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Old November 3rd 03, 03:50 PM
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Hi,


I have a spayed female kitten (a month or so old?). She's an indoor
cat and is pretty needy (meows when I'm not around, etc...).

I work full time and I spend time with friends on weekends, so there
are long periods when she's alone at home. I want to do what's best
for her, so I have a few questions:


1) Should I get another kitten to keep her company? If so, what
gender should the kitten be?

2) Should I give her away to folks who already have some cats? I
don't know if she's "bonded" with me or not so I don't know how much
it would hurt her to part company with me.


Thanks.
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Old November 3rd 03, 05:19 PM
Joe Pitt
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Kittens often do better in pairs. I would suggest a little (neutered) boy.

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Hi,


I have a spayed female kitten (a month or so old?). She's an indoor
cat and is pretty needy (meows when I'm not around, etc...).

I work full time and I spend time with friends on weekends, so there
are long periods when she's alone at home. I want to do what's best
for her, so I have a few questions:


1) Should I get another kitten to keep her company? If so, what
gender should the kitten be?

2) Should I give her away to folks who already have some cats? I
don't know if she's "bonded" with me or not so I don't know how much
it would hurt her to part company with me.


Thanks.



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Old November 3rd 03, 05:19 PM
Joe Pitt
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Kittens often do better in pairs. I would suggest a little (neutered) boy.

--
Joe
http://www.jwpitt.com/cats.htm
Cat Rescue http://www.animalrescuefoundation.com
God created the cat so man could have the pleasure of petting the tiger


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Hi,


I have a spayed female kitten (a month or so old?). She's an indoor
cat and is pretty needy (meows when I'm not around, etc...).

I work full time and I spend time with friends on weekends, so there
are long periods when she's alone at home. I want to do what's best
for her, so I have a few questions:


1) Should I get another kitten to keep her company? If so, what
gender should the kitten be?

2) Should I give her away to folks who already have some cats? I
don't know if she's "bonded" with me or not so I don't know how much
it would hurt her to part company with me.


Thanks.



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Old November 3rd 03, 05:52 PM
Iso
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Remember that cats do not need to be social creatures - unlike the
pack-orientated dog; they function happily on their own without a social
structure around them. They are unlikely to feel the 'need' for a companion
even though you would wish to have another cat around. Moreover, you cannot
force cats to like each other - some will live with a newcomer easily,
others will never relate, or they may just manage to live alongside each
other in an uneasy truce - you can only try. However, if there is no
competition for food or safe sleeping places (as in most good homes) then
cats will accept each other eventually and some will even seem to form close
bonds with one another. In conclusion, getting another cat may not solve the
problem, nor would getting rid of the cat. Do you think if you keep the cat
for the remainder of its life, your personal life will settle down in the
future, enabling you to have more time to spend at home? If you do, and you
like the idea of having a cat, keep her. If you don't think you are going to
settle down, and don't like the idea of having a cat, then by all means find
her a good home. As you probably already know, the transition the kitten
will have to make into a new home will be easier at a younger age. In my
opinion, it has always been easier to find a kitten a home, rather than a
one to two year old cat. The fact that she is already house broken and an
indoor cat helps. If you do decide to get another kitten, I suggest you find
one at or about the same age as the kitten you already have. That way there
won't be any competition for food or sleeping areas, until they are older
and have already established personal spaces or boundaries in your home.
Regarding the gender of a new cat, that is purely up to you. Many people
like to mix the genders if they have two cats and some do not. If you get a
kitten at or about the same age as the kitten you already have, as they
mature they will hopefully bond and become fond of the others presence
because. If you find another kitten that is a little older and a little
larger, you may be setting yourself up for disaster. As you already know
temperament of cats are unique. Should you decided to mix the gender, and
find a male kitten; make sure you find one at or about the same age and size
as the kitten, you have and neuter him. If you do want to have another
kitten, you should ask around and see what other people have done in your
situation, regarding mixing genders. Maybe they can shed some light on how
their experience with their cat's relationship matured, and problems you may
face in the long run... I hope this helps.








