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Three cats in a one bedroom apartment
I have all three cats now. My Princess Rita, and my friend's Spot and Orca(t). So far the other two are locked in the bedroom with food, water, and a litter box, and Rita has the rest of the apartment. Saturday evening they came in, Rita sniffed at their carriers, then they were rushed into the bedroom to relax. It was a rather traumatic move, since they fought very hard to not be caught and carried. To make it worse, Orca(t) remembers me only as That Bad Lady Who Holds Me and Clips My Claws. Spot is just scared of everybody anyway, except mommy. They have food with a drop of Rescue Remedy in it, and the feliway infuser is plugged into the bedroom wall. Last night after I got home, I opened the bedroom door and just left it. Spot is under the bed as far away as he can get, and hasn't moved. I'm not sure if he's even eaten yet. Orca(t) is out and about, but only in the bedroom. Rita went into the bedroom and hissed a little, but she jumped on the bed and held a little conversation with Orca(t). I thought they were going to be okay. Then I went to bed. Just as I was dropping off to sleep, I was awakened by a hissspit cat fight under the bed! Spot is VERY angry at Rita, and Orca(t) is defending his brother, so after two of those, I had to lock Rita out of the room for the night. I think Spot is especially nervous because he's declawed. Orca(t) and Rita would have been all right, but Spot needs extra help. Any suggestions to help them get along better, or am I just going to have to be more patient? After all, it's only been two days. They have their favorite food, and a couple of items from home with their smell on it, including a comforter under the bed that they used at home, so I'm hoping that they'll feel more relaxed eventually. Meanwhile, unless I want to sleep on the couch, I have to sleep without my Rita. *sniff* Jane - owned and operated by Princess Rita, Spot, and Orca(t) |
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Count me on the side of being patient and letting them eventually work
things out. I'd have to go back and check my postings to determine just when I first brought Spot and her babies inside out of a storm, but I'm still keeping them in separate rooms when I'm not here to supervise. The only thing I'd suggest that it doesn't sound like you're already doing is rotating rooms. My apartment isn't exactly ideal for integrating newbies - just a small one bedroom apartment. Sometimes LB and Sammy are in the bedroom/bathroom with Spot in the living room/kitchen, sometimes Spot in the bedroom/bathroom and my girls out in the LR. I still have hopes that Sam and Spot may eventually become friendly, but doubt that LB will ever do more than tolerate Spot's existence. Course she was the same way with Rocky (RB) when I brought him inside, and that was after knowing and getting along with Rocky in the OUT. It was a couple months before she'd stay in the same room with him, but eventually they could be found napping fairly close - though it never got to the point where they'd play or groom each other. Though I'd like to someday see them all cuddled up together, I'll be satisfied if I can leave them alone in the same room without being afraid of them fighting. Otherwise, I may have to invest in a window air conditioner, since SW Oklahoma does get kind of warm, and the only A/C / heater is in the living room, and it get's a might warm and stuffy for whoever is locked away in the bedroom during the day. Anyway, purrs that your three soon get along well enough to be left together. -- Steve Touchstone, faithful servant of Sammy, Little Bit and the Evil Spot with loving memories of Rocky (RB) [remove Junk for email] Home Page: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/index.html Cat Pix: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/animals.html |
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snip story of new cats fighting
Allowing the cats to have contact after only the second day is a huge mistake and you are seeing the horrible results.You're pushing these cats way too fast. They've already been traumatized by being in a strange place with strange person/animal and forcing them into meeting your cat when they haven't even had a chance to settle in for awhile is extremely unfair to them and is putting too much on them. It's alsotraumatic for your cat as her territory has been invaded and her routine upset. Now you've had fighting, which has traumatized them more and makes it even more difficult to create a situation where these cats can all get along. You need to start over and give these cats some time to adjust before you even think about starting the introduction process. Leave them completely separated for a week, and after a few days, IF they are starting to seem relaxed, you can rotate rooms for a short period of time and they can explore the rest of your place while your resident cat is closed into the room they ar in so she can check it out.You should also then temporarily replace the door to their room with a screen door so the cats can see and smell each other but not fight, and start feeding the cats on either side of the door to create a posiitve association with each others presence. Once you get to a point where they seem fairly relaxed when they are in close proximity to each other by the door, you can start allowing them to have short *supervised* meetings. Never yell at the cats when they hiss or swat as they will associate getting yelled at with the other cat and it will make matters worse. Instead just gently intervene and move the offender out of the situation. Here's a good article that describes the basics of introducing cats: http://catsinternational.org/article...roduction.html Cat introductions take time, and thinking you can just let them "work it out" results in a lot of stress, fighting, and probable injury, which are all unnecessary and unfair to the cats. You can avoid that by being patient and takling several weeks to integrate then properly with as litlle stress as possible. If you allow things to go on as is, they will probably never become friends and you will have a very unhappy household. Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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