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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
on Fri, 19 Jan 2007 21:28:36 GMT, eDog wrote:
I am leaning against declawing the cats because I think that even if I assumed a front declaw was something they would "get over", and it probably is, a four paw declaw is really tempting fate that something will go wrong. It would be far kinder to rehome your cats. snip And I do hope you are a vegan and that your cats are vegans too. While I am a vegetarian, I hope you are not depriving your cats of a meat-based diet. Cats are TRUE carnivores and that would be cruel to them AND unhealthy. There is probably more animal cruelty in every chicken breast than there is in a typical declawing operation on a cat. One has nothing to do with the other. Factory farming is a huge industry in this country. I abhor factory farming and do not buy factory farmed products, but that is a choice I can afford to make. It is also a luxury and not everyone has that option. Declawing, on the other hand, is a barbaric mutilation that, as a thinking person, you should not even be considering having done to these cats you proclaim to love. -- Lynne |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
"eDog" wrote in message . .. Now that you mention it, I am reminded of a cat that my mother had which developed issues with the litter box later in life. The problem seemed to start when another cat was brought into the house. This cat bullied my mothers cat and would attack her when she was in the litter box. But now that I think about it, even when the cats were finally separated "Cassandra" would still bolt out of the litter box in a sort of panic without burying her business. Perhaps it was an issue of pain in the claws. But in her case I think it was more likely an exagerated fear of being caught making feces by a predator or bully. I know my cats will miss their claws if they are declawed. They have a 30 inch scratching post which they love to climb upon and man handle with all fours. It will break my heart every time I see that they are no longer able to do this. As I said in another post in this thread, I tried to find leather that would hold up under minor scratching much as another piece of leather furniture I own does. Unfortunately I failed in this. I also was unable to steer the missus to a cheaper sofa. Now I am faced with the delemma that if my wife feels she can never have anything nice because of the cats, she will become UNHAPPY. If I am to save the cats claws I am going to have to find a way to touch up the surface scratches, make a visible effort with the soft paws and convince my wife that she is not going to have to live with a sofa that is under a blanket 24/7/365. It feels like a long shot. "MaryL" -OUT-THE-LITTER wrote in : Yes, I realized after I sent the message that I should have asked you not to let your wife (not your "husband") talk you into declawing. Please, though, -- Looking for a clue. Lyn (-L) has written an excellent message describing some of the detrimental effects of declawing. Please let me address your wife's desire to have nice furniture. I, also, like to have nice furniture. I value my cats far more than I value my furniture, but I realize that in your case we must talk about how your wife can have nice furniture and also permit your cats to have a normal life *with* claws. Please look at some of my pictures in the links under my sig. I think you will find that I have nice furniture. I have some antiques that still look beautiful, and I have some new pieces that have absolutely no damage. Moreover, my cats are free to use any furniture in the house -- they lie on it, play on it, climb on it, etc., and they *have not damaged* anything. They are very good about using scratching posts, and they do not use my furniture as scratchers. However, you have indicated that your cats also do not deliberately scratch your furniture. The problem seems to be, quite simply, that your selection of furniture was inappropriate for cats with claws. Obviously, your cats need a surface that provides some traction when they climb or jump onto furniture. You can solve this problem if you do one of the following: (1) Simply place cushions or a decorative throw over the leather sofa. This can be something that looks very nice. If you look in some designer catalogs, you will see that this effect is something that many people deliberately create for the artistic effect. (2) Or...Replace the leather sofa with a sofa that is more suitable for claws. Many people are able to use leather, but I personally think fabric is better. Look for fabric that is tightly woven and will not "pull" or "catch" as your cats jump or climb on the furniture. Have it treated for soil-resistant application (similar to Scotch Guard, but good furniture stores have a product that is longer-lasting.) Truly, it is possible to have the beautiful furniture your wife desires and *also* preserve your cats' claws. Incidentally, my cats are indoor-only, just as you describe. Give them lots of toys and attention, good food, scratching posts (which you already have), and a very sturdy cat tree for climbing. They will be happy! One of my cats (Duffy, the gray and white cat in the pictures) is blind, and he is able to reach the most remarkable sites -- and yet he never damages anything. So, it can be done. MaryL Photos of Duffy and Holly: 'o' Duffy: http://tinyurl.com/cslwf Holly: http://tinyurl.com/9t68o Duffy and Holly together: http://tinyurl.com/8b47e |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
