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The stigma of owning a cat.
Hi everyone:
I haven't posted in this forum in a long while, but have always found it full of great people with much knowledge and love for cats. So I immediately thought of this newsgroup when I wanted to share this perspective about cat ownership. One of my two 10-year-old cats suddenly became ill over the last weekend and she's been in the hospital for the last few days. The vet says her immune system is attacking her red blood cells and platelets, so they've put her on steroids and IV fluids. They've stabilized her enough that I'm about to pick her up in about a half hour. She stopped eating once she got to the vet, so their hope is that she'll start back up once she returns home and gets back to her routine. Otherwise, she may be returning to the vet and spending the holidays there. What I really want to discuss is what I've had to endure over the past few days with friends and co-workers as I deal with my pet's health crisis. I suppose I could be imagining much of this, so bear with me. My general impression is that most dog people or non-pet owners don't seem to understand the need to, for example, stay home from work babysitting a sick cat. I get the feeling as though cat ownership is less valid of an excuse to be at home vs. a sick child or even a sick dog. Jokes typically come up when I discuss how much I've already spent on my cat (about $700 this week). Someone had commented that they're not even sure they'd spend that much on their own child, let alone a cat. I realize they were just ribbing me about it, but you know what they say about there always being a shred of truth behind every joke. On some base level, I think they were actually being sincere. I should point out that these are otherwise good co-workers with whom I get along fine. I'm wondering first if this is just my imagination...if other cat owners out there have felt the sting of this stigma. Perhaps people just have a hard time linking a 6 foot, 2-inch, 235-pound male to two little kitties instead of, say, a Doberman. Would appreciate any thoughts or experiences. Thanks again and happy holidays. |
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