Love is in the air.. Or I guess not

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So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Smart move Hans.

You're way too good of a man for (by your description) that shallow
babe. I feel sorry for any guy she latches on to.

-bonbon

Hans

Hans Schrøder wrote:


Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on TV
when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching football?
You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without even
sitting down for five minutes.

I just can't figure out how to deal with sharing my life with her, having to
apologize for having cats, and to apologize for being interested in
football.

*I* "can't figure out" why you'd even want to TRY!!! I
don't think most women regard football (either American or
European style) with the same passion men do, but they learn
to live with it. Not letting you enjoy a game on TV
(especially in company with a male friend at the pub)
without making snide comments doesn't bode well for the
future, IMO.

If people expect to enter into a permanent relationship
without making ANY concessions, they're better off alone.
Now if you insisted on dragging HER to football games when
she's not at all interested, that would be something else again.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

I think, so far as most of us are concerned, "love me,
love my cat(s)" goes without saying. As well ask a mother
to give up her children (and I doubt any normal mother would
even consider THAT).

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she doesn't
trust black people...

Sounds like she has a war on with the world. Even if she's
a spectacular beauty, and your "dream girl", do you really
need someone with so many "atttudes"?


So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Wise decision! (I'd consider it, but I'm probably at least
old enough to be your grandmother, so you'll have to look
elsewhere.) ;-)

Hans Schrøder wrote:


Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on TV
when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching football?
You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without even
sitting down for five minutes.

I just can't figure out how to deal with sharing my life with her, having to
apologize for having cats, and to apologize for being interested in
football.

*I* "can't figure out" why you'd even want to TRY!!! I
don't think most women regard football (either American or
European style) with the same passion men do, but they learn
to live with it. Not letting you enjoy a game on TV
(especially in company with a male friend at the pub)
without making snide comments doesn't bode well for the
future, IMO.

If people expect to enter into a permanent relationship
without making ANY concessions, they're better off alone.
Now if you insisted on dragging HER to football games when
she's not at all interested, that would be something else again.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

I think, so far as most of us are concerned, "love me,
love my cat(s)" goes without saying. As well ask a mother
to give up her children (and I doubt any normal mother would
even consider THAT).

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she doesn't
trust black people...

Sounds like she has a war on with the world. Even if she's
a spectacular beauty, and your "dream girl", do you really
need someone with so many "atttudes"?


So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Wise decision! (I'd consider it, but I'm probably at least
old enough to be your grandmother, so you'll have to look
elsewhere.) ;-)

Christina Websell wrote:



Forget her. Find a cat-loving , non racist woman, You might have to
compromise on the football.

Well, he DID say "football tolerant"! So long as she's not
expected to share his enthusiasm, it shouldn't be difficult.
(Just allow him to watch the games in peace, and don't plan
any big social events to conflict with an important match!)

Christina Websell wrote:



Forget her. Find a cat-loving , non racist woman, You might have to
compromise on the football.

Well, he DID say "football tolerant"! So long as she's not
expected to share his enthusiasm, it shouldn't be difficult.
(Just allow him to watch the games in peace, and don't plan
any big social events to conflict with an important match!)

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Well, Hans, it can be a painful experience (speaking from experience
here), but in the long run it's far better to find out now than a few
years down the line. I'm approaching 50, and didn't meet Nancy until
just a very few years ago. We've been married almost 5 years and I can
tell you that finding the right (cat-loving, of course) woman is
absolutely worth the wait!

Dan

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Well, Hans, it can be a painful experience (speaking from experience
here), but in the long run it's far better to find out now than a few
years down the line. I'm approaching 50, and didn't meet Nancy until
just a very few years ago. We've been married almost 5 years and I can
tell you that finding the right (cat-loving, of course) woman is
absolutely worth the wait!

Dan

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Sorry to be blunt, but your girlfriend sounds, well, selfish, intolerant and
just plain ... icky. But then I've been married for 31 years and have forgotten
how to "date" so I'm probably the worst person in the world to give dating
advice.
Sherry

So, I hereby declare myself free to be picked by another cat loving,
football tolerant, non-racist girl (woman, as well)! Just drop me a line...
:-)

Hans

Sorry to be blunt, but your girlfriend sounds, well, selfish, intolerant and
just plain ... icky. But then I've been married for 31 years and have forgotten
how to "date" so I'm probably the worst person in the world to give dating
advice.
Sherry

"Hans Schrøder" had some very interesting things
to say about Love is in the air.. Or I guess not:

We have been talking a lot during the past months, and she has told me that
she doesn't like cats. Doesn't like cats? I thought that when she met my two
loved ones she would change her mind about that, but the final answer came
today.

Strike one: you like cats and she doesn't.

Me and a friend were sitting at a local pub watching football (soccer) on TV
when she suddenly came in. "What?" she said, "Are you watching football?
You're so boring!" And then she went straight out again, without even
sitting down for five minutes.

Strike two: she insults you in public, in front of your friends.

The cat part is the worst. It may sound strange to people not having cats,
but Teti and Tinùviel are so important friends to me, that I can't, in any
way, compromise on that...

Why should you? They had you before she came along, and IMO they treat
you better.

Oh, another thing, one day last week she had been to the doctor and was
examined by a black man. That was almost too much for her to take. I tried
to talk to her about it, but it just came down to the fact that she doesn't
trust black people...

Strike three (and it's a biggie!): she's a bigot.

Trust me, you CAN do MUCH better than this b*tch.

--
"The universe is quite robust in design and appears to be
doing just fine on its own, incompetent support staff notwithstanding.
:-)" - the Dennis formerly known as (evil), MCFL