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Need opinions - Scared for Sneezy
Sneezy is a formerly-feril cat who about 6 months ago decided he was
going to make our home his home. I was okay with it as long as my 2 cats didn't mind and oddly enough, they didn't seem to. He's since become a very loving little fellow and has been domesticating himself VERY well. Best I've ever seen, in fact. But then he seems to get injured or sick, maybe a combination of the two. One day, Sneezy crawls to this very hard to get to place behind our couch and rested there for 2 or 3 days without ever leaving. I thought for sure he had some life threatening sickness and he had just simply given up. I continued to give him food and water and to my surprise, he continued to eat and drink. Maybe he's not so sick after all--maybe someone just stepped on his foot or a hip or something and he's just sore, I began to wonder. He could barely walk and his rear was shaking really bad when he tried to stand initially. He couldn't go far to go to make it outside to the bathroom and so I was forced to just keep cleaning up after him throughout this time. I felt like it was the least I could do for the little guy. About 10 days of this passed and slowly but surely he got up more and seemed to eventually fully recover. He was okay for maybe a week. Suddenly one day, we find these very strange puddles of clear, odorless liquid in various places around the house. It wasn't urine as it was thicker, almost gelatin based. Then later that day he is on my bed (of all places!) and stands up as if he is going to stretch and just leaks this clear liquid all over my bed. As I watched him do it he looked at me like "help, I can't control this - please don't be mad" (was my perception of his facial expression). Long story short, he is back under the couch most of the time (although he doesn't seem quite as bad this time around, he is up and moving around a little bit more, but is still reserving himself to his safety spot). It seems that was just a particularly bad day for him as he hasn't released these weird puddles in the last 3 days, but he is still very obviously not right. What on earth could be causing this?? More importantly, what can I do to help him? Is there anything I can do to relieve his apparent pain? If his rear is shaking as such, it must mean he's in pain..? Also he was VERY talkative when healthy and he won't speak a word. That makes me wonder if he's in pain at all? Maybe too much pain to even let out a squeak??? I'm so confused! I did a lot of research online and I am generally pretty accurate with my online-diagnosis, but this one is FAR too strange. I have read about the anal sac glands and how they may need to be cleared out, but I also read that if this is the case that the odor of the dispelled liquid should be very pungent. Also in the cases I read about regarding this problem, the cats didn't seem to eat and drink as normal (except in one case I read). I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. My financial state is completely at rock bottom. My fear is that my only option is that I will simply have to take him to the pound, wish him my very best, and hope they are able to get him healthy and put him up for adoption. This is my very, VERY, last rate option and I am really afraid that is what I am going to have to do. I just can't find any sort of home remedies or even plausible suggestions to try. Of course, everything on the web says "take him to a vet!" - but I don't have $150+ just to get him in the freaking door. Thank you very much for your time and suggestions, Capricious |
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"capricious" wrote I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. Take this cat to a shelter immediately, along with your other cats. Vet care is part of having a cat. This cat is suffering, because of YOU. |
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On Apr 22, 3:22 pm, "cybercat" wrote:
"capricious" wrote I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. Take this cat to a shelter immediately, along with your other cats. Vet care is part of having a cat. This cat is suffering, because of YOU. Excuse me?!?!? How ****ing DARE you! I should take YOUR ass to the shelter you SCUMBAG! I have done nothing but HELP this cat as much as I could. I took him in to my home when he was starving, then fed him and got him as healthy as I could. Even financially strapped, I am always able to provide them food and water. It is by no means MY fault he suddenly became ill. You need to take your sorry ass and go play in some freeway traffic with your *disgusting* and *dispicable* attitude. I am begging for help here and this is what you had the nerve to reply?? You're a sorry excuse for a human being, period. Absolutely pitiful that I had to read that. |
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On Tue, 22 Apr 2008 17:54:52 -0700 (PDT), capricious
wrote: On Apr 22, 3:22 pm, "cybercat" wrote: "capricious" wrote I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. Take this cat to a shelter immediately, along with your other cats. Vet care is part of having a cat. This cat is suffering, because of YOU. Excuse me?!?!? How ****ing DARE you! I should take YOUR ass to the shelter you SCUMBAG! I have done nothing but HELP this cat as much as I could. I took him in to my home when he was starving, then fed him and got him as healthy as I could. Even financially strapped, I am always able to provide them food and water. It is by no means MY fault he suddenly became ill. You need to take your sorry ass and go play in some freeway traffic with your *disgusting* and *dispicable* attitude. I am begging for help here and this is what you had the nerve to reply?? You're a sorry excuse for a human being, period. Absolutely pitiful that I had to read that. YOU ARE AN IDIOT. IF YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO TAKE YOUR CATS TO THE VET, TAKE THEM TO A NO KILL SHELTER. AND SHUT UP!!! |
