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DON'T FALL FOR IT
"Christina Websell" wrote in message
... "Granby" wrote in message ... I am so glad someone called this one for what it is. This is a subject that will never be solved and I would bet most anything that someone looked up the history and decided to start all the anger and sparring all over again. Thank you Matthew for stopping it before it blew up again. I believe it *can* be solved if all Americans on here when they went to TED asked them if they declaw. If they say "yes" ask them why. Tell them that America is the only place in the world where furniture is more important than cats, give them a guilt trip and threaten to take your business away from them if they admit to it. And keep doing it as you change vets. Flood the internet about how cruel declawing is and give your vet a hard time if s/he will do it. My vet certainly wouldn't unless my cat had a nail bed infection that could not be resolved any other way. We do not remove the claws from our cats here. We are intelligent enough to realise that they come with them installed and if you don't like it, don't have a cat. Why thank you, Tweed, for calling my entire country, and me, stupid - I wouldn't have known otherwise! Hugs, CatNipped |
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declaw or not to declaw?
"hopitus" wrote in message
... On Mar 31, 11:22 am, "CatNipped" wrote: wrote in message ... Will in New Haven wrote: I am rather uncaring about furniture. In fact, the last thing a woman said when she dumped me was "Bill, you are fifty and you don't even have any furniture you care about." I was really puzzled by that because I didn't think I SHOULD care about furniture. Will, this gave me a good laugh. Not only because she thought you should care about furniture, but that she thought it was somehow related to your *age*. Not only were you some Neanderthal who didn't care about furniture, but, OMG, you were *fifty* and didn't care about furniture! boggle The two of you were clearly not a good match and I think she did you a favor. My ex once said, in a fit of upset and without the slightest trace of irony, "I'm 37 years old and I don't even have matching plates!" This, by the way, was an accusation against me, because I was the one who made most of the money, so it was evidently my responsibility to provide us with the respectability of matching dishware... Joyce I have matching plates - and I *WISH* I now had the money I spent on them! They're sitting in a cupboard gathering dust and we're trying, often unsuccessfully, to feed ourselves and our clowder! Circumstances change quickly and even if you have the money to spend on "things" it might often be better to save it instead! Hugs, CatNipped Well, not if you buy things that hold their value well. Vehicles do not - example. I have never done this but have many friends/relatives who do this frequently.... get all the table service that matches (this only applies if it was pricey when you bought it; I assume it was) together, like on a large table, and take pics of it at different angles (some do it with their cellphones - warning: bad graphic quality for internet display!. Then pick out the best appearing shot and put it on EBay or CraigsList (I find CraigsList attracts a lot of trolls, IMHO) or other internet auction or sale website. Ask your friends about this idea (close friends). Ask Ben. You can always buy more china when things get better. People are selling off all kindsa stuff not just houses. But there are still plenty folks out there who scan these websites for goodies they want and can afford. We tried that, but it's not a "pretty" china - it's "Aunt Rhody" goose (with every possible accessory from gravy boat to soup cups to sugar bowls). Nobody seems to want it! ; We've already re-sold all the books we had in the house, and lots of electronic "toys" - unfortunately, used is used and you just don't get that much for used items. Hugs, CatNipped |
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declaw or not to declaw?
"hopitus" wrote in message
... Final hopitus gem of questionable wisdom: there is a lot more b.s. to be annoyed about lately than Tweeds's opinion of US legal system. Former colonist Hopitus says, "Rowdous takes no offense, Tweed" . If you were not across the pond he would give you a "love" bite. He has a bad temper for more than one reason". I know, and Tweed and I have been friends for a long, long time here - it's just, every once in a while, I get defensive about US bashing (gawd knows we do it enough to ourselves!). Hugs, CatNipped |
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declaw or not to declaw?
