showed my huby declaw pics and he felt just about as bad as I do. He agrees that its our fault for the majority of the misbehavior... so that's a mistake we are going to have to live with for a long time... Thank you for the links. Several very helpful people like yourseld have provided me with helpful links. I made a word doc with a list of them. I'm going to check them all out tonight. Thanks again! =) -Jenn |
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To the OP : He sounds like he's a nervous, reactive cat and cats wee if they are upset and stressed. They pick places like sofas and beds because that's where your scent is stongest, he's adding his scent to yours to reassure himself and make himself feel more secure. Very clever! That is brilliant! Your response definitely makes sense to me. I know the declaw must be causing him pain... but I new somebody had to have an explanation like yours. I knew he was being territorial and/or marking his space. He seems very prideful and his attitude is that 'he's in charge!' hahaha... silly boy... He's not likely to asscociate the punishment of time out with the fact that you don't want him to wee in those places so he is not being disobedient or deliberately doing it to annoy you. He probably finds your and your husband's reactions confusing. Time outs will just upset him and make him more likely to carry on peeing. You are so right. What he is doing is instinctual. We are confusing him. Which makes perfect sense because he does seem to get more upset after "time out". No more time outs. I'll use other alternatives. Question: Do you know if 'time out' works on dogs? ... or is this just something i picked up on from my parents? Thanks for everything! I really appreciate it! I'll read the articles tonight! =) Any advice to stop this behavior besides Feliway? |
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wrote in message oups.com... I hope your vet didn't declaw him in the back too. He did. =( Oh, this is so sad. Even most vets that will declaw will not do the procedure on all four paws. That really is butchery. Cats need their back claws for traction and balance, and your vet has destroyed even that essential part of your cat's life. Well, you know better now, and you clearly feel very bad about it. You are also taking steps to make help your cat now that you recognize the damage. I mentioned in a previous post that I adopted a cat (Amber - RB) years ago who had *previously* been four-paw declawed. You already have the bad news about physical and behavioral problems that can accompany this tragic procedure. On a somewhat better note (for you), my Amber really did compensate in many ways for what had been done to her. She was a very trusting and loving cat, and over the years she acquired better balance and learned to adjust in many ways. At the same time, she never did have the grace and balance that my non-declawed cats have had. I do want to encourage you to continue to search for ways to help your kitty and not to fall into the trap of assuming that your cat is being malicious when he urinates outside the litterbox. That isn't it, at all! He probably finds it painful to use the litterbox -- either from early-onset arthritis (very common in declawed cats) or from phantom pain. At the same time, please have your vet (after you get *another* vet -- *not* the one who performed the declaw) check your cat's paws. There have been some cases of very poor surgery, and it's possible that your cat might need some corrective surgery. That isn't very likely, but it should be checked. Someone else mentioned glucosamine. That is also a very good idea with a declawed cat, or any cat that seems to have arthritis. Even better, you should check into Cosequin (which is basically glucosamine combined with some nutritional supplementation in a formula specifically for cats). Here's a picture of Amber at age 15: http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/...4916&members=1 She was a dear, sweet, loving cat and should never been subjected to the atrocity of declawing. It was done before I adopted her, but (like you) there was a time when I simply didn't realize how cruel the procedure is. It was just sheer luck that I never had that done to any of my cats before I learned better. MaryL |
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wrote in message oups.com... OMG!!!! Run, do not walk, away from that vet!! I can't believe it! How can a vet be so ignorant of cat behavior? Yes, Bengals are very, very active and he *needs* his claws. Taking them away just makes things worse! Yeah... That vet is a sicko... he even does it to his own cats?!?!?! He's going to be getting a very nasty letter in the mail from me soon! I made an appointment at a holistic animal clinic next week. Hopefully they can give me some *real* advice... and check his poor little paws out... For now... I'm getting a new litter box and three different types of litter and seeing which one he prefers. ... All while "cat-proofing " my home. As for the other behavior, knocking things over and stuff, make sure he has LOTS of adequate climbing area and toys. Get some huge, floor to ceiling cat towers, lots of mousies to bat around, play with him frequently with those fishing pole toys. He loves the fishing pole toys.. but destroys them in a week! He has lots of mice and balls... door hanging things... etc. I even just got him this great little toy. It stimulates his mind... which he needs. It's a box with several holes on top and on the sides... I put little toys in there and he bats at them to get him out. He completely forgot about his other toys since this one. As for the trees/towers... I was really wanting to get one last time I was at the pet store... but I decided not to. I felt like I would be rubbing it in his face that he had no claws.... Ouch. Do you think I should just go for it anyway? He probably doesn't think of it like that... right? No, you won't be rubbing anything in his face. Cats love to climb, and I am sure your cat would benefit from a cat tree. Just make sure the beds are positioned in such a way that he can easily move from one bed/level to another because he won't be able "climb." MaryL |
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wrote in message oups.com... I hope your vet didn't declaw him in the back too. He did. =( OMG!!!! This vet is even more of a sicko than I thought Even vets that routinely declaw don't do the four-paw declaw unless it's some kind of extreme circumstance or the client insists on it. I'm sorry this guy was your vet. Please tell everyone you know that has animals about him. You might even want to contact area animal rescues and let them know what an asshole he is and what he did to your cat. People adopting animals will ask for vet recommendations, and they need to know this is one vet to avoid!!! -Kelly |
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wrote in message
oups.com... Alison wrote He's not likely to asscociate the punishment of time out with the fact that you don't want him to wee in those places so he is not being disobedient or deliberately doing it to annoy you. He probably finds your and your husband's reactions confusing. Time outs will just upset him and make him more likely to carry on peeing. Jae wrote You are so right. What he is doing is instinctual. We are confusing him. Which makes perfect sense because he does seem to get more upset after "time out". No more time outs. I'll use other alternatives. Question: Do you know if 'time out' works on dogs? ... or is this just something i picked up on from my parents?. It can work with cats and dogs depending on the circumstances. People need to understand how cats and dogs think and learn to be able to train them. If you go to this website http://www.ourdogs.chilly-hippo.co.uk/ and click on the Training button on the left hand side , there are descriptions of classical and operant conditioning and training terms such as positive reinforcement and positve punishment etc. Say you have a puppy that tends to play rough, you're playing with him and he nips you hard , the moment he nips you can say ouch or yelp to let him know he has hurt you and remove him from the room . You must do this *immediately * not 30 seconds or a minute or too later so he associates the biting with being removed. People call this time out but it is also a negative punishment , you are removing something pleasant from the pup so he learns if he wants to carry on playing he mustn't nip . The punishment is removing something nice. When a dog runs off from his home, if he is given time out (or any punishment ) when he returns , he will associate it with returning not the running away so time out help will teach not to come back if he runs away. Also people think the greater length of time out, the greater the punishment but he's not going to be spending all that time thinking about what he has done wrong, like a person would. Animals live in the present and we can't say for sure how time passes for them .. You wrote * At this point he was in kitty "time-out". We locked him in the guest bathroom for a day with his litter box and food/h20... hoping he would get the point not to pee.* This is really retraining the cat to use the litter tray rather than teach him not to pee in another room. Show him the behaviour you want rather than the behaviour you don't want . If you catch him in the act of pee, place him gently in the litter tray . Thanks for everything! I really appreciate it! I'll read the articles tonight! =) Any advice to stop this behavior besides Feliway? You have another cat I believe, this puts great pressure on him too. Can you give me more details about your other cat? What are your cats names? Alison |
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