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I feel like a murderer
There is nothing more difficult than having a pet put to sleep. There are
now vets that will come to your house when this becomes the only option. Much more comforting for you and your pet. If this looks like what is best for Godfrey, would this be an option? Tom -- My favorite Cat book of the moment - Jasper by Michelle Groce Some info on Jasper: http://novellopress.org/aboutbook.asp?id=2 A review(right side of page): http://creativeloafing.com/charlotte...rts_books.html |
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This would be an option for Godfrey. My biggest concern is that what is best
for him be done. I'm just having a hard time figuring out what that is right now. I've got any posts saying the kindest thing is to let him go peacefully and a few more saying not to give up on him. Just give him more time. But when will I know for sure if he will ever be able to regain control over his bowls? TC wrote in message . com... There is nothing more difficult than having a pet put to sleep. There are now vets that will come to your house when this becomes the only option. Much more comforting for you and your pet. If this looks like what is best for Godfrey, would this be an option? Tom -- My favorite Cat book of the moment - Jasper by Michelle Groce Some info on Jasper: http://novellopress.org/aboutbook.asp?id=2 A review(right side of page): http://creativeloafing.com/charlotte...rts_books.html -----= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =----- http://www.newsfeeds.com - The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! -----== Over 80,000 Newsgroups - 16 Different Servers! =----- |
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In article , "Mogie"
says... This would be an option for Godfrey. My biggest concern is that what is best for him be done. I'm just having a hard time figuring out what that is right now. I've got any posts saying the kindest thing is to let him go peacefully and a few more saying not to give up on him. Just give him more time. But when will I know for sure if he will ever be able to regain control over his bowls? It's not easy to go through and it's not easy to deecide, as you know. I think if I were to advise, and I guess I'm about to,... try to put yourself in his place. Watch him and try to see if he's moving like a happy cat or a sad cat. Your presence should comfort him, but how badly does he need that comfort. I think the best way is to talk to him and spend time with him and look into his eyes and watch for his response. He will likely "tell you" whether he has had enough or whether he wants to go on fighting. A look in his eyes or in his body language... If Godfrey tells you what he wants in this way, then you can be sure that it would be the right thing to do. Perhaps also, he may make demands upon you and you have to decide whether or not you are able to fulfill his needs. Tough, tough decision, especially for someone you love. It helps if the vet can give you some idea of whether he'll recover or how much he'll manage to do. We cannot make that decision for you. When it comes down to it. You just have to do the best that you can and trust that in the greater scheme of things, it will be good enough. I've had to do help a cat to the Rainbow Bridge only once. (I was goingto do it for Patches, but he didn't make it to the vets and passed away in my arms). Spirit was a deaf cat who told me it was her time. When it's necessary, I like to see that the cat is held by someone the cat loves. I like to see that those last moments together are peaceful and loving. So that's the best I can offer and only you and Godfrey can make the right decision, not some guy on the internet like me who doesn't know either of you. All I can do is wish you both all the best and let you know that you are not alone and many of us here on r.p.c.c. have faced the same situation at one time or another. I am convinced that it's not the end, when we leave, but a new beginning. If it were not so, what sense would the universe make? It would be an absurdity if this life were all there is. So I trust in the knowledge that we will meet again and nothing is final. Still, you want to do what you can for the poor little fellow. A dedcision made in love will not be "murder," either way. -- With Warmest Regards, Fred Williams, remove the four "F"s when replying |
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"Uncle Fred" wrote in message ... In article , "Mogie" says... This would be an option for Godfrey. My biggest concern is that what is best for him be done. I'm just having a hard time figuring out what that is right now. I've got any posts saying the kindest thing is to let him go peacefully and a few more saying not to give up on him. Just give him more time. But when will I know for sure if he will ever be able to regain control over his bowls? It's not easy to go through and it's not easy to deecide, as you know. I think if I were to advise, and I guess I'm about to,... try to put yourself in his place. Watch him and try to see if he's moving like a happy cat or a sad cat. Your presence should comfort him, but how badly does he need that comfort. I think the best way is to talk to him and spend time with him and look into his eyes and watch for his response. He will likely "tell you" whether he has had enough or whether he wants to go on fighting. A look in his eyes or in his body language... If Godfrey tells you what he wants in this way, then you can be sure that it would be the right thing to do. Perhaps also, he may make demands upon you and you have to decide whether or not you are able to fulfill his needs. Tough, tough decision, especially for someone you love. It helps if the vet can give you some idea of whether he'll recover or how