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Need help choosing new cat
My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get
another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa |
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Need help choosing new cat
"Wayne" wrote in message ... My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa Wayne almost any shelter will gladly let you spend some time with a mature cat. Check out in your area to see if there is a no kill shelter and talk to he workers they should be able to tell you how the cats are. At our shelter in Florida we have a play room that people can see the cats up close. |
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Need help choosing new cat
"Wayne" wrote in message
... My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Maine Coons like to hang out in the same room with you, but they *DON'T* like being held - definitely not a lap cat if that is what you're looking for. I'd agree you should get a cat that's at least 1 or 2 years old if you want to know what their temperment is like (and you'd also be saving a life - everyone adopts kittens and lots of very delightful adult cats are euthanized because everyone is looking to adopt a kitten and overlook adult cats). -- Hugs, CatNipped See all my masters at: http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/ Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa |
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Yes, adopt an adult cat. People at the shelters know their personalities and
can tell you all about them. You can also go to www.petfinder.com and look in your area for cats available in shelters or in rescue groups. Gail "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Wayne" wrote in message ... My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Maine Coons like to hang out in the same room with you, but they *DON'T* like being held - definitely not a lap cat if that is what you're looking for. I'd agree you should get a cat that's at least 1 or 2 years old if you want to know what their temperment is like (and you'd also be saving a life - everyone adopts kittens and lots of very delightful adult cats are euthanized because everyone is looking to adopt a kitten and overlook adult cats). -- Hugs, CatNipped See all my masters at: http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/ Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa |
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Need help choosing new cat
Wayne wrote: My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa |
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Wayne
We had to have our 20+ yr. old kitty put to sleep about a year ago. I THOUGHT I wanted a kitten when I went out to look last spring. I went to an area cat shelter and there was a 3-year old Maine Coon that just took my heart right away. I am SO glad I didn't get a kitten - I am not used to all that energy after 20 years with my other kitty. My 3 year old is plenty playful. And yes, Maine Coons are not lap cats, but they sit beside you and are following you all day. They love to be with you - on the desk by the computer, etc. They are the most gentle, funny, well behaved, intellegent cats I have ever had. And this is my first Maine Coon. I keep wondering why I hadn't discovered them before! Maine Coons are great! Sharon |
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Wayne wrote: My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. Hi Wayne, I suppose handling a kitten a lot might influence whether or not it's a lap cat, I don't know. We got lucky because both our cats will lay on our laps, although they are quite energetic too. In your situation, I would recommend adopting an adult cat, and preferably two of them. I think you'd have a better idea in how they interact with humans and each other. But don't forget, they will be in a new setting so might act differently. |
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Here are a couple pictures of my funny, loveable adopted Maine Coon. http://freepages.family.rootsweb.com...lamerica/1.jpg http://freepages.family.rootsweb.com...lamerica/2.jpg http://freepages.family.rootsweb.com...lamerica/3.jpg What's not to love?! Sharon |
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Wayne wrote:
My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa It is very hard to tell the personality of a cat you will get from the SPCA. The major problem being that their personality won't truly emerge until they get comfortable and settle in. Best to communicate with the staff about what you are looking for, they may have some insight into the pets they have. If you do decide on purebred... I have a Ragdoll breed cat that is just wonderful. Very sweet, laid back and loving... and many of them are lap cats. I'm in the Ottawa area as well. I had good success with a tuxedo cat I got from the SPCA and also good luck with a Ragdoll from a breeder. That breeder... http://www.fancyrags.com/ As per her website, she has a kitten available right now. |
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Wayne wrote: My wife and I are retired and our cat recently died and we want to get another. We have had several in the past years and we really want an affectionate cat that will sit on our laps while we watch TV or read. Not all cats will do this, some are friendly but skittish and will not sit on your lap and don't like to be held. Our kids want to get us a kitten (specifically a main coon) but I am afraid that if we get a kitten we don't know how it will be when it matures. I am thinking that adopting a mature cat from the SPCA (Humane Society here in Canada) might allow us to see first hand if a specific cat is acting they way we want. Excellent idea! I have been told that there is a critical socialization period when the kitten is small that can be used to influence it's behaviour but don't know what we have to do to produce the desired behaviour. We don't care about breeding or size-- just temperament Can you offer some advice? Thanks Wayne in Ottawa All I can tell you is what has worked for me in selecting cats for myself and helping others select cats as a volunteer at the Humane Society and as a vet tech. Adult cats may or may not display their true temperment while in a shelter - but you can pretty much bet that if a kitty is laid-back and likes to be handled while at the shelter, that the cat truly is that way most of the time. As for kittens, my test has always been to pick the kitten up, and hold it on its back, like a baby. If it lays back and relaxes in your hands, and lets you rub its belly, it has likely been handled as a younger kitten and will be a love bug if you continue to treat it as one. My experience has also been that neutered male cats are more tolerant of receiving affection when the human wants to give it than females; females tend to want to cuddle on their own terms. IMO, you cannot go wrong with a black or black-and-white tuxedo male kitten selected in the manner stated above. While some people do not believe in color traits linking to behavior, I have seen enough anecdotal evidence that I believe some personality traits are color-linked. This especially holds true for calicos and torties, orange males, black males, and black-and-white tux males. Also, the workers and volunteers at the SPCA or HS where you visit should be able to help match you with a cat that is likely to be a "good fit". Good luck and let us know what you decide! -L. |
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