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Yes in my 71 years I have outlived quite a few beloved cats, and dogs
and it doesn't get any easier! Purrs and Hugs for Crackles and youself and my deepfelt sympathy. Jean.P. EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) wrote in message ... P. Cox wrote: The results of Crackles biopsy has came back and he has cancer. He has only one option which is a very expensive surgery on his ear and only if it hasn't spread to his lungs. An xray would determine if its gone to the lungs. The operation would have to be done by a specialist and I was told would be $1000 and would have to be done very soon. I didn't get to talk to the main vet that did the biopsy operation but one of the vets that fills in for her so I don't know what his chaces are if he has the surgery. Ok I gotta stop writting now I am crying again. Of course you are devastated, but perhaps you should stop and think of what the cat would choose, if he could speak? You may remember I had to make a similar decision last summer, when my Patches was put to sleep. He had developed a skin cancer (I'm told white cats - especially outdoor cats - are prone to such, as are fair-skinned humans). I have never believed in putting an animal through the horrors of chemotherapy, etc. (I don't REALLY believe in putting humans through it, either, but they are at least able to weigh the factors and choose for themselves.) Fortunately I was spared that decision, because he developed an apparent respiratory infection which didn't respond to antibiotics, the assumption was that the cancer had metasticized, and euthanasia was really the only option (other than letting hinm suffer until he died of "natural causes"). It's not just a matter of the expense - I know most of us are perfectly willing to spend whatever is necessary to keep our cats healthy, whether we can "afford" it or not. But if the ultimate prognosis is poor, and the animal is being subjected to uncomfortable treatments that may or may not work (and without being able to understand WHY it is being made to suffer)..... It's a difficult decison, and I suspect we all feel guilty when we make it, but animals accept death much more readily than humans do - it is, after all, a natural part of existence, and they don't carry all the intellectual baggage about it that we do. Purrs and prayers for you and Crackles, whatever you decide to do. (I'm sure you know that you have the support of all of us, most of whom have outlived one or more of our furry companions.) |
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Yes in my 71 years I have outlived quite a few beloved cats, and dogs
and it doesn't get any easier! Purrs and Hugs for Crackles and youself and my deepfelt sympathy. Jean.P. EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) wrote in message ... P. Cox wrote: The results of Crackles biopsy has came back and he has cancer. He has only one option which is a very expensive surgery on his ear and only if it hasn't spread to his lungs. An xray would determine if its gone to the lungs. The operation would have to be done by a specialist and I was told would be $1000 and would have to be done very soon. I didn't get to talk to the main vet that did the biopsy operation but one of the vets that fills in for her so I don't know what his chaces are if he has the surgery. Ok I gotta stop writting now I am crying again. Of course you are devastated, but perhaps you should stop and think of what the cat would choose, if he could speak? You may remember I had to make a similar decision last summer, when my Patches was put to sleep. He had developed a skin cancer (I'm told white cats - especially outdoor cats - are prone to such, as are fair-skinned humans). I have never believed in putting an animal through the horrors of chemotherapy, etc. (I don't REALLY believe in putting humans through it, either, but they are at least able to weigh the factors and choose for themselves.) Fortunately I was spared that decision, because he developed an apparent respiratory infection which didn't respond to antibiotics, the assumption was that the cancer had metasticized, and euthanasia was really the only option (other than letting hinm suffer until he died of "natural causes"). It's not just a matter of the expense - I know most of us are perfectly willing to spend whatever is necessary to keep our cats healthy, whether we can "afford" it or not. But if the ultimate prognosis is poor, and the animal is being subjected to uncomfortable treatments that may or may not work (and without being able to understand WHY it is being made to suffer)..... It's a difficult decison, and I suspect we all feel guilty when we make it, but animals accept death much more readily than humans do - it is, after all, a natural part of existence, and they don't carry all the intellectual baggage about it that we do. Purrs and prayers for you and Crackles, whatever you decide to do. (I'm sure you know that you have the support of all of us, most of whom have outlived one or more of our furry companions.) |
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Yes in my 71 years I have outlived quite a few beloved cats, and dogs
