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Old August 4th 06, 03:58 AM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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This is so GODD**NED UNFAIR! HE was such a great cat. I lost my first
"child" and I haven't cried in weeks until tonight's posting. How long
will the heartache last? HE WAS ONLY SIX YEARS OLD. I love my cats.
Why was he taken away? Why? Why didn't i recognize the signs? why
didn't the vet?!!??!! I wish I could go back and turn the clock. I
spend hours a months helping homeless pets and i neglected my own cat?!
I feel so friggin' guilty. Please if you actually have time, please
say a little prayer that I'll have some peace. i just need peace.

a

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Old August 4th 06, 01:44 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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On Thu, 03 Aug 2006 19:58:58 -0700, Owner_6ds wrote:

This is so GODD**NED UNFAIR! HE was such a great cat. I lost my first
"child" and I haven't cried in weeks until tonight's posting. How long
will the heartache last? HE WAS ONLY SIX YEARS OLD. I love my cats.
Why was he taken away? Why? Why didn't i recognize the signs? why
didn't the vet?!!??!! I wish I could go back and turn the clock. I spend
hours a months helping homeless pets and i neglected my own cat?!
I feel so friggin' guilty. Please if you actually have time, please
say a little prayer that I'll have some peace. i just need peace.

a


You've got our prayers for peace.

It never seems fair. Our furred ones are so loving and so small and come
to own such a big chunk of our hearts. Unfortunately they often don't show
signs of illness until it's too late to help them.

Dan
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Old August 4th 06, 01:44 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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On August 3, 2006 10:58 pm, wrote:

This is so GODD**NED UNFAIR! HE was such a great cat. I lost my first
"child" and I haven't cried in weeks until tonight's posting. How
long
will the heartache last? HE WAS ONLY SIX YEARS OLD. I love my
cats.
Why was he taken away? Why? Why didn't i recognize the signs? why
didn't the vet?!!??!! I wish I could go back and turn the clock. I
spend hours a months helping homeless pets and i neglected my own
cat?!
I feel so friggin' guilty. Please if you actually have time, please
say a little prayer that I'll have some peace. i just need peace.


Not all of your questions can be answered. But we have mostly all
lost family here and we know what you're going through. What was your
cat's name? What were his\her favourite things? How did he come to
pass away? If it's not too painful, we can Purrray better if we know
who and what we're purrraying for. What were the signs you didn't
recognise? Maybe there was nothing really there that you could have
done.
We generally find the story of the Rainbow Bridge to be a comfort. You
can find this at:
http://www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbowb.htm and maybe other
places on the Web.
You obviously loved your cat, and if you didn't recognize the "signs"
then it wasn't through a lack of caring. I suspect you did the best
you could under the circumstances and that's all anyone, (even
yourself), could have expected of you.

--
Regards,
Fred
(remove FFFF from my email address to email me)
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Old August 4th 06, 01:55 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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This is so GOD D**NED UNFAIR! HE was such a great cat. I lost my first
"child" and I haven't cried in weeks until tonight's posting. How long
will the heartache last? HE WAS ONLY SIX YEARS OLD. I love my cats.
Why was he taken away? Why? Why didn't i recognize the signs? why
didn't the vet?!!??!! I wish I could go back and turn the clock. I
spend hours a months helping homeless pets and i neglected my own cat?!
I feel so friggin' guilty. Please if you actually have time, please
say a little prayer that I'll have some peace. i just need peace.


Prayers and purrs on the way for yous.

Please do not me too rough on yourself. We all make mistakes or
overlook things sometimes and just have to determine to do netter the
next time!!


My furbabies


http://members.aol.com/larrystark/


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Old August 4th 06, 07:03 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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I feel much better today. After last night I was a wreck.

Not all of your questions can be answered. But we have mostly all
lost family here and we know what you're going through.


What was your cat's name? His name was Q. Miss Moneypenny is my
living cat, same age.

What were his\her favourite things? I can't stop smiling at this one.
He wasn't a big talker and loved to sleep off a food-induced coma. He
was fat and fluffy. 23 pounds at his heaviest.

How did he come to pass away? The vet suspects diabetes. We thought
his new food and exercise regimen was helping his weight, but it was
really diabetes complications.

What were the signs you didn't recognise? Water consumption and the
weight loss described above.

I definitely have to get him posted on the website. He was the
sweetest cat. I couldn't have asked for a more affectionate cat.

Thank you, Fred







Regards,
Fred
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Old August 4th 06, 09:26 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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On August 4, 2006 2:03 pm, wrote:

I feel much better today. After last night I was a wreck.

Not all of your questions can be answered. But we have
mostly all
lost family here and we know what you're going through.


