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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
Thank you both. I am spending my last day with Diana and Cinnamon will go soon after. I'm not happy and Diana seems alright. I thought she knew something. I told Her and Ryan yesterday and I wasn't sure they understood, but last night, I woke up to find them curled up beside me on the bed purrring loudly. Ryan never does that. His spot is on the chair beside the bed. I think they knew something is about to happen. On Saturday 29 March 2008 17:49, John Ross Mc Master wrote: It's a damn shame this is happening at all but you are being responsible and doing the best you can. Unka John Wee are purring fur you. Beauty and Cinder On Sat, 29 Mar 2008 17:09:24 -0400, Fred Williams wrote: One room is an awfully small place for a cat. These are wonderful people and have consented to take one and give it the run of the house. I don't want to force or pressure them into anything. I'm going to have to live with them. The are even sayingthey will keep a cat after I go, and this wouldn't be too hard on the cat after I've spent six months, maybe a year with them. We will all be like family to the cat after that, and if I go away it will be a small matter because the cat will be bonded to them as well and used to the house by that time. I expect to continue to see these people from time to time anyway even after. They have been good friends for several decades and I've known him since university. Whatever is best for the cat will be done, of course. It's not really up to my new housemates which one to keep. We're trying to keep Diana and Ryan together and place them in a new ontruehome. It may take a little time. In the meantime I was going to take Cinnamon when my new housemates said they'd take one. In the meantime, the lady who runs the cat rescue network sais they will have a hard time placing Ryan because he is so big. and they have only two places for single cats and not one place for two cats. So she will not take Ryan since she's worried that he will sit in the foster homes and never be adopted. So she wants Diana in one home and Cinnamon in another an me to take Ryan. Then she thinks that Cinnamon would go first because he's a long haired, polydactile beautiful cat. So Ryan & Diana wind up split anyway and Cinnmon is off on his own. Also Diana is going to a foster home with a dominant male so she will have to be kept in one room separate from him till they get used to each other. Diana will be miserable all alone and she will loose Ryan & everybody she knows at the same time. It's a mess right now. I hope we can improve on that will happen. Uncle Fred. On Saturday 29 March 2008 15:48, Granby wrote: Fred, have you considered taking all three to the new home, letting your new housemates choose which one to keep? Maybe that way you could keep two? Will you have your own room and, with cat trees, could you keep two in your room? "Fred Williams" wrote in message ... Hi dear friends, Well the lady at the Cat Rescue Network said they can take Diana this weekend and so I said Sunday. I am getting help from a some good hoomans and the foster home is only temporary. If we can find a good home for them to be together it can still happen. Yesterday, I told Diana and Rayn about what was going to happen, and how they'd have to be split up. I used simple english wondering if they'd understand any of it. Their eyes said they knew something was wrong. In the middle of the night I find Diana and Ryan curled up together on my bed beside my legs, purring as loudly as I've ever heard them purr. Ryan hardly ever comes on the bed and then only for short periods of time. They seldom purrr like that. Arrangements are almost changing by the day and I and friends scamble to see what we can do for these guys. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
Thanks. This is very hard, It is important that Ryan & Diana are
