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... Alison wrote: Will the OP be able to make the commitment an indoor cat needs or will it all end in tears? This was really unnecessary, and I don't appreciate you exaggerating as though keeping the cat indoors could lead to some sort of emotional devastation. Sorry I didn't mean it sound facetious , I just trying to discuss with out it getting heavy , though don't you think I have a point about the commitment . As I said in my post , it depends very much on the owner and I think the OP said he wasn't that fond of cats . Keeping a cat indoors doesn't necessarily make you a good cat owner anymore than letting a cat out makes you a bad one. You get good and bad owners per se. AFAIK, He has given you all no clues to where he lives or what type of area it is , his neighbours let their cats out. It is not exaggerating to say that indoor cats *can* suffer problems and end up in shelters, because they do. I didn't use the words emotional devastaion .. It's a crock and you certainly are NOT being helpful when it comes to this cat getting a permanent home when you spend your whole post criticizing keeping the cat indoors yet did not bother to add one word to the OP about what could be done to make a happy cat. I also never said it was either/or. I was relating my experience about making outdoor cats indoor cats and addressing the OP's question about whether it's possible. I was under the impression it *did* have a permanent home but it lives outside. I haven't given any info about keepng a cat happy indoors, in this case because I feel there is no need to keep the cat in . Giving advice on keeping an indoor cat happy can ,and perhaps should , be given by those who insist it stays in, just as I've given suggestions and advice to people who want to let their cat out . In other posts and on other forums I've given links to people who can't let their cat out and have problems with them . I've also given links to someone on this thread about scratching the furniture. I did in fact ask on this group about cats humping towels (indoor cats) this was a problem on another forum and I didn't know how to reply . I didn't get much response so either people didn't know or they didn't answer because I'm in their kill files. Contrary to the idyllic portrait of outdoor life for cats in the UK you and a few others might like to paint, your cats suffer road accidents, the wrath of neighbors, etc. when you allow them to roam free. The US cannot be compared to the UK in this regard as things are very different here. That's sounds like a contradiction to me. That last sentence works both ways too. The Americans in some groups are very quick to jump on UK people for letting their cats out when things like rabies and tick born diseases don't apply . Have I painted and idlyic life and never mentioned dangers at all? I'm sure I've said the biggest danger to cats in the Uk is traffic and I'm not the only Uker to say this . In many cases , yes it is an idylic life. But I have always said that it is up to each owner to evaluate the risks and make a decision. I'm not ignoring the risks . [..] . You've been on this group long enough to see the numerous posts about tragedies that have befallen cats and the discord their being allowed to roam at will can create, so don't try to plead ignorance. Yes I know , I've been reading and studying cat groups for several years . But how much of this is relevent to the OP? I *do* appreciate the dangers, much more so than when I first started posting . The problem is that in this type of thread , in other foums as well , the views are very one sided and I try to redress the balance and then it makes *me* look onesided and biased. I am biased towards keeping cats out, but I am not totally fanatical about it and I don't insist "you must let them out." To me insisting that every cat must be kept in and indeed, suggesting to someone to take a cat simply because its owners let it out and therefore a bad owner is fanatical. It seems to me that people repeat things they've read with out checking out the information because they want to believe it . It's hard to get facts and figure that agree , they can also distorted . Just as you (one)paint the dangers of outdoor life , you(one) also idylise the indoor life style of a cat . What *I* see is in newsgroups and forums is indoor cats being declawed , being shouted at , sprayed with water and even vinegar , shock collars (IV), drugged with valium , talk of disciplining and punishment . I saw a thread on a forum , "How do you discipline your cat " of all things. I get this mental picture of people dressing up in leather carrying whips ! I should think some outdoor and UK owners do some of this too but it's the acceptence of it as being a normal every day thing to do that I find strange and upsetting . I hope that makes sense. I've notice that there has been a change since I started reading this group and more people have started to say don't punish etc . If you read back through my previous posts , I've always tried to give advice on how to deal with problems without resorting to this . If the OP has a fenced in yard he can catproof to make sure the cat can't get out and other animals/people can't get in I don't see a problem with allowing the cat out that way. Leash training so he can take the cat out for walks is another option. Yes and I've always suggested that myself . I have links on my website about fencing and I suggest to people that they read Karen Pryors clicker training book on how to teach their cat to leash walk and also how to train it to come to you and be picked up instead of panicking and trying to runaway if something frightens it .The walking jackets on the website look good Allowing the cat to roam at will is neither safe nor is it courteous to others, and is in many instances illegal. This is a blanket statement, again, every situation is different. It's not that simple to say every cat must be kept in . I'm sorry I'm ****ing you but I'm not just mouthing off for the sake of it. I strongly support you in anti -declawing and will contiue to do so, if you want to kill file me ot have a go at me do so but I also feel strongly about this and will continue to post about it. Alison Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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wrote in message ... Wow...a mouse ran in here while I was using the computer. I closed the door to trap it, and went and got the cat (Lucy). She had that thing's neck snapped in about two seconds. She's a keeper. I took a picture, I'll have to get it uploaded. My cat Kim brought in a live baby mouse and I caught it and put it in the garden shed , she did the very same thing the next day. I swear it was the same mouse. I put it back in the shed and kept the door shut . I put food out for it . I hope he doesn't bring his friends along . Alison |
