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Age Appropriate Dress?
and eat healthy and that's as far as I'm going. Never again am I going
to let the number on a scale tell me how I should feel that day. Never. Well, that is just about the sanest thing I've seen today on this subject! Is my NAAFA membership showing? lol I hang out with a bunch of fat- acceptance folks in the DC area, and they're a great group, I tell you. We have all sorts, good and bad. (A lot of cat lovers, too) Jane - owned and operated by Princess Rita |
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[OT] Age Appropriate Dress?LONG
This reminds me of a wonderful ad for the Peninsula Humane Society
(in the San Francisco area), which ran on TV for several months last year. It was a slide show of different human faces, with a voiceover saying, "Whether you're young, old, straight, gay, fat, thin, tall, short..." (and a bunch of other characteristics) "...you are beautiful. Beautiful. To him." And when it said "to him" the screen showed a photo of a dog. Then cut to the PHS logo. I loved that! Joyce I've seen their ads. I used to live near there and work very near the park that HS was in (in 80's). Used to spend fun hours after work at Mills playing with remote-control cars with friends in a clearing in that park. That HS is the best, nicest I've ever visited, ever. I just remembered something: in those days, in San Mateo, there was a tiny "pet shop" right on ElCamino who (unknown to general public and unadvertised) took in and housed indefinitely stray cats locals would bring in to them that they'd encountered (not ferals). The owners were a couple of middle-aged men. I wonder if that pet shop is still there and still doing this kindness...guess not likely after over 20 years now. |
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Age Appropriate Dress?
On 2006-02-02, NMR penned:
Why can't you ground her age or not YOU ARE MOM don't you remember your mom just like everyone else saying I brought you into this world I can dang sure take you out of it. Or my Favorite a "Roseanna Conner" saying I'm your mother I will control you to the day you die Some of us do manage to cut the apron strings. And some moms do realize that their children growing up and becoming independent is a *good* thing. I've seen the product of overly controlling parents. It ain't pretty. -- monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca |
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[OT] Age Appropriate Dress?
On 2006-02-03, Cheryl Perkins penned:
We probably agree on whether or not it is rude to make our judgements available to the person directly involved or to anyone else. But if I understand you correctly, you are saying that it isn't wrong for, say, someone who knows that the mourners at a particular funeral are very traditional and conventional to choose to dress in a short, tight, bright red party dress for the occasion. I'm saying it is wrong, that I'm aware enough of local conventions on how to be considerate of mourners' feelings to form a judgement on the matter, but that I'd not say so out of courtesy. IMO there's quite a difference between wearing a bright red party dress to a conventional funeral and wearing a bright red dress for a special occasion (but you just happen to be fat). Your posts seem to paint both decisions with the same brush. -- monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca |
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How do you distiniguish between 'need to judge' and 'holding an
opinion'? I hope I've made the distinction more clear. Here is MY unsolicited opinion/judgement on *myself*: If I wore the all-bright-red outfit referred to (I saw that catalog) I would very much resemble one of those red double-decker buses in Britain....hoping that's about as clear as you can get, ROFL. Speak for yourself. This thread is one of the longest I can ever remember. |
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[OT] Age Appropriate Dress?
On 2006-02-03, EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) penned:
and for GOD'S sake lose the "empire" waists that make even the slimmest woman look fat and/or pregnant!) Phew! I thought I was the only person who thought those things make everyone look pregnant! -- monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca |
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Age Appropriate Dress?
I don't have any problem with fat people wearing red dresses. But if the dress in question is in a style and fabric which makes the person look like a a balloon ready to burst or an escapee from a concentration camp (see a suprising number of female celebrities for examples of that!) I think I - and anyone else - can make a judgement on whether or not they've chosen an attractive way to dress. It would be rude to say you thought they made a poor choice (unless the person in question was a close friend or relative and convinced you she wanted honest feedback), but it would be dishonest to pretend to yourself that you are not making a judgement; that you cannot make a judgement. I think there's a difference between making a personal judgement about whether you like something or not, and stating that judgement, either to someone's face or behind their back. There's also a difference between enforcing a rule that's been set down and simply attempting to enforce your personal taste. Here's an example. I've got a big, spiked hoop through the middle of my nose. I bet that sounds unattractive to some of you, and frankly, that's okay. I don't mind if you find that unappealing, and I don't mind if you'd rather not look at someone with a big hoop in their nose. I even don't mind if you are my boss and ask me not to wear my nose ring to work. There's the question of appropriateness, and if you're boss of a business that's catering to, say, elderly people, and my nosering projects the wrong image, then it's perfectly understandable that you'd ask me not to wear it to work. Hell, I used to work in the military and I understood that I had to take my piercings out before I left my barracks. I had to get my cadets to take out their piercings, too. One of them had a very striking nose stud which looked wonderful on her ethnic Indian features; the fact that I liked her jewelry did not change the fact that it wasn't appropriate in uniform, and I had to ask her to remove it at work. What gets me going is the implication that I shouldn't wear my nose ring /anywhere at all/, even if my wearing of it is not against any rules, just because someone might not like seeing a person with a spike in her nose. There are other people who DO like seeing it, and still more people who don't care. And *I* like it, so if I feel like wearing it on the street, in my house, to visit friends, on my own personal time I will wear it if I want to, and I will take pleasure in it. Those around me are free to make whatever personal judgements on my taste that they would like. --Fil No, I don't think my nose ring makes me look conventionally beautiful, but I do like the way I look when I wear it. |
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Age Appropriate Dress?
Here's an example. I've got a big, spiked hoop through the middle of my nose. I bet that sounds unattractive to some of you, and frankly, that's okay. I don't mind if you find that unappealing, and I don't mind if you'd rather not look at someone with a big hoop in their nose. What gets me going is the implication that I shouldn't wear my nose ring /anywhere at all/, even if my wearing of it is not against any rules, just because someone might not like seeing a person with a spike in her nose. There are other people who DO like seeing it, and still more people who don't care. And *I* like it, so if I feel like wearing it on the street, in my house, to visit friends, on my own personal time I will wear it if I want to, and I will take pleasure in it. Those around me are free to make whatever personal judgements on my taste that they would like. --Fil No, I don't think my nose ring makes me look conventionally beautiful, but I do like the way I look when I wear it. Well, call me one of those who likes to look (curiousity) but leans toward "not caring" very much. Fashion has moved piercings from earlobes to ear cartilage to pretty much anywhere these days; one of the few good sides to working in a large hospital ER for years is that you really get a good idea of what people are wearing these days (unless it's a pediatric ER, which are more and more plentiful now)! LOL first reading your post I thought you were going to say you have a big, spiked hook *nose*.......I have got used to pretty much any sort of piercing jewelry worn anywhere and am indifferent to feeling any way about it at all: with one exception - it makes me nervous to see small kids with any that if pulled on hard by accident or otherwise would injure them. Facial skin I was told is the worst type to bear scar tissue and thick, large scar tissue is common on some ethnics (keloids). I dunno about ears. I wouldn't call ears "facial" would you? |
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