and it doesn't get any easier! Purrs and Hugs for Crackles and youself and my deepfelt sympathy. Jean.P. EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) wrote in message ... P. Cox wrote: The results of Crackles biopsy has came back and he has cancer. He has only one option which is a very expensive surgery on his ear and only if it hasn't spread to his lungs. An xray would determine if its gone to the lungs. The operation would have to be done by a specialist and I was told would be $1000 and would have to be done very soon. I didn't get to talk to the main vet that did the biopsy operation but one of the vets that fills in for her so I don't know what his chaces are if he has the surgery. Ok I gotta stop writting now I am crying again. Of course you are devastated, but perhaps you should stop and think of what the cat would choose, if he could speak? You may remember I had to make a similar decision last summer, when my Patches was put to sleep. He had developed a skin cancer (I'm told white cats - especially outdoor cats - are prone to such, as are fair-skinned humans). I have never believed in putting an animal through the horrors of chemotherapy, etc. (I don't REALLY believe in putting humans through it, either, but they are at least able to weigh the factors and choose for themselves.) Fortunately I was spared that decision, because he developed an apparent respiratory infection which didn't respond to antibiotics, the assumption was that the cancer had metasticized, and euthanasia was really the only option (other than letting hinm suffer until he died of "natural causes"). It's not just a matter of the expense - I know most of us are perfectly willing to spend whatever is necessary to keep our cats healthy, whether we can "afford" it or not. But if the ultimate prognosis is poor, and the animal is being subjected to uncomfortable treatments that may or may not work (and without being able to understand WHY it is being made to suffer)..... It's a difficult decison, and I suspect we all feel guilty when we make it, but animals accept death much more readily than humans do - it is, after all, a natural part of existence, and they don't carry all the intellectual baggage about it that we do. Purrs and prayers for you and Crackles, whatever you decide to do. (I'm sure you know that you have the support of all of us, most of whom have outlived one or more of our furry companions.) |
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So very sorry to hear the news about Crackles after all you and he have been through already. :-( (snip) If the operation would give him a good chance I'd be willing to try it but moneywise I don't have it but if the specialist would be willing to trade services or something(I do graphic design). I need to talk to the vet before I make any kind of decision, if there is a big chance it likely wouldn't work I wouldn't do it and if the specialist isn't willing to trade I couldn't do it anyway. A specialist needs brochures and such don't ya think? Definitely worth a try!! I'm also a graphic designer/illustrator and have done jobs for several surgeons & specialist (human, not animal) in the past, all of which were privately funded. For example, I've done personal stationery (letterhead, comps slips, business card), personal brochure advertising their services to clients, brochure describing illnesses for their patients, doctor's surgery brochure, colour charts showing anatomy etc. Take your professional portfolio with you when you make the suggestion or he won't take you seriously. Make a list of the usual prices he would expect to pay for these services. Don't forget, it won't just be his time/expertise that you must cover, but the facilities belonging to the vet hospital where he will operate (if it comes to it) plus drugs etc, so it may be more than one person that needs paying. Just my £0.02. I hope you find a solution that is the best for Crackles and you. Purrs Deb. -- http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield |
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P. Cox wrote:
So very sorry to hear the news about Crackles after all you and he have been through already. :-( (snip) If the operation would give him a good chance I'd be willing to try it but moneywise I don't have it but if the specialist would be willing to trade services or something(I do graphic design). I need to talk to the vet before I make any kind of decision, if there is a big chance it likely wouldn't work I wouldn't do it and if the specialist isn't willing to trade I couldn't do it anyway. A specialist needs brochures and such don't ya think? Definitely worth a try!! I'm also a graphic designer/illustrator and have done jobs for several surgeons & specialist (human, not animal) in the past, all of which were privately funded. For example, I've done personal stationery (letterhead, comps slips, business card), personal brochure advertising their services to clients, brochure describing illnesses for their patients, doctor's surgery brochure, colour charts showing anatomy etc. Take your professional portfolio with you when you make the suggestion or he won't take you seriously. Make a list of the usual prices he would expect to pay for these services. Don't forget, it won't just be his time/expertise that you must cover, but the facilities belonging to the vet hospital where he will operate (if it comes to it) plus drugs etc, so it may be more than one person that needs paying. Just my £0.02. I hope you find a solution that is the best for Crackles and you. Purrs Deb. -- http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield |
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P. Cox wrote:
So very sorry to hear the news about Crackles after all you and he have been through already. :-( (snip) If the operation would give him a good chance I'd be willing to try it but moneywise I don't have it but if the specialist would be willing to trade services or something(I do graphic design). I need to talk to the vet before I make any kind of decision, if there is a big chance it likely wouldn't work I wouldn't do it and if the specialist isn't willing to trade I couldn't do it anyway. A specialist needs brochures and such don't ya think? Definitely worth a try!! I'm also a graphic designer/illustrator and have done jobs for several surgeons & specialist (human, not animal) in the past, all of which were privately funded. For example, I've done personal stationery (letterhead, comps slips, business card), personal brochure advertising their services to clients, brochure describing illnesses for their patients, doctor's surgery brochure, colour charts showing anatomy etc. Take your professional portfolio with you when you make the suggestion or he won't take you seriously. Make a list of the usual prices he would expect to pay for these services. Don't forget, it won't just be his time/expertise that you must cover, but the facilities belonging to the vet hospital where he will operate (if it comes to it) plus drugs etc, so it may be more than one person that needs paying. Just my £0.02. I hope you find a solution that is the best for Crackles and you. Purrs Deb. -- http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield |
