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"Annie Wxill" wrote in message
... I think you made good suggestions, except for the "pain in the ass" part. There is a big difference between being assertive and being confrontational. Being assertive in a firm but pleasant and polite way is more likely to get you the service you want, at least that has been my experience. I suggest that the OP let the airline folks know she/he is anxious and this is a first time experience and she/he really needs the security of knowing what is going on. People are more likely to cooperate if you allow them to feel helpful instead of being bossed around. True, but having worked in customer service, pretty much anyone asking for something out of the ordinary is being a pain in the ass. When I said she should be a pain in the ass, I in no way implied that she needed to be confrontational. How she deals with people is up to her--she can do it politely or not. rona -- ***For e-mail, replace .com with .ca Sorry for the inconvenience!*** |
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"tioga 0630" wrote in message om... I may have to put my housecat on an airplane. This cat was relocated twice successfully in her youth, but only locally, within a few miles. She is now at least ten years old and perhaps older (she was either young or a very skinny stray when we found her). Thanks. I just realized that I did not address the issue of age in my original reply. Only your vet could adequately discuss the issue of health with you because your vet will know specifics about your cat's health. However, ten years old really is not old for a cat that has been well-cared-for (and I am sure yours has been). I made four trips (two round-trips) a year with my first cat for many years. The last one was when he was 19 years old. He was in the cabin with me for each trip, and that is important. His carrier was under the seat in front of me, and he could look up and see me at all times. I would lean over and talk to him frequently, but he also slept through a lot of the trip -- with *no* tranquilizer (except for the first time, which I mentioned in my original reply to you -- something I would never do again). My trips were not as long as yours, of course. Each one lasted about 3 hours each way. MaryL |
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My vet doesn't consider a 10 year old cat old, if that's any help. Make
sure your cat can travel in the cabin with you. Check this well in advance and you may need to contact more than one airline. Good luck, Barb |
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"MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote in message
I just realized that I did not address the issue of age in my original reply. Only your vet could adequately discuss the issue of health with you because your vet will know specifics about your cat's health. However, ten years old really is not old for a cat that has been well-cared-for (and I am sure yours has been). Mary and Barb (and anyone else!). Reading all your kind replies, I realized I omitted some very important information about Dorrie. I was neither her original "finder" nor "keeper." I actually was a cat...disliker until I sold my home and moved in with an elderly parent last year. Dorrie was left with this parent and resided primarily in the (cold) basement until I arrived. I started taking care of her, and--well, now I almost love her more than I love life. I trained her to live upstairs; she sleeps with me every night. Not to be (WAH! WAH!) a baby, but the situation is very complex. The parent in question is extremely difficult to live with and fairly unkind. Being unemployed and by training an English teacher, I have applied for work overseas. I've jettisoned literally everything I own except my laptop and Dorrie in order to accept work. Having said that, Dorrie has not been to a vet in 6+ years. As a former stray, she is extremely frightened of strangers, and even I have to guard my neck when I try to pick her up and carry her. The sister who found her, rescued her, and had her spayed and given routine initial shots, agrees that it might be useless to try to transport her to a vet who is literally an earth-angel (the kind who lets you bring your pet to him on gorgeous Saturday afternoons and charges, like, ten dollars). This sister, who no longer lives with our parent, is of the opinion the stress on Dorrie involved in picking her up and sticking her in a car, let alone a carrier, would be at least as bad as whatever ailment she might have. I do agree with this. When a previous poster on this thread warned that I'd have to remove Dorrie from a carrier at customs, I got heartsick. Dor has never worn a collar let alone a leash. She just "is what she is": a cat who was born wild. Anyway, those of you who are religious, please say prayers that God, or Y--weh, Allah, Buddah, or Whoever will look on me in my situation. I do not put Dorrie's life above mine (and my happiness has never been less). On the other hand, God (or Y--weh, or Allah, or Buddah, or Whomever) knows that Dorrie and Dorrie alone "rescued my life from the pit." I can't be separated from her. Not to sound too weird, but she's the only proof I've had for the past 12+ months that the Almighty hasn't forgotten me. Currently, TESL (teaching English as a second language) jobs seem