together and at first they told me they would be, but now they won't, at least while Diana is in the foster home. It's like they are maximizing the agony of this for all the cats. I really hate participating in this, but I can't think of any other way. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 18:21, Lucy wrote: Oh, I didn't mean your friends. I mean that you would think that in all of Ottawa, there would be enough square footage somewhere for two cats. People, overall, can do a lot more than they're *willing* to do, and it upsets me. They don't have kill shelters for children because foster homes can be found for children -- but not so many people are willing to help animals. I think your friends are great for helping you AND for taking a cat. Julie Fred Williams wrote: These are not hateful people, they just have their own biases and ideas, and my friends are wonderful people and I don't want to spoil that relationship. They offered out of the goodnes of heir hearts to take a cat when they thought it could help keep Diana and Ryan together. If I get the Lady at the Cat Rescue Network mad at me, then there might not be a place for any cat and that would be tragic. There are other people helping too, including Julie, bless her heart, and I'm hopefull that somehow we can find a way. This will be temporary, hopefully. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 17:28, Lucy wrote: It really irritates me when people adopting a cat say that they will only take one, rather than two, as if it really would make a difference. I have a friend with 9,000 square feet who says that three cats is her "limit." Limit! Jesus Christ in a cashmere sweater! Well. The 12 of us are doing just fine here, and everyone is happy. I will never, ever understand. Nor will I understand why it would be hard to place Ryan because he's "big"! Big is a problem? That's the reason I first was attracted to Leo! I will NEVER get the way people think. Never. Never. I mean, holy hell, if you have a home, and a cat needs a home, what on Earth is the problem? I hate people sometimes. Julie Fred Williams wrote: One room is an awfully small place for a cat. These are wonderful people and have consented to take one and give it the run of the house. I don't want to force or pressure them into anything. I'm going to have to live with them. The are even sayingthey will keep a cat after I go, and this wouldn't be too hard on the cat after I've spent six months, maybe a year with them. We will all be like family to the cat after that, and if I go away it will be a small matter because the cat will be bonded to them as well and used to the house by that time. I expect to continue to see these people from time to time anyway even after. They have been good friends for several decades and I've known him since university. Whatever is best for the cat will be done, of course. It's not really up to my new housemates which one to keep. We're trying to keep Diana and Ryan together and place them in a new ontruehome. It may take a little time. In the meantime I was going to take Cinnamon when my new housemates said they'd take one. In the meantime, the lady who runs the cat rescue network sais they will have a hard time placing Ryan because he is so big. and they have only two places for single cats and not one place for two cats. So she will not take Ryan since she's worried that he will sit in the foster homes and never be adopted. So she wants Diana in one home and Cinnamon in another an me to take Ryan. Then she thinks that Cinnamon would go first because he's a long haired, polydactile beautiful cat. So Ryan & Diana wind up split anyway and Cinnmon is off on his own. Also Diana is going to a foster home with a dominant male so she will have to be kept in one room separate from him till they get used to each other. Diana will be miserable all alone and she will loose Ryan & everybody she knows at the same time. It's a mess right now. I hope we can improve on that will happen. Uncle Fred. On Saturday 29 March 2008 15:48, Granby wrote: Fred, have you considered taking all three to the new home, letting your new housemates choose which one to keep? Maybe that way you could keep two? Will you have your own room and, with cat trees, could you keep two in your room? "Fred Williams" wrote in message ... Hi dear friends, Well the lady at the Cat Rescue Network said they can take Diana this weekend and so I said Sunday. I am getting help from a some good hoomans and the foster home is only temporary. If we can find a good home for them to be together it can still happen. Yesterday, I told Diana and Rayn about what was going to happen, and how they'd have to be split up. I used simple english wondering if they'd understand any of it. Their eyes said they knew something was wrong. In the middle of the night I find Diana and Ryan curled up together on my bed beside my legs, purring as loudly as I've ever heard them purr. Ryan hardly ever comes on the bed and then only for short periods of time. They seldom purrr like that. Arrangements are almost changing by the day and I and friends scamble to see what we can do for these guys. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
We're here for you. You know that.
