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A good dog is one that graduates from an obediance school. A dog
needs to know who is boss, execute commands, and be taught what behaviors are good (ie, coming when called and "sitting") and which are bad (ie, jumping on people) . I definitively never felt the psychological need to exert authority over any of my pets. What´s so thrilling about this? Hey doggy, come here! Sit! Role! Gimmy your paw! I bet the dog is thinking, "The things I have to go through to get approval..." But take a clue: when the cat scratches, it's nearly always time to trim the talons. I don´t trim their claws. Foolish people adapt to the undesirable behavior. Smart people retrain the animal. Maybe smart people don´t have animals if they have to get out of their way to have them. There´s always another point of view to any subjective issue. Spontaneity? LOL Please don't sexualize this, okay! If your cats and dogs want to hump in the middle of the living room and that's your amusement... whatever! Hey, how is spontaneity related to sex? Look at these two situations: (1) you come home from work and your child comes running, jumps on you and hugs you and (2) you come home from work and your child walks up to you, shakes hand and says "good evening." I´ll take the first one any time. You can picture the exact same thing with a cat or dog. You come home from work and the cat comes running to greet you. You come home from work and the cat doesn´t even look at you. How are these behaviors related to sex? So .... what are you waiting for? Get with the training program! No way, thank you. |
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I got the picture, Liz. From here, you just walked off the end of
the pier. (splash down). BTW, while your out there flailing around in the water, Orcas (killer whales) usually play with baby seals ... bouncing them back and forth like a volley ball in the air before EATING them ... chomp chomp. Wadda ya think of that? I think they´re dead. ? |
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I got the picture, Liz. From here, you just walked off the end of
the pier. (splash down). BTW, while your out there flailing around in the water, Orcas (killer whales) usually play with baby seals ... bouncing them back and forth like a volley ball in the air before EATING them ... chomp chomp. Wadda ya think of that? I think they´re dead. ? |
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You train them every day. Training is merely the reinforcing of certain
behavior (either through positive or negative reinforcement or by punishing). If you pet your cats when they come to you, you are training them to come to you. If you give them treats when they are good, they will be good more often. The problem with new dog owners is that they don't realize that by petting Fido when he jumps on them, they are training him to jump on them. The same thinking applies to cats. If you play with your cats in a rough manner, you are training them to play rough. Communication problem here. I´m thinking of that traditional training where you repeatedly make the animal do something and whack it if it doesn´t or give it a biscuit or some praise if it does. Training: activity leading to skilled behavior; Conditioning: a learning process in which an organism's behavior becomes dependent on the occurrence of a stimulus in its environment; I did condition all of my cats to respond to whistling. I did not train them to respond to whistling. Every day, when I fill up their bowl of food, I whistle. After some time, they associated whistle with food. This is different from *imposing* a wanted behavior through positive or negative reinforcement. Of course they don't attack out of nowhere. Few animals attack with no provocation. S&R had tigers for 20 years before this happened. However, what provokes an animal can be something as slight as too much eye contact. That is true for people too. Some people can´t distinguish between being admired and being provoked. People who are aware they are good looking will most likely not take provocation from being stared at. An emotionally healthy animal can perfectly tell the difference between being provoked and being admired. It´s all in the body language and the smell. One who is admiring has their eyelids relaxed, their body relaxed. One who is provoking has tense eyelids (sometimes wide open), a ready-to-fight posture, and smells adrenaline. An animal who is deprived of learning proper body language because of a human who does not act according to his body signals (comes walking relaxed toward the animal and kicks him) will most certainly take provocation from any eye contact. Mentally healthy animals can easily tell if you fear them or if you admire them or if you want to hurt them. Some people (myself included) can easily tell what you are feeling, what you feel towards them, if you are lying or not, if you want to leave or stay, etc., just by looking at you. It´s all in the body language. |
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You train them every day. Training is merely the reinforcing of certain