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wrote in message ... Wow...a mouse ran in here while I was using the computer. I closed the door to trap it, and went and got the cat (Lucy). She had that thing's neck snapped in about two seconds. She's a keeper. I took a picture, I'll have to get it uploaded. My cat Kim brought in a live baby mouse and I caught it and put it in the garden shed , she did the very same thing the next day. I swear it was the same mouse. I put it back in the shed and kept the door shut . I put food out for it . I hope he doesn't bring his friends along . Alison |
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Wow...I just got off the phone with my neighbor. She's watched this situation unfold ever since the cat first showed up. She has always had her cats declawed, and she's owned many cats. When I told her about the things I'd discovered about the procedure, her exact words were "Who gives a ****? It's a cat." She feels it's a small price for the cat to pay in exchange for getting "the good life" afterwards. I'm still floored by the attitude. Ugh Some good life ________ See my cats: http://community.webshots.com/album/56955940rWhxAe Raw Diet Info: http://www.holisticat.com/drjletter.html http://www.geocities.com/rawfeeders/ForCatsOnly.html Declawing Info: http://www.wholecat.com/articles/claws.htm |
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"MaryL" The two of you have just described Duffy. I have never before had such a talkative cat -- cute little "chirps" and "mrrrps." One person described one of his sounds as a "trilling" sound. That was when I was holding the phone so she could hear him, which also shows you one of the highlights of my day! We could have worse days, that's for sure! |
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"MaryL" The two of you have just described Duffy. I have never before had such a talkative cat -- cute little "chirps" and "mrrrps." One person described one of his sounds as a "trilling" sound. That was when I was holding the phone so she could hear him, which also shows you one of the highlights of my day! We could have worse days, that's for sure! |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... In article , enlightened us with... I fully understand that (and the analogy of other groups who feel strongly about issue "x"). I think there is a very, very large group of people who choose or think about declawing, do so not because they want to take a chance that the animal they love may be tortured, but because of a variety of experiences/advice that says it's an ok thing to do (not torture in general - declawing!). I'm sure that's true. We had declawed cats the whole time I was growing up, too. We didn't know what it was. When I found out, as a young adult, that it wasn't just a nail removal, but an amputation, I vowed to never, ever do it again. Take the neighbor's attitude ("just" a cat? NO cat is "just" anything! ;-D). One shared by many, to some degree. Lot's of priorities. Also true. The point it, when people have that attitude, other people are allowed to tell them they're assholes. I am as entitled to think they're assholes as they are to think it's just a cat. OMG! You must be my long lost sister, who was switched at birth with the anti-animal creature currently posing as my sister! (I think this means that I agree with you.) |
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"kaeli" wrote in message ... In article , enlightened us with... I fully understand that (and the analogy of other groups who feel strongly about issue "x"). I think there is a very, very large group of people who choose or think about declawing, do so not because they want to take a chance that the animal they love may be tortured, but because of a variety of experiences/advice that says it's an ok thing to do (not torture in general - declawing!). I'm sure that's true. We had declawed cats the whole time I was growing up, too. We didn't know what it was. When I found out, as a young adult, that it wasn't just a nail removal, but an amputation, I vowed to never, ever do it again. Take the neighbor's attitude ("just" a cat? NO cat is "just" anything! ;-D). One shared by many, to some degree. Lot's of priorities. Also true. The point it, when people have that attitude, other people are allowed to tell them they're assholes. I am as entitled to think they're assholes as they are to think it's just a cat. OMG! You must be my long lost sister, who was switched at birth with the anti-animal creature currently posing as my sister! (I think this means that I agree with you.) |
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From: (J1Boss)
From: "Mary" I am surprised that you do not regret declawing your cat. I felt so strongly about it from the moment I had done it it is very hard to understand anyone not regretting it. I guess it's how you look at word definitions. I would NOT declaw a cat again. OTOH, she never has or had any associated problems from it, which is why "regret" just seems like the wrong word. I would use the word regret if there had been any signs of pain from her, etc. but I can't honestly say that she exhibited anything at all. Janet, I know you've been informed that cats are very stoic creatures and therefore often won't exhibit pain. Just because *you* didn't see it, or maybe even chose not to see it, doesn't mean it didn't exist. The mere fact that declawing is amputation of the ends of the cat's toes should be enough to make you horrified ________ See my cats: http://community.webshots.com/album/56955940rWhxAe Raw Diet Info: http://www.holisticat.com/drjletter.html http://www.geocities.com/rawfeeders/ForCatsOnly.html Declawing Info: http://www.wholecat.com/articles/claws.htm |
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