Julie Fred Williams wrote: Thanks. This is very hard, It is important that Ryan & Diana are together and at first they told me they would be, but now they won't, at least while Diana is in the foster home. It's like they are maximizing the agony of this for all the cats. I really hate participating in this, but I can't think of any other way. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 18:21, Lucy wrote: Oh, I didn't mean your friends. I mean that you would think that in all of Ottawa, there would be enough square footage somewhere for two cats. People, overall, can do a lot more than they're *willing* to do, and it upsets me. They don't have kill shelters for children because foster homes can be found for children -- but not so many people are willing to help animals. I think your friends are great for helping you AND for taking a cat. Julie Fred Williams wrote: These are not hateful people, they just have their own biases and ideas, and my friends are wonderful people and I don't want to spoil that relationship. They offered out of the goodnes of heir hearts to take a cat when they thought it could help keep Diana and Ryan together. If I get the Lady at the Cat Rescue Network mad at me, then there might not be a place for any cat and that would be tragic. There are other people helping too, including Julie, bless her heart, and I'm hopefull that somehow we can find a way. This will be temporary, hopefully. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 17:28, Lucy wrote: It really irritates me when people adopting a cat say that they will only take one, rather than two, as if it really would make a difference. I have a friend with 9,000 square feet who says that three cats is her "limit." Limit! Jesus Christ in a cashmere sweater! Well. The 12 of us are doing just fine here, and everyone is happy. I will never, ever understand. Nor will I understand why it would be hard to place Ryan because he's "big"! Big is a problem? That's the reason I first was attracted to Leo! I will NEVER get the way people think. Never. Never. I mean, holy hell, if you have a home, and a cat needs a home, what on Earth is the problem? I hate people sometimes. Julie Fred Williams wrote: One room is an awfully small place for a cat. These are wonderful people and have consented to take one and give it the run of the house. I don't want to force or pressure them into anything. I'm going to have to live with them. The are even sayingthey will keep a cat after I go, and this wouldn't be too hard on the cat after I've spent six months, maybe a year with them. We will all be like family to the cat after that, and if I go away it will be a small matter because the cat will be bonded to them as well and used to the house by that time. I expect to continue to see these people from time to time anyway even after. They have been good friends for several decades and I've known him since university. Whatever is best for the cat will be done, of course. It's not really up to my new housemates which one to keep. We're trying to keep Diana and Ryan together and place them in a new ontruehome. It may take a little time. In the meantime I was going to take Cinnamon when my new housemates said they'd take one. In the meantime, the lady who runs the cat rescue network sais they will have a hard time placing Ryan because he is so big. and they have only two places for single cats and not one place for two cats. So she will not take Ryan since she's worried that he will sit in the foster homes and never be adopted. So she wants Diana in one home and Cinnamon in another an me to take Ryan. Then she thinks that Cinnamon would go first because he's a long haired, polydactile beautiful cat. So Ryan & Diana wind up split anyway and Cinnmon is off on his own. Also Diana is going to a foster home with a dominant male so she will have to be kept in one room separate from him till they get used to each other. Diana will be miserable all alone and she will loose Ryan & everybody she knows at the same time. It's a mess right now. I hope we can improve on that will happen. Uncle Fred. On Saturday 29 March 2008 15:48, Granby wrote: Fred, have you considered taking all three to the new home, letting your new housemates choose which one to keep? Maybe that way you could keep two? Will you have your own room and, with cat trees, could you keep two in your room? "Fred Williams" wrote in message ... Hi dear friends, Well the lady at the Cat Rescue Network said they can take Diana this weekend and so I said Sunday. I am getting help from a some good hoomans and the foster home is only temporary. If we can find a good home for them to be together it can still happen. Yesterday, I told Diana and Rayn about what was going to happen, and how they'd have to be split up. I used simple english wondering if they'd understand any of it. Their eyes said they knew something was wrong. In the middle of the night I find Diana and Ryan curled up together on my bed beside my legs, purring as loudly as I've ever heard them purr. Ryan hardly ever comes on the bed and then only for short periods of time. They seldom purrr like that. Arrangements are almost changing by the day and I and friends scamble to see what we can do for these guys. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote:
