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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
My cat Milo was a shelter cat -- about a year in his first home, six
weeks in the shelter (during which time he was neutered) and four months so far with me. In both homes, he was the only cat and was strictly indoors. His previous owner told the shelter he was very affectionate, but I haven't seen it until the past couple of weeks. He was never hostile, but very independent and would only allow a couple of strokes before walking off. He would let himself be picked up and held on my shoulder but fairly often would start to squirm after a minute or two. Only *very* occasionally would he jump up on me while I was watching TV or otherwise motionless in a chair, and I was never able to get him to settle down in my lap. The last few weeks, he has jumped up on me a couple of times a day and settled down on my shoulder for lovies; once he even stayed voluntarily in my lap for about 30 seconds. He's also allowing his tummy to be rubbed when he's lying down. Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? -- Stan Brown, Oak Road Systems, Tompkins County, New York, USA http://OakRoadSystems.com Shikata ga nai... |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
Suddenly, without warning, Stan Brown exclaimed (11/2/2008 4:55 PM):
My cat Milo was a shelter cat -- about a year in his first home, six weeks in the shelter (during which time he was neutered) and four months so far with me. In both homes, he was the only cat and was strictly indoors. His previous owner told the shelter he was very affectionate, but I haven't seen it until the past couple of weeks. He was never hostile, but very independent and would only allow a couple of strokes before walking off. He would let himself be picked up and held on my shoulder but fairly often would start to squirm after a minute or two. Only *very* occasionally would he jump up on me while I was watching TV or otherwise motionless in a chair, and I was never able to get him to settle down in my lap. The last few weeks, he has jumped up on me a couple of times a day and settled down on my shoulder for lovies; once he even stayed voluntarily in my lap for about 30 seconds. He's also allowing his tummy to be rubbed when he's lying down. Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? Yes, it's seasonal. Temps are dropping, and you are warm Meep does the same thing. She insists that she MUST be on my lap the instant I sit down in the wintertime. In the summer when it's hot and muggy, she ignores my lap altogether. That said, with Milo it sounds like he's getting more relaxed. Perhaps it's because he wants to sit where it's warmer, but he's not quite *that* relaxed yet. jmc |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
"Stan Brown" wrote in message t... My cat Milo was a shelter cat -- about a year in his first home, six weeks in the shelter (during which time he was neutered) and four months so far with me. In both homes, he was the only cat and was strictly indoors. His previous owner told the shelter he was very affectionate, but I haven't seen it until the past couple of weeks. He was never hostile, but very independent and would only allow a couple of strokes before walking off. He would let himself be picked up and held on my shoulder but fairly often would start to squirm after a minute or two. Only *very* occasionally would he jump up on me while I was watching TV or otherwise motionless in a chair, and I was never able to get him to settle down in my lap. The last few weeks, he has jumped up on me a couple of times a day and settled down on my shoulder for lovies; once he even stayed voluntarily in my lap for about 30 seconds. He's also allowing his tummy to be rubbed when he's lying down. Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? Cats do what they want, when they want. Just roll with it. "That cat's something I can't explain..." |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
I've had two cats from shelters and it's taken them awhile to get used to
the idea that in x-amount of time they weren't going to be hauled off to yet another place. So...Milo might be starting to trust you and realize he isn't going to have to leave. One of my cats sleeps on the bed only in the winter time. The rest of the time he sleeps somewhere else coming in and jumping up on the bed only on mornings we sleep in. Stacey "Stan Brown" wrote in message t... My cat Milo was a shelter cat -- about a year in his first home, six weeks in the shelter (during which time he was neutered) and four months so far with me. In both homes, he was the only cat and was strictly indoors. His previous owner told the shelter he was very affectionate, but I haven't seen it until the past couple of weeks. He was never hostile, but very independent and would only allow a couple of strokes before walking off. He would let himself be picked up and held on my shoulder but fairly often would start to squirm after a minute or two. Only *very* occasionally would he jump up on me while I was watching TV or otherwise motionless in a chair, and I was never able to get him to settle down in my lap. The last few weeks, he has jumped up on me a couple of times a day and settled down on my shoulder for lovies; once he even stayed voluntarily in my lap for about 30 seconds. He's also allowing his tummy to be rubbed when he's lying down. Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? -- Stan Brown, Oak Road Systems, Tompkins County, New York, USA http://OakRoadSystems.com Shikata ga nai... |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
My Pickles is definitely a lap cat when the cold weather sets in. The rest
of the time she prefers the back of the sofa or a hard surface. Barb |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
On Nov 3, 12:06*am, "Stacey Weinberger"
wrote: I've had two cats from shelters and it's taken them awhile to get used to the idea that in x-amount of time they weren't going to be hauled off to yet another place. *So...Milo might be starting to trust you and realize he isn't going to have to leave. *One of my cats sleeps on the bed only in the winter time. *The rest of the time he sleeps somewhere else coming in and jumping up on the bed only on mornings we sleep in. ITA with what Stacy posted. |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
On Mon, 3 Nov 2008 10:28:14 -0500, Barb wrote:
My Pickles is definitely a lap cat when the cold weather sets in. The rest of the time she prefers the back of the sofa or a hard surface. Here in arizona, cold means below 100. Luna, a gray lady persian puffball, weighing in at about 7 pounds has definately gotten more affectionate. |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
"Stan Brown" wrote in message t... Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? That's probably it. Some cats warm up more quickly than others. Just don't push it or force yourself on him- that will only slow the bonding process. Some cats interpret being held as restraint. So just let him come to you when he's ready. Phil |
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Cats becoming more affectionate -- seasonal?
Sun, 2 Nov 2008 16:55:49 -0500 from Stan Brown
: Do you think this is because the weather is getting colder (so all the windows are shut), or because he's still settling in to his new home and getting more relaxed? Thanks to all who responded -- the consensus seems to be that it's a bit of both. -- Stan Brown, Oak Road Systems, Tompkins County, New York, USA http://OakRoadSystems.com Shikata ga nai... |
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