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"PawsForThought" wrote in message ... rom: Not everyone is out to be a "parasite" as someone posted. Sometimes life throws us things we don't expect, and we just do the best we can...and that's what I am trying to do. While I can sympathize with a bad situation, one has to realize that going out onto the internet and asking total strangers to send you money is not the right thing to do. Many of us have been in bad situations. We do what is necessary to get the proper treatment for our pets. A few examples: getting a job, cancelling our internet provider to save money, asking family for help, asking the vet to make a payment plan, etc. I read your website and your gall is unbelievable! You are not in some awful situation (too sick to work, etc.). You are just someone who is in graduate school. You want everyone else to support your cat's treatment but yourself. Don't you think we have our own pets who have important needs? Or is your cat somehow more important than ours? So you claim your particular vet doesn't accept payment plans. Then find another vet who does. Maybe even find a vet who will put your cat on proper medication in the meantime instead of letting her waste to death. I always believe when there is a will, there is a way. Stop depending on other people and learn to take care of your cat! (again, if in fact the cat exists. Just because you say she does, doesn't make it so) ________ Lauren, stop making perfect sense. It is bound to be wasted on the Terminally Entitled, as this twit surely is. |
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A good point was made here. Grad students as well as under grads are
inundated with credit card offers, While in general they should be refused, using one for medical treatment for one's cat is a good idea to be paid back upon employment. -- Barb Of course I don't look busy, I did it right the first time. |
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wrote in message oups.com... From Maia's owner...Maia actually just had the radio treatment--if you read my website (ie "FAQ's" and "weekly updates"), All I read was the Home page; had no real desire to delve farther into the site - mostly due to the "begging" nature of it. The home page stated that Maia is still losing weight, is down to 5 pounds, & infers that she still needs treatment. If this is no longer true, how about updating the info? much of the stuff you're talking about is answered there. I was advised that Maia should not go on the tapazole before radiotherapy, as there would be some conflict with the two. ??? This is news to me. I don't understand why there'd be a conflict. Why would a vet advise a cat's owner to let the cat remain hyperthyroid until the radioactive treatment appt. arrived? An appt slot opened up for the radiotherapy and we jumped on it. Everything happened so quickly, and I did what I thought was best, under the guidance of the professionals I consulted with. And YES, Maia is real, and YES she has hyperthyroidism, and YES, I am sincere in my asking for some help. I made a posting here in an effort to connect with others, be a resource to others who may have a kitty with this disease, and to see if anyone was interested in helping out. I know we are on the net and none of you know me, but I didn't expect to be defending my choices and legitimacey--perhaps a bit naive on my part. Whether you agree with what I am doing or not, that really doesn't matter to me...I just thought some of you would show a little more tact, as perhaps a real person with a real kitty just might be on the other side reading your responses. Yeah, a real person who's begging others to pick up on the financial responsibility of their cat's medical bill. A large bill which was a *choice* - see below. Additionally, you may want to read my website to understand my circumstances better. Not everyone is out to be a "parasite" as someone posted. Sometimes life throws us things we don't expect, and we just do the best we can...and that's what I am trying to do. You didn't have to go with the ultra-pricey radioactive treatment, if finances are an issue. Methimazole is way less expensive - even when considering years of therapy, & a monthly prescription of it requires shelling out many fewer dollars just one month at a time - instant budgeting! - not a huge one-time bill. Yet methimazole usually works just fine. Cathy |
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"PawsForThought" wrote in message ... From: "Mary" Lauren, stop making perfect sense. It is bound to be wasted on the Terminally Entitled, as this twit surely is. Well of course we should support her in graduate school, don't you think? God forbid this person learns how to take care of her own pets. Maybe we should forego vet care for our cats so we can give her our money so she can continue on in graduate school. If this person was standing in front of me, I would love to slap her silly! ________ Hee. No you wouldn't. But I admit the *idea* is appealing. :-) |
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"Cathy Friedmann" wrote in message ...
