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Help 5yr old cat submissive urination / defecation.
I trully do not know if anything can be done at this point. Figured
will throw it up there, see if someone had simmilar problem. The cat is 5 years old and extremely submissive. Its afraid of everything and anything and recently it started 'spilling outside'. The cycle goes: the cat gets scared I pet the cat, - she likes it I pick up the cat, put it on my lap and continue petting, sometimes she purrs in respones all of a sudden i feel the warm stuff all over my leg.... lift up the cat, and there she is peeing right on me. I begin to get ticked off. Throw the cat on the couch and proceed to clean up. Come back to move the cat from the spot where it lended all of a sudden it starts taking a dump right there. The alternative, it gets in the middle of the floor and as I approach it starts... well you got the picture. This happened on more then one occasion.. Has anyone seen anything like it? |
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"Arthur Mnev" wrote [a bunch of stuff about a "submissive" cat. Arthur. History, please. Where was she born, how long have you had her, etc. etc. etc. |
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"Mary" wrote in message . com...
"Arthur Mnev" wrote [a bunch of stuff about a "submissive" cat. Arthur. History, please. Where was she born, how long have you had her, etc. etc. etc. Mary, thanks for the reply. I'm Arthur's fiancee. My older cat, Princess, who is going through this situation, is a very emotional (shy and scarred most of the times) cat. She's about 5 years old (if not older). I adopted her from a lady who claimed to work for the local Maine Coon rescue about 4 years ago (she's nowhere to be reached like 99.9% of the times). At that time, the lady told us that Princess was 1 year old. She has always been a very shy and scarred cat. There was nothing we could do to bring out her cat's personalities. I had never asked for Princess' history as I had always been a dog person prior to adopting Princess. Initially, Arthur was getting along with Princess, and in return, Princess adored him. That was until last year when we adopted Miyako. Last year, a friend of ours gave us a kitten -Miyako- a pure breed Maine Coon, whose parents' won a lot of championships in Japan. Princess resented Miya at the beginning. She would hide on top of the cabinets, hissing at everybody who tried to approach her. She was extremely upset at Arthur, and was showing him all kinds of attitude (this was the first time ever I heard her hissing at anybody). But as time goes by, both Princess and Miya get along better. They still don't sleep together unless we're present. But they play together. I don't exactly know what happened to Princess. The "situation" started after Princess came back from the grooming saloon. When I picked her up, I didn't realized that the groomer had cut (some of )her left whiskers !!! I was extremely upset, fearing that this would hurt Princess. Friends told us to not worry as whiskers would grow back. After dropping Princess off at Arthur's place that weekend (she and Miya have been staying at Arthur's place temporarily), the "situation" started. Then it stopped for 3 weeks. Everytime I visit, I'd make sure that I'd pay more attention to Princess than to Miya (Miya's just more easygoing, happy-go-lucky kinda gal). Princess displays no problems whenever I'm around. Last weekend was the first time that I didn't stop by in 2 months (other weekends when I didn't stop by, Princess managed to be fine), and the "situation" started for the second round. Both Arthur and I have gone back and forth to find things that can potentially make Princess feels threatened. We came up with nothing. There isn't anything new in the house, no new perfume, no new food, no new litter. Princess has always been a very neat cat. She even sits properly (with both front paws alligned at all times). Any help is greatly appreciated. I know that Arthur's patience is running a bit low due to all kinds of stress (work related, etc). Princess had proven to be challenging, but we do love her dearly. We adopted Miya, hoping that the lil cat would bring out Princess' personalities (not the other way around). But this doesn't seem to help either. Thank you for your help, Theressa |
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"Mary" wrote in message . com...