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On Apr 22, 10:54 pm, eat@joe's (Joe) wrote:
On Tue, 22 Apr 2008 17:54:52 -0700 (PDT), capricious I HAVE to respond to this. I lost my job in December and had just taken in a cat from a friend just before losing my job. My husband became disabled fairly recently as well. We found a way to get the cat some much needed medical help. There is a way, if you try. Maybe you could try researching THAT on the Internet! How to get medical help for your cat with no money to pay for the expenses. There are all kinds of options if you really start to open up and look for them. It is all about priorities. Call around. Call around. Call around. You can get help for your cat if you put forth some effort. |
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On Apr 22, 8:48 pm, mc wrote:
On Apr 22, 10:54 pm, eat@joe's (Joe) wrote: On Tue, 22 Apr 2008 17:54:52 -0700 (PDT), capricious I HAVE to respond to this. I lost my job in December and had just taken in a cat from a friend just before losing my job. My husband became disabled fairly recently as well. We found a way to get the cat some much needed medical help. There is a way, if you try. Maybe you could try researching THAT on the Internet! How to get medical help for your cat with no money to pay for the expenses. There are all kinds of options if you really start to open up and look for them. It is all about priorities. Call around. Call around. Call around. You can get help for your cat if you put forth some effort. Thanks for the kind replies Mary and MC. Joe you should enroll in the same manners class as the rest of these clowns. But, I didn't even know who to call *besides* vets. I realize now that I should have asked specifically who else is there. I've had experience with the vets around here when I was in a better place financially and know they can be somewhat flexible, but usually (and understandably) want exact payment plans (i.e. post dated checks and so on). I have since posted this elsewhere and an actual Doctor replied and made the great suggestion of asking if he even possibly had a way to work it off and so on (cleaning cages, doing whatever) if unable to financially cover things. He also suggested that there are stray cat non-profit organizations which may take him in or assist with the medical care. It was a different perspective on the matter and I'm definitely going to be doing some calling around tomorrow. It's just a very sticky (and emotional) situation and I really was unsure what to do, I've generally had the money to just take care of my animals. Unfortunately this is a *really* bad time in my life to have this happen and I felt my only options were monitor him or take him to the shelter I just needed some help thinking outside of the box it seems. P.S. Mary - Sneezy for the last 2 hours has been generally wandering around the house scratching on stuff and actually meowed at me several times. He rubbed on my leg for a good 10 solid minutes, in what I perceived as showing his appreciation for sticking by his side and taking care of him. He still has a small limp on his front leg (?!?! i am so confused now lol!) but his *attitude* says he's feeling better. Time will tell and I'm still calling around tomorrow. Best regards. |
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capricious wrote: On Apr 22, 3:22 pm, "cybercat" wrote: "capricious" wrote I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. Take this cat to a shelter immediately, along with your other cats. Vet care is part of having a cat. This cat is suffering, because of YOU. Excuse me?!?!? How ****ing DARE you! I should take YOUR ass to the shelter you SCUMBAG! Calling names will *not* detract from the *fact* that you are irresponsible in the *extreme* as regards to having pets... I have done nothing but HELP this cat as much as I could. I took him in to my home when he was starving, then fed him and got him as healthy as I could. Even financially strapped, I am always able to provide them food and water. It is by no means MY fault he suddenly became ill. You are self - aggrandizing in the extreme...it's fairly obvious that you are clinically depresed and so took in a pet in order to feel "better" about yourself... I'd say you are suffering from "Munchausen's Syndrome", look it up... In any case you had no business "rescueing" an animal...as you can't even "rescue" yourself... -- Best Greg |
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Gregory Morrow wrote:
I'd say you are suffering from "Munchausen's Syndrome", look it up... And you'd be wrong. Münchausen's syndrome is when one makes oneself ill. Münchausen's sydrome by proxy is when one makes ill someone in one's care and charge. She did neither. Look it up. |
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You really do need to take Sneezy to the vet. Searching the web for a
