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IMO the cat is peeing on the bed to get your attention. Make the cat sleep somewhere else. Your the boss, you can't let her kick you out of your own bed!! Now you are no longer sleeping there, she must think she's won and has claimed your bed as her own space. I don't think the cat's peeing on beds to get attention or to turf her owner off the bed or to mark her territory This cat has been through major life changes and feels threatened by the resident cat . She's weeing on the bed because that is where her owners scent is strongest to reassure herself. She's trying to create a group scent , which is why cats also rub their faces on people and other cats . putting a tiny bit of litter from each cats tray into the other cats and rubbing a tissue on the face glands and then rubbing on the other cat also helps a group smell. This helps cats accept each other. My friend had a similar problem with her 2 cats fighting, her solution was to put the cats in 2 separate cages and leave them in the same room for a couple of hours at a time. Over the days, she moved the cages nearer and nearer to each other so they got the cats got the opportunity to get to know each other in a non-life threatening manner. They got used to each other eventually. Patience is the key. That would help and also feed tasty treats as well so they associate nice things with each other. Alison Jeannie |
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message ... writes Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox.. Right..then it would be an exercise in wasting time, right? No, my point was that it would be easier for you to clean while you worked on detecting the source of the problem (such as possible UTI) and on learning how to acclimate the two cats to each other. I considered this to be a temporary measure. I certainly did not mean that you should just place her in the bathroom indefinitely. MaryL |
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message ... writes Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox.. Right..then it would be an exercise in wasting time, right? No, my point was that it would be easier for you to clean while you worked on detecting the source of the problem (such as possible UTI) and on learning how to acclimate the two cats to each other. I considered this to be a temporary measure. I certainly did not mean that you should just place her in the bathroom indefinitely. MaryL |
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"Luvskats00" wrote in message ... writes Putting her in the bathroom would not force her to use a litterbox.. Right..then it would be an exercise in wasting time, right? No, my point was that it would be easier for you to clean while you worked on detecting the source of the problem (such as possible UTI) and on learning how to acclimate the two cats to each other. I considered this to be a temporary measure. I certainly did not mean that you should just place her in the bathroom indefinitely. MaryL |
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