on Fri, 19 Jan 2007 19:10:51 GMT, "drdschmidt" u31086@uwe wrote:
I have heard there is a new form of declawing, although I am not for declawing unless it is an absolute need but it is done by laser and the recovery time is almost immediate, a day or so. it's the same procedure, just a different tool to amputate. Sheese, please get your facts straight before posting. -- Lynne |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
on Fri, 19 Jan 2007 22:00:08 GMT, "MaryL"
-OUT-THE-LITTER wrote: Or...Replace the leather sofa with a sofa that is more suitable for claws. Many people are able to use leather, but I personally think fabric is better. Look for fabric that is tightly woven and will not "pull" or "catch" as your cats jump or climb on the furniture. Have it treated for soil-resistant application (similar to Scotch Guard, but good furniture stores have a product that is longer-lasting.) You know, this isn't a bad idea. Getting 3 cats declawed (god it makes me sick just saying that) will cost nearly as much as a new sofa. Building on what the other poster said about complaining to the mfg, I'd get Ethan Allen to recover or replace the sofas--even if an upgrade fee is charged. -- Lynne |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
"eDog" wrote in message . .. Although I am against it, a new and rather expensive leather sofa has raised the possibility of declawing my 3 cats. Why did you buy the sofa? Being a pet owner does involve some personal sacrifices. If that means not buying an expensive leather sofa, then that's the way it is. |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
eDog wrote: If I were *personally* in favor of declawing my cats, I would have already done so. I have been doing nothing but reading websites about cats and their claws for the last three days. I trust very few of the sites. They are all reading off the exact same set of "quotes" like the talking points on Sunday morning TV. I am leaning against declawing the cats because I think that even if I assumed a front declaw was something they would "get over", and it probably is, a four paw declaw is really tempting fate that something will go wrong. The thing is, you just don't know if your cats will be one of the ones with long-term issues or not. That's the crapshoot of declawing. I used to be a vet tech. I wasn't against declawing - I wouldn't do it to my own cats but had friends who had declawed cats and didn't think much of it. My experiences working for a feline specialty hospital changed my mind completely. I assisted in the surgeries, I did aftercare and I saw the cats that came in with complications - some many years later. We were a surgery specialty hospital and so we would get referral cases of cats with problems. No way would I ever advocate declawing now. Almost every cat we treated, boarded or groomed that was declawed was a biter. I didn't get these cats so I could hurt them. I got them so I could pamper them and make them the happiest luckiest cats I know of. Great! Then don't declaw. By simply owning a cat in an apartment which you never let outside of the house (like I can't) you are asking an awful lot from it. Over time the cat will become less active and give up hunting for luxuriating around the house. It will trade darwinian stresses for security and boredom.."a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage" so to speak. Nobody ever asked them if that's the choice they wanted to make. That's right. Indentured servitude. I'm not really an advocate for keeping companion animals but I do - I can't help myself. . If you must, rescue. At least we humans can blame Pink Floyd. And I do hope you are a vegan and that your cats are vegans too. Of course they aren't - cats are obligate carnivores. Meat eatintg isn't the issue we are discussing here - comparing partial digital amputation for the luxury of owning material goods to meat eating for sustenance is ridiculous. Humans are omnivores and thus eat other animals. It's how those animals are treated, how they are killed and how they are respected that matters. And for what it's worth, I advocate humane practices for all species - always have and always will. There is probably more animal cruelty in every chicken breast than there is in a typical declawing operation on a cat. If you are talking about factory-farmed chickens, I agree. But I don't eat factory-farmed meat. In fact, I go to great lengths to secure meat that I know is raised and killed humanely, for the little meat I do consume. You are preaching to the Pope, sweetheart. -L. |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
On 19 Jan 2007 14:39:43 -0800, "-L." wrote:
Almost every cat we treated, boarded or groomed that was declawed was a biter. A pet groomer on the cable TV program "Dirty Jobs" said much the same: declawed cats were less well behaved. Anyhow, leather furniture shines the seat of your trousers. Bud -- The night is just the shadow of the Earth. |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
