Love is in the air.. Or I guess not

"Hans Schrøder" had some very interesting things
to say about Love is in the air.. Or I guess not:

We have been talking a lot during the past months, and she has told me that
she doesn't like cats. Doesn't like cats? I thought that when she met my two
loved ones she would change her mind about that, but the final answer came
today.

Strike one: you like cats and she doesn't.

Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on TV
when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching football?
You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without even
sitting down for five minutes.

Strike two: she insults you in public, in front of your friends.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

Why should you? They had you before she came along, and IMO they treat
you better.

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she doesn't
trust black people...

Strike three (and it's a biggie!): she's a bigot.

Trust me, you CAN do MUCH better than this b*tch.

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Hans Schrøder wrote:
So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...

Good for you!

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Hans Schrøder wrote:
So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
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Good for you!

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"Hans Schrder" wrote:

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)!

Hans, you're well rid of her. If she's this annoying now, I'm sure you
would hate her after living with her a while! These kinds of differences
between people usually get worse over time, not better. Besides, she
sounds immature and bigotted to me. I'm sure there's someone out there
who's much better for you. (Hey, why not volunteer at an animal shelter?
At least you would know that any woman you met there would be an animal
lover!)

Joyce

"Hans Schrder" wrote:

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)!

Hans, you're well rid of her. If she's this annoying now, I'm sure you
would hate her after living with her a while! These kinds of differences
between people usually get worse over time, not better. Besides, she
sounds immature and bigotted to me. I'm sure there's someone out there
who's much better for you. (Hey, why not volunteer at an animal shelter?
At least you would know that any woman you met there would be an animal
lover!)

Joyce

"Hans Schrøder" wrote in message
...
This is both on and off topic, but anyway...

Lately, a girl (no, woman) has more and more made it clear to me that she
thinks I am the answer to her dreams. On Friday she told me in pure words.
Of course I was flattered, because I like her very much, too, but... I
just don't think I can do it.

We have been talking a lot during the past months, and she has told me
that she doesn't like cats. Doesn't like cats? I thought that when she met
my two loved ones she would change her mind about that, but the final
answer came today.

Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on
TV when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching
football? You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without
even sitting down for five minutes.

I just can't figure out how to deal with sharing my life with her, having
to apologize for having cats, and to apologize for being interested in
football.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she
doesn't trust black people...

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a
line... :-)

Hans


Anyone who is attached to cats and football is unlikely to be happy in a
partnership with someone who dislikes both.

As far as the black doctor goes, give her the benefit of the doubt. I've
had doctors from a virtual united nations of cultural backgrounds. And
aside from some communication problems it been pretty much fine. With the
exception of one black doctor who worked for the medical group I use
briefly. He was a good doctor. Hit a difficult diagnosis on the head first
try. But he was also an arrogant disagreeable asshole. Who never listened
to patients. I'd trust him with my life if I were comatose, but if I were
conscious and he were treating me the stress would likely cause a stroke.

Brilliant scientific mind. No people skills whatsoever. And he wasn't even
a surgeon.

Jo

"Hans Schrøder" wrote in message
...
This is both on and off topic, but anyway...

Lately, a girl (no, woman) has more and more made it clear to me that she
thinks I am the answer to her dreams. On Friday she told me in pure words.
Of course I was flattered, because I like her very much, too, but... I
just don't think I can do it.

We have been talking a lot during the past months, and she has told me
that she doesn't like cats. Doesn't like cats? I thought that when she met
my two loved ones she would change her mind about that, but the final
answer came today.

Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on
TV when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching
football? You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without
even sitting down for five minutes.

I just can't figure out how to deal with sharing my life with her, having
to apologize for having cats, and to apologize for being interested in
football.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she
doesn't trust black people...

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a
line... :-)

Hans


Anyone who is attached to cats and football is unlikely to be happy in a
partnership with someone who dislikes both.

As far as the black doctor goes, give her the benefit of the doubt. I've
had doctors from a virtual united nations of cultural backgrounds. And
aside from some communication problems it been pretty much fine. With the
exception of one black doctor who worked for the medical group I use
briefly. He was a good doctor. Hit a difficult diagnosis on the head first
try. But he was also an arrogant disagreeable asshole. Who never listened
to patients. I'd trust him with my life if I were comatose, but if I were
conscious and he were treating me the stress would likely cause a stroke.

Brilliant scientific mind. No people skills whatsoever. And he wasn't even
a surgeon.

Jo

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Sensible man. Whilst I can understand the dislike of football ... I'm a cycling
fan myself ;-) The dislike of cats is unforgiveable, as is the racism.

Get yourself a proper woman!

Cheers, helen s


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So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Sensible man. Whilst I can understand the dislike of football ... I'm a cycling
fan myself ;-) The dislike of cats is unforgiveable, as is the racism.

Get yourself a proper woman!

Cheers, helen s


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As far as the black doctor goes, give her the benefit of the doubt. I've
had doctors from a virtual united nations of cultural backgrounds. And
aside from some communication problems it been pretty much fine. With the
exception of one black doctor who worked for the medical group I use
briefly. He was a good doctor. Hit a difficult diagnosis on the head first
try. But he was also an arrogant disagreeable asshole. Who never listened
to patients. I'd trust him with my life if I were comatose, but if I were
conscious and he were treating me the stress would likely cause a stroke.

Brilliant scientific mind. No people skills whatsoever. And he wasn't even
a surgeon.

Jo

I wouldn't give her the benefit of the doubt as explained by Hans. In his post
he didn't say the girl freaked out because there were communication problems or
that the doc was an arrogant fool, just that he was black. That's racism -
period. Communication problems occur in all sorts of situations, and arrogance
can appear in all genders, races, religions, cultures etc. But I think that to
object to being examined by any doc just on grounds of skin colour of said doc
is not acceptable IMO.

Just my £0.02 :-)

Cheers, helen s



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