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"Marina" wrote in message
... Yoj wrote: I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. In my family, we've always just plonked the new cat in among the old ones and let them work it out among themselves. It's never taken long before the new cat was accepted, but then the new cat has always been a young one. I don't know how well this would work with an older cat. Also, I'd say that if you want to take a kitten, take two, so they can play with each other, as Lindy might not want to play as much as a kitten would. My E0.02. ) -- Marina, Frank and Nikki Thanks, Marina. That's the way we've always done it in the past. Both Skeeter (RB) and Lindy were over a year old when I got them. If I end up with a kitten, I'll seriously consider getting two. However, if I can find a suitable one that's between one and two years old, that's what I'd like to get. I feel that there are a lot more people wanting to adopt kittens than grown cats, so I'd rather save an older one. Joy |
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"Sherry " wrote in message
... Yoj wrote: I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. I always shut the new one up in the guest bedroom for at least a week. Sometimes longer if Bootsie's in a "mood." That gives some "sniff under the door" time. Just depends on the cats, really. If I just had Yoda and Frank, who are very welcoming of newcomers, I could probably just plunk the newbie down and they'd be fine with it. Sherry Thanks, Sherry. So far I haven't had any problems with the plonking method, but of course all cats are different. Lindy is the last cat I've acquired, and she and Skeeter got along okay after the first suspicious period, but Skeeter has never been on the receiving end of having a new cat brought in. Joy |
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"Sherry " wrote in message
... Yoj wrote: I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. I always shut the new one up in the guest bedroom for at least a week. Sometimes longer if Bootsie's in a "mood." That gives some "sniff under the door" time. Just depends on the cats, really. If I just had Yoda and Frank, who are very welcoming of newcomers, I could probably just plunk the newbie down and they'd be fine with it. Sherry Thanks, Sherry. So far I haven't had any problems with the plonking method, but of course all cats are different. Lindy is the last cat I've acquired, and she and Skeeter got along okay after the first suspicious period, but Skeeter has never been on the receiving end of having a new cat brought in. Joy |
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"Seanette Blaylock" wrote in
message ... Marina had some very interesting things to say about Question: I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. In my family, we've always just plonked the new cat in among the old ones and let them work it out among themselves. It's never taken long before the new cat was accepted, but then the new cat has always been a young one. I don't know how well this would work with an older cat. Also, I'd say that if you want to take a kitten, take two, so they can play with each other, as Lindy might not want to play as much as a kitten would. My E0.02. ) Your family's approach is what my family's always done, and we've never had anyone hurt during the getting-to-know-you stage. OK, some initial hissing/growling/cursing, but generally from a polite distance. I've found that mostly, cats who don't like each other tend to simply avoid each others' company if at all possible. Thanks, Seanette. That method has always worked well for us so far. Joy |
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"Seanette Blaylock" wrote in
message ... Marina had some very interesting things to say about Question: I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. In my family, we've always just plonked the new cat in among the old ones and let them work it out among themselves. It's never taken long before the new cat was accepted, but then the new cat has always been a young one. I don't know how well this would work with an older cat. Also, I'd say that if you want to take a kitten, take two, so they can play with each other, as Lindy might not want to play as much as a kitten would. My E0.02. ) Your family's approach is what my family's always done, and we've never had anyone hurt during the getting-to-know-you stage. OK, some initial hissing/growling/cursing, but generally from a polite distance. I've found that mostly, cats who don't like each other tend to simply avoid each others' company if at all possible. Thanks, Seanette. That method has always worked well for us so far. Joy |
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Yoj wrote in message . com... I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. Joy I've introduced adult cats to each other three times. The first time was when I was looking after Fuzzbox, who used to be my cat, and then was my mothers. He came to stay with us a few months after we adopted Izzi and Fenda. We were living in a small flat, and there was nowhere to isolate him, so I just let him out in the living room straight away. He knew me already of course, and instantly acted as if he was the resident cat, and the girls were interesting visitors. They were all roughly the same age (he was three, the girls were two) and they got on just fine almost straight away. Ripley was a stray when he moved in with us, and as Izzi and Fenda were indoor / outdoor cats anyway, they already knew him as a neighbourhood cat, so introductions weren't necessary. Izzi complained about him almost constantly though, she didn't like him, and never grew to like him. They rarely fought though, and Ripley was always the perfect gentleman with her. Introducing three year old Cav to seven year old Ripley was much easier than expected. We kept Cav in the conservatory for the first day and night, apart from an hour when he was allowed to explore the living room. That meant that they could watch each other all night through the glass doors, and also get the chance to get each other's scent. We allowed them to mix the next day, supervised, and took Cav back to the conservatory for a 'time out' if they got too worked up. After three days, we were leaving them alone together. They did have some spectacular fights and screaming sessions over the next couple of months, but they get on very well now, and seem to enjoy each other's company. Jeanette |