What was your cat's name? His name was Q. Miss Moneypenny is my
living cat, same age.

What were his\her favourite things? I can't stop smiling at this one.
He wasn't a big talker and loved to sleep off a food-induced coma. He
was fat and fluffy. 23 pounds at his heaviest.

How did he come to pass away? The vet suspects diabetes. We thought
his new food and exercise regimen was helping his weight, but it was
really diabetes complications.

What were the signs you didn't recognise? Water consumption and the
weight loss described above.

I definitely have to get him posted on the website. He was the
sweetest cat. I couldn't have asked for a more affectionate cat.

Thank you, Fred

You came to the right place. We look after each other here as do the
cats we serve. "Q" and "Miss Moneypenny" Star Trek and James Bond, I
presume. You are me, thirty-five years ago.
And think you for writing. Ryan & Cinnamon have been putting on weight
lately and I've cut down on their food a little. They complain a bit,
but I think it's worthwhile to keep them healthy. Now I just have to
worry about myself.
There was probably little you could have done under the circumstances.
Q will always live in your heart and strengthen you.


Fred, (Posting with Diana's permission).

--
Regards,
Fred
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Old August 5th 06, 05:34 AM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
Ette B
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Hello, My heart goes out to you. So young was your cat, just 6 years
young. I had 3 house cats, when I was living on Maui, and moved back to
the mainland. All 3 of my (sons) died, all died from getting those
stupid vaccines. THey were house cats on Maui and here in the mainland.
My last boy died July 4th last year, he was dx with a brain tumor last
year. Vaccines induce all types of cancers and the vets know this,
Now I know not to ever another cat vaccinated. I had all my boys
cremated. Teddy was 3 weeks of age when I found him March 1986 he
was born with one eye ulcerated with glacoma and had that removed. He
passed away March 2000, I still miss him he was really smart, I never
had a stupid cat and I have had so many cats here and on Maui, cats I
saved from starving to death. Lovey, my friend found him at 2 weeks of
age, and Teddy helped me raise him, he passed away August 2002, I
miss and love him too, I dreamed about these two last week and I woke
myself up calling Lovey! These two died from that cancer they get from
vaccines, and those tumors are not treatable. I miss them so much, I
got Marky as he ran to me for help these boys were throwing stones at
him, he was 1 yrs old March 1991 when he came into my life. They
were my best friends. I miss all my cats from the 1970's I raised
23 stray cats. Of all the cats I have had, no one can ever take their
places, for me, I will miss them forever. Like you, I wish I could
change things and go back in time, I always say this to myself, I wish
I knew the dangers of vaccines, they only need one and they are set for
life. An animal doctor wrote a book to expose the VACCINES, and that
applies to people also. They are full of toxic chemicals and depress
the immune system and too many of them will induce cancers into the
body. I wanted to know what caused MS...... VACCINES, but you can find
many websites online to prove this and same goes for children that
the gov makes children and babies get 22 before they can go to school.
AUTISM. I am a truth seeker and I know alot of things. Well, I hope
you feel better your love is deep for your cat, they are just like
children to us. They are so funny! My first friend in life was a cat
when I was a baby. Cats are such intelligent creatures, I say,
never underestimate the intelligence of a cat. You can teach them so
many tricks, and they gain a large vocab of words. My sister just
lost two cats to death and a dog in March, she loves them and she
just misses them so much. Ok,.

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Old August 5th 06, 06:44 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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I remember Moneypenny and Q from years ago when my Spike and Stormy
were active in rpcc. They both went to the Bridge in April 2005.

Spike was diagnosed with diabetes March 4, 2005 but I think he had it
quite a while before that. July 2004 he had a "spell" and I rushed
him to the emergency vet. He was fine when we got there, they did a
blood test and reported only slightly elevated kidney values. My own
vet got a copy of the test results. I didn't see them until the next
March and the blood glucose level was way high. Both vets had written
that off to stress. If I had asked for a copy of the test would I
have pushed for a better evaluation of the BG? Who knows? I will in
the future.

The day I started him on insulin he was obviously worse but not in any
way I could explain to folks who didn't see him every day. After 10
days I took him to a specialist - he was in diabetic ketoacidosis. We
pulled him through that crisis but 5 weeks later he was ketotic again
and I had to let him go. Stormy had died the week before - I believe
from the stress of worrying about Spike. In two months I spent more
than $6000 and didn't save either cat.

I miss them both and feel horribly guilty. Intellectually I know I
did the best I could but it's small comfort. And yet...I know people
who treated sick cats for years and years and now feel guilty because
they let them linger too long.

All this is by way of saying don't beat yourself up. You did the best
you could. Q wouldn't ask more of you.

