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Obviously you don't comprehend that cats found at shelters are just as good
as purebreeds. -- Cat Galaxy: All Cats! All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of Your Computer Needs! www.panthertekit.com There is reading and then there is comprehension, CP. |
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I have a life thank you. Maybe it is you who need to get one.
-- Cat Galaxy: All Cats! All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of Your Computer Needs! www.panthertekit.com "Philip" wrote in message ink.net... Get a life, CP. |
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Phillip[,
I will soon be owned by two purebred Bengal kittens; I got my first one about a month ago and I go to pick up his half-brother next week. I am already owned by a moggy, a 12 year old spayed female that was my daughter's cat. I am also owned by 5 feral cats who depend on me to feed them. Guess that means they are no longer truely feral, since they no longer have to hunt and kill their own food, or find dry, warm shelter, or fight to keep their territory. They are all males and have been neutered, so they don't even care about finding mates or having to fight with other Toms. These fellows actually have it pretty good. So, in actruality, I have 8 cats and only two are purebreds. Is one better than the other? No way, just different, they are all felines, and each one is distinctive. All the nay sayers who try to convince me to feel guilty for purchasing purebreds from a breeder instead of geting shelter cats can save their breath. I don't buy into guilt trips. I suggest you don't either. Hemma |
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Philip wrote: -L. wrote: Philip wrote: Hmmm. There are times when the cat would have to be left to his/her own amusement for 24 hrs, maybe longer. Not often but still ... Rusty was okay for 3 days alone in the house but when we return, there was an aloofness for awhile and that look of "YOU left me ALONE ... you turds!" But this only happens once a year. Honestly, Phillip, all of the qualities you are looking for can be found in a shelter Moggie. If you are not interested in adopting an older cat, look at the kittens. You can develop a bond from the beginning, and it will be a very special relationship throughout your lives. No cat will ever replace the one you lost, but they each have their own special qualities that you will grow to love. -L. Thank you -L. The wife and I are aware of this reality. A kitten is preferred for the reasons of bonding. Yes, I've gone thru the bonding exercises via hand feeding for the first few weeks and all that. So there is latitude here for temperament. Something between a lap cat and one that hooks into the accoustic ceiling when startled. LOL But then, in my humble and somewhat expert opinion(*1), the kitten-bonding thing is sort of crapola. The bonding would be solely on *your* part, not the kittens. Older cats seem to bond just as well. I've had several older cats that were just as devoted to me specifically that I acquired as older cats with unknown history. And I've raised kittens who grew up to be very aloof cats. I think the temperament of a cat, if not present at birth, is largely set by 12 weeks.(*2) I love all my cats, but my idea of the ideal cat, like yours, is something between a curtain-climber and a frantically-needy lap cat. Out of five, I have one that fits that description! Sherry *1) Expert simply meaning I've taken in a crapload of adult stray cats in the last 35 years *2) Personal theory based on personal experience and anecdotal evidence. |
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wrote: But then, in my humble and somewhat expert opinion(*1), the kitten-bonding thing is sort of crapola. The bonding would be solely on *your* part, not the kittens. Older cats seem to bond just as well. I've had several older cats that were just as devoted to me specifically that I acquired as older cats with unknown history. And I've raised kittens who grew up to be very aloof cats. I think the temperament of a cat, if not present at birth, is largely set by 12 weeks.(*2) I love all my cats, but my idea of the ideal cat, like yours, is something between a curtain-climber and a frantically-needy lap cat. Out of five, I have one that fits that description! Sherry *1) Expert simply meaning I've taken in a crapload of adult stray cats in the last 35 years *2) Personal theory based on personal experience and anecdotal evidence. I agree 100% for people like you and I who are seasoned "cat people", but for someone like the OP who essentially wants a "replacement cat" (for lack of better phrasing - and I don't mean that in a negative way) and isn't interested in the potential "baggage"* of a second-hand adult, I think to adopt an adult might be disasterous. Such people often feel an easier bond with a kitten. It's gotta be a good fit on both sides, and adult cat adoptions aren't for everyone. -L. *"baggage" here, again, being relative. I have found most "baggage" to be labels put on by the previous owners, and when the cat is rehomed, none or few of the same behaviors are exhibited. |
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I agree 100% for people like you and I who are seasoned "cat people", but for someone like the OP who essentially wants a "replacement cat" (for lack of better phrasing - and I don't mean that in a negative way) and isn't interested in the potential "baggage"* of a second-hand adult, I think to adopt an adult might be disasterous. Such people often feel an easier bond with a kitten. It's gotta be a good fit on both sides, and adult cat adoptions aren't for everyone. -L. *"baggage" here, again, being relative. I have found most "baggage" to be labels put on by the previous owners, and when the cat is rehomed, none or few of the same behaviors are exhibited. Point taken. Also, with adult cats, personalities vary *widely*. You've got your leg-rubbers (bad choice for the elderly), the ones that hide under the bed the first entire week, the "don't touch me's", and the frantically needy lap cats that are constantly in your face wanting attention. The curtain-climbing, super-active cats, and the ultra-timid ones that flee at the sight of a broom or a doorbell. Unless shelter personnel are *very* in-tune with each particular cat, it's a crap shoot what you get. Fortunately, most shelters can analyze each cat's personality for the adoptor. But, then, with kittens, I still think the basic personality traits are already in motion by 12 weeks. If a kitten is timid, it's usually going to still be timid as an adult. If it's a lovey-dovey one that sucks on your earlobes at the shelter, it's going to be that way as it grows up. It's the personality traits that are a result of abuse, or improper handling, I think that will disappear with the right owner. Sherry |
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"CP" : Go work out YOUR abandonment issues with a therapist ... a human