"Arthur Mnev" wrote [a bunch of stuff about a "submissive" cat. Arthur. History, please. Where was she born, how long have you had her, etc. etc. etc. Mary, thanks for the reply. I'm Arthur's fiancee. My older cat, Princess, who is going through this situation, is a very emotional (shy and scarred most of the times) cat. She's about 5 years old (if not older). I adopted her from a lady who claimed to work for the local Maine Coon rescue about 4 years ago (she's nowhere to be reached like 99.9% of the times). At that time, the lady told us that Princess was 1 year old. She has always been a very shy and scarred cat. There was nothing we could do to bring out her cat's personalities. I had never asked for Princess' history as I had always been a dog person prior to adopting Princess. Initially, Arthur was getting along with Princess, and in return, Princess adored him. That was until last year when we adopted Miyako. Last year, a friend of ours gave us a kitten -Miyako- a pure breed Maine Coon, whose parents' won a lot of championships in Japan. Princess resented Miya at the beginning. She would hide on top of the cabinets, hissing at everybody who tried to approach her. She was extremely upset at Arthur, and was showing him all kinds of attitude (this was the first time ever I heard her hissing at anybody). But as time goes by, both Princess and Miya get along better. They still don't sleep together unless we're present. But they play together. I don't exactly know what happened to Princess. The "situation" started after Princess came back from the grooming saloon. When I picked her up, I didn't realized that the groomer had cut (some of )her left whiskers !!! I was extremely upset, fearing that this would hurt Princess. Friends told us to not worry as whiskers would grow back. After dropping Princess off at Arthur's place that weekend (she and Miya have been staying at Arthur's place temporarily), the "situation" started. Then it stopped for 3 weeks. Everytime I visit, I'd make sure that I'd pay more attention to Princess than to Miya (Miya's just more easygoing, happy-go-lucky kinda gal). Princess displays no problems whenever I'm around. Last weekend was the first time that I didn't stop by in 2 months (other weekends when I didn't stop by, Princess managed to be fine), and the "situation" started for the second round. Both Arthur and I have gone back and forth to find things that can potentially make Princess feels threatened. We came up with nothing. There isn't anything new in the house, no new perfume, no new food, no new litter. Princess has always been a very neat cat. She even sits properly (with both front paws alligned at all times). Any help is greatly appreciated. I know that Arthur's patience is running a bit low due to all kinds of stress (work related, etc). Princess had proven to be challenging, but we do love her dearly. We adopted Miya, hoping that the lil cat would bring out Princess' personalities (not the other way around). But this doesn't seem to help either. Thank you for your help, Theressa |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... The cycle, as the cat sees it... (regretfully snipped) Lastly, patience, patience, patience. The patience of a god. Really. If you can't do that some days (hard day at work, stress, whatever), don't interact with her at all that day. Better to leave her alone completely than to keep going in that cycle. If you think you will never have the patience, please consider rehoming her to someone who does. ~kaeli~ Keli, Sorry I had to snip, or my newsreader would not send. This is really great advice. I believe the cat has a medical condition and/or has been seriously abused, either during or previous to her present home. She needs constant kindness and understanding. I hope the O.P. follows your advice. Annie |
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In article ,
enlightened us with... Sorry I had to snip, or my newsreader would not send. This is really great advice. I believe the cat has a medical condition and/or has been seriously abused, either during or previous to her present home. She needs constant kindness and understanding. I hope the O.P. follows your advice. Annie *slaps self on forehead* I should have mentioned that possibility. Add taking the cat to the vet to rule out physical problems to that list of mine. Thanks Annie. -- -- ~kaeli~ If a parsley farmer is sued, can they garnish his wages? http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
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In article ,
enlightened us with... Sorry I had to snip, or my newsreader would not send. This is really great advice. I believe the cat has a medical condition and/or has been seriously abused, either during or previous to her present home. She needs constant kindness and understanding. I hope the O.P. follows your advice. Annie *slaps self on forehead* I should have mentioned that possibility. Add taking the cat to the vet to rule out physical problems to that list of mine. Thanks Annie. -- -- ~kaeli~ If a parsley farmer is sued, can they garnish his wages? http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... The cycle, as the cat sees it... (regretfully snipped) Lastly, patience, patience, patience. The patience of a god. Really. If you can't do that some days (hard day at work, stress, whatever), don't interact with her at all that day. Better to leave her alone completely than to keep going in that cycle. If you think you will never have the patience, please consider rehoming her to someone who does. ~kaeli~ Keli, Sorry I had to snip, or my newsreader would not send. This is really great advice. I believe the cat has a medical condition and/or has been seriously abused, either during or previous to her present home. She needs constant kindness and understanding. I hope the O.P. follows your advice. Annie |
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