Margaret

On 4 Aug 2006 11:03:15 -0700, wrote:

I feel much better today. After last night I was a wreck.

Not all of your questions can be answered. But we have mostly all
lost family here and we know what you're going through.


What was your cat's name? His name was Q. Miss Moneypenny is my
living cat, same age.

What were his\her favourite things? I can't stop smiling at this one.
He wasn't a big talker and loved to sleep off a food-induced coma. He
was fat and fluffy. 23 pounds at his heaviest.

How did he come to pass away? The vet suspects diabetes. We thought
his new food and exercise regimen was helping his weight, but it was
really diabetes complications.

What were the signs you didn't recognise? Water consumption and the
weight loss described above.

I definitely have to get him posted on the website. He was the
sweetest cat. I couldn't have asked for a more affectionate cat.

Thank you, Fred







Regards,
Fred
(remove FFFF from my email address to email me)

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Old August 5th 06, 07:17 PM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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You're an ASS! This person just wants a little sympathy and you
go on and on about the danger of vaccinations!

We'll see what happens when you get pregnant and an unvaccinated
child gives you German measles. Devastation indeed!

Go away!

ChildFree23
And Her Three Fully Vaccinated And Healthy Cats!!!

"Ette B" wrote in message
...
Hello, My heart goes out to you. So young was your cat, just
6 years
young. I had 3 house cats, when I was living on Maui, and
moved back to
the mainland. All 3 of my (sons) died, all died from getting
those
stupid vaccines. THey were house cats on Maui and here in the
mainland.
My last boy died July 4th last year, he was dx with a brain
tumor last
year. Vaccines induce all types of cancers and the vets know
this,
Now I know not to ever another cat vaccinated. I had all my
boys
cremated. Teddy was 3 weeks of age when I found him March
1986 he
was born with one eye ulcerated with glacoma and had that
removed. He
passed away March 2000, I still miss him he was really smart, I
never
had a stupid cat and I have had so many cats here and on Maui,
cats I
saved from starving to death. Lovey, my friend found him at 2
weeks of
age, and Teddy helped me raise him, he passed away August
2002, I
miss and love him too, I dreamed about these two last week and
I woke
myself up calling Lovey! These two died from that cancer they
get from
vaccines, and those tumors are not treatable. I miss them so
much, I
got Marky as he ran to me for help these boys were throwing
stones at
him, he was 1 yrs old March 1991 when he came into my life.
They
were my best friends. I miss all my cats from the 1970's I
raised
23 stray cats. Of all the cats I have had, no one can ever
take their
places, for me, I will miss them forever. Like you, I wish I
could
change things and go back in time, I always say this to
myself, I wish
I knew the dangers of vaccines, they only need one and they are
set for
life. An animal doctor wrote a book to expose the VACCINES,
and that
applies to people also. They are full of toxic chemicals and
depress
the immune system and too many of them will induce cancers
into the
body. I wanted to know what caused MS...... VACCINES, but you
can find
many websites online to prove this and same goes for
children that
the gov makes children and babies get 22 before they can go
to school.
AUTISM. I am a truth seeker and I know alot of things.
Well, I hope
you feel better your love is deep for your cat, they are just
like
children to us. They are so funny! My first friend in life
was a cat
when I was a baby. Cats are such intelligent creatures, I
say,
never underestimate the intelligence of a cat. You can teach
them so
many tricks, and they gain a large vocab of words. My
sister just
lost two cats to death and a dog in March, she loves them and
she
just misses them so much. Ok,.



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Old August 6th 06, 02:30 AM posted to rec.pets.cats.community
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Yes it's unfair..... cruel, horrible, devastating, and Bastdamned unfair.

We all know how well cats hide all signs of illness, and how easy it is
not to notice the signs when they are slowing creeping in. I don't
believe for a second that you neglected Q or that you would neglect Miss
Moneypenny.

The cats are purrring, the d*gs woofling, and I am hoping that you can
find the peace you deserve and that Q would want you to have.

Gabrielle
with Ralph, Fred, Clyde, Ned, Alice, & Jane
and d*gs Bruno, Betsy, and Chuy

wrote:

This is so GODD**NED UNFAIR! HE was such a great cat. I lost my first
"child" and I haven't cried in weeks until tonight's posting. How long
will the heartache last? HE WAS ONLY SIX YEARS OLD. I love my cats.
Why was he taken away? Why? Why didn't i recognize the signs? why
didn't the vet?!!??!! I wish I could go back and turn the clock. I
spend hours a months helping homeless pets and i neglected my own cat?!
I feel so friggin' guilty. Please if you actually have time, please
say a little prayer that I'll have some peace. i just need peace.

a

 




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