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I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to
suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? It isn't, mostly. Asking for advice via Usenet and taking your pet to the vet are not mutually exclusive, and it can be useful to have some info to be armed with when you hit the doc's office. Steve. I agree. I may ask questions on the group, but it doesn't mean I'm going to blindly follow advice. I just use the group to get perspectives for later research, and to arm myself with questions when I do go to the vet. Sherry |
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Sherry wrote:
I just use the group to get perspectives for later research, and to arm myself with questions when I do go to the vet. I don't have a problem with that reasoning and wouldn't criticize someone for doing so. In this instance, that is NOT what is happening. The OP came here wanting a diagnosis and a course of treatment so she wouldn't have to go the vet. She knows full well that a vet visit is the likely outcome and said so, but is looking for justification for doing nothing while her cat vomits *several times a day* and has done so for *several days.* It doesn't help that one or two people posted they have a cat that barfs (a lot of us do) while completely ignoring the fact that in this instance the frequency of the vomiting and the period of time this has been going on for is far beyond what might be considered "normal" and they gave the OP the justification for not taking the cat to the vet that she clearly came here looking for. It happens too often here that people so obviously skim over posts without paying attention to important details. This really has to stop because it doesn't help the cat and can result in harm. Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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Sherry wrote:
I just use the group to get perspectives for later research, and to arm myself with questions when I do go to the vet. I don't have a problem with that reasoning and wouldn't criticize someone for doing so. In this instance, that is NOT what is happening. The OP came here wanting a diagnosis and a course of treatment so she wouldn't have to go the vet. She knows full well that a vet visit is the likely outcome and said so, but is looking for justification for doing nothing while her cat vomits *several times a day* and has done so for *several days.* It doesn't help that one or two people posted they have a cat that barfs (a lot of us do) while completely ignoring the fact that in this instance the frequency of the vomiting and the period of time this has been going on for is far beyond what might be considered "normal" and they gave the OP the justification for not taking the cat to the vet that she clearly came here looking for. It happens too often here that people so obviously skim over posts without paying attention to important details. This really has to stop because it doesn't help the cat and can result in harm. Megan "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." -Edmund Burke Learn The TRUTH About Declawing http://www.stopdeclaw.com Zuzu's Cats Photo Album: http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22 "Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way." - W.H. Murray |
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I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to
suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. And again, please recall that I am using someone else's email and Google password here...flooding the email address with angry letters of contempt is only making it worse and making someone who is not involved suffer for my foolishness. Take care, everyone. Sorry I ruffled everyone's feathers. |
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I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to
suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. And again, please recall that I am using someone else's email and Google password here...flooding the email address with angry letters of contempt is only making it worse and making someone who is not involved suffer for my foolishness. Take care, everyone. Sorry I ruffled everyone's feathers. |
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"MaryL." wrote
If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. MaryL, I'm sorry to read the last paragraph above. I happen to feel that public internet forums like this one are often better than going to a so-called professional and at a minimum, nicely prepare one for any subsequent visit to a "professional," with whom one only gets a short amount of time anyway, unless one is filthy rich. In addition, the Usenet archive holds the discussion here so people who have similar problems can search it and maybe learn something new. In my opinion, your ceasing to post here is the group's and the greater public's loss. Best of luck to you and your cat. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. |
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"MaryL." wrote
If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. MaryL, I'm sorry to read the last paragraph above. I happen to feel that public internet forums like this one are often better than going to a so-called professional and at a minimum, nicely prepare one for any subsequent visit to a "professional," with whom one only gets a short amount of time anyway, unless one is filthy rich. In addition, the Usenet archive holds the discussion here so people who have similar problems can search it and maybe learn something new. In my opinion, your ceasing to post here is the group's and the greater public's loss. Best of luck to you and your cat. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. |
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I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to
suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. And again, please recall that I am using someone else's email and Google password here...flooding the email address with angry letters of contempt is only making it worse and making someone who is not involved suffer for my foolishness. Take care, everyone. Sorry I ruffled everyone's feathers. |
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I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to
suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick I wonder why it is seen to be acceptable by some to allow their pets to suffer illness and seek free advice from a newsgroup rather than take them to a vet??? Would you do the same if it were your child? I doubt it. Good grief, if you have no money there are plenty of charitites and humane societies that can help, HOWEVER, try selling your computer to pay for the vet treatment, if you can afford a computer and an internet connection you can afford to take your cat to the vet when it appears to be sick If some on this thread had read my followup post, you would see that I am using someone else's account to post and look for help. That was what I was trying to do look for HELP/ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE/ADVICE, etc. If you feel better about yourself for attacking others and offering holier than thou criticism and contempt for me, then okay, I cannot change your views. I came out of concern and a stressful situation to what I thought would be an appropriate place to seek such advice. Is it a substitution for a competent vet's exam? No, of course not...I am not that much of an idiot, people, and I am not uncaring, but as I said, when you are in crisis, things are a bit harder/more complicated to deal with than some on this thread allow for. In any case, the is the first, last, and only time I will attempt to seek advice/help/community for such things. For those posters who put in followups that were concerned and genuine, thank you. For those who simply attacked and criticized, don't worry...I will NOT appear again. You have successfully chased me away from any such avenues as it is clear unless you do exactly as someone else does, you are considered a heretical, evil, vile person who is a worthless consumer of oxygen. I am sorry to offend some of you when all I was doing was looking for some amount of information/similar experiences. And again, please recall that I am using someone else's email and Google password here...flooding the email address with angry letters of contempt is only making it worse and making someone who is not involved suffer for my foolishness. Take care, everyone. Sorry I ruffled everyone's feathers. |
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"MaryL." wrote in message m... And again, please recall that I am using someone else's email and Google password here...flooding the email address with angry letters of contempt is only making it worse and making someone who is not involved suffer for my foolishness. Interesting that your name is Mary L and the email address your friend uses is - you obviously have the same initials..............or perhaps it really is your computer but you were just diverting criticism. You visit your friend a lot don't you? |
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