behavior (either through positive or negative reinforcement or by punishing). If you pet your cats when they come to you, you are training them to come to you. If you give them treats when they are good, they will be good more often. The problem with new dog owners is that they don't realize that by petting Fido when he jumps on them, they are training him to jump on them. The same thinking applies to cats. If you play with your cats in a rough manner, you are training them to play rough. Communication problem here. I´m thinking of that traditional training where you repeatedly make the animal do something and whack it if it doesn´t or give it a biscuit or some praise if it does. Training: activity leading to skilled behavior; Conditioning: a learning process in which an organism's behavior becomes dependent on the occurrence of a stimulus in its environment; I did condition all of my cats to respond to whistling. I did not train them to respond to whistling. Every day, when I fill up their bowl of food, I whistle. After some time, they associated whistle with food. This is different from *imposing* a wanted behavior through positive or negative reinforcement. Of course they don't attack out of nowhere. Few animals attack with no provocation. S&R had tigers for 20 years before this happened. However, what provokes an animal can be something as slight as too much eye contact. That is true for people too. Some people can´t distinguish between being admired and being provoked. People who are aware they are good looking will most likely not take provocation from being stared at. An emotionally healthy animal can perfectly tell the difference between being provoked and being admired. It´s all in the body language and the smell. One who is admiring has their eyelids relaxed, their body relaxed. One who is provoking has tense eyelids (sometimes wide open), a ready-to-fight posture, and smells adrenaline. An animal who is deprived of learning proper body language because of a human who does not act according to his body signals (comes walking relaxed toward the animal and kicks him) will most certainly take provocation from any eye contact. Mentally healthy animals can easily tell if you fear them or if you admire them or if you want to hurt them. Some people (myself included) can easily tell what you are feeling, what you feel towards them, if you are lying or not, if you want to leave or stay, etc., just by looking at you. It´s all in the body language. |
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I try not to exert my authority over the cats in my household because I know
I have no real power. Yes, I do have the parental role every once and a while but that is limited to hugs, baths, playing and the occasional discipline. However, I am also the servant to them as well where I must bring back money to the royal treasury, give them their treats, feed and water, and of course the cleaning of the royal litterbox. -- Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of All Your Computer Needs! www.members.cox.net/catprotector/panthertek Cat Galaxy: All Cats, All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com "Liz" wrote in message om... I definitively never felt the psychological need to exert authority over any of my pets. What´s so thrilling about this? Hey doggy, come here! Sit! Role! Gimmy your paw! I bet the dog is thinking, "The things I have to go through to get approval..." |
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I try not to exert my authority over the cats in my household because I know
I have no real power. Yes, I do have the parental role every once and a while but that is limited to hugs, baths, playing and the occasional discipline. However, I am also the servant to them as well where I must bring back money to the royal treasury, give them their treats, feed and water, and of course the cleaning of the royal litterbox. -- Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of All Your Computer Needs! www.members.cox.net/catprotector/panthertek Cat Galaxy: All Cats, All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com "Liz" wrote in message om... I definitively never felt the psychological need to exert authority over any of my pets. What´s so thrilling about this? Hey doggy, come here! Sit! Role! Gimmy your paw! I bet the dog is thinking, "The things I have to go through to get approval..." |
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"Cat Protector" wrote in message news:1uihb.11570$La.6315@fed1read02...
I try not to exert my authority over the cats in my household because I know I have no real power. Yes, I do have the parental role every once and a while but that is limited to hugs, baths, playing and the occasional discipline. However, I am also the servant to them as well where I must bring back money to the royal treasury, give them their treats, feed and water, and of course the cleaning of the royal litterbox. Don´t they do an awesome job in conditioning us? |
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"Cat Protector" wrote in message news:1uihb.11570$La.6315@fed1read02...
I try not to exert my authority over the cats in my household because I know I have no real power. Yes, I do have the parental role every once and a while but that is limited to hugs, baths, playing and the occasional discipline. However, I am also the servant to them as well where I must bring back money to the royal treasury, give them their treats, feed and water, and of course the cleaning of the royal litterbox. Don´t they do an awesome job in conditioning us? |
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They sure do. Cats are definately smarter than us humans.
-- Panther TEK: Staying On Top Of All Your Computer Needs! www.members.cox.net/catprotector/panthertek Cat Galaxy: All Cats, All The Time! www.catgalaxymedia.com "Liz" wrote in message om... Don´t they do an awesome job in conditioning us? |
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