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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little
more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
first off this can take weeks, and since you know her personality its a
waiting game, second i am wondering if the house and all of the "new" is too much, might want to start ofer and consider one room, prefferrable upstairs to restrict her to, soft ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
She will have a grieveing period for the humans and animals she left behind.
Time will take care of it I am sure. Her other human was going overseas in the military so she would have gone through this change no matter what happened. Can you close the basement door to keep her upstairs where it is warmer? ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
I wondered if that would be a good idea. Too much too soon.
"Storrmmee" wrote in message ... first off this can take weeks, and since you know her personality its a waiting game, second i am wondering if the house and all of the "new" is too much, might want to start ofer and consider one room, prefferrable upstairs to restrict her to, soft ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
Don't expect her to make the adjustment overnight. It's a really big
change for her, and a big disruption in her lifestyle. I know you feel bad that she's not settled in yet, but it also was unavoidable. If her previous humans were unable to keep her, then a change of this magnitude was an absolute certainty for her. She just needs time to adjust to a home that looks different, smells different, and is populated by different people. She will make that adjustment in her own time, and will come to see your place as home and you as her loving catslave. How did she get along with the other cat and the dog where she was before? If she was close to either of them, might she adjust better if she had a furkid companion? Or would she adjust better by herself? It's something to consider. And as for Stormee's suggestion about initially restricting her to one or two rooms - I think that's an excellent idea. That's how all of us got introduced to our homes with our current humans. I am absolutely positive that Lorelei will make the adjustment, and will come to be a happy, loving kitty companion. Just be patient. Amelia |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
On Thu, 11 Nov 2010 07:17:01 GMT, ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com
(Gandalf) wrote: Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein Put the food, litterbox, blankets, water, everything upstairs where you are most of the time. Close the door to the basement. Keep her with you at all times so that she gets use to you and the new house. |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
Unkle Gandalf, you have gotten some really good advice here, Even with
your loving care, and toys, catnip, etc, it will take some time for her to adjust and I agree with keeping the basement door closed and keeping her with you. She'll come around I am glad to hear she is eating some canned food and using the litterbox, I remember you saying she was close to her other furry companions, and she misses them, so it IS a big addjustment for her. But given time, she will do fine, and so will you. Love and purrs Kyla and kitties. On Nov 11, 2:59*am, "Storrmmee" wrote: first off this can take weeks, and since you know her personality its a waiting game, second i am wondering if the house and all of the "new" is too much, might want to start ofer and consider one room, prefferrable upstairs to restrict her to, *softingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box.. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ *^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.. - Robert Heinlein- Hide quoted text - - Show quoted text - |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
I remember when Rebecca first came here. She didn't want anything to do with
me at first; she just hid and didn't eat for two days. She finally showed some interest when she saw there was another cat there. I didn't push her, and just let her relate to Sundance until she was more comfortable with me. It took her a long time, but it was on her terms. Today she's just as much of a pest as he is! Anti Sandy "Storrmmee" wrote in message ... first off this can take weeks, and since you know her personality its a waiting game, second i am wondering if the house and all of the "new" is too much, might want to start ofer and consider one room, prefferrable upstairs to restrict her to, soft ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
On Nov 11, 12:17*am, ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote:
Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ *^..^ * * "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein We ar purrrin dat Lorelei cum owt uv da bazemint sun. Ralph, Fred, Alice, Jane, Ricky, Mary, Judith, and Claude |
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Lorelei update 11-10-2010
Anti Sandy,
I am glad Rebecca finally adjusted and finally related to Sundance. Cats all have different personalities, and it takes them different times and ways to adjust. Unka Gandalf, just be patient and give Lorelei, time and the love, you have so much of, and she will come around. As long as she eats, and uses her cat box, she will be fine. Be patient and don't worry, because she will pick up on that. Purrs lovingly sent from our home to yours for you and her. Love, Anti Kyla, Mosey, Pooky Kat, Pipps and Sqweex. I remember when Rebecca first came here. She didn't want anything to do with me at first; she just hid and didn't eat for two days. She finally showed some interest when she saw there was another cat there. I didn't push her, and just let her relate to Sundance until she was more comfortable with me. It took her a long time, but it was on her terms. Today she's just as much of a pest as he is! Anti Sandy "Storrmmee" wrote in message ... first off this can take weeks, and since you know her personality its a waiting game, second i am wondering if the house and all of the "new" is too much, might want to start ofer and consider one room, prefferrable upstairs to restrict her to, soft ingold1234[at]yahoo[dot]com (Gandalf) wrote in message ... Well, Lorelei is making little baby steps of progress: she ate a little more today, including some of her dry food, AND she used the litter box. I have been worried, because since she got to my home on Monday afternoon, she hasn't used it until sometime tonight. *BIG* sigh of relief! Given that she has eaten so little, until last night and today, it's not too surprising. I was concerned about her not drinking any water, but canned cat food has a lot of water in it, so she's getting some water from that. Lorelei is still very scared: I still find her down in the basement, where it's cold and the floor is cement The poor kitty. I have coaxed her upstairs several times, only to find her back down in the basement again. So I finally got some old towels and made her a sort of a bed, so at least she isn't on the cement floor anymore. I spend a lot of time with her, and she like to have her ears scratched, but she prefers to hide in the basement. Poor Lorelei is not taking the big move very well at all I know she's a nice cat, because she came right up to me in her previous home and let me give her scritches, and rub her pretty spotted tummy But, I think she can use all the help she can get. I'm sure she can At least there isn't another cat, or a dog to make it even harder on her. I went shopping today and I bought a package of assorted cat toys, some more of her brand of dry cat food, some more Fancy Feast, and a package of catnip for Lorelei. So far, she has ignored the toys, and the catnip, too. I will wait a few days, and try again. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ^..^ "Life without cats would be only marginally worth living." -TC, in loving memory of the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie. Every day was a treasure with Kenzie; I tried to treat them that way. There would only be so many, and now, there will never, ever, be any more How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven. - Robert Heinlein |
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