If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below. |
|
|
Thread Tools | Display Modes |
#91
|
|||
|
|||
"Mathew Kagis" wrote in message
news:JiB4e.3097$jR3.397@edtnps84... I know what anthropomorphism is. & it's just as valid to turn that back on you, my dear. How so, darlin' man? As much as we have domesicated cats, deep in their limbic brains they are still meat eating predators.... So, does it make them happier to play with stuffed toys on a carpet or do what several thousand years of instinct are pushing them to do... go outside & hunt? Why yes, dear, it does. The stuffed toys are filled with catnip and not with rat poison, they have no idea what a *real* rat even looks like and can't possibly know what they're missing. Being healthy is a happier state to be in than being injured or sick, I can tell you that from personal experience, I don't have to anthropomorphize - health is health and pain is pain no matter what the species. As they can't write or talk, we may never know... But I can tell you how fascinated & happy Chablis SEEMS to me when she's brought home a kill & so far she's been eating them... Following her genetic programming, I'd call that as close to happy as we can define. Well if following her genetic programming causes her to eat rat poison or run in front of a car while chasing the rat, um, I can't tell you whether being dead is a happier state than being alive, but I'm suspecting it isn't. You are right, CN, your cats are safer than mine. I once read a very funny book entitled '**** YES' by Dr. Wing Foo Fing (penname for Tom Robbins). It compared safety & sanity in one chapter... It suggested that the two are mutually exclusive. You can be safe OR you can be sane & accept that life will kick the living sh&@ out of you at every oppurtunity.... Hmmmm.... Oh dear, I'd better be on the lookout for those little mice knocking on my door with their white coats looking to take my kitties off to the funny farm!! As for myself, well during all those endless corporate touchy-feely personality/team building tests I've come out as a high risk-taker so I guess I'm pretty sane then. The difference is I have the intellect to weigh the risks I take, my cats don't. SNIP You and others here claim that these abcesses and other illnesses and injuries are easily treated, but each time a cat has to fight off disease or infection they're not only diminishing their overall health they are taking time off their lifespan, and, getting back to the "happier" theme, how happy can an injured or ill cat be really? Id argue that one, I've studied herbal medecine 92 years under a master herbalist) & spent 2 years on Ski Patrol, doing emergency trauma stuff. Reasearch points to a need to expose humans to various pathogens to stimulate immune response. Doctors are finding too many children with weak immune systems, because kids don't get 'old fashioned dirty' any more. Chabils has some immune issues, her first abcess occured way before I started letting her outside, no Idea what she cut herself on, probably the edge of a peice of furniture or something...? Anyway, she's now on Astragulus to boost her immune efficiency. How can your cat rejoice in feeling healthy if it never knows what feeling lousy is all about? Can you cite me those studies please? I'd be interested in looking at them because everything I've ever read claims that kids today are healthier and heartier than ever before in our history. Once I teach Chablis how to type, I'll have her contact you & you can compare notes. Luv ya back! Right Back at you CN. Oooo. The lurve is getting *thick* in here!!! ; Hugs, CatNipped Hugs, CatNipped -- Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas |
#92
|
|||
|
|||
"Mary" wrote in message
... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message ... You're going beyond the call of duty here, CN. This is exactly what Steve G. and Alison do--and I never take the time to back up and shove the **** back in their faces, as such blatant sophistry just is not worth it. Just like using tactics that demonize or discredit one's adversary, it's the last refuge of the dim-witted. Well, I'm still fairly new to usenet so I guess I'm expecting logic instead of rhetoric - my bad! Just like I expect people to be fair. But at least you're doing better than I am handling it, as you don't regularly get mad and call them all the assholes that they are. LOL, I'll let you in on a little secret. I'm from New Orleans and was raised by a true Southern Belle. The madder we get, the quieter we get and the more we start using endearments. When I heard my mother whisper, "Darlin' girl, get your sweet self over here and let your momma look at your precious face, angel!", I knew I was in a *world* of sh*t! ; In polite Southern society it would never do to point out someone's bad manners or other faults - it's like you would treat a puppy who runs into a room full of guests, wagging his tail, and then poops on the rug. A Southern lady would not only pretend it hadn't happened, she would make every guest *believe* it never happened! It's usually not necessary to point out when someone is showing their ignorance, most of the time all you have to do is stand back and let them make a fool of *themselves*! But I'm finding out that that's not always the case on usenet. Oh well, as my mother says, it takes all kinds! Hugs, CatNipped LOL! You can tell I was not raised in the south. I love this characterization, great job. Ever think about writing about your southern upbringing? Some of my favorite writers are southern women. Ever Honey chile, we couldn't give away our secrets like that, why I could be banned from Southern Belle society just for telling you the little I did! ; Hugs, CatNipped |