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Thanks Deb, I hope I find the specialist in need of some design work. I
approached the vet about it when Orangie got sick but she said she is so busy now she doesn't need anything. I will say she almost always has a waiting room full. There isn't many vets in this area so I guess a phonebook ad gets them all the business they can handle. I hope specialists are in need of materials, I was thinking of brochures to explain procedures and illnesses and such. I could make him a whole series and not care if he gets the better end of the deal if he could help crackles. I'm not sure about what values to present tho, I've only worked in an Inhouse graphics department before so we didn't have to deal with billing or anything. Any Suggestions? p |
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Thanks Deb, I hope I find the specialist in need of some design work. I
approached the vet about it when Orangie got sick but she said she is so busy now she doesn't need anything. I will say she almost always has a waiting room full. There isn't many vets in this area so I guess a phonebook ad gets them all the business they can handle. I hope specialists are in need of materials, I was thinking of brochures to explain procedures and illnesses and such. I could make him a whole series and not care if he gets the better end of the deal if he could help crackles. I'm not sure about what values to present tho, I've only worked in an Inhouse graphics department before so we didn't have to deal with billing or anything. Any Suggestions? p |
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Thanks Deb, I hope I find the specialist in need of some design work. I
approached the vet about it when Orangie got sick but she said she is so busy now she doesn't need anything. I will say she almost always has a waiting room full. There isn't many vets in this area so I guess a phonebook ad gets them all the business they can handle. I hope specialists are in need of materials, I was thinking of brochures to explain procedures and illnesses and such. I could make him a whole series and not care if he gets the better end of the deal if he could help crackles. I'm not sure about what values to present tho, I've only worked in an Inhouse graphics department before so we didn't have to deal with billing or anything. Any Suggestions? p |
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P. Cox wrote:
(snip) I hope specialists are in need of materials, I was thinking of brochures to explain procedures and illnesses and such. I could make him a whole series and not care if he gets the better end of the deal if he could help crackles. I'm not sure about what values to present tho, I've only worked in an Inhouse graphics department before so we didn't have to deal with billing or anything. Any Suggestions? p Certainly human specialists usually like having brochures - or factsheets, etc. You could even ask if he has a website - perhaps he could do with some images or logos for that. Do you do website design? Websites are expensive and if you are prepared to do a nice one for him for free (and/or the vet hospital), that is a fair deal. Re. pricing, it's very individual and as I'm in the UK it may not be comparable. You can get really cheap one-color tri-fold brochures done by your local copy shop, or you can pay mega bucks and get a specialist design agency to do a full colour job to your exact specifications. I did a quick web search and prices seem to range from $40 to $175 per hour. A few online services charge around $300 for a set number of brochures including printing, but I guess the design you get for that prices wouldn't be that special. Other companies charge $400 per page!! I recently charged £150 (around $280) for a set of letterheads, comps slips and business cards, including design of company logo, but that was for a friend and it was very much cut-price! Should probably have been 2-3 times more than that commercially. Of course you don't want to pay for printing so he would have to pay for that - unless you run off a set number on your home printer, or design it so it can be copied in-house or printed on his own PC. I would think the first hurdle is to see if Crackles can have the surgery at all, or if it isn't an option. If he can, and if the vet is interested in the idea of payment in kind, then you can discuss what he might want and what you can do. I would think a series of illustrated fact sheets for pet owners should be attractive to any decent specialist, and maybe he will be prepared to copy them in-house for free (if grayscale) or print out a dozen at a time on a home PC (if colour). Maybe add in the offer of personalised stationery design for him as well, and a logo/business card - again that can be printed on a home PC setup using the pre-cut blank cards, I would think most professionals would like to have that. As you say, be prepared to give quite a bit more than you receive, so to speak - if he is prepared to go along with it, it's definitely worth it if Crackles can benefit from the operation. Hope this helps - Deb. -- http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield |
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