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advice on seeking second opinion
Hello. I'm debating whether or not to take my cat for a second
opinion. Can anyone give me advice on a polite way to do this? Here's the background. I've always felt a little uncomfortable with my vet, but he's done a good job in the past, he's been around forever, he saved my cat's life, etc., so I figured I should stick with him, right? Over the last 2 months, I've taken my cat in twice for lethargy, weight loss, inability to jump, and apparent pain. The vet ran blood work the first time and prescribed antibiotics for a high white count and a mild fever. The second time, he tested for leukemia and took x-rays and more blood samples. Everything was fine. More antibiotics. I couldn't think of any good questions to ask, so I took the meds and left, feeling a little uncomfortable about the situation. Just recently I noticed that the cat's left hip was kind of sticking out a little. After doing research, it sounds like hip dysplasia. So, do you think I should stick with the same vet, or go to a new one? If I get a second opinion, what is the proper way to get the paper work for my cat and still leave the doors open for a good relationship with my current vet? Regardless of which I choose, what are some questions I should ask? Should I expect my vet to sit with me and go over options, answer my questions, take phone calls, and really work with me on helping my cat, or is that too much to ask? I know hey're busy, so it's hard for me to judge how much to push. Thanks for your continued advice, Joseph |
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advice on seeking second opinion
"Joseph O'Brien" wrote in
oups.com: Hello. I'm debating whether or not to take my cat for a second opinion. Can anyone give me advice on a polite way to do this? Here's the background. I've always felt a little uncomfortable with my vet, but he's done a good job in the past, he's been around forever, he saved my cat's life, etc., so I figured I should stick with him, right? Over the last 2 months, I've taken my cat in twice for lethargy, weight loss, inability to jump, and apparent pain. The vet ran blood work the first time and prescribed antibiotics for a high white count and a mild fever. The second time, he tested for leukemia and took x-rays and more blood samples. Everything was fine. More antibiotics. I couldn't think of any good questions to ask, so I took the meds and left, feeling a little uncomfortable about the situation. Just recently I noticed that the cat's left hip was kind of sticking out a little. After doing research, it sounds like hip dysplasia. So, do you think I should stick with the same vet, or go to a new one? If I get a second opinion, what is the proper way to get the paper work for my cat and still leave the doors open for a good relationship with my current vet? Regardless of which I choose, what are some questions I should ask? Should I expect my vet to sit with me and go over options, answer my questions, take phone calls, and really work with me on helping my cat, or is that too much to ask? I know hey're busy, so it's hard for me to judge how much to push. Thanks for your continued advice, Joseph Joseph, I am by no means an expert in any of this but having a terminally ill cat I have had to deal with some of these same things myself. I tried to tap into how I would act if it was ME seeing a human doctor. I would tell your vet that you want to become more involved in you cat's care and hope they (the vet) don't mind spending some time discussing the cat's care. Ask "what else could cause these blood numbers?" "How certain is this diagnosis?" "What treatment would you use if this was your spouse's cat?". Ask about prognoses. Doctors are expected to handle requests for a second opinion with professionalism and many do but they are also human so I feel your trepidation at asking the vet. This is why I think you need to increase the information flow between you and your vet; it may make you decide to stay or give you solid reasons to not. Not all vets are a match for all pet owners. Talk more to the vet; if they can't deal with that level of communication they are not the right vet for you and your cat. Andy |
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"Joseph O'Brien" wrote in message oups.com... Hello. I'm debating whether or not to take my cat for a second opinion. Can anyone give me advice on a polite way to do this? Here's the background. I've always felt a little uncomfortable with my vet, but he's done a good job in the past, he's been around forever, he saved my cat's life, etc., so I figured I should stick with him, right? Over the last 2 months, I've taken my cat in twice for lethargy, weight loss, inability to jump, and apparent pain. The vet ran blood work the first time and prescribed antibiotics for a high white count and a mild fever. The second time, he tested for leukemia and took x-rays and more blood samples. Everything was fine. More antibiotics. I couldn't think of any good questions to ask, so I took the meds and left, feeling a little uncomfortable about the situation. Just recently I noticed that the cat's left hip was kind of sticking