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Need to vent (dog breeding)
I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my
friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. I have a friend who breeds her poodles. Her poodles are all pedigreed, though that means nothing to me. She shows them, and has won some ribbons and placements. Again, this means nothing to me. I honestly don't have issues with breeding for the sake of the breed, whether cat or dog or rabbit or whatever. But (!)... To me, breeding should only be done (if ever) if both male and female are perfect, whatever that means. Her female standard poodle came from champion lines however she has been judged as being non- show quality due to a broad muzzle (WTF does that mean. She isn't perfect, but it is her face FFS) Her male standard also came from champion lines and she is bound and determined to have puppies from the two of them. Why oh why??? If the female isn't "show quality" I suspect that she is "hoping" that the male's qualities will be dominant. Ugh! We work together so she is telling me every step of the way how they are progressing to mating. She tells me detailed accounts about his "technique" and she set up a web cam to "spy" on them to see when copulation takes place. I'm totally grossed out about it!! I just can't bring myself to tell her to shut up about the breeding details because I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT when so many mutts are dying, and this pair might not create another champion line. Ok, sorry but I needed to vent because I don't know how to tell her to her face how I feel. Call me spineless. I don't care, its how I feel. -- Cheryl /spineless in this case |
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"Cheryl" wrote in message ... I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. I have a friend who breeds her poodles. Her poodles are all pedigreed, though that means nothing to me. She shows them, and has won some ribbons and placements. Again, this means nothing to me. I honestly don't have issues with breeding for the sake of the breed, whether cat or dog or rabbit or whatever. But (!)... To me, breeding should only be done (if ever) if both male and female are perfect, whatever that means. Her female standard poodle came from champion lines however she has been judged as being non- show quality due to a broad muzzle (WTF does that mean. She isn't perfect, but it is her face FFS) Her male standard also came from champion lines and she is bound and determined to have puppies from the two of them. Why oh why??? If the female isn't "show quality" I suspect that she is "hoping" that the male's qualities will be dominant. Ugh! We work together so she is telling me every step of the way how they are progressing to mating. She tells me detailed accounts about his "technique" and she set up a web cam to "spy" on them to see when copulation takes place. I'm totally grossed out about it!! I just can't bring myself to tell her to shut up about the breeding details because I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT when so many mutts are dying, and this pair might not create another champion line. Ok, sorry but I needed to vent because I don't know how to tell her to her face how I feel. Call me spineless. I don't care, its how I feel. -- Cheryl /spineless in this case Everyone here is far too nice to call you spineless. |
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Cheryl wrote:
I just can't bring myself to tell her to shut up about the breeding details because I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT when so many mutts are dying, and this pair might not create another champion line. Ok, sorry but I needed to vent because I don't know how to tell her to her face how I feel. Call me spineless. I don't care, its how I feel. I wouldn't call it spineless as much as being very polite. I would also have a hard time saying that I thought the whole thing is disgusting. Pam S. grossed out too |
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"Cheryl" wrote in message
... I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. snip Maybe do something quietly, like forward emails to her from HSUS about pet overpopulation and such. She might get the message that you don't want to hear about it. Sounds like she needs to get a life, if she's that wrapped up in her dogs' sex life! -- -Kelly kelly at farringtons dot net "Wake up, and smell the cat food" -TMBG |
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I used to breed poodles and I quite frankly agree with you. We weren't
breeding for show, but did buy the best bitch we could find. Her only flaw was two white toenails. (She was red) We went to great lengths to find the best stud in 250 miles when it was time. Out of ten puppies, one was a perfect show quality male. And that doesn't mean he had the spark and personality to show well. No one wants to hear about anyone else's hobby in great and gory detail non-stop. And someone who feels compelled to discuss her dog's sex life non stop would gross me out too. Are you at least in the position to look bored and walk away? Possible muttering "gross" under your breath as you do? Jo "Cheryl" wrote in message ... I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. I have a friend who breeds her poodles. Her poodles are all pedigreed, though that means nothing to me. She shows them, and has won some ribbons and placements. Again, this means nothing to me. I honestly don't have issues with breeding for the sake of the breed, whether cat or dog or rabbit or whatever. But (!)... To me, breeding should only be done (if ever) if both male and female are perfect, whatever that means. Her female standard poodle came from champion lines however she has been judged as being non- show quality due to a broad muzzle (WTF does that mean. She isn't perfect, but it is her face FFS) Her male standard also came from champion lines and she is bound and determined to have puppies from the two of them. Why oh why??? If the female isn't "show quality" I suspect that she is "hoping" that the male's qualities will be dominant. Ugh! We work together so she is telling me every step of the way how they are progressing to mating. She tells me detailed accounts about his "technique" and she set up a web cam to "spy" on them to see when copulation takes place. I'm totally grossed out about it!! I just can't bring myself to tell her to shut up about the breeding details because I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT when so many mutts are dying, and this pair might not create another champion line. Ok, sorry but I needed to vent because I don't know how to tell her to her face how I feel. Call me spineless. I don't care, its how I feel. -- Cheryl /spineless in this case |
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"KellyH" wrote in message ... "Cheryl" wrote in message ... I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. snip Maybe do something quietly, like forward emails to her from HSUS about pet overpopulation and such. She might get the message that you don't want to hear about it. Sounds like she needs to get a life, if she's that wrapped up in her dogs' sex life! -- It does, and I for one think the kinder thing would be to let her know how she comes across--so that she can avoid further embarrassment. It sure beats trashing her to a bunch of people in a Usenet group. The things people sometimes do in the name of "politeness" just do not make sense to me. |
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Cheryl wrote: I don't want to have any replies saying what I should say to my friend about this; I already know what I would say if I had the guts to do so. I have a friend who breeds her poodles. Her poodles are all pedigreed, though that means nothing to me. She shows them, and has won some ribbons and placements. Again, this means nothing to me. I honestly don't have issues with breeding for the sake of the breed, whether cat or dog or rabbit or whatever. But (!)... To me, breeding should only be done (if ever) if both male and female are perfect, whatever that means. Her female standard poodle came from champion lines however she has been judged as being non- show quality due to a broad muzzle (WTF does that mean. She isn't perfect, but it is her face FFS) Her male standard also came from champion lines and she is bound and determined to have puppies from the two of them. Why oh why??? If the female isn't "show quality" I suspect that she is "hoping" that the male's qualities will be dominant. Ugh! We work together so she is telling me every step of the way how they are progressing to mating. She tells me detailed accounts about his "technique" and she set up a web cam to "spy" on them to see when copulation takes place. I'm totally grossed out about it!! Oh gross! I just can't bring myself to tell her to shut up about the breeding details because I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT when so many mutts are dying, and this pair might not create another champion line. Ok, sorry but I needed to vent because I don't know how to tell her to her face how I feel. Call me spineless. I don't care, its how I feel. -- Cheryl /spineless in this case I have a couple similar situations. A person I know just bred her standard poodle to a lab - Labradoodles. The bitch was sub-standard, while the dam (the poodle) is quite nice. All I could say was "Do you have homes lined up for all of the puppies already?" and "Now that they are here are you going to keep one?" and "Every litter of puppies puts the bitch at and additional 25% risk of mammary tumors." I just save my breath about the over pop problem - I have had this talk before. It falls on deaf ears. I also know a person who is purposely breeding *herself* and has absolutely no business doing so (medical, emotional and financial instability, to put it lightly - not going into it here). I guess she thinks I'm supposed to be happy for her. I have just avoided the situation altogether because it is such a train-wreck. -L. |
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