We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Fred Williams wrote: Thanks. This is very hard, It is important that Ryan & Diana are together and at first they told me they would be, but now they won't, at least while Diana is in the foster home. It's like they are maximizing the agony of this for all the cats. I really hate participating in this, but I can't think of any other way. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 18:21, Lucy wrote: Oh, I didn't mean your friends. I mean that you would think that in all of Ottawa, there would be enough square footage somewhere for two cats. People, overall, can do a lot more than they're *willing* to do, and it upsets me. They don't have kill shelters for children because foster homes can be found for children -- but not so many people are willing to help animals. I think your friends are great for helping you AND for taking a cat. Julie Fred Williams wrote: These are not hateful people, they just have their own biases and ideas, and my friends are wonderful people and I don't want to spoil that relationship. They offered out of the goodnes of heir hearts to take a cat when they thought it could help keep Diana and Ryan together. If I get the Lady at the Cat Rescue Network mad at me, then there might not be a place for any cat and that would be tragic. There are other people helping too, including Julie, bless her heart, and I'm hopefull that somehow we can find a way. This will be temporary, hopefully. Fred On Saturday 29 March 2008 17:28, Lucy wrote: It really irritates me when people adopting a cat say that they will only take one, rather than two, as if it really would make a difference. I have a friend with 9,000 square feet who says that three cats is her "limit." Limit! Jesus Christ in a cashmere sweater! Well. The 12 of us are doing just fine here, and everyone is happy. I will never, ever understand. Nor will I understand why it would be hard to place Ryan because he's "big"! Big is a problem? That's the reason I first was attracted to Leo! I will NEVER get the way people think. Never. Never. I mean, holy hell, if you have a home, and a cat needs a home, what on Earth is the problem? I hate people sometimes. Julie Fred Williams wrote: One room is an awfully small place for a cat. These are wonderful people and have consented to take one and give it the run of the house. I don't want to force or pressure them into anything. I'm going to have to live with them. The are even sayingthey will keep a cat after I go, and this wouldn't be too hard on the cat after I've spent six months, maybe a year with them. We will all be like family to the cat after that, and if I go away it will be a small matter because the cat will be bonded to them as well and used to the house by that time. I expect to continue to see these people from time to time anyway even after. They have been good friends for several decades and I've known him since university. Whatever is best for the cat will be done, of course. It's not really up to my new housemates which one to keep. We're trying to keep Diana and Ryan together and place them in a new ontruehome. It may take a little time. In the meantime I was going to take Cinnamon when my new housemates said they'd take one. In the meantime, the lady who runs the cat rescue network sais they will have a hard time placing Ryan because he is so big. and they have only two places for single cats and not one place for two cats. So she will not take Ryan since she's worried that he will sit in the foster homes and never be adopted. So she wants Diana in one home and Cinnamon in another an me to take Ryan. Then she thinks that Cinnamon would go first because he's a long haired, polydactile beautiful cat. So Ryan & Diana wind up split anyway and Cinnmon is off on his own. Also Diana is going to a foster home with a dominant male so she will have to be kept in one room separate from him till they get used to each other. Diana will be miserable all alone and she will loose Ryan & everybody she knows at the same time. It's a mess right now. I hope we can improve on that will happen. Uncle Fred. On Saturday 29 March 2008 15:48, Granby wrote: Fred, have you considered taking all three to the new home, letting your new housemates choose which one to keep? Maybe that way you could keep two? Will you have your own room and, with cat trees, could you keep two in your room? "Fred Williams" wrote in message ... Hi dear friends, Well the lady at the Cat Rescue Network said they can take Diana this weekend and so I said Sunday. I am getting help from a some good hoomans and the foster home is only temporary. If we can find a good home for them to be together it can still happen. Yesterday, I told Diana and Rayn about what was going to happen, and how they'd have to be split up. I used simple english wondering if they'd understand any of it. Their eyes said they knew something was wrong. In the middle of the night I find Diana and Ryan curled up together on my bed beside my legs, purring as loudly as I've ever heard them purr. Ryan hardly ever comes on the bed and then only for short periods of time. They seldom purrr like that. Arrangements are almost changing by the day and I and friends scamble to see what we can do for these guys. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie |
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On Sunday 30 March 2008 10:53, Lucy wrote:
Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie I know I didn't sleep much and Diana was up for most of the night, possibly because she couldn't take my tossing and turning. I now have the number of the woman with the foster home who will be looking after Diana. I'll give her a call after lunch. I really don't like this, but I have no other way of dealing with this. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