#93
|
|||
|
|||
kaeli wrote in
: It comes back to how I feel about my own cats and myself. If I let my cat out and she got hit, I'd blame myself. No different for anyone else. Except I know how guilty I'd feel, so I'd feel sorry for the other person, too. I'd blame myself too. As would a parent with an old-enough-to-be-out child. They're our dependents, we're supposed to keep them safe. But to keep them 100% safe means that they would be deprived of some pretty significant experiences. Keeping them safe is only one part of what we are supposed to do, IMO. My dogs would be safer if they didn't go outside too. Even on leashes. But man, would they be miserable. (Yes, I would be able to tell.) As pet owners, we are always balancing the wish to keep them safe with the wish to provide them as fulfilling a life as possible. For different cats, that may well mean different decisions. As I have said, I personally would be happier if the cat never wanted to go out; I have known cats who are this way, but Rosalie does like to go out. (Yes, I can tell.) -- Catherine & Zoe & Queenie & Rosalie the calico |
#94
|
|||
|
|||
"CatNipped" wrote in message ... SNIP Can you cite me those studies please? I'd be interested in looking at them because everything I've ever read claims that kids today are healthier and heartier than ever before in our history. Extensive studies on immune deficiency can be found at: http://jama.ama-assn.org/ http://www.thelancet.com/ These are the 2 major medical publications in the western world... I feel the love CN. Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas |
#95
|
|||
|
|||
"ceb" wrote in message
... "CatNipped" wrote in : I find it hard to sympathize with people who have been warned, repeatedly, that allowing cats to go outside is hazardous and do *NOT* listen to those warnings, in fact give specious arguments why those warnings should be ignored, and *THEN* come back and cry about how they lost their cat (usually giving the rest of us gratuitous and graphic descriptions of how mangled the cat was when it was found). I would sympathize with the *CAT* who had to suffer and die because her person was too irresponsible and thick-headed, or just plain too lazy, to go to the effort of providing a safe rewarding environment for their cat. What is up with the ad hominem attacks on this group??? We disagree. That doesn't make me irresponsible, thick-headed, or lazy. No, of course it doesn't. What makes a person irresponsible, thick-headed and lazy is when sometging has been shown to them to cause harm to someone they love, but they do it anyway because it's convenient. Hugs, CatNipped -- Catherine & Rosalie the calico |
#96
|
|||
|
|||
"ceb" wrote in message
... "CatNipped" wrote in : how wracked with guilt I would be if it were something I could have prevented from happening just be taking the extra time and effort to keep them inside. How does it take extra time and effort to keep them inside? I found that having an inside-only cat was much easier than letting the cat out, opening and closing doors, keeping an eye on things, etc etc. Not that either scenario is terribly hard. I just fail to see how letting the cat out sometimes means that I'm expending less time and effort with respect to my cat. Having to interact and play with them for hours every day, e.g. making sure they get enough exercise to stay healthy - *NOT* just throwing toys down on the floor and hoping they'll play with them but actually putting forth physical effort to keep them entertained enough to get the exercise they need. Cleaning litterboxes twice a day. Most people I know who have indoor/outdoor cats don't even open and close doors for their cats, they get a pet door so they don't have to get off their lazy.... sorry. Hugs, CatNipped -- Catherine & Rosalie the calico |
#97
|
|||
|
|||
"CatNipped" wrote in
