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[OT] The process has begun
DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday
or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot -- Home Pages: http://www.moonsummer.com http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats) http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb....mmer/index.htm (genealogy) http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against Animals in Movies Website) |
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[OT] The process has begun
"Ginger-lyn" wrote in message
... DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot (((((((((Ginger-lyn))))))))) Joy |
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[OT] The process has begun
I am sorry, Lee
Ginger-lyn wrote in message ... DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot -- Home Pages: http://www.moonsummer.com http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats) http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb....mmer/index.htm (genealogy) http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against Animals in Movies Website) |
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The process has begun
On 28 Jan., 19:40, Ginger-lyn wrote:
DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. *My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. *And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. *But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. *That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. *Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). *That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. *It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). *I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. *I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. *The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. *I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. *I'm sad. *I'm depressed. *I'm lost. *And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot Heyyy - slow down. Things change. There will be good things coming to you. Be sure of that. Life`s supposed to be getting better. {{{Ginger-Lyn}}} You are never alone. Help will always come. love Bettina |
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[OT] The process has begun
Ginger-lyn wrote:
DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot {{{{{{{{{{{{ Ginger-lyn }}}}}}}}}}}} -- Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera) Cats leave pawprints on your heart http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk |
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[OT] The process has begun
Ginger-lyn wrote in
: DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot I wont repeat some of the great answers others have given. I will only say you would be an idiot if you did NOT feel sad, depressed, terrified and lost. As the others, my thoughts and wishes for better times are going out to you. Andy |
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[OT] The process has begun
Whether divorced or widowed we all face these fears. Just keep to a budget,
save where you can and use the programs that are there when you need them. Coupons are a good thing. Prayers for you both. "Stormmee" wrote in message ... I am sorry, Lee Ginger-lyn wrote in message ... DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot -- Home Pages: http://www.moonsummer.com http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats) http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb....mmer/index.htm (genealogy) http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against Animals in Movies Website) |
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Ginger-lyn wrote:
I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. {{{{{{{{{{{{{Ginger-lyn}}}}}}}}}}}}} -- Victor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM) Send your spam he Email me he |
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[OT] The process has begun
"Ginger-lyn" skrev i meddelandet ... DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Ginger-lyn Professional Idiot HUGS!!!! Elisabet |
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[OT] The process has begun
"Ginger-lyn" wrote in message ... DH has made arrangements to move in with a friend, starting this Friday or Saturday. My reaction is to cry; his reaction is to snap at me. I know I did all I could. And I know that it will be much better emotionally for me once he is gone. But I do not know how I will survive, and I am terrified. He will be moving back in with the same friend he stayed with during our "trial" separation. That didn't work out too well, so I hope it works better this time. Because this time, he is NOT coming back. I will be getting half his paycheck (for now). That will cover rent, cat food and litter, and some food for me. It won't cover utilities or credit card debt (and mine is *huge*). I think I can get on a program that will reduce my utilities (based on income), so that should help. I am going to have to cancel my dial-up backup, all the fancy things on the phone I just got recently, and I'm not sure yet what else. The cats will probably have to go on cheap food instead of the good stuff they're getting now. I eat very little, and their are food pantries around, so I am not too worried about food. I'm babbling. I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lost. And I'm crying again. Oh my dear, Ginger-Lyn, I never know what to say in these cases, except I certainly know you're not an idiot-- you're a wonderful, unique, caring person. My heart goes out to you, and we are sending you mucho, mucho cyber-hugs, purrs and headbutts. Please keep us RPCA folk in the loop and don't be a stranger. This group has been more help to me in more ways than it knows. |
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