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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
Hi guys -
I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet and I work 9-5 so I try to leave lots of toys around for kitty to play with and make sure the windows are open so she can sit on the sills and bask in the sunlight and survey her domain. She really doesn't play with the toys, and I am beginning to feel that she is very bored in her surroundings. Recently, there's been a stray coming around that is very sweet. He seems to have been someone's cat as he understands indoors and it appears he knows how to use a litter box. I don't plan on bringing him in until I could take him to the vet and get him thoroughly checked out though. Problem is, whenever there's another cat outside, my cat goes wild. She seems to have calmed down a slight bit with this cat hanging around quite often, but they still hiss and moan at each other through the screen door. I want to do this stray a favor and give him a home, but I don't want to inadvertently stress my cat out MORE by trying to get her a playmate. I've read up on acclimating cats to each other, and there are two "rooms" in my apartment that I could use to keep them separated for a week or so and while I'm at work until I'm home to supervise encounters.. but this might make my current cat freak out. I'm also worried about the smallness of my apartment. What should I do? Take him to the vet, check him out and then make a decision? Or should I just take him to the pound so he at least has a chance that someone will find him a loving home? |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
wrote in message ... Hi guys - I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet Are you happy living in a place this size? I would love to offer advice, but I cannot imagine living in anything this small myself, with one cat, let alone two. I am wondering if perhaps this apartment is not temporary for you, if you might not envision moving to something larger some time soon. My instinct is, that given your cat's aggression toward other cats and the size of your place, and that you work 9-5 and will not be home to supervise, taking the stray is not the best idea. But please don't take him anywhere but to a "no kill" shelter, or to a friend who might want him. I don't know for sure but it looks like you are in Lake Mary, FL? They must have no-kill shelters there, it is near Orlando, isn't it? |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
There's no way to predict whether they'll get along. I've had a lot
of cats and it seems like the ones I think will accept a new cat usually have a harder time than the ones I thought would hate it. Obviously you've thought it over and are willing to make the commitment. If you can handle the cats in your apartment size then give it a try. If it doesn't work out, you can always try and find a home for the new one, but at least you tried and she's better off in your small apartment than trying to fend for herself outside. Good luck, I hope it works out! On Apr 18, 9:50*am, wrote: Hi guys - I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet and I work 9-5 so I try to leave lots of toys around for kitty to play with and make sure the windows are open so she can sit on the sills and bask in the sunlight and survey her domain. She really doesn't play with the toys, and I am beginning to feel that she is very bored in her surroundings. Recently, there's been a stray coming around that is very sweet. He seems to have been someone's cat as he understands indoors and it appears he knows how to use a litter box. I don't plan on bringing him in until I could take him to the vet and get him thoroughly checked out though. Problem is, whenever there's another cat outside, my cat goes wild. She seems to have calmed down a slight bit with this cat hanging around quite often, but they still hiss and moan at each other through the screen door. I want to do this stray a favor and give him a home, but I don't want to inadvertently stress my cat out MORE by trying to get her a playmate. I've read up on acclimating cats to each other, and there are two "rooms" in my apartment that I could use to keep them separated for a week or so and while I'm at work until I'm home to supervise encounters.. but this might make my current cat freak out. I'm also worried about the smallness of my apartment. What should I do? Take him to the vet, check him out and then make a decision? Or should I just take him to the pound so he at least has a chance that someone will find him a loving home? |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
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Recently, there's been a stray coming around that is very sweet. If you can handle the cat, then pick it up and put it in a cat-carrier and take it to your vet. Tell your vet you don't know this cat's history, age, sex, etc, but you want it spayed or neutered (if it isn't already - it can be hard to tell) and you want to give it the normal set of vaccines (rhinotracheitus, calici, panleukopenia, leukemia, and rabies) as well as a Revolution treatment. If you want to be really complete, have the vet shove a drontal or milbemax pill down it's throat during recovery. You will want to do ALL those things if you even remotely think you'll adopt it yourself. You'll probably pay $200 for all that, maybe $250 if it's a female. Can you afford it? If it's a female, she'll probably spend the night at the vets - if male then you'll pick him up at the end of the day before the vet closes. You'll take a GOOD digital picture of the cat (either before or after you take it to the vet, before is better) and you'll go to www.kijiji.com and find your city (or closest city) and post a message in the community lost-and-found section. You'll post that you found a cat and you'll include the picture. When you bring the cat home, keep it confined / isolated for a week in a conveient room. See if anyone replies to your Kijiji ad. If you live near appartment buildings or other high-density residences, then post a "cat found" note near the mailboxes. If no-one responds, then either keep the cat, or let it go. If you let it go, then at least it will (a) not procreate, and (b) will not resonably become infected with anything nasty and will have a fair chance of living long enough to be found by someone who can give it a proper home, and (c) because you've neutered/spayed it, it will have a better chance of becoming a non-terratorial, non-spraying pet for someone. Besides preventing procreation, getting a cat spayed or neutered is practically the same as saving it's life. Why? Because a spayed or neutered cat is MUCH more adoptible, and MUCH less prone to fighting issues with other cats, and will have a greater ability to be integrated into someone's home without any social, personality, or behavioral issues. The younger you get a cat spayed / neutered, the better (at least no later than 6 -8 months of age anyways) but in your case the cat is almost certainly a year old at least, so time is of the essence. Does all this help? |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