: "ceb" wrote in message ... "CatNipped" wrote in : Really? Please ask your cat to write to me and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. Oh, she can't write? Then please ask her to call and tell me how much happier she is by getting to go outside. What's that? She can't speak either? Then please, pray tell, how do you know that she is happier than if she were to stay inside? How has she told you that she understands, has weighed, and accepts the risks of going outside. Well, she sits by the door and cries to be let out. On nice days she cries extra. She flies out the door when I open it for her. She stays out for a while sometimes and is clearly enjoying herself. Gee, when my kids were toddlers they cried for candy and didn't want to eat their vegetables. Eating candy, they clearly enjoyed themselves. Silly me worrying about their nutrition and their health when I should have been giving them what they cried for so they could be happy. Candy AND vegetables are both important. When they were youngsters they cried that they didn't want to go to school. They clearly enjoyed staying home and playing instead. How cruel of me to *force* them to go, I made them terribly unhappy by doing so. Playing AND going to school are both important. When they were teenagers they whined and complained about not being able to stay out late or smoke or drink or do drugs - that's what they *wanted* to do, that's what would have made them *happy*!! Partying AND sleeping are both important. It's such a shame that they turned out to be such happy, healthy (never been sick a day in their lives, never had a cavity), productive adults with happy families and good careers. I just didn't have anybody to tell me how wrong I was to make them so unhappy! I am not advocating letting the cat do whatever she wants, whenever she wants (as I mentioned in the paragraph below). I am advocating something more like "yes, you can have candy sometimes; you can play sometimes; you can party sometimes." Now, I wouldn't let her do whatever she wants just because she cries. After Madeline's surgery, she cried at the door A LOT and I didn't let her out because she was still recovering. Rosalie lived the first 3 years of her life outside. Nickleby was indoor-only and was a very happy cat. I am not saying anything about the decisions you make for your cats. I don't really see this as a moral issue about which there is a right and a wrong. All along I have just been trying to explain that it is possible to *adore* one's cats and make a different decision about the whole indoor/outdoor question. You seem to disagree. Yes I disagree, simply because I would never knowingly put someone I love in harm's way. when you love someone you do what's *best* for them, not simply what makes them happy. I wouldn't let my toddlers *or* my cats play in traffic! Sometimes what's best for us IS doing what makes us happy. That's actually true a lot, IMO. -- Catherine & Rosalie the calico |
#98
|
|||
|
|||
"kaeli" wrote in message
... In article , enlightened us with... Not to continue the argument, but just as a point of information... Megan, Phil, or Mary (or whoever else may have been posting here for a long time, since I've only been here for a little while)... give me just a guestimate of how many people you've seen who posted here over the years saying something like, "Fluffy has gone missing", or "Mittens was hit by a cat", *snickers* Love the typo. Yeah, I caught that too after I hit send - although it does apply as is when you consider cat fights are even more common than car hits. or "Muffy was mauled by a dog", or "Ajax has an abcess from a cat fight"? Ten, twenty, thirty per year? Less? More? Even if there were 30, it wouldn't really prove much. Considering there are millions of pet cats out there and all. Well yes, but all those millions of owners don't post here. I'm just talking a percentage of the people who post here and then again a percentage of those who allow their cats outside. Hugs, CatNipped -- -- ~kaeli~ A man's home is his castle..., in a manor of speaking. http://www.ipwebdesign.net/wildAtHeart http://www.ipwebdesign.net/kaelisSpace |
#99
|
|||
|
|||
"Mathew Kagis" wrote in message
news:HLB4e.62$yV3.49@clgrps12... "CatNipped" wrote in message ... SNIP Can you cite me those studies please? I'd be interested in looking at them because everything I've ever read claims that kids today are healthier and heartier than ever before in our history. Extensive studies on immune deficiency can be found at: http://jama.ama-assn.org/ http://www.thelancet.com/ These are the 2 major medical publications in the western world... Thanks for the links, I'll have to look into those after work - should be interesting! I feel the love CN. Don't you just, though!!! ; Hugs, CatNipped Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas |
#100
|
|||
|
|||
"Diane L. Schirf" wrote in message k.net... In article , "Ashley" wrote: What Phil did was post a selective list of vets he agrees who back up his world view (but I noted that one of them simply said that cats will readily fit into the human family, and he somehow took this as meaning they took readily to indoor life or something. Which is exactly what you did by posting the Web site you did. No, actually, that web site give the pros and cons of *both* approaches. It's called balance. |
Thread Tools | |
Display Modes | |
|
|
Similar Threads | ||||
Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
OT-My Ghost is Back | Bob M | Cat anecdotes | 6 | January 27th 05 07:07 PM |
home for middle-aged cats | carolyn | Cat rescue | 18 | September 21st 04 02:44 PM |
Oh, my aching back... | lrulan | Cat anecdotes | 31 | April 29th 04 05:45 PM |
Back from Burma (long) OT | badwilson | Cat anecdotes | 51 | January 3rd 04 07:57 PM |
Back AGAIN | badwilson | Cat anecdotes | 4 | November 19th 03 04:11 AM |