remedy or posting this message isn't going to help. See if you can't work out a payment plan with the vet. Or call the Humane Society. Many times they have low-cost clinics. If you can afford a computer and dial-up or broadband or whatever, you can afford to take the cat to the vet. S. -- **Visit me and my cats at http://www.island-cats.com/ ** --- "capricious" wrote in message ... Sneezy is a formerly-feril cat who about 6 months ago decided he was going to make our home his home. I was okay with it as long as my 2 cats didn't mind and oddly enough, they didn't seem to. He's since become a very loving little fellow and has been domesticating himself VERY well. Best I've ever seen, in fact. But then he seems to get injured or sick, maybe a combination of the two. One day, Sneezy crawls to this very hard to get to place behind our couch and rested there for 2 or 3 days without ever leaving. I thought for sure he had some life threatening sickness and he had just simply given up. I continued to give him food and water and to my surprise, he continued to eat and drink. Maybe he's not so sick after all--maybe someone just stepped on his foot or a hip or something and he's just sore, I began to wonder. He could barely walk and his rear was shaking really bad when he tried to stand initially. He couldn't go far to go to make it outside to the bathroom and so I was forced to just keep cleaning up after him throughout this time. I felt like it was the least I could do for the little guy. About 10 days of this passed and slowly but surely he got up more and seemed to eventually fully recover. He was okay for maybe a week. Suddenly one day, we find these very strange puddles of clear, odorless liquid in various places around the house. It wasn't urine as it was thicker, almost gelatin based. Then later that day he is on my bed (of all places!) and stands up as if he is going to stretch and just leaks this clear liquid all over my bed. As I watched him do it he looked at me like "help, I can't control this - please don't be mad" (was my perception of his facial expression). Long story short, he is back under the couch most of the time (although he doesn't seem quite as bad this time around, he is up and moving around a little bit more, but is still reserving himself to his safety spot). It seems that was just a particularly bad day for him as he hasn't released these weird puddles in the last 3 days, but he is still very obviously not right. What on earth could be causing this?? More importantly, what can I do to help him? Is there anything I can do to relieve his apparent pain? If his rear is shaking as such, it must mean he's in pain..? Also he was VERY talkative when healthy and he won't speak a word. That makes me wonder if he's in pain at all? Maybe too much pain to even let out a squeak??? I'm so confused! I did a lot of research online and I am generally pretty accurate with my online-diagnosis, but this one is FAR too strange. I have read about the anal sac glands and how they may need to be cleared out, but I also read that if this is the case that the odor of the dispelled liquid should be very pungent. Also in the cases I read about regarding this problem, the cats didn't seem to eat and drink as normal (except in one case I read). I am in absolutely no financial position to even have him taken in to any vet for the most minor of a regular check-up. My financial state is completely at rock bottom. My fear is that my only option is that I will simply have to take him to the pound, wish him my very best, and hope they are able to get him healthy and put him up for adoption. This is my very, VERY, last rate option and I am really afraid that is what I am going to have to do. I just can't find any sort of home remedies or even plausible suggestions to try. Of course, everything on the web says "take him to a vet!" - but I don't have $150+ just to get him in the freaking door. Thank you very much for your time and suggestions, Capricious |
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On Apr 22, 4:36 pm, "blkcatgal" wrote:
You really do need to take Sneezy to the vet. Searching the web for a remedy or posting this message isn't going to help. See if you can't work out a payment plan with the vet. Or call the Humane Society. Many times they have low-cost clinics. If you can afford a computer and dial-up or broadband or whatever, you can afford to take the cat to the vet. S. Thank you for the reply. I will definitely try the humane society in the morning. I can afford broadband because my 82 year old grandfather I live with and take care of is retired from the phone company. It is practically free to us. I don't mean to be rude, but I don't understand why both of you decided that focusing on my financial situation is going to be helpful whatsoever. If you can't understand that there are people in the world who do everything they can to get by and simply are not able to, I pity your naivety and am jealous of your luck in life. My grandfather's social security doesn't even cover half of his medications and any finances are quickly gobbled up to the good old pharmaceutical companies. His pension covers the rest barely leaving enough to feed himself. So please don't comment on something you have absolutely no idea about. One of the main reasons I took this cat in is because this guy took to my grandfather and he could certainly use the friend. Dealing with this with him is not something I'd care to have to go through if I can avoid it, obviously. It wasn't my intention to publicly reveal my entire private life, but if it helps open your eyes a little bit, I guess it was worth it. |
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