the only that can 1) get me away from a parent who no longer deserves compassion, and 2) keep me gainfully employed in the vocation I trained for. Dr. Phil and folk like him aside, God bless them, it's impossible for me to mow lawns or flip burgers. Okay-- Major apologies for this overly weepy tearjerker of a post. The only reason I'm making it is because I cannot leave Dorrie. I'm not a wimp; I just can't leave her. So please just say some prayers for her and me. We're both middle-aged ladies who never had kids, and now we have each other, and I will no more say goodbye to her and give her away than I will say goodbye to myself. As far as giving her back to the sister who left her with our parent, my sister has other animals and for various reasons would be unable to give her the care she needs. (That's actually where I entered the picture to begin with.) But I'm too embarrassed to read any replies on this thread, because I'm afraid someone will write in and make fun of me. So if you have anything more to say (and you've all been so kind), please email me. |
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tioga wrote:
Snip 1. Take your cat to the vet. While it may be stressful for her you NEED to have her checked out. Do bloodwork to make sure she doesn't have any health issues cropping up. I have many cats, some ferals, and some of them hate the vet, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't go. Just like children, their health and welfare is more important than what they may like or dislike and I won't allow stress they might feel to stand in the way of their getting medical care. Believe me, the cat will get over it and be happy to be back home. You have to stop putting your emotions on the cat because it doesn't help her or you. 2. With the influx of immigrants to this country, and the need for them to learn the language in order to function in society, I'm surprised you can't find something right here in the USA. I would think there would be a real need for people that teach English as a second language and if I were you I would start by calling the INS and local schools to find out what's available or needed. You may be able to work out something with a library, get space there or get some donated for your use a few times a week, and start your own teaching gig. I don't think you have to resort to moving out of the country to do what you do, and it sounds like you have abilities that you can capitalize on. Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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wrote in message ... tioga wrote: Snip 1. Take your cat to the vet. While it may be stressful for her you NEED to have her checked out. Do bloodwork to make sure she doesn't have any health issues cropping up. I have many cats, some ferals, and some of them hate the vet, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't go. Just like children, their health and welfare is more important than what they may like or dislike and I won't allow stress they might feel to stand in the way of their getting medical care. Believe me, the cat will get over it and be happy to be back home. You have to stop putting your emotions on the cat because it doesn't help her or you. 2. With the influx of immigrants to this country, and the need for them to learn the language in order to function in society, I'm surprised you can't find something right here in the USA. I would think there would be a real need for people that teach English as a second language and if I were you I would start by calling the INS and local schools to find out what's available or needed. You may be able to work out something with a library, get space there or get some donated for your use a few times a week, and start your own teaching gig. I don't think you have to resort to moving out of the country to do what you do, and it sounds like you have abilities that you can capitalize on. Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray To add to what Megan has written: In addition to the need to have your cat checked by a vet in order to care for her health properly, you will find that you *must* have a rabies certificate and a health certificate in order to travel with your can on any airline (or, at least, any that I know of). Are you certified to teach in the public schools (any state)? If so, you may have given up too quickly on finding a job. I am an educator and live in Texas, and TESL is in high demand. MaryL |
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"Barb" wrote in message ... We have a ton of immigrants around here (NY) and they are always looking for ESL teachers but they want you to volunteer. (No pay!) Barb I'm sure that is true is many areas. However, ESL is part of the curriculum in many Texas schools. TESL eachers (not volunteers) must be certified. Here is the URL for the State Board of Certification. This link describes the test framework for certification. http://www.sbec.state.tx.us/SBECOnli...024&height=768 The OP could click on items in the left-hand frame to look up requirements, rules and other information. I hope this helps. MaryL |
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We have a ton of immigrants around here (NY) and they are always looking for
ESL teachers but they want you to volunteer. (No pay!) Barb |
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