wrote in message oups.com... From Maia's owner...Maia actually just had the radio treatment--if you read my website (ie "FAQ's" and "weekly updates"), All I read was the Home page; had no real desire to delve farther into the site - mostly due to the "begging" nature of it. The home page stated that Maia is still losing weight, is down to 5 pounds, & infers that she still needs treatment. If this is no longer true, how about updating the info? much of the stuff you're talking about is answered there. I was advised that Maia should not go on the tapazole before radiotherapy, as there would be some conflict with the two. ??? This is news to me. I don't understand why there'd be a conflict. Why would a vet advise a cat's owner to let the cat remain hyperthyroid until the radioactive treatment appt. arrived? An appt slot opened up for the radiotherapy and we jumped on it. Everything happened so quickly, and I did what I thought was best, under the guidance of the professionals I consulted with. And YES, Maia is real, and YES she has hyperthyroidism, and YES, I am sincere in my asking for some help. I made a posting here in an effort to connect with others, be a resource to others who may have a kitty with this disease, and to see if anyone was interested in helping out. I know we are on the net and none of you know me, but I didn't expect to be defending my choices and legitimacey--perhaps a bit naive on my part. Whether you agree with what I am doing or not, that really doesn't matter to me...I just thought some of you would show a little more tact, as perhaps a real person with a real kitty just might be on the other side reading your responses. Yeah, a real person who's begging others to pick up on the financial responsibility of their cat's medical bill. A large bill which was a *choice* - see below. Additionally, you may want to read my website to understand my circumstances better. Not everyone is out to be a "parasite" as someone posted. Sometimes life throws us things we don't expect, and we just do the best we can...and that's what I am trying to do. You didn't have to go with the ultra-pricey radioactive treatment, if finances are an issue. Methimazole is way less expensive - even when considering years of therapy, & a monthly prescription of it requires shelling out many fewer dollars just one month at a time - instant budgeting! - not a huge one-time bill. Yet methimazole usually works just fine. Cathy Cathy, my vet did not recommend that I let Maia go untreated until I could do the radiotherapy. I decided to do that form of treatment, (after doing all the research, including cost research for my area), and she said I needed to do something ASAP and that I should not start the Tapozole while I waited for an appt for the radiotherapy b/c the cat should not be on it a few weeks or so before the radiation... While some of you have shown more etiquette than others, I am tired of defending myself in this group. I have been called a liar, a parasite, a twit, a beggar, and irresponsible--just to name a few. I started this group in hopes of connecting with other kind animal lovers--not to be attacked and made to feel bad about myself and my choices. I feel I have treated you all with respect...and whether you agree with me or not, I hoped to be treated respectfully too. I am going through enough already, and don't want to waste my time with people who get their kicks by 'hissing' at me. So I leave you all to continue your drama fest discussing what an idiot you think I am, whom one of you would like to actually "slap silly". I hope none of you ever find yourselves in need and having to ask for some help. |
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While some of you have shown more etiquette than others, I am tired of
defending myself in this group. Good luck with Maia kitty. You're being really unfair in your criticism, by the way. You want our money, yet you won't even put your last name for people to send a personal check..you only accept other forms of payment for that reason. As if you have something to hide, and don't want to be checked out. You might have better credibility if you arranged with your vet to have donations phoned directly to him/her. Sherry |
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"Save Maia Kitty" wrote While some of you have shown more etiquette than others Oh please. Etiquette? Like the incredibly good taste you've shown by making yourself a charity case? Do you have parents? Friends? Most of us know what it is like to fall short financially once in a while, and that is where we might turn if we needed money. , I am tired of defending myself in this group. I have been called a liar, a parasite, a twit, a beggar, and irresponsible--just to name a few. All appear quite accurate given your web site. "Save Maia Kitty" my ass. Her life has never been in danger. I started this group in hopes of connecting with other kind animal lovers-- You mean connecting with their money. not to be attacked and made to feel bad about myself and my choices. Psst ... here's amajor clue for you: nobody CARES what you WANT. Can you get your mind around that? When you act like an ass, expect to be treated like an ass. Your website proves your assdom. Assishness. Terminal entitledness. I feel I have treated you all with respect...and whether you agree with me or not, I hoped to be treated respectfully too. I am going through enough already, and don't want to waste my time with people who get their kicks by 'hissing' at me. So I leave you all to continue your drama fest discussing what an idiot you think I am, whom one of you would like to actually "slap silly". I hope none of you ever find yourselves in need and having to ask for some help. We all have. How many of us have set up a beggar web site, though? Wake up. |
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Cathy Friedmann wrote:
"Cathy Friedmann" wrote in message ... "Mary" wrote in message m... My vet told me that the down side to the surgery is that it is easy to take too much of the parathyroid, which causes problems. Here, the surgery would have been about $600 instead of the $1,200 for the radiation. P.S. Debbie's surgery was nowhere near $600; more like $200-250-ish IIRC, but OTOH that was 6+ years ago. Plus location - where in the country one's located - seems to have a big effect on prices. Gideon's thyroid surgery, plus dental cleaning and two bad teeth extracted, plus $50 (optional) for an outside lab to analyze the removed growth, came to about $325. That was 3 months ago, in central Texas. My vet did mention that she had no trouble finding and returning the parathyroid from the overgrown thyroid lobe, but she teaches thyroid surgery, so I assume she's very good at it. -- jamie ) "There's a seeker born every minute." |
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I believe if you told your vet that you didn't have enough money for the
operation for thyroid he would suggest medication. I told my vet I was willing to go the operation route but he still wanted to try the tapazol first. It can be regulated, for one thing. It's not an operation for another. Pepper has done fine with the Tapazol for several years. Her dose has been decreased several times. -- Barb Of course I don't look busy, I did it right the first time. |
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