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Old November 3rd 03, 05:52 PM
Iso
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Remember that cats do not need to be social creatures - unlike the
pack-orientated dog; they function happily on their own without a social
structure around them. They are unlikely to feel the 'need' for a companion
even though you would wish to have another cat around. Moreover, you cannot
force cats to like each other - some will live with a newcomer easily,
others will never relate, or they may just manage to live alongside each
other in an uneasy truce - you can only try. However, if there is no
competition for food or safe sleeping places (as in most good homes) then
cats will accept each other eventually and some will even seem to form close
bonds with one another. In conclusion, getting another cat may not solve the
problem, nor would getting rid of the cat. Do you think if you keep the cat
for the remainder of its life, your personal life will settle down in the
future, enabling you to have more time to spend at home? If you do, and you
like the idea of having a cat, keep her. If you don't think you are going to
settle down, and don't like the idea of having a cat, then by all means find
her a good home. As you probably already know, the transition the kitten
will have to make into a new home will be easier at a younger age. In my
opinion, it has always been easier to find a kitten a home, rather than a
one to two year old cat. The fact that she is already house broken and an
indoor cat helps. If you do decide to get another kitten, I suggest you find
one at or about the same age as the kitten you already have. That way there
won't be any competition for food or sleeping areas, until they are older
and have already established personal spaces or boundaries in your home.
Regarding the gender of a new cat, that is purely up to you. Many people
like to mix the genders if they have two cats and some do not. If you get a
kitten at or about the same age as the kitten you already have, as they
mature they will hopefully bond and become fond of the others presence
because. If you find another kitten that is a little older and a little
larger, you may be setting yourself up for disaster. As you already know
temperament of cats are unique. Should you decided to mix the gender, and
find a male kitten; make sure you find one at or about the same age and size
as the kitten, you have and neuter him. If you do want to have another
kitten, you should ask around and see what other people have done in your
situation, regarding mixing genders. Maybe they can shed some light on how
their experience with their cat's relationship matured, and problems you may
face in the long run... I hope this helps.








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Old November 3rd 03, 10:57 PM
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On Mon, 03 Nov 2003 16:52:41 GMT, "Iso" wrote:

Remember that cats do not need to be social creatures


Yes they do - they are highly social creatures.

- unlike the
pack-orientated dog; they function happily on their own without a social
structure around them.


No they do not, that is one of the most common causes of stress in
cats.


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Old November 3rd 03, 10:57 PM
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On Mon, 03 Nov 2003 16:52:41 GMT, "Iso" wrote:

Remember that cats do not need to be social creatures


Yes they do - they are highly social creatures.

- unlike the
pack-orientated dog; they function happily on their own without a social
structure around them.


No they do not, that is one of the most common causes of stress in
cats.


--
Bob.

You have not been charged for this lesson. Please pass it to all your
friends so they may learn as well.
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Old November 4th 03, 12:58 AM
Ted Davis
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On 3 Nov 2003 06:50:44 -0800, wrote:

Hi,


I have a spayed female kitten (a month or so old?). She's an indoor
cat and is pretty needy (meows when I'm not around, etc...).

I work full time and I spend time with friends on weekends, so there
are long periods when she's alone at home. I want to do what's best
for her, so I have a few questions:


1) Should I get another kitten to keep her company? If so, what
gender should the kitten be?

2) Should I give her away to folks who already have some cats? I
don't know if she's "bonded" with me or not so I don't know how much
it would hurt her to part company with me.


I see that Bob Brenchley is making a nuisance of himself here now. He
probably appears in more killfiles than anyone else in the cat and
legal groups. He is best filtered out; if you can't filter him,
ignore him. *Don't respond to him.* I notice he as added a warning
to his header about quoting him except in direct replies - that is
clearly to discourage the "you said this there and the opposite here -
which is it?" discussions that always follow his appearance.

As for your cat questions. Cats bond more readily with places than
with people, though this certainly does occur. The main effect is
that it is more difficult to successfully rehome a cat that has
established himself. They are also territorial, which can make it
difficult to introduce new cats. None of this applies very much to
kittens - they are easily rehomed and most easily introduced to
another kitten.

While cats are naturally solitary, their natural environment is far
from sterile and includes interactions with all sorts of other
animals: a lone kitten in a house with no other animals and no people
is starved for stimulation. Multiple cats usually get along well
enough that they keep each other stimulated without killing each
other. I strongly recommend at least one more kitten. I have good
results with multiple (neutered) males, but my (spayed) females don't
get along nearly as well with each other, and for that matter some
don't get along with the males, not even their own brothers, as well
as the other males do (but Millie and Snowball get along with
everybody) - a male might be the best bet.

Now I'm going to change the Bob Brenchley filter to global scope.


T.E.D. - e-mail must contain "T.E.D." or my .sig in the body)
 




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