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Caring for a stray (1): how to tell if she is hungry or has eaten?
With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat.
Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! |
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On Thu, 29 Sep 2005 07:39:29 GMT, Ajanta wrote:
With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! I would say to leave a bowl of dry food out where she can get at it and eat whenever it is hungry along with some water and ocassionaly give it some canned. http://members.aol.com/larrystark/ http://members.aol.com/larrystark/strays.htm |
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"Ajanta" wrote in message ... With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, Yeah, they will have multiple feeding points,..it's part of their survival response. but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. They usually all do that. They are conditioned to live outside. Don't feel as tho she is rejecting you. She's just doing her rounds. Eventually, she will spend more and more time with you, as she feels she's wanted and there's food there every time. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As far as I know, cats don't eat unless they are hungary. They may just take a nibble,..but no more than that if they're full. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? My experience is, that all cats have a routine when they want to tell you they want some food. Perhaps she gives you more attention or hangs around the cupboard or kitchen where the food is prepared/ tins opened? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) The vomiting maybe just a response to a different food, or she has just ingested some grass, or she maybe feeling a little off. Cats eat grass to make themselves vomit,...but I get the impression, some do it (eat grass) as a reflex, even when they aren't feeling sick. Thanks! Jason |
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On Thu, 29 Sep 2005 12:54:53 GMT, whayface
wrote: On Thu, 29 Sep 2005 07:39:29 GMT, Ajanta wrote: With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! I would say to leave a bowl of dry food out where she can get at it and eat whenever it is hungry along with some water and ocassionaly give it some canned. http://members.aol.com/larrystark/ http://members.aol.com/larrystark/strays.htm One thing I've noticed is that the squirrels love the dry catfood I put out.. =( BLink |
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Jason James wrote:
Thanks Jason. Internet is a wonderful thing, still capable of amazing me that I can post a question in Chicgao and get a response from Australia... : My experience is, that all cats have a routine when they want to tell you : they want some food. Perhaps she gives you more attention or hangs : around the cupboard or kitchen where the food is prepared/ tins opened? Certainly, if I walk to the cupboard she follows, if I show a can she'd try to paw it, if I open the can she perks up. But she does it all the time, not more when she is hungry and less when she should not be. At least I have not been able to differentiate. Maybe the problem is I have always fed her promptly when she arrived, so she knows food is coming and doesn't have to tell me anything? I can try to play cool and see what happens. Of course, you hate to play such games with a little animal. : The vomiting maybe just a response to a different food, or she has just : ingested some grass, or she maybe feeling a little off. She does eat "different" foods, but the vomiting comes only every 7-8 days. As I said I had no experience with pets. When I started with this cat, I read a little and the consensus was canned food is better than dry for their health. So I started buying canned, whatever was on sale. This way I have fed her many different brands and many varieties within a brand. She is pretty good about eating what I offer except a few types she clearly doesn't like and I avoid those. I get 5.5 oz cans and one suffices for two meals. I am not very good at reheating the refrigerated portion, because she is always more enthusiastic about the first 1/2 of the can than the second. This is regardless of brands and type. : Cats eat grass to make themselves vomit... Well, she does have access to a lot of grass! Does this mean an indoor-only cat vomits less? |
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Jason James wrote: "Ajanta" wrote in message ... With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, Yeah, they will have multiple feeding points,..it's part of their survival response. This would explain my own behavior Thanks JJ |
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"Ajanta" wrote in message ... With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! I am an expert on feral and or palpable strays. The responses you got were terrific, and all were true to my own experience. My concern is whether she is spayed or not--a question that will soon be answered if she is accompanied by roaming toms who pick up the mating scent. If she is palpable and you notice an influx of male activity, for goodness sake scoop her up and spend the necessary funds to get her fixed. If that is not in your budget, look for municipal or charitable orgs that will do it cheap (and safely). Otherwise your next posting to this group will be a query about how to attend to a litter of kittens g. --The Observer |
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Observer same@ wrote:
: If she is palpable and you notice an influx of male activity, for goodness : sake scoop her up and spend the necessary funds to get her fixed. If that : is not in your budget, look for municipal or charitable orgs that will do it : cheap (and safely). Thanks. Actually, I just posted that question in another thread: : Subject: Caring for a stray (3): Any charitable vets/clinics in greater : Chicago area? : : "Still continuing about the stray/homeless cat I feed... : I don't know if she has been spayed, gotten any shots ever, what her : general health condition is, etc. : : "It would give me great peace of mind if there are any charitable vets : or clinics in greater Chicago area, who could examine her and provide : whatever they deem necessary. : : "I have never had pets, and don't know the scene. We would be grateful : for any reference. I don't mind driving 1-2 hours for good quality : service." No replies so far. I would like her to be examined, get speayed if needed, and get any required shots. |
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On Thu, 29 Sep 2005 07:39:29 +0000, Ajanta wrote:
With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! Have you tried inviting her to come in? MLB |
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On Thu, 29 Sep 2005 13:56:23 -0500, Brian Link wrote:
With no experience in pets, I started feeding a stray/homeless cat. Initially, I later learned, she was fed by a nighbor, but felt harrassed by his cat and children. So she would eat there but climb one floor up to my porch to relax. It is quieter, sunnier, higher up here. That's how we met. She was always friendly, dignified, independent. Never made a mess, never begged, and always wanted to leave after a few hours. I never knew and still don't all the places she goes to. When my neighbor left for Europe, it fell upon me to take over feeding. That was a minor adjustment for her and she easily learned it. Now, it sounds stupid, but here is my problem: She is not my pet, I don't know all the places she roams, she may well have other sources of food even if they are not stable, and I cannot tell when she is really hungry and when she has already eaten enough elsewhere. As I said she does not let me know she is hungry but comes and hangs around. If I don't offer her food, she won't beg. But, perhaps because she may have spent many hungry days, she finds it hard to resist the food that is offered. (On rare occasions, when she is neither hungry nor likes the food served, she'd eat only a little and most of it is wasted, but that is the smaller problem.) The bigger and more frequent problem is that she already ate something, tends to overeat and get sick. This happens about once a week. So, dear experts on cat behavior, please help me figure this out. How can I get a hint whether she is hungry or full? I have tried asking around if anyone feeds her (no one I asked). I have tried putting a can in front of her and watch her reaction, but I have no clue until I open the can and watch the results. (Sorry to be gross, but I can tell from her vomit that mostly it isn't hairball but some food in addition to what I gave.) Thanks! I would say to leave a bowl of dry food out where she can get at it and eat whenever it is hungry along with some water and ocassionaly give it some canned. One thing I've noticed is that the squirrels love the dry catfood I put out.. =( BLink Here when I put the dry food out the birds find it and have a field day or picnic, especially during the winter, no matter where I put it. Even under porch with a hole just big enough for cats. http://members.aol.com/larrystark/ http://members.aol.com/larrystark/strays.htm |
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