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Yoj wrote in message . com... I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. Joy I've introduced adult cats to each other three times. The first time was when I was looking after Fuzzbox, who used to be my cat, and then was my mothers. He came to stay with us a few months after we adopted Izzi and Fenda. We were living in a small flat, and there was nowhere to isolate him, so I just let him out in the living room straight away. He knew me already of course, and instantly acted as if he was the resident cat, and the girls were interesting visitors. They were all roughly the same age (he was three, the girls were two) and they got on just fine almost straight away. Ripley was a stray when he moved in with us, and as Izzi and Fenda were indoor / outdoor cats anyway, they already knew him as a neighbourhood cat, so introductions weren't necessary. Izzi complained about him almost constantly though, she didn't like him, and never grew to like him. They rarely fought though, and Ripley was always the perfect gentleman with her. Introducing three year old Cav to seven year old Ripley was much easier than expected. We kept Cav in the conservatory for the first day and night, apart from an hour when he was allowed to explore the living room. That meant that they could watch each other all night through the glass doors, and also get the chance to get each other's scent. We allowed them to mix the next day, supervised, and took Cav back to the conservatory for a 'time out' if they got too worked up. After three days, we were leaving them alone together. They did have some spectacular fights and screaming sessions over the next couple of months, but they get on very well now, and seem to enjoy each other's company. Jeanette |
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"Jeanette" wrote in message . uk... Yoj wrote in message . com... I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. Joy I've introduced adult cats to each other three times. The first time was when I was looking after Fuzzbox, who used to be my cat, and then was my mothers. He came to stay with us a few months after we adopted Izzi and Fenda. We were living in a small flat, and there was nowhere to isolate him, so I just let him out in the living room straight away. He knew me already of course, and instantly acted as if he was the resident cat, and the girls were interesting visitors. They were all roughly the same age (he was three, the girls were two) and they got on just fine almost straight away. Ripley was a stray when he moved in with us, and as Izzi and Fenda were indoor / outdoor cats anyway, they already knew him as a neighbourhood cat, so introductions weren't necessary. Izzi complained about him almost constantly though, she didn't like him, and never grew to like him. They rarely fought though, and Ripley was always the perfect gentleman with her. Introducing three year old Cav to seven year old Ripley was much easier than expected. We kept Cav in the conservatory for the first day and night, apart from an hour when he was allowed to explore the living room. That meant that they could watch each other all night through the glass doors, and also get the chance to get each other's scent. We allowed them to mix the next day, supervised, and took Cav back to the conservatory for a 'time out' if they got too worked up. After three days, we were leaving them alone together. They did have some spectacular fights and screaming sessions over the next couple of months, but they get on very well now, and seem to enjoy each other's company. Jeanette Thanks, Jeanette. Joy |
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"Jeanette" wrote in message . uk... Yoj wrote in message . com... I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. Joy I've introduced adult cats to each other three times. The first time was when I was looking after Fuzzbox, who used to be my cat, and then was my mothers. He came to stay with us a few months after we adopted Izzi and Fenda. We were living in a small flat, and there was nowhere to isolate him, so I just let him out in the living room straight away. He knew me already of course, and instantly acted as if he was the resident cat, and the girls were interesting visitors. They were all roughly the same age (he was three, the girls were two) and they got on just fine almost straight away. Ripley was a stray when he moved in with us, and as Izzi and Fenda were indoor / outdoor cats anyway, they already knew him as a neighbourhood cat, so introductions weren't necessary. Izzi complained about him almost constantly though, she didn't like him, and never grew to like him. They rarely fought though, and Ripley was always the perfect gentleman with her. Introducing three year old Cav to seven year old Ripley was much easier than expected. We kept Cav in the conservatory for the first day and night, apart from an hour when he was allowed to explore the living room. That meant that they could watch each other all night through the glass doors, and also get the chance to get each other's scent. We allowed them to mix the next day, supervised, and took Cav back to the conservatory for a 'time out' if they got too worked up. After three days, we were leaving them alone together. They did have some spectacular fights and screaming sessions over the next couple of months, but they get on very well now, and seem to enjoy each other's company. Jeanette Thanks, Jeanette. Joy |
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On Fri, 05 Nov 2004 08:08:02 GMT, "Jeanette"
wrote: Yoj wrote in message .com... I don't intend to be critical of how other people do it. I'm just wondering about the ramifications. I'd appreciate any input before I decide for sure how I'm going to introduce the addition to my family. Joy I've introduced adult cats to each other three times. The first time was when I was looking after Fuzzbox, who used to be my cat, and then was my mothers. He came to stay with us a few months after we adopted Izzi and Fenda. We were living in a small flat, and there was nowhere to isolate him, so I just let him out in the living room straight away. He knew me already of course, and instantly acted as if he was the resident cat, and the girls were interesting visitors. They were all roughly the same age (he was three, the girls were two) and they got on just fine almost straight away. Ripley was a stray when he moved in with us, and as Izzi and Fenda were indoor / outdoor cats anyway, they already knew him as a neighbourhood cat, so introductions weren't necessary. Izzi complained about him almost constantly though, she didn't like him, and never grew to like him. They rarely fought though, and Ripley was always the perfect gentleman with her. Introducing three year old Cav to seven year old Ripley was much easier than expected. We kept Cav in the conservatory for the first day and night, apart from an hour when he was allowed to explore the living room. That meant that they could watch each other all night through the glass doors, and also get the chance to get each other's scent. We allowed them to mix the next day, supervised, and took Cav back to the conservatory for a 'time out' if they got too worked up. After three days, we were leaving them alone together. They did have some spectacular fights and screaming sessions over the next couple of months, but they get on very well now, and seem to enjoy each other's company. Jeanette Mine still still have the occasional screaming session, and it's been over a year. Two of my three will be beating eachother up, hissing and screaming, etc. an hour later they will be sleeping together and grooming eachother. Cats. |
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