Fred Williams wrote: On Sunday 30 March 2008 10:53, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie I know I didn't sleep much and Diana was up for most of the night, possibly because she couldn't take my tossing and turning. I now have the number of the woman with the foster home who will be looking after Diana. I'll give her a call after lunch. I really don't like this, but I have no other way of dealing with this. Do you think there is ANY way at ALL that your friends would let you keep both Diana and Ryan? This is an emergency. Does your vet's office staff know about this? Is there any kind of temp job that you could take that would at least avoid the move until you can buy more time? After Diana goes to the foster home, can you continue to see her? Oy. I was out of work for an entire year, and I am well aware that when it comes down to the wire, people are NO help at all. Julie |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
On Sunday 30 March 2008 11:34, Lucy wrote:
Fred Williams wrote: On Sunday 30 March 2008 10:53, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie I know I didn't sleep much and Diana was up for most of the night, possibly because she couldn't take my tossing and turning. I now have the number of the woman with the foster home who will be looking after Diana. I'll give her a call after lunch. I really don't like this, but I have no other way of dealing with this. Do you think there is ANY way at ALL that your friends would let you keep both Diana and Ryan? This is an emergency. Does your vet's office staff know about this? Is there any kind of temp job that you could take that would at least avoid the move until you can buy more time? After Diana goes to the foster home, can you continue to see her? I was out of work for an entire year, and I am well aware that when it comes down to the wire, people are NO help at all. Julie These are very bad times. Who knows what the future will bring for all our furry friends and us as well. More later. I've got a couple of call I can make yet. If anyone has friends in the area who might help, please let them know. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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Tomorrow is moving day for Diana.
"Fred Williams" wrote in message ... On Sunday 30 March 2008 11:34, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Sunday 30 March 2008 10:53, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie I know I didn't sleep much and Diana was up for most of the night, possibly because she couldn't take my tossing and turning. I now have the number of the woman with the foster home who will be looking after Diana. I'll give her a call after lunch. I really don't like this, but I have no other way of dealing with this. Do you think there is ANY way at ALL that your friends would let you keep both Diana and Ryan? This is an emergency. Does your vet's office staff know about this? Is there any kind of temp job that you could take that would at least avoid the move until you can buy more time? After Diana goes to the foster home, can you continue to see her? I was out of work for an entire year, and I am well aware that when it comes down to the wire, people are NO help at all. Julie These are very bad times. Who knows what the future will bring for all our furry friends and us as well. More later. I've got a couple of call I can make yet. If anyone has friends in the area who might help, please let them know. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html I emailed a friend in Halifax. Also asked her if she knew anyone in Ottawa . Purring for you, and the kittees. Sylvia |
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On Sunday 30 March 2008 13:07, Sylvia M wrote:
"Fred Williams" wrote in message ... On Sunday 30 March 2008 11:34, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Sunday 30 March 2008 10:53, Lucy wrote: Fred Williams wrote: On Saturday 29 March 2008 23:00, Lucy wrote: We're here for you. You know that. Julie Fangu. It helps. Well, I was unable to sleep last night and continue to be very upset about the whole thing. I am very angry that no one involved in the (ahem) "rescue" couldn't just take two cats into their own home. Or that anyone lurking on rpcc who lives within 400 miles of you, who professes to love cats, did not help. How is that possible? I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Julie I know I didn't sleep much and Diana was up for most of the night, possibly because she couldn't take my tossing and turning. I now have the number of the woman with the foster home who will be looking after Diana. I'll give her a call after lunch. I really don't like this, but I have no other way of dealing with this. Do you think there is ANY way at ALL that your friends would let you keep both Diana and Ryan? This is an emergency. Does your vet's office staff know about this? Is there any kind of temp job that you could take that would at least avoid the move until you can buy more time? After Diana goes to the foster home, can you continue to see her? I was out of work for an entire year, and I am well aware that when it comes down to the wire, people are NO help at all. Julie These are very bad times. Who knows what the future will bring for all our furry friends and us as well. More later. I've got a couple of call I can make yet. If anyone has friends in the area who might help, please let them know. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html I emailed a friend in Halifax. Also asked her if she knew anyone in Ottawa . Purring for you, and the kittees. Sylvia Fangu. It's very much appreciated. If there's anything anyone can do, please try now. All three kitties are really needing your purrs. -- Regards, Fred http://www.fredwilliams.ca/thesecretofmoney.html |
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