hopitus wrote:
On Mar 31, 11:50 am, "CatNipped" wrote: "Jo Firey" wrote in message (getting a little tired of having several hundred million people all lumped into one lot and then criticized) *Thank* you, Jo. I just dinged Tweed for doing just that - but at least she has the excuse of living in the UK and not *seeing in person* that we're not all barbarians. You have the right, Laurie, to be annoyed by US bashing. Sometimes when communicating with Brit friends I log in as "former colonist". I have said nothing to date re Tweed's opinion - which she also has a perfect right to - because as Evelyn pointed out in one post - US is the only First World power with no health care options for millions of its citizens...a really sore spot with me and one notch above the declawing obscenity to cats issue. I like Tweed because she does not mince her words even though I don't agree with some. Final hopitus gem of questionable wisdom: there is a lot more b.s. to be annoyed about lately than Tweeds's opinion of US legal system. Former colonist Hopitus says, "Rowdous takes no offense, Tweed" Thank *you*, Hopitus. Agreed, 100%! I am also Not Offended by Tweed's comments, as I agree with what she has said. To those who feel personally offended: Christina isn't insulting us as individuals. She is pointing out *facts*. And she does know us, as well as any of us can know each other over the 'net. I am personally enraged that we have 45 million people without any kind of health insurance, and are the only wealthy, Western nation in the world that does. So frankly, I'm glad to hear from Europeans, Canadians, and others who are critical of our system. Our system is completely broken. Lots of Americans read this newsgroup, and have a high regard for the non-Americans who post here. So my hope is that maybe some of that sensible thinking will rub off on anyone who still thinks it's acceptable that millions of people go without health care. Sheesh, it's not some radical communist plot that only freaks on the fringes of society people believe in. Most people from very mainstream, capitalist countries around the world consider universal health care to be non-controversial, a no- brainer, business as usual. For the record, most of the USA'ers who post here *do* recognize that something is very wrong with our health care system. I've seen it posted here many times. I agree with Tweed's comments about declawing too, but I'm sure she doesn't think that any of our regular American posters think that's OK. It's just a fact that it is still legal here. (But while I'm on the subject, may I take a moment to give a cheer for West Hollywood, California - the first city in the country to pass an ordinance against cat-declawing - whee! Those Limousine Liberals are at it again. ) Joyce -- To send email to this address, remove the triple-X from my user name. |
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declaw or not to declaw?
On Sat, 29 Mar 2008 20:05:05 +0100, Annie wrote:
i need to declaw my little mitzi because she is tearing up the furniture but my sister says thats cruel the vet says its fine and i believe him over my sister because she is one of those peta nuts who puts the welfare of animals over that of people annie Do some research into the surgery. It *is* a very extreme form of mutiliation. And if a declawed cat should ever escape from the house (no matter how careful you are it can and does happen) that cat would have no means of defense and would not be able to climb trees, etc to escape danger. It is also known to produce severe psychological stress (yes, cat's DO have psychological reactions, just like people do). Declawing a cat is a very lasting, very inhumane thing to do. A lot of vets do it for the money. Some vets do it even though they are opposed to the procedure. The vet I used to go to in California would first try to talk a potential customer out of the surgery, but would do it if the customer insisted. His rationale was that he would rather do it himself and know that it was being done carefully by someone who knew the dangers than run the risk of it being done by a money-hungry quack who was just concerned about getting it done quickly. There are other ways to keep furniture safe. Double-sided tape, etc. To consider declawing a cat just to protect your furniture would be akin to getting a permanent catheter run into a baby's urethra just to keep it from peeing on things while you're changing the diaper. If your furniture is important enough to you that you'd consider harming your cat to protect the furniture, you really ought to find a better home for the cat. |
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DON'T FALL FOR IT
Why thank you, Tweed, for calling my entire country, and me, stupid - I
wouldn't have known otherwise! Hugs, CatNipped I don't believe she was referring to the entire country, just to those who would get their cats declawed. And in that assessment I would have to agree with her. Dan |
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DON'T FALL FOR IT
"Daniel Mahoney" wrote in message
news Why thank you, Tweed, for calling my entire country, and me, stupid - I wouldn't have known otherwise! Hugs, CatNipped I don't believe she was referring to the entire country, just to those who would get their cats declawed. And in that assessment I would have to agree with her. Dan Dan, this is something that Tweed and I have been over before. I don't mind when someone has objections to a specific problem - but I do mind the sweeping generalizations that she tends to make (re, what you snipped "Tell them that America is the only place in the world where furniture is more important than cats" and "*WE* [emphasis mine] are intelligent enough to realise that they come with them installed and if you don't like it, don't have a cat."). She may not mean to be mean, but a lot of times it comes across like that. Hugs, CatNipped |
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declaw or not to declaw?
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... Joyce, I noticed in a few thread that you were not replying directly to me. Have I done something to offend you? I don't remember ever being in an argument with you, but I'm at the age where I'm having more and more senior moments. Hugs, CatNipped |
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