much he'll manage to do. We cannot make that decision for you. When it comes down to it. You just have to do the best that you can and trust that in the greater scheme of things, it will be good enough. I've had to do help a cat to the Rainbow Bridge only once. (I was goingto do it for Patches, but he didn't make it to the vets and passed away in my arms). Spirit was a deaf cat who told me it was her time. When it's necessary, I like to see that the cat is held by someone the cat loves. I like to see that those last moments together are peaceful and loving. So that's the best I can offer and only you and Godfrey can make the right decision, not some guy on the internet like me who doesn't know either of you. All I can do is wish you both all the best and let you know that you are not alone and many of us here on r.p.c.c. have faced the same situation at one time or another. I am convinced that it's not the end, when we leave, but a new beginning. If it were not so, what sense would the universe make? It would be an absurdity if this life were all there is. So I trust in the knowledge that we will meet again and nothing is final. Still, you want to do what you can for the poor little fellow. A dedcision made in love will not be "murder," either way. -- With Warmest Regards, Fred Williams, remove the four "F"s when replying I might just add, do you have the Rainbow Bridge article? I saved it for the time that I might need it, and would post it or send it to you in this time of need of comfort. Sylvia |
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Talked with the vet Thursday. Unless there is a miracle before Tuesday we
are going to let Godfrey go the bridge. This is not an easy decision but I know that Godfrey isn't happy just existing and not being able to live. Please keep us in your prayers. Sylvia M wrote in message rthlink.net... "Uncle Fred" wrote in message ... In article , "Mogie" says... This would be an option for Godfrey. My biggest concern is that what is best for him be done. I'm just having a hard time figuring out what that is right now. I've got any posts saying the kindest thing is to let him go peacefully and a few more saying not to give up on him. Just give him more time. But when will I know for sure if he will ever be able to regain control over his bowls? It's not easy to go through and it's not easy to deecide, as you know. I think if I were to advise, and I guess I'm about to,... try to put yourself in his place. Watch him and try to see if he's moving like a happy cat or a sad cat. Your presence should comfort him, but how badly does he need that comfort. I think the best way is to talk to him and spend time with him and look into his eyes and watch for his response. He will likely "tell you" whether he has had enough or whether he wants to go on fighting. A look in his eyes or in his body language... If Godfrey tells you what he wants in this way, then you can be sure that it would be the right thing to do. Perhaps also, he may make demands upon you and you have to decide whether or not you are able to fulfill his needs. Tough, tough decision, especially for someone you love. It helps if the vet can give you some idea of whether he'll recover or how much he'll manage to do. We cannot make that decision for you. When it comes down to it. You just have to do the best that you can and trust that in the greater scheme of things, it will be good enough. I've had to do help a cat to the Rainbow Bridge only once. (I was goingto do it for Patches, but he didn't make it to the vets and passed away in my arms). Spirit was a deaf cat who told me it was her time. When it's necessary, I like to see that the cat is held by someone the cat loves. I like to see that those last moments together are peaceful and loving. So that's the best I can offer and only you and Godfrey can make the right decision, not some guy on the internet like me who doesn't know either of you. All I can do is wish you both all the best and let you know that you are not alone and many of us here on r.p.c.c. have faced the same situation at one time or another. I am convinced that it's not the end, when we leave, but a new beginning. If it were not so, what sense would the universe make? It would be an absurdity if this life were all there is. So I trust in the knowledge that we will meet again and nothing is final. Still, you want to do what you can for the poor little fellow. A dedcision made in love will not be "murder," either way. -- With Warmest Regards, Fred Williams, remove the four "F"s when replying I might just add, do you have the Rainbow Bridge article? I saved it for the time that I might need it, and would post it or send it to you in this time of need of comfort. Sylvia -----= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =----- http://www.newsfeeds.com - The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! -----== Over 80,000 Newsgroups - 16 Different Servers! =----- |
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In article , "Mogie"
says... Talked with the vet Thursday. Unless there is a miracle before Tuesday we are going to let Godfrey go the bridge. This is not an easy decision but I know that Godfrey isn't happy just existing and not being able to live. Please keep us in your prayers. You got it. Purrrs and purrayers for Godfrey and all those who will suffer the loss of him. You are not alone. There are many wonderful cats who are at the bridge already and they will make him feel at home, among them Patches, Ajax, Dutchy, Spirit, Cuddles, and Dinah all from the house of Williams. He'll be in good company. Spend time with him, as much as possible in the few days you have left together. You'll never regret it. -- With Regards, Fred Williams, remove the four "F"s when replying |
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