---MIKE--- wrote: I really think that the OP is a troll. If not, the obvious solution is a heavy plastic cover for the couch. As someone said somewhere else Leather sofa 1,599 dollars Leather chair 560 dollars Knowing my cats are happy unmutilated and just being cats... priceless! I live in the UK where declawing unless for good reason is illegal (Good reason would be for example removing ONE claw because a tumour was growing on it) I have 2 cats who persistently scratched everything but their post for 2+ years I tried everything I could think of and eventually found a post they went straight to and used with no "training" whatsover If I hadn't I'd have just dealt wiht it- the love of a living creature, the sheer amusement value of watching them, the sense of wonder I sometimes get with them, the 5am bouncing on my head (Okay I could live without that) 'cos they are awake and want me to be as well, the purrs, the mad rush to the food dish as if they didn't get fed this morning, the sense of blessing that somehow right now they are warm and safe and here (I have my partner in hospital now for 17 weeks and would have come very close to stressing out but for them) is worth anything! I hate to say dump the new wife perhaps she doesn't know felines and with a bit of training from youl will If not dump her! She's proposing to maim a living creature If you do might be next What are things compared to the love of a cat? Which is not easily given but has to be earned? Lesley Slave of the Fabulous Furballs |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
(singsong)
I'm tellin' 'ya Dog ... Ditch the wife ... - Phil, it ain't the sofa that's stressing eDog, it's the spouse. If he ditches the cats he'll be unhappy and will have to live with the mental demons. If he ditches the sofa he'll be unhappy and will have to live with the Demon. If he ditches the wife, he'll be unhappy until he finds a girlfriend (or 2). He's got an apartment so there can't be much community property and she can have the freakin' sofa. (I bet the female lurkers on this forum are loving this!!) I'm done. "Phil P." wrote in message news:hn1sh.2686$R76.2493@trnddc05... "eDog" wrote in message .. . Divorces are messy things. Not if you initiate the proceedings. Sounds like your wife probably has a whole basket full of problems. If I were you, I'd cut my losses. Do you really want to be with some one whose so insensitive to another creature- not to mention your feelings. I would like to avoid getting to that "Me or the cats"! moment. I think that's inevitable. I know the mentality and I see the early warning signs-- I've been through it *twice*. My cats are still here. After I was given "the ultimatum", I could no longer trust my wife alone with my cats. She had to go *that day*-- and she did. If a fuuking sofa is stressing your marriage, its probably on shakey ground to begin with. What happens when she complains about cat hair on her clothes? Is she going to tell you to shave the cat? What about the litter box? What happens when the cat wants to sleep next you in bed? What happens if the cat gets sick and needs expensive treatment which interferes with her vacation plans? So you see? Complaining about scratches on the sofa is just the beginning. Declawing your cat is only a temporary solution for you- but its permanent mayhem and deprivation for your cat. And I would really like to avoid getting to it AFTER declawing the cats. If you declaw your cats, you'll resent her for the rest of your life. You might be able to surpress the resentment for awhile, but sooner or later it will surface. http://maxshouse.com/facts_about_declawing.htm That would be the worst of all possible worlds. Complaining about scratches on the sofa is just the tip of the iceberg. If I were you, I'd cut my losses. There are millions of women who would love to meet a man who loves cats cares so deeply about their welfare. Just go to any pet store on a Saturday! You can trust me on that! Phil |
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Best Method for Declawing a Cat?
Alan wrote: (singsong) I'm tellin' 'ya Dog ... Ditch the wife ... - Phil, it ain't the sofa that's stressing eDog, it's the spouse. If he ditches the cats he'll be unhappy and will have to live with the mental demons. If he ditches the sofa he'll be unhappy and will have to live with the Demon. If he ditches the wife, he'll be unhappy until he finds a girlfriend (or 2). He's got an apartment so there can't be much community property and she can have the freakin' sofa. (I bet the female lurkers on this forum are loving this!!) I'm done. actually i am in complete agreement with the idea of him ditching this old hag of a wife and moving on, she obviously loves her bloody sofa far more than she loves him or else she woudl be more concerned about the things he loves most in life (the cats) and would be taking their welfare into consideration above that of her soft furnishings. If you really love someone then you love what comes with them and in this case it is this guys cats, so if she doesn't love the cats then to me it just shows that really doesn't love him much either, or she would not want to hurt him by hurting the cats, simple really. if anybody, ANYBODY, ever said to me "it's me or your cat" then i would happily pack their bags for them, they would be history and i would not turn a hair about it as they obviously were not good enough for me (few men are anyway). Have had similar issues with chaps complaining about me putting my sport before them and they did not last long at all. actually i really keen on this idea which has been put forward about removing all the end bones of this wife's fingers and toes, and then seeing if she still wants to proceed with declawing the pusses. she would most probably be too busy screaming post-op in agony to worry about her bloody sofa then. Can we do the amputations without anaesthetic too? just to hammer the point home of course, in case she forgets a few years later. laters Bookie ps some people really do my ****ing head in |
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