out a little. After doing research, it sounds like hip dysplasia. So, do you think I should stick with the same vet, or go to a new one? If I get a second opinion, what is the proper way to get the paper work for my cat and still leave the doors open for a good relationship with my current vet? Regardless of which I choose, what are some questions I should ask? Should I expect my vet to sit with me and go over options, answer my questions, take phone calls, and really work with me on helping my cat, or is that too much to ask? I know hey're busy, so it's hard for me to judge how much to push. Thanks for your continued advice, Joseph You should always get a second opinion anytime you have a doubt- or feel uncomfortable with a vet's diagnosis or treatment. Its always a good idea to get a copy of all your cat's medical records- not only to avoid uncomfortable situations, but also to save precious time in the event of an emergency. Phil |
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advice on seeking second opinion
Yes, and a vet that is secure and professional will not mind that you are
getting a second opinion (the same as an MD). Gail "Phil P." wrote in message news:azvAg.8742$zV6.7038@trnddc03... "Joseph O'Brien" wrote in message oups.com... Hello. I'm debating whether or not to take my cat for a second opinion. Can anyone give me advice on a polite way to do this? Here's the background. I've always felt a little uncomfortable with my vet, but he's done a good job in the past, he's been around forever, he saved my cat's life, etc., so I figured I should stick with him, right? Over the last 2 months, I've taken my cat in twice for lethargy, weight loss, inability to jump, and apparent pain. The vet ran blood work the first time and prescribed antibiotics for a high white count and a mild fever. The second time, he tested for leukemia and took x-rays and more blood samples. Everything was fine. More antibiotics. I couldn't think of any good questions to ask, so I took the meds and left, feeling a little uncomfortable about the situation. Just recently I noticed that the cat's left hip was kind of sticking out a little. After doing research, it sounds like hip dysplasia. So, do you think I should stick with the same vet, or go to a new one? If I get a second opinion, what is the proper way to get the paper work for my cat and still leave the doors open for a good relationship with my current vet? Regardless of which I choose, what are some questions I should ask? Should I expect my vet to sit with me and go over options, answer my questions, take phone calls, and really work with me on helping my cat, or is that too much to ask? I know hey're busy, so it's hard for me to judge how much to push. Thanks for your continued advice, Joseph You should always get a second opinion anytime you have a doubt- or feel uncomfortable with a vet's diagnosis or treatment. Its always a good idea to get a copy of all your cat's medical records- not only to avoid uncomfortable situations, but also to save precious time in the event of an emergency. Phil |
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You should always get a second opinion anytime you have a doubt- or feel
uncomfortable with a vet's diagnosis or treatment. Its always a good idea to get a copy of all your cat's medical records- not only to avoid uncomfortable situations, but also to save precious time in the event of an emergency. Phil I agree completely. If you are uncertain or have concerns, it is your right to get another opinion. In fact, it is your duty, as your pet can't speak for himself. Call your current vet and request a copy of all medical records. Ask them to fax it to XXX number, or say you'll pick them up at XYZ time. You do not need to say any more. If they do ask, you can reply "I'd like to have copies for my records." (Then make another copy before giving them to another vet. You may need them again.) Rene |
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Phil P. wrote: You should always get a second opinion anytime you have a doubt- or feel uncomfortable with a vet's diagnosis or treatment. Its always a good idea to get a copy of all your cat's medical records- not only to avoid uncomfortable situations, but also to save precious time in the event of an emergency. I agree. I always ask for a copy of the bloodwork results. They really don't make much sense to me, but I can look up the numbers to see what the mean, and if I need to go to an emergency vet in a hurry, I can grab the info I have and take it with me. If you have copies, you don't even need to tell your vet that you are going for a second opinion. Just take what tou have to the new vet, ask for an exam, and let them look over what you have so far. If you like the new vet, great. If not keep looking or go back to the old one. I have tried a couple closer vets on several occasions. My old vet is further away, and I was hoping to find a closer vet I like. They were okay, but I liked my old one better. They never asked why I didn't do everything there. They've been great. I found out today that the vet and a couple of the techs drive further than I do to get there. |
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