therapist. Now if you please, put my screen name in your killfile. Cat Protector wrote: You are full of crap. I think you just don't like the fact someone is willing to call your hand here. You seem to think that going to a breeder is better than cats in the shelter. Your reasoning for not supporting getting a cat from the shelter is simply because it is too sad. What is sad is not giving a cat that needs one a really good home when so many cats are in the shelter due to no fault of their own. I really don't think you should have a cat since it is obvious to me from what you posted that you are not ready. The cats in the shelters deserve good and loving homes with humans that actually are willing to care for them for life not just some part-time responsibility. It is apparent that no matter what anyone says that you are not going to listen since you seem hell bent on getting a purebreed. I guess I have said all I can say. You have proved my point that some people like yourself see shelter cats as being lower in quality than a purebreed which simply is not true. Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of Your Computer Needs! www.panthertekit.com "Philip" wrote in message link.net... But that is not your real reason. Your responses suggest that if the other person does not agree with your viewpoint that repetition will win them over. Forget it, CP. You are that transparent. Cat Protector wrote: Well sometimes one has to repeat themselves if they don't think the other person is listening. Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of Your Computer Needs! www.panthertekit.com "Philip" wrote in message link.net... CP: Your message bears a striking similarity to playing broken record. Cat Protector wrote: I made your point? How? You seem stuck on getting a purebreed which is sad when so many cats at the shelter need good and loving homes. It is cat and kitten season so the best thing you can do is adopt from a shelter because it helps save a life and gives that cat needing one, a home full of love and happiness. Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of Your Computer Needs! www.panthertekit.com "Philip" wrote in message link.net... Dear CP: You've made my point and I wish you well. Cat Protector wrote: All 3 of my cats are rescues and cats own you, not the other way around. I rescued Jade from an abandoned apartment and found Icarus as a stray. Isis I adopted from the Humane Society. I also help promote cat adoptions as well as I have an Internet radio and TV station for cats. You can check it out and see what that is all about. "Philip" wrote in message link.net... "CP" ... how many cats do you own right now who were rescued from an animal shelter? Do you also claim as many such kitties as practical and then find them new homes too? Cat Protector wrote: I have no idea what is the big deal with Bengals. They're beautiful cats but you can find some of the same traits in cats that are awaiting adoption at the local shelter. "Orchid" wrote in message ... On Fri, 22 Apr 2005 13:48:10 -0700, "Cat Protector" wrote: In what way do they help with the dishes. *sigh* Please note the quotations around 'help'. Bengals love to play in water. Therefore, running water would be a great draw for paws and heads and faces and sometimes entire bodies while the person is trying to do the dishes. They're 'helping'. As for interactive, Bengals aren't the only breed requiring this. Where, exactly, did I say that only Bengals are interactive? Any cat can have any of the traits I discuss -- it's just that Bengals tend to have all of them Orchid See Orchid's Kitties! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/bengalpage Want a Purebred Cat? Read This! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/orchid |
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CP: As with ALL blanket generalizations rooted in unchecked emotion, your
assertion is false. Cat Protector wrote: Obviously you don't comprehend that cats found at shelters are just as good as purebreeds. There is reading and then there is comprehension, CP. |
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Hemmaholic wrote:
Phillip[, I will soon be owned by two purebred Bengal kittens; I got my first one about a month ago and I go to pick up his half-brother next week. I am already owned by a moggy, a 12 year old spayed female that was my daughter's cat. I am also owned by 5 feral cats who depend on me to feed them. Guess that means they are no longer truely feral, since they no longer have to hunt and kill their own food, or find dry, warm shelter, or fight to keep their territory. They are all males and have been neutered, so they don't even care about finding mates or having to fight with other Toms. These fellows actually have it pretty good. So, in actruality, I have 8 cats and only two are purebreds. Is one better than the other? No way, just different, they are all felines, and each one is distinctive. All the nay sayers who try to convince me to feel guilty for purchasing purebreds from a breeder instead of geting shelter cats can save their breath. I don't buy into guilt trips. I suggest you don't either. Hemma Thank you Hemma. ;-) |
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-L. wrote:
wrote: But then, in my humble and somewhat expert opinion(*1), the kitten-bonding thing is sort of crapola. The bonding would be solely on *your* part, not the kittens. Older cats seem to bond just as well. I've had several older cats that were just as devoted to me specifically that I acquired as older cats with unknown history. And I've raised kittens who grew up to be very aloof cats. I think the temperament of a cat, if not present at birth, is largely set by 12 weeks.(*2) I love all my cats, but my idea of the ideal cat, like yours, is something between a curtain-climber and a frantically-needy lap cat. Out of five, I have one that fits that description! Sherry *1) Expert simply meaning I've taken in a crapload of adult stray cats in the last 35 years *2) Personal theory based on personal experience and anecdotal evidence. I agree 100% for people like you and I who are seasoned "cat people", but for someone like the OP who essentially wants a "replacement cat" (for lack of better phrasing - and I don't mean that in a negative way) and isn't interested in the potential "baggage"* of a second-hand adult, I think to adopt an adult might be disasterous. Such people often feel an easier bond with a kitten. It's gotta be a good fit on both sides, and adult cat adoptions aren't for everyone. -L. *"baggage" here, again, being relative. I have found most "baggage" to be labels put on by the previous owners, and when the cat is rehomed, none or few of the same behaviors are exhibited. -L: You have picked up on one important point. There is "personality" and then there is "baggage". The few strays I took in years ago had "baggage" that took a fair amount of work to correct. I'm a lot older now and my wife would not be so tolerant of a misbehaving indoor only kittie as I would be were I living alone again (perish the thought). This time around, it does have to be a "good fit" which is what drives the preference for a kitten. |
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