wrote in message ... Hi guys - I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet and I work 9-5 so I try to leave lots of toys around for kitty to play with and make sure the windows are open so she can sit on the sills and bask in the sunlight and survey her domain. She really doesn't play with the toys, and I am beginning to feel that she is very bored in her surroundings. Recently, there's been a stray coming around that is very sweet. He seems to have been someone's cat as he understands indoors and it appears he knows how to use a litter box. I don't plan on bringing him in until I could take him to the vet and get him thoroughly checked out though. Problem is, whenever there's another cat outside, my cat goes wild. She seems to have calmed down a slight bit with this cat hanging around quite often, but they still hiss and moan at each other through the screen door. I want to do this stray a favor and give him a home, but I don't want to inadvertently stress my cat out MORE by trying to get her a playmate. I've read up on acclimating cats to each other, and there are two "rooms" in my apartment that I could use to keep them separated for a week or so and while I'm at work until I'm home to supervise encounters.. but this might make my current cat freak out. I'm also worried about the smallness of my apartment. What should I do? Take him to the vet, check him out and then make a decision? Or should I just take him to the pound so he at least has a chance that someone will find him a loving home? I would try to adopt the cat. He may be a good companion for your current cat, and the size of your apartment is not a concern to me. Cats can be happy in even tiny spaces -- notice how they curl up in incredibly small places. The primary things are good care, lots of toys to play with, sturdy scratching posts, and places to climb. I have two cat trees, which my cats love. It only takes about 24" square of floor space for a good cat tree. On the other hand, I adopted my first cat when I was a graduate student. My apartment was no larger than what you described, and I did not even know about luxuries like cat trees at that time. My cat climbed furniture, jumped to the top of the book cases, and I loved it. I currently have two cats, Holly and Duffy. Holly had been my "only child" for seven years and was used to being spoiled and pampered. She also had shown a real dislike for other cats - so much so that we called her the "black tornado" because she would immediately attack any cat on sight. She became especially aggressive if another cat was anywhere close to me. I did not plan on adopting another cat, so Holly only came into contact with others when we visited my sister in another state. Then I saw Duffy's picture on Petfinder. He is blind and his picture just tore at my heart. He had been at the shelter for several months, and I knew that he probably would not survive once kitten season arrives and the shelter becomes overcrowded. So, I decided to adopt Duffy and do whatever I could to bring the two cats together. My two cats now get along beautifully, but they were brought together *very slowly and cautiously.* It is important to take things very slow and proceed with caution - do not try to "rush" anything. In my case, this meant that it took a full 6 weeks from the day I adopted Duffy until both cats had the full use of the house and were "together" throughout the day. I set up a bedroom just for Duffy, partly to give him time to learn his way around and partly to give Holly time to adjust. I also set up three plug-in Feliway diffusers (one in the room that would be "Duffy's room" for awhile, one in the hallway outside Duffy's room where Holly would walk by the door to Duffy's room, and one in the living area where Holly spends a large part of the day). If you don't have a Feliway diffuser, it would be money well spent to get a couple of them. Feliway is used for behavior modification and can be very useful in reducing stress. Do not get the one that says "with D.A.P." because that formulation is for dogs. Duffy learned his way around his new room very quickly. Holly did a bit of hissing and growling outside his door, but it was pretty mild - none of the "vicious" sounds she made in the past, and this was really pretty normal for an "only child" who suddenly has a sibling in her home. I spent a great deal of time with Duffy, and I alternated nights so that one night I would sleep in my regular bed where Holly could join me and the next night I would sleep in Duffy's room. I also left a radio in Duffy's room, tuned to a station with classical or "soft" (soothing) music when he was left alone. I made sure that Holly got lots and lots of love and attention through all of this. Every time I left Duffy's room, I gave Holly an excessive amount of love and attention. I wanted her to know that she was not going to be displaced in my affections. You may not be able to alternate bedrooms as I described with your limited space, but everything else can be accomplished even in the smallest of apartments as long as you have an extra room you can use (as you described). After a week, a friend located a damaged unfinished door. He cut a large square out of the bottom of the door and covered it with metal mesh (actually, the type of grill that is often mounted on the bottom of screen doors to protect them from damage - sturdy and smooth, with no rough edges). He temporarily replaced the bedroom door with the new screened door so that Holly and Duffy could get up-close without any danger to either of them. He removed the hardware (hinges and doorknob) from the permanent door and mounted them on the temporary door, a process that was later reversed when we replaced the permanent door. This worked well, but an inexpensive screen door could be used for this same purpose. Duffy was eager to get together with Holly, but Holly wasn't at all sure about the situation. She gradually began to show some interest and would often rest outside the door; but she did not seem to be at all upset - very different from previous attempts to introduce Holly to other cats. A couple of days after the door was installed, I began to leave the door open for a short time each evening, and gradually increased it to 2-3 hours each evening. During this period, I kept Holly in a separate room - I still had not brought them together in the same room. Duffy was quite adventuresome and quickly learned his way around the house. This also distributed his scent, which gave Holly time to become adjusted to the scent before I tried to bring them together. Next, I placed tuna on two ends of a long platter and slipped it under the door so the two cats could eat "together." The idea was to place a plate with special-treat food under the door (with food on each side of the door) so the cats would learn to associate something "good" with being in close proximity when they ate the treats. Be sure to keep this in mind when you install the screen door because you should cut enough off the bottom (about 2 inches or a little more) so the platter can be slipped underneath - and also so the two cat can eventually play "pawsies" together under the door, as mine did. Eventually, I began to give Duffy the run of the house along with Holly, but only under close supervision. I gradually increased the amount of time the two were together, and soon didn't need to supervise them. However, I did not leave them alone in the house. I was careful to give Holly lots of extra love and attention any time I had been playing with Duffy - I didn't want to cause feelings of sibling rivalry. After about five weeks into this process, I had a week of vacation. This was the ideal time to let them really get to know each other. Throughout the week, I gave them more and more time together - first all day, then both day and night. By the time we approached the sixth week, both cats had the full run of the house at all times, and then I began to leave the house for short periods of time (first only an hour at a time, then would go back to check on them). By the end of that week, they were together at all times. This very slow, gradual transition has really paid off. My two furbabies are now very comfortable together. They are usually both in the same room, they frequently play together, and there is a real sense of companionship between the two of them. They always eat together with no problems and sometimes even share the same bowl. It took several months before they reached this truly companionable stage, but they got along well enough for me to call it a "success" after 6 or 8 weeks. I hope this might give you a few ideas for your cats. Please let me re-emphasize this point: take it very slow, and don't try to rush things. Whenever you think it's time to move to the next step, you should probably stop and wait it out for another week. It took about 6 weeks for us to work through the entire process. I "thought" I going slow when I tried to introduce Holly to my sister's cats some time ago (we took about two weeks), but that was a disaster and led to the "black tornado" references. The difference this time has been remarkable. Friends who knew how Holly had reacted in the past really could hardly believe it. They were sure that it was never going to be possible to place Holly with any other cat. I have posted a "pictorial history"on a friend's web site showing our progress, including pictures of the temporary door that helped so much. If you would like to see it, go to the links under my sig. I hope this helps! This could be a very happy decision for both cats, and for you. MaryL Photos of Duffy and Holly: 'o' http://tinyurl.com/8y54 (Introducing Duffy and Holly) http://tinyurl.com/8y56 (Duffy and Holly "settle in") |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
I think you should try to adopt the cat. I lived in a small apartment the
same as yours with 2 cats and it worked out fine; later moved to a 900 sq ft house with the 2 cats and it still was okay. You'll want to keep the newcomer separated from your resident cat and slowly introduce them. This may take a week, a few weeks, maybe even a month or more. But I think your resident cat will eventually come around. Definitely take the newcomer to the vet and have him checked out before starting any introductions. Good luck. I really hope it works out. S. -- **Visit me and my cats at http://www.island-cats.com/ ** --- wrote in message ... Hi guys - I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet and I work 9-5 so I try to leave lots of toys around for kitty to play with and make sure the windows are open so she can sit on the sills and bask in the sunlight and survey her domain. She really doesn't play with the toys, and I am beginning to feel that she is very bored in her surroundings. Recently, there's been a stray coming around that is very sweet. He seems to have been someone's cat as he understands indoors and it appears he knows how to use a litter box. I don't plan on bringing him in until I could take him to the vet and get him thoroughly checked out though. Problem is, whenever there's another cat outside, my cat goes wild. She seems to have calmed down a slight bit with this cat hanging around quite often, but they still hiss and moan at each other through the screen door. I want to do this stray a favor and give him a home, but I don't want to inadvertently stress my cat out MORE by trying to get her a playmate. I've read up on acclimating cats to each other, and there are two "rooms" in my apartment that I could use to keep them separated for a week or so and while I'm at work until I'm home to supervise encounters.. but this might make my current cat freak out. I'm also worried about the smallness of my apartment. What should I do? Take him to the vet, check him out and then make a decision? Or should I just take him to the pound so he at least has a chance that someone will find him a loving home? |
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Stray cat I want to bring in - best procedure?
I think you should give the cat a chance with you. Cats don't need much
space, they make good use of the space they have! They love vertical niches, so add a cat tree or so, make some cubby holes on shelves and things for them to climb up onto. They'll be fine. We had more than one cat in a house as small as your apartment. I think we Americans are spoiled with the idea of having so much space to ourselves. Take it slow with the introductions and see how it goes. If it absolutely doesn't work out, I hope you can find him a good home. Thanks for looking after him! Rhonda wrote: Hi guys - I currently own a cat who I've had for a little under 2 years. To the best of my knowledge she's about 3 years old now. I live in a pretty small apartment, 6-700 sq. feet and I work 9-5 so I try to leave lots of toys around for kitty to play with and make sure the windows are open so she can sit on the sills